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davodyguy:Some kids just have a challenging behaviour. And most parents and society are ill-equipped to help. Parents are in fact OYO. Punishment does not help. Starvation and lack of love (especially by step mum) would have worsened his behaviour. It takes a lot to love a difficult child that is not yours. Simple truth. Ignorance and over-religiosity are not helping. Everything is put down to spiritual problem, when clear physical and emotional issues have not been addressed. @your cousin, some kids go through a phase of rascality that eventually subsides. Also, that "deliverance" might just have demonstrated the love and care he felt was absent previously. A lot of kids perceive many things parents do as lack of love: punishment, verbal complaints to correct them, criticism, etc. Money, food, gifts and others given them make no difference. Yep, all those things parents do out of love to prepare kids for the future are perceived wrongly. Even kids as young as 6. One has to watch out. |
Babzilla:How can he? From 1987 or so when he left jairtair till 2015, where did you see him brokering peace, monitoring election, giving a lecture on governance, doing a degree, giving a lecture on democracy or any such thing that gives introspection, analysis of time in power anywhere in 9ja, Africa or any other continent? NONE. You don't learn or improve yourself by just shuttling between Daura, Kaduna & Abuja, occasionally weeping to be handed power to rule, stirring up religious zealotry on Sharia & sulking rest of the time. While looking after a herd of cattle might be satisfying, it hardly prepares one for the presidency of a complex country like 9ja. ![]() |
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It is the gbagaun and Yoru-english subtitles u enjoy. Not the predictable storyline in common with Nollywood. ![]() |
cruzita:Hokay, curfew in North Korea, bah? ![]() |
danowena:So true. That way, family will be reporting any unusual things they see. Which of course family members could have done worse. Let family be your watchdog. Not do the work. You can hire & fire an outside contractor. With family, it could cause bad blood for ever. Let every step be broken down: like roofing include number of sheets, nail types/quantity, wood, transport, workmanship, supervision fees, etc. Same for ceiling, plumbing, etc All the way from foundation stage using the building plan to estimate. The more lump sum you send, the more the impression you have more money to send. NEVER do that. We have gone through all that before, talking from experience. Your cousin might be honest, but hard to know now. Ask for breakdown. Another person can do another estimate to compare. |
Interesting how few women are on this thread, aside Chocho, Sexyjewel 1 and a few others. If it was gossip news now about one half unclad so called celeb like Laura Ikeji, they will flock here to admire her. ![]() Better pikin. Na even fine girl sef, no pimples. God bless your hustle young lady. |
Ol' boy, love jungle don mature gan gan. Hmmmmmm! RIP to the couple. ![]() |
Olukat:Please remind us what he achieved. His failure to handover to an elected civilian govt makes him a major villain in 9ja history. 4get the $12 billion plus Gulf oil windfall he took within a short time for now. Let's even 4get how he ruined the economy & Naira. His former master Buhari who gave him the chance to ruin it, is currently ruining what is left of economy & Naira. Maybe we should applaud IBB's introduction of letter bomb. |
I can see why online porn is so popular in 9ja. According to online monitoring organisations. ![]() It is a nation of voyeurs. Keen lookers of manliness & womanliness. ![]() Which part of 9ja penal code recommends "naked parade"? Where do the jungle judges get their inspiration from? ![]() Maybe they should also get local Oba/Igwe/Sarkin to stand attention and take salute from the naked paraders. ![]() Haba! Na wa o. |
HungerBAD:Sometimes this cont3 dey tire person. Just when you think good, at least one man seems to have integrity, they just disappoint you. You were a presidential candidate of one party, you lost & then returned to old party to contest as governor. Then lost & returned to second party again. Haba! Is seeking political relevance such an obsession? After leaving PDP, he should have stayed in ACN/APC to build it. He would at least be a minister now. Perhaps one that would be delivering the goods in this rather ineffectual current FG. This flip-flop means no ideology, no more principles, nothing. His EFCC days will soon look like a fluke, which it was NOT. It is a let-down to the younger generation really. Shows we are not better principled than the recycled waste running our affairs now. |
bejeiodus:You dey mind the goon. As much as I despise most of the parties including PDP and APC, do people serve under two parties in 9ja political offices? If they were being praised for achieving great stuff, they'd be APC. |
izzou:Make dem ban na. Banning is their hubby. If you have not been banned you must be a yes man or yes woman. It's like a freedom fighter who never went to jail or not killed. Nor be freedom fighter. ![]() |
ChukwuIbrahim:Suppose her name is: Kokulikatakaramguga. Which zone will you say she comes from from? ![]() But sha, the lady smooth o. Something tells me she can talk a cheeky wise monkey into coming down from a tree. ![]() But it's all suspicion for now, nothing proven yet. |
Hmmmmmm............... Only God knows what Aggrieved People's Coconuts would have said if it was GEJ doing awkward handshakes like this. ![]() |
Hmmmmmm............... Only God knows what Aggrieved People's Coconuts would have said if it was GEJ doing awkward handshakes like this. ![]() |
ChangeIsCostant:Garden egg better pass sef. No cholesterol wahala. |
The lady should be screened for PGAD or persistent genital arousal disorder. Sometimes caused by sacro-spinal Tarlov cyst. Though PGAD is not usually linked to sex or thought of sex, it could be that sex was just a coincidental trigger. Especially important to know if it has happened, even to a lesser extent, without sex before. Hope they can see an expert physician. |
lepasharon:My dear, everybody shall taste death. The premature nature of most is just a symptom of under development. Religious belief brings hope and comfort but does not entirely compensate for very obvious failures of ours. |
Very sad. RIP to them and may God comfort their families. We need alternative means of transport like trains. Too many travelling on poorly maintained roads. 80% of drivers on Nigerian roads would fail an international standard driving test woefully. |
DonDiego:Haba! Kill to marry? Did you mean dark area or dark ages? ![]() |
Horpeyemi93:My dear, there's never enough money. If you are employed, emotionally mature and can manage money, marry early. Many of us had/still have this idea of doing this and that first before marriage. All is vanity. As long as you do not go for a football team, kids can even bring you luck. |
wicked world. Why is Delta turning sex jungle? too many rape, rape murder and violations. |
As bad as it is for the citizens, na nothing in some parts of 9ja. Some floods can float a cruise liner. ![]() |
God is very patient o. Poor innocent boy. |
9ja girls are actually good. But many younger ones these days just have an inordinate sense of entitlement and expect "ready-made" food. Sadly, some are becoming very predictable when it comes to money. Each one says "I am different from other girls" but then behaves just like others when it comes to money. Some are still good sha. You just have to search a bit harder these days. ![]() |
RIP Ma |
omofabulous:Abeg o, Benin City babe. Ok o. |
HungerBAD:To begin with, knowing your incompatibility, his coke habit (Tiwa said so in video) and others, you went about starting a family. Kids belong to God, but we decide to have them. Parents (mostly women) often put their hurt b4 the child, don't encourage kids to be close to estranged hubby. Sad. |
omofabulous:See you licking your lips for a child. The boy cannot be more than 15 to 16 years old. |
VenusBetty:I have been making this point for years. Even 10m barrels/ day won't take 9ja anywhere without using the money to diversify economy and fund infrastructure and education. |
VenusBetty:Maybe, but not so badly. Despite lower oil price, crude oil would have been flowing steady. Because militants were kept in check. NOI warning meant she was good and foresaw difficulties ahead. That is the first step towards preparing for it. GEJ would have together with NOI and CBN gov worked out a reasonable way forward. Not dictating from ASO Rock without a proper economic team and a rookie finance minister to boot. ![]() Saudi, Algeria and others are affected by low oil prices too. And they are still not living on their foreign reserve entirely. So depleted reserve is not entirely responsible. Low oil output and poor economic policies are chiefly to blame |
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