₦airaland Forum

Philpham:
You are completely demented, is that what your father taught u .
Instead of concentrating on your studies u are here defending infidelity and promiscuity in men, it's people like you that are so promiscuous they share HIV to innocent girls.
Just shut ur mouth.

Lol. You must be a jambite. Sorry, did mine already, although any reasonable person should be an everlasting student. You are allergic to basic science, preferring ignorance. I can see you are another product of failed education system.

You think you can solve problems by shying away from reality? You want me to tell you want you want to hear even if it's lie.

Somebody like you will never pick up a research journal like Nature, Science, NEJM, etc. So bitter responses conjured from a narrow mind is all you can muster.

No, my dad is monogamous and even my granddad was. But 80% of my dad's colleagues are polygamous.

If a girl sleeps with men without protection, is she not also jointly responsible for any consequence?

just2okworld:
is this all?

No. Men are polygamous by nature. This point seems clichéd but biologically correct.

Monogamy is a social construct, not biological. Subconsciously, a male knows that some of his kids may not be biologically his. So the more sex with more females, the higher the chances of his genes surviving.
This has been vindicated by modern science of paternity test. Over 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man outside. Same with 25% of all kids.

Whereas the female is intrinsically more concerned about raising the kids for up to 16 years. No doubt that she is the mother of the child. She delivered it. For that she needs a committed male to go bring home the bacon.

Also, sex act is biologically an act of conquest and domination for a man and therefore empowering. It is an act of submission for a woman. Submission is not an attractive thing and a woman needs incentives to do so: money, fame of a guy, attractiveness/power of a guy, influence of a guy, etc.. Like King Solomon, King David, Bill Clinton, etc.

The pic is not complete, rear view of lady missing. Reserve comment.

durentdbiitch:
Buhari is a mess, he had beta Legalise gay marriage so dat d US can help us.

You be weyrey raised to power 100.

And legalise Indian hemp and get help from them Rastafari in Jamaica, bah?

ada2604:
lord forgive I just have to be rude.
jeez! no apology guy but u are a fucking muron, does ny literate still reason and speak like dz, its glaring that pmb lacks prospect even if he has gud intentions, so stop doing any blame game here everytin isn't attached to d previous administration, he can start on his own clean slate like allocating budget to accountable hands, increasing nysc allawee, curbing some funds he using in touring around into da power sector, oya let even allow subsidy or not rest, those ones doesn't involve blame again na kwanu becos aftall come 2018 now he will start deceptive actions just to deceive we youths esp for second term for hs own power and pocket

From that guy's assertion, zombie virus is very hard to cure.

If PDP (in Zombie mind it actually means GEJ) did nothing at all, why are we complaining of no fuel, no light, low Naira value and risen cost of living under Buhari??

If things were the way they are now or worse, would anyone blame Buhari?

People voted Buhari to spite GEJ. They only cut off their nose to spite their face.

successbuchi32:
The result of change More Nigerians risk mental breakdown over country’s chaotic conditions — Psychiatrist
April 7, 2016Tobore Ovuorie

Dr. Bolanle Ola
Nigeria has been in chaos for several weeks with unending queues at fuel stations, poor power supply nationwide and increase in prices of commodities, even water.
Dr. Bolanle Ola, a Consultant Psychiatrist and head of psychiatry department, Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), Ikeja, tells PREMIUM TIMES there’s likely going to be negative impact on Nigerians’ mental health as a result of the country’s chaotic conditions. Thus, more people risk mental breakdown.
PT: The country has been in chaos for several weeks. There are unending queues for fuel, no power supply and commodities’ prices, even water are increasing daily. Would these socioeconomic occurrences have psychiatric consequences for Nigerians? YES!

Public health & epidemiology are poorly considered in the scheme of things in 9ja.

With already high rate of mental health issues, more suffering will just worsen things.

Mental health plays a big role in aggressive behaviour, violence, homicide, crime generally, suicide, marital discord, child abuse, etc.
We need to alleviate people's suffering.

Better organised countries do this through their social welfare system.

chubbyFred10:
Oga hw much PDP pay you
Nigeria is bleeped up
Even if Buhari na idiot comfam idiot
PDP don Bleep up

8 years of which OBJ, the new APC navigator, was President no less.
El-Rufai, Saraki, Kwankwanso, Sokoto governor and others were part of PDP. Isn't that hypocrisy?
It was under OBJ that around $20billion spent on electricity did little.

Anybody with even a little bit of conscience and honesty will admit that electricity improved much under GEJ. By August 2014, I was enjoying 16 to 18 hours of light. Even by March last year, we still had around 12 hours of light daily.

With a rechargeable fan, one could still sleep soundly at night when light was off for a few hours.

henrydadon:
This shows how degenerated our system of education is; this is arrant nonsense and obviously shows that the tutor is poorly learned. Political science or not, these questions are poorly constructed. Those that had opportunity to study oversee would understand that the question constructions are emphatically wrong. But what do you expect from an academic system that still uses books of 1st or 2nd edition category while the current text is in its 9th edition. What do you also expect from a professor that has never engaged in a proper academic research but keep dishing out textbooks that are full of plagiarism and outdated theories. God will help the Nigerian child!

As a science-oriented person, when I later did religious ethics and theology, I thought the exam questions were twisted too much. But these here take the biscuit .
Even our mostly Oxon & Cantab trained oyinbo professors didn't quite seek to obfuscate us like this Anambra professor here.

Not funny.

Because at least you can be sure her skin is genuine. Not bleached.

If she's true to her skin colour, chances are she's true to other things within her and comfortable in her skin.

Hairy is cool actually.

But in the pic above I'd be more concerned about the reason for the hairiness.

If it is what I think, she'd probably not be able to have a baby. And other health issues will likely come later.

thesicilian:
A gastroenterologist is not a surgeon, he is a physician. That is, he doesn't do operations. The so called 'surgeon for digestive system' you made reference to is called a ''general surgeon''

You're correct. I meant to say see a gastroenterologist or a GI surgeon.

While general surgeons do handle GI surgery, considering its massive scope, in many well-resourced top teaching hospitals, it's a subspecialty work. That may possibly not apply in 9ja though.

In this era of robotic surgery, jack of all trade is not good enough anymore. This applies to most surgical disciplines now. I know some orthopaedic surgeons that have only been doing just hip replacement for 15 years now. They won't even do knee. And they have become extremely good at it.

ireneony:

Why always ogun state?

I think it is it's proximity to Lagos. They supply the massive Lagos market in anything.

Jeezors is Lawd. How cruel.

Sunofgod:
Was the surgeon a 1st class holder or 3rd class?

Sounds like the op was botched.

if you graduated at the bottom of the class, you might struggle to get a surgical trainee post. At least in the West. Surgical positions are very competitive. The problem with private practice in 9ja is that they become jack of all trade. Whereas in public hospitals you work in your area or areas of specialty.

Despite general surgical training as a house officer, not every doctor is qualified specialist surgeon. But this line is very dangerously blured in 9ja private practice.

OP, see a gastroenterologist. The surgeon for digestve system in a good general or teaching hospital.

ammyluv2002:
I really loved him then...i was so rooting for him to be the coach

Oh, no doubt he was a great footballer.

But even Pele, the Brazilian legend knew football management was not his strength and never managed teams.

ammyluv2002:
Dis guy really fall my hand!

Being manager is not same as being a good TV football pundit or analyst.

Not everyone is a natural manager of men.
I was shocked when he was appointed.

IssyGenius:
Here is a comprehensive list of the types of students you will have an encounter with in a typical Nigerian medical school:

1. Geniuses: This category of students display super human ability. They read guyton, ganong, Robbins' once and they do not forget. They are rare and their ability to retain much information is amazing. They top the class in every In course assessments and MBBS exam. They are not chronic readers but their study schedule for a short time is bulky.

2. Bookworms: These type of guys read from dawn to dusk. They read consistently. You will find them in Library reading, their study desk at home is not void of their presence. They carry their big textbooks while walking and frivolity is an enemy to them. They are more concerned with stuffs.

3. The religious: They are executives in their respective fellowships. They do not miss religious meetings and never cease to invite friends. Their Muslim counterparts count it odd to miss prayer in the mosque.

4. Lecturers' kids: Please get close to them
! they have information that is useful to your career. They hardly fail (they don't have leaked question paper). They know how to navigate through the stormy sea of medical school 'wahala'. They know the correct text to read, have right link and they obtain favour from the colleagues of their parents.

5. The revellers: They have info on the next party and social functions. Some of them drop partying when in course draws nigh. They are frivolous, flirtatious and brilliant.

6. The selfish: They hoard past questions and useful information to themselves. Probably, they want to be the best student, that remains a mystery. Such category of student does not know that success is achieved through team work and healthy competition.

(7) The perfectionists: They only ever answer a question they are 110% sure is correct. They have some elements of Number 6 too.

8 ) The eccentrics: They show off at the bedside, often including bits of physical exam (including checking for borborygmi) that even the prof won't do. And including all the obscure stigmata of liver disease.

VictorRomanov:
The minimum salary for a police recruit should be 50k. 9k is just unheard of. A labourer makes more than that in a week.

I bow.

Hope there are other allowances.

If not, no hope of fighting corruption in the police.

Olopa be like "continue, kill yourselves, after all, I nor dey follow una share the money".

That Didi of a girl doesn't look smart just like most zombies.

How else can someone praise Buhari for good light same day he became president?
If she could not realise it was GEJ's light running on May 29th, then she's very slow.

They are beginning to say the truth.

Their suffer head never start.

halfricanadian:
Ok av heard u

Point noted bt in this generation
Its very very infact extremely hard to seperate good people from bad

Like me im done with dat phase of finding good people running from bad people

My relationship with humans now is strictly business u need my help i help u i nedd ur help i seek u
dat way one is free from life melo drama

i just pray people stop seeking for good people my error all my life help wen u can nd focus on ursef period!

You're right. The only person we can improve or change is ourselves. You cannot change others.

However, I'm still a proponent of positivity & altruism. Not naivety though.

I generally now give without expecting back. My mistake previously was to believe that I could rely on people I have previously assisted with advise, resource, time, etc. Bad mistake. Some people you have helped so much might not really wish you well & can be envious. Even want your downfall. Humans are extremely complex.

Usually, I have got help from people who owe me nothing, even strangers. I see it as God using such people. And that's more than good enough for me.

halfricanadian:
Av seen it for me o cant handle marriage abeg no wonder from childhood av been preaching surrogacy i cant handle d pressure
its nt my thing
Good luck to op nd his wife

My dear, most relationships between humans are not easy. Many children and their dad or mum never get along? Do you then severe ties with them? Some have bosses from hell at work and yet cannot leave the job. Friends, in-laws and neighbours from hell are not that unusual.

He who doesn't dare, doesn't win. Imagine that Columbus got cold feet sailing to the new world.

However, try to assess what you can bring to the table of marriage. Most focus on what they want in a wife or husband. Can you offer 70% of those yourself??

Some think they deserve everything without scrutinising themselves first. Life doesn't work like that.

halfricanadian:
Write a story about it
The dude cant tell us he aint seeing other women

Anoda man will love her jare

The most damaging and unfair assumption women make is that "all men cheat". It's partly at the root of women's infidelity, aside economic benefits. A kind of justification.

But a lot of men don't cheat. I admit man has the propensity naturally to do so, and throughout history. The wealthier and influential you are as a man, the easier for you to do so.

But many don't for reasons such as: self-discipline, genuine love, ambition, frugality, religious reasons etc

Some men genuinely fall in love and have no time for other girls. Yes, some might cheat 10 or 20 years down the line BUT some will still not.

Remember, it's much easier for a woman to cheat. An average to beautiful lady can expect men to approach her almost daily. She has to just say yes or no.

Whereas, a man has to actively seek a girl. Do the calling, possibly spend, endure all the hard-to-get game, etc. There are men not ready to do that over and over again. They have a purpose, ambition, and value their time and resources.

Almost every time you mention women infidelity, women quickly go back to their default setting "the man must have cheated first". Haba!

You mean the 30% of all kids that don't belong to their supposed biological dad is because men cheat? SMH.

gcode123:
truth is you can never know.....


Btw suspecting her is one thing, catching her is another thing. No woman would ever own up even if God comes down and says "but i saw you with my KOROKORO eyes"....

And if you snoop around investigating her, when tell her she will make u feel like a smelloo.....

Thing is just treat your woman well she most likely wont cheat and if she cheats or u suspect her to be a cheat, break up, theres no point for drama, remeber she wont confess anyway, except caught red handed.....


I [b]wont ever forget bro wale, he was engaged to the chief usher girl in his church, they were doing no sex before marriage relationship, meanwhile this sister used to come to my friend everyday after work and even on sunday evenings to smash. This sister does not wear ear rings o, all these beret ladies in church uno . My guy says she can smash...... Anyway brother wale and this woman are "Happily" married today ...... She probably lied she lost her virginity back in secondary school doing high jump
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Why deceive the guy you want to marry, and smash a guy you won't marry? Na wa o.

halfricanadian:
Everything is cheating

Sadly very common these days. Social media has made it a piece of cake now.

I have seen a few guys who decrypted their women's phone lately. It opened a can of worm.
It is illegal in many places. But they are not in my legal jurisdiction.

A girl was dumped by her fiancée last week after decryption. He got curious and wanted to check before wedding coming up later this year.

You just wonder if he didn't check. Marry a girl planning to continue seeing her other men.

poundsboy:
I love the whites for one thing THEY ARE HONEST!!! They hate lies too. They "may"cheat but Won't give you headache like their naija counterparts. A lot of Nigerians need to format their brains honestly. Sometimes, divorce may not be as a result of cheating. It may be for behavioural reasons.

You don't know white people at all.

I was educated alongside white people. Long years of studies that required working closely together. Majority from middle & upper class in an "Ivy league" school. And I work with them too. Not some lower class whites.

Even they are no different. Their lies are rather rock solid though.

They lie, cheat, shy away from group assignments while focussing on individual ones, abusive domestically and do other things too. The better organised society makes little lies for small benefits unnecessary. The law works in their society and they know certain actions have consequences if laws are violated.

Kate Henshaw was running her mouth like diarrhoea a few years ago, when still married to that Nuttal man. Trumpeting how much better white men are than blacks. She's divorced from Oyinbo now & currently shaking her black behind to black guys at parties all over the place.

Oyinbo are very complex, can hide their true nature and feeling very well and very diplomatic, bordering on hypocrisy. It takes time to understand them. Unlike black guys that are explosive, open and cannot hide anger.

After being with Asian, black & white girls, I know what I am talking about.

I wish her luck.

pretydiva:
who told nothing is happening in my state,why d hate

Tell me what is going on? Ring Road done 6 or 7 years ago? Or Teacher's house area done is the main achievement from N111 billion yearly budget?

Osho has done only token projects in his second term.

It seems nothing is happening in the Edo State again aside IDP.

Is this just to pander to Northern masters?

henrydadon:
the beating of children in sec school should be scraped ..u can always leave the beating to the parent..u dnt see this in develop countrys...even south africa they dnt beat their children..

The NASS must enact a law against it.

And the state must enforce it.

henrydadon:
yes oh..since the day i was born i have never seen a doctor driving a Lamborghini

Then you don't know plastic surgeons to the celebrities.

But that is beside the point.

Doctors, PhDs and others do very important jobs that the businessmen and the general public depend on.

Businessmen's kids will be taught by PhDs at university.

It shouldn't be all about money and car you ride.

What is with women showing rear pictures these day?

Imagine men wearing tight-fitting pants to accentuate their blokos

I can imagine ladies shouting "indecent exposure, pervert".