₦airaland Forum

Youngpo413:
crash because of common sex? I thought women don't like it much

You are having laugh, right?
It is just a cultural thing. A woman is supposed to show restraint and appear not keen on sex. To make her appear decent. The reality is different.

Considering how many parts of a woman's body respond to sexual excitement, I have no doubt that women generally enjoy sex more than guys. A woman can have orgasm multiple times within minutes.
However, about 30% of women never reach orgasm no matter what a guy does. Though most still enjoy sex without orgasm.

CFCman:
Damn! I'm sorry for the lady sha. She's really suffering emotionally and physically.
Her hubby may have erectile dysfunction too

My brother, a man just around 40, educated and gainfully employed should be able to seek medical help.
I doubt it is medical.
Other issues seem to suggest to me that he married the beautiful lady as a thing a man has to do.

I also suspect that during their so-called no sex courtship, he was probably having it with another lady. He might still be doing it.

You know some ladies make excellent bedmate but seemingly not a good match for a wife.

Maybe after marriage, sex with the wife proved abysmal. You start to regret both the wait & the marriage.

A warning women fail to heed: if a guy readily/easily agrees to wait for marriage b4 sex, don't jubilate too soon.

He might not be a virgin. And might have other girlfriends.

If you can have sex to your heart's content outside, doing no sex courtship with another lady becomes easier.

habsydiamond:
I won advice ladies wey don get man ready to marry them to sample the guys wella ooo. So as to know if he is capable as a striker, midfielder, and defender. If u wait till after marriage u may regret ur decision for not having sex b4.

I know a lady in the situation right now.

No sex courtship for like 18 months or so. Then a fancy big marriage.

The hubby only wants sex for 2 to 3 times in 3 months! Both live in same house.

Sure enough, the marriage is quarter to crash.

So after avoiding sex till marriage, you then go and marry a girl who has already destroyed her womb with abortions.

Or marry a guy that has slept with every dirt girl in the neighbourhood and has contracted STIs a million times.

Meanwhile, both the abortion lady and olosho super fan forming virgin.

Soon it will be "10 reasons to marry and never have sex with the hubby/wife at all."

0rex:
There's no way.

God bless you.
There is no way to refuse a woman's love. No peaceful way at least.

Women don't show love interest easily. It takes a lot on a woman's part to do so.

When they do, rejection is VERY rare. At least most guys will "chop & clean mouth".

I gently turned down a work colleague once and she never really greeted me again until I left that job.

instinctg:
how will he cope with the smell veggy ?

Make dem use alum.

The food on the table shows how the rich indulge in very unhealthy food.
Far and wide, no green stuff. Just oily stuff and red meat. And they are not exactly lean people.

A bit of cucumber, tomatoes will fill you up very quick and you eat less fatty stuff.

pinceprinz:
It only came as a comforter that something cute is happening in Naija not the usual play of odoriferous political counterinsurgencies among our sacrilegious plutocrats.

Patient of patrickariatic virus sighted.

Before they know it, Nigeria's English will become official like US, Canadian, Aussie even SA English.

Mandela once said "There are many Englishes".

Mynd44:
No law was broken here. The thief broke into his home and put him at risk, he responded by defending himself.

How was he to know the thief did not have a gun or any other weapon?

In many climes, it's illegal to use "excessive force". Basically, force more than enough to stop the thief or kill him.

Sure there is no "force-o-meter" to measure the force, much less in emergency danger situation.

But where the law works, you may not get away with killing a thief. I wrote above of a guy given 8 years in jail in UK for it.

Read about the farmer Tony Martin in the link here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Martin_(farmer)

omojeesu:
Generalising is an error of judgement. There are genuine pastors who serve their master, Jesus Christ.

But it's becoming difficult to trust any o. The stories are too much these days.

Is it the big pastors pressuring the husband to forget that we should trust as genuine?

eROCK247:
Trust me, if u have bin robbed by merciless robbers/cultists (most of whom r underage BTW) you wouldn't be bent on obeying the law. The law doesn't compensate victims of robbery, stealing and other crime. I was robbed 3ce in sch and if I had d chance I'd have done worse to those guys

I get your point. I have relatives who got robbed and seriously maltreated and wounded in their own house. Twice within a year or so. Second one at least was in connivance with their maiguard. Despicable no doubt.

But the law must be obeyed or you will just be breaking the law like the robber did.

Interesting.

doublewisdom:
Nigerians and their weakness for Pastors.

The women in particular.

Even married ones drop their pants once a pastor says so.

Luckily, judgement will begin in the house of God.

ceejay80s:
Good for him...its only thieves like u will have pity on u,
Armed robber started like this

Actually in UK, a farm owner gunned down a thief who burgled his farm house at night. He also injured the second thief.

The farmer went to jail for like 7 years. The injured guy even claimed compensation. Not sure if he succeeded.

The law is about maintaining order and avoiding citizens taking laws into their own hands aka jungle justice.

A civilised society needs it.

rottennaija:
They should tried stitching the hand back now

OBJ, Tinubu, IBB, Buhari, Amaechi & others nko? Are the clean?

If una like ban me because of fear of DSS. I nor care.

opalu:
Two highly regulated Businesses I hate to venture into:- AIRLINES AND BANKING.
I hail all Entrepreneurs who are in this sectors. I hail all of una. (I mean the Owners not employees in Aviation or in bank that you ask their occupation and they say "I'm a Banker))

Both are prestigious BUT have high standards to maintain.
No wonder: human lives, big money and national reputation are involved.

Another is healthcare in developed countries. A hospital, private or public can be scandalised easily because of one death, once the media start digging in and showing devastated bereaved.

It works for some but not for all.

Humility before marriage is one thing. Keeping it during marriage and when things sometimes get tough is another thing.

Most girls too would prefer an older guy, someone they can look up to.

For that reason, a lady 4 years older, no.

Positiveminds:
To provide power is now rocket science!

Rocket Science 808. Doctoral level things.

Elbubs:
That's not weed grass but dried 'karkashi' leaves eaten in northern Nigeria. The karkashi leaves are of two types, this one draws more than the bigger leaves.

One man's weed could be another man's edible karkashi.

Maybe they add it to soup like we add dried bitter leaf in the South.

Hard to say.
Bottom-line is IDP people should get decent food to eat.

989900:
@Modath: I think we had this discussion some while back, but they need stable power supply to make this work.

It's time for the gov't and the people (all of us) to go hard on pipeline vandals!

No need for light. FG don't see that as priority. Maybe they think China produces goods with darkness.

Will China import finished goods made with Generator power at expensive rate?

What can we produce cheaper than China anyway?

It will be usual raw materials: teak wood, cassava for industrial starch and those cheap raw materials. Soon 9ja will be 20 to billion in trade deficit with China.

Destined2win:
Because there is hardship doesn't mean that those who have the money should not live life to the fullest. What is all these?

*MODIFIED*

Wow...wow...wow

I have got a lot of mentions for the statement I made above. People need to understand that even in difficult times, some are soaring high. Now I will not because it is 'hard times' for others, deprive myself or family members the sweet things of life.

Buhari as president and his family deserves to fly first class. It does not make him any less or more, a performer. If he said during his campaign that he wouldn't fly first class, but now he is flying, that is a dent on his integrity and has nothing in defense to do with the comment I made.

I pray to fly a private jet, I don't know about you!

So poor Buhari that borrowed money to buy nomination form is among those who has money?

The frugal/modest Buhari now suddenly enjoys life to the fullest?
Haba! Zombie virus is more serious than Zika virus.

A leader and custodian of the people's wealth must lead by example. Nobody is telling Dangote not to have 15 private jets.

Buhari had the chance from 1987 (when he left detention I think) to 2015 to do private business, make a lot of money and buy private jets, but he didn't.

He didn't have the ambition & acumen to succeed in business. So he always had his eyes on Nigerian oil money through politics or coup plot.

Amelian:
Lol... I know.... My fiance had already mentioned it lightly, no more makeups, no artificial eyelashes, no red lipsticks, .. Just powder and wetlips.. I smiled and said dear, its not a problem for me.. I like it simple too .

The first time i fixed eyelashes in my life, i saw hell.. My eyes were red , dripping tears
The beautician was saying madam pls be calm, u know yur eyes are tiny.. Lemme finish first.. U will love yur look afterwards..
At long last., she finished gluing the fake lashes to.my eyelids..
My eyes were red and swollen, i staggered slightly and manage climb okada and went home..ontop of okada , i can only see half size of people , i couldnt see full size of people anymore... I was like wtf! I walk down the streets , all i see is half people! What have i done to my eyes! Is this what ladies go through with eyelashes Mehn, the third day i just angrily pulled everyting off!
What a relief!
Thats the end of me and eyelashes.. Never again.

Abio my dear.
I know it's a bit of a cliché, but who don fine don fine.

Even who nor too fine, if her bobo loves her, he don love her.
Looking neat/clean and carrying oneself with dignity are more important.

I think some women should spend more time working on character, attitude and positive approach to life than fretting about the latest enhancement around.

A light make up, lip gloss and other basic stuff are often enough.

But when you tell a lady all that, she's like "so you don't appreciate all the effort I make to look good for you?"

Amelian:
Shes married with a kid... Surprisingly her husband may love her new hairdo.. Its not all about excessive makeup all the time.
Go natural..

Very sexy I tell you.

Smoking hot in my opinion.

Many of us are fed up with sacrificial hair from Hindu temples.

Monalisa185:
ohhhh my goodness, this is indeed tragic, that woman should have been rushed to a nearest hospital to know if the unborn could be saved.. Instead, those clowns were taking pictures.....ignorance and stupidity merged together... RIP
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Which country do you live in? Obviously not 9ja.

Even a fairly crude emergency C-section by the road side might have helped. If we had a functioning system, paramedics/medics could just get the baby out, if mum likely gone. And the flying doctor would arrive soon.

With basic resuscitation, the baby might have made it.

They are all standing, likely none of them trained in first aid. A large population without knowledge of basic life-saving techniques.

4get 9ja abeg.

floragregs:
That olori and beautiful nor suppose dey the same sentence abeg

Ok, which adjective would you deem appropriate?

Mind you, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. In this case, the Ooni himself.

dulux07:
E

Well, year on, maybe PDP were scared of undefined change on our behalf.

RIP ma.

darmochy1:
Thanks a lot.

Back to the drawing board I guess.

One thing we do little in 9ja is partnership. We've always done "lone ranger" stuff. Therefore we cannot pull talents and resources together.

Apple, Facebook and other great brands began as partnership. Dr Innocent Chukwuma of IVM is facing same lone ranger challenges now.

I understand people loath "other people's wahala".

Imagine you're partnering and you might have 1m already now.

YelloweWest:
What ever happened to negotiating
If the federal government uses force it would be bad.
If the militants use force it will be bad as well.

Why can't there be negotiations?

They say GEJ is clueless, yet he managed to negotiate with militants as VP that Yar'Adua could calm down militants and oil flowed.

GMB has no such people skills.

KashyBaby:
Lol....


This "mini bus" looks like one from a cartoon network

I wonder what's the fastest speed of this bus?

Nor go crack person ribs jor.