₦airaland Forum

Cutehector:
Wetin concern 63year old woman wit sex na

Actually wrong and that is the root of the problem.

Perhaps she believes at 63, no need for sex.

Some believe that after menopause, sex is pointless. Admitted, some actually have more pain due to dryness.

Sex should be encouraged for as long as possible, even well into their 90s.

With lubrication, it can work well.

It's also a mental boost, signifying relative good health & youthfulness.

It is also one of the few cardiovascular exercises that elderly people can do without even being conscious of it.

Health care providers should routinely address it, letting them know that sex & desire in old age are quite normal.

The regular "oh, I'm too old for that" might be used as a mask, for fear of being seen as a pervert or weirdo to still crave for sex.

In our increasingly nuclear families, in old age, there can be only very few moments of joy, in between illness, boredom, retirement & loneliness when kids have left home.

Sex should be one of them.

EverestdeBliu:
what reason exactly? Don't he have a foreign affair minister? Can't he delegate some of these his "journeys" to the respective ministers and aids? Need I remember,do u know that inflation is gradually creeping in?

Abi o. I don't even know his foreign minister sef.

No surprise since he said ministers are only noise makers. He never appointed them believing they are to deliver, but just to fulfil constitutional requirements, compensate campaigner donors/propagandists & to "zombically" follow his orders, however clueless they might be. Hence he delayed their appointment for as long as he could. Leaving the country without a direction in a period of difficult economy.

The report card is the worse economy we have now.

Sanchase:
This Dullard called Buhari is utilizing old fashioned mentality to deal with modern challenges,

gone are the days of dictatorship when you turn a blind eye to economic difficulties.

Buhari lags in the qualities of a leader, a leader addresses matters arising at regular intervals.

It is certain Buhari doesn't know what to do and rather run away from his responsibilities. Leaders in developed countries return home when there

are situations causing panic in their country, buhari should be doing the same but rather he is entering the Nigeria airplane whenever it gets

worse.

Nigerians need to investigate what is inside this airplane, it could be Virgins who knows !!!

I have never seen a President so obsessed with airplane.

They said GEJ had a large fleet, that they will sell them off if voted. I thought GMB would be using KABO, ADC if they exist. Certainly Arik or Aero Contractor.
That time dem never sabi how free plane ride dey sweet. Na different song dem dey sing now.

Youngk:
Aisha Buhari is really in a long distance relationship,we should pity her too

Really interesting that they hardly ever travel together.

OBAGADAFFI:
The New Olori is from Royal Brass Casters guide family -Ine n' Igun and Her forefather Ezhoe from Oluyare compound, Ile Ife was requested for by the Oba of Benin - King Oguola from the Ooni Of Ife. Ezhoe left his son - Ighueghae who naturally became the head of the family after his father left back to Ife from Benin. Hmmmm strong ties between Benin and Ife and about to be re-ignited with this Marriage.

Bloggers

Name of the new Olori sir.

Is she there to study or look for her Johnny?

IkpuMmadu:
Is it the Benin that igbo defeated during the ancient and modern times

Elaborate sir. Events, battles, figures/personalities and dates would help enlighten all of us.

I can claim to be the first to land on the moon. Without it been recorded in history and folklore, it cannot be seen as probable/true 200 years from now.

martineverest:
After, all these Ibos will claim anioma is theirs.. Is that not Benin attire..... Take it out leave it, all monarch in delta are from oba palace

Ubuluku (Oboro) in Benin was a vassal chiefdom to Benin Empire, certainly during the reign of Oba Akengbuda (1750-1804).
It was during this period that Ogie Oboro (ruler of Ubuluku) came to Benin for confirmation/validation of his title. In Benin, he saw the beautiful daughter of Chief Ezomo of Benin, the Field Commander of Benin Imperial Army. Her name was Adesua. Adesua refused his advances, even insulting him as a bush ruler.

Adesua was already betrothed to the Oba.

Ogioboro somehow lured Adesua to Oboro. When she refused his further advances, he had her murdered.

War was declared on Oboro, with express order to bring Ogioboro's head to Benin. And that's what happened.

Like all provincial dukes and chiefs of those days, ogioboro would have been given insignia of office including Ada (scimitar), Eben (sword), coral beads, mode of dressing, etc.

Those insignia (ada & eben) are still clearly designed into the back of the chair.

There is a Lancelot Oduwa Imasuen Nollywood film called "Adesuwa" featuring Olu Jacobs (as Ezomo n'uti), Bob Manuel (as Ogioboro) based on it.

naijaking1:
Good write up op, waiting for lamentations from the West to follow.

Face saving won't let them. For now.

For the time being, they will be hurling insults on those who dare to compare GMB to GEJ like this Northerner just did.

In fact they will say he's Igbo or Ijaw masquerading as a Northerner.
Siddon look.

jeeqaa7:
My dear...Your english has muscles...
..

As in Schwarzenegger iyan!

Leave the babe o jare. We need comic relief.

If with Corruption Dollar was 180 and without Corruption Dollar is now 425,Brothers and Sisters, you will agree with me that we need corruption in this country..

Hahahahaha!

You mean corruption is a major economic sector that we failed to recognise and include in our GDP.

9ja is a peculiar place. One cannot totally dismiss this assertion.

LesbianBoy:
If this story is true then 2baba na big fool o

At 40, bah?

Sommyangel:
When will ladies learn to stop fighting over a man.. The choice is solely meant for the man.. If you like put her pix everywhere, if ur man wants to go after her, u can't stop it!

My dear, God bless you.

Madam 2Baba makes the whole thing appear like her hubby is one helpless innocent (no pun intended) boy, being seduced by one irresistible temptress. As if they have ever been alone in the relationship.

How about talking to her hubby?

jerayme:
Do not deceive people young man.
Congratulate him and keep calm.

Pass mark in Med. is 50%. Except in cases where they want to limit the number of candidates who scale through....pass mark are then lifted above 50%.

Same happens in mass failure. Less than 50% could be passed.

Which school is that? Well in my uni back in the day what you call 50% is Standardised score of 50%! That means, whatever exam board has set as raw pass mark, be it 96% will be weighed as 50%. So you think someone who wants to puncture your large artery 50% of the time or fail to safely deliver a baby 5 out of 10 times will be unleashed on the population? You think it works like that? The system here in the West is likely to be similar to 9ja.

He did well but we seem to make a fuss about degree class in 9ja a lot. I know some people with 1.1 from unis rated top 20, top 10 in the world and nobody makes any fuss.

Aspiregreat:
congrats bro....


But could have been superb if it's was engr or med.

Med is not calculated like most other degrees.

Pass mark in some exam components can be 94%, 89%, 84% and other such outrageous marks.

Some grades that leads to carry over would be a distinction grade in some other degrees. Imagine getting 93% and having to retake.

Na wa o. Eleyi gidi.

Before nko?

Men know nothing about cheating. Men just do gragra as usual. Girls are the smooth operators.

Me I don't get fooled any more.

I know from female friends that most have anything from 1.5 to 5 guys at a go. The 0.5 is the occasional one.

This made FP last week already na.

magicminister:
besides, i heard cbn stopped selling to bdc's.
so, if they don't sell to bdc's and banks, biko who dey deplete our reserves??

i know its not me and my 5 dollar transaction sha.

Of course they sell to those in power!

They are making big bucks why their zombies chant change and believe all the lies.

What I heard from banking sources over last two weeks is shocking. People are making a killing.

It is good to be well-educated and be all-rounded to run a country.

If you're not, when you bring tough policies, those around you quickly see the flaws and exploit it behind your back.

Especially if you're the type that is allergic to advice and set in your ways.

amunkita:
That prayer warrior's shoe can scare the demons out of an individual being prayed for....

Demon be like "Ok! Ok! I'll leave. Please just don't bring those shoes an inch closer dude."

The hustle is real dude.

The word has to be wild like a lion to enter human ears these days.

And everything in the world is wild these days too, with all the orisirisi happenings.
So any which way, na wild word + wild world.

omonnakoda:
According to you the economic boom since 1999 has been due to FDI as we can see in a potato farm in Plateau and Cattle farms in
Nassarawa.
You are the one who told us that I am too young to remember a Nigeria where there was light and water every where and I informed you that the biggest yes biggest generating plant in the whole country was built in 1981. This was in Egbin in Lagos state. This was a place that had no electricity and no water in fact Most of Lagos State territory had no Electricity. If that could be the case in Lagos state how much less Otuoke?
In Lagos the were carrying excrement on their head in buckets. NO there was no such Nigeria as you would have us believe. So please



Go back and read all the ridiculous nonsense you wrote about FDI creating a BOOM and all you can come up with is potato farm but here you are contradicting yourself and cannot even make up your mind what point you are trying to make .First you say investors are fleeing. What is it?

Get out of my face , you are a charlatan

Hahahahaha! Excrement & bucket. You heard stories. If only I didn't know Lagos then, I might believe it was like that all over Lagos. As if people don't poo in gutters and Lagoon in parts of Lagos now

You're too angry to put your thoughts together.

Until others follow Truworths physically leaving 9ja, you won't admit. He doesn't even know that most investments are not in brick & mortar. Hahaha.

Mr Guru, well done. As you travel wider and educate yourself better, you will realise you currently know nothing.

It is allowed, enjoy your youthful exuberance. Good luck omniscient guy.

omonnakoda:
What a stuupid thing to say .You don't know me but start talking rubbish about my age and wwhen I was born and then make your own assumptions.What has it got to do with anything?

What has population or development in 1981 got to do with your claim on FDI from 1999? That is what I am talking about address that claim that you made
Those things you mention do not reinforce your argument or claims
You are just adding all kinds of distractions and extraneous ideas.Not relevant!
You come here making assertions about your opinions and try to give them a pseudo-factual mien when it is all nonsense

Are you ok? You're very angry. Not good I tell you.

You mentioned Egbin & 1981 in ur post? Can you string thoughts, answer & reply together?
What population does Egbin has to supply now? Development is not just about doing, but adequacy of what is done.

Well, FDI has gone into agriculture. A German company Vicampro has a massive potato farm in Bokkos, Plateau. South Africans have also set up cattle farms in Nassarawa and other places in the Middle Belt/North. Then power sector to fund small power plants. The Chinese govt via their development bank has invested in railway too.

These are non-oil & gas. People in a hurry to totally condemn GEJ's government like to forget these investments over the last few years.

chidekings:
truth is whether we devalue or not,we just pray for a miracle from the middle east

Wo, tell us the miracle you expect so that we can know the prayer point.

Is it that Saudi, Iran, Kuwait, Qatar, Algeria, Libya should run dry of oil & gas? Libya & Algeria become middle East when it suits.

omonnakoda:
How old I am is irrelevant. I called you out on the nonsense you wrote about FDI since 1999> We certainly are old enough to remember everything about Obasanjo. It is irrelevant but we are old enough to remember standing on roads while the likes of Gowon rode by. Your childish and stupid resort to the hominem device of "how old you are has absolutely nothing to do with anything, We never had constant light or water across most of Nigeria in fact most of Nigeria was not even on the National grid. The thermal station at Egbin in Lagos stated was built i 1981. In that area there was no electricity. Arcross the whole of Lagos Island u till 1984 and even 85 Human faeces was carried by night soil men in buckets on their heads and it was so across much of the state. So which water are you talking about?
I called you out on your claims on FDI answer that and quit muddying the water of discussion by writing a Phd on Nonsense

How much FDI entered since 1999 in the non-oil sector simple question.
Again you talk of Cuba and India what does any of that have to do with when I or when your father was born?

Your abusive nature doesn't speak good of you. And you will describe yourself as coming from a sophisticated and respectful people? I always knew all that is eye service before the back-biting.

Yes, many of you jambites spew trash here. You only get to see them when jamb results are released. Because they completely misinterpret the little they glean from google.

What was the population of Nigeria/Lagos in 1981?
Has Nigeria developed at the same rate it did from 1970 to 1983 compared to 1983 to now?

Since you know it all, tell us the figures of all the investments.

magicminister:
Honestly, i have no sympathy for the girl.
You stayed with a man that beats and abuses you for years and you didn't muster the courage to have him arrested or leave the relationship.
Instead you stayed for 4 years and even clothed and fed him.
My dear, you do not deserve to die but i have no sympathy for you.

hopefully, girls in abusive relationships will learn from you. The moment you notice your guy has uncontrollable rage, please leave instanta.
Don't wait for your obituary to grace the front page of NL!!

But abused people can become compliant and fearful. She might actually have loved him and thought (wrongly) that he would change.

If she complained, friends might have advised her "oh, pray for God to touch his heart" and such things. As we read from NLers here often.

RIP young lady.

omonnakoda:
Nigerian economy has NOT been based on FDI and money did not come aplenty that is vague and nebulous fantasy.

How much FDI exactly ? Can you put a number on it? How much was in the non oil sector?
The obvious one is Telecomm which was basically a technology whose time had come and was not peculiar to Nigeria beyond that please tell us ONE just one other sector that benefitted from this "Money aplenty" and to what tune

Protectionism,Isolationism those are just words. Cuba is an extreme example that is not relevant in our case. Every one practices isolationism and protectionism. It is a matter of degree every situation is unique. India certainly developed technologies that are relevant to their peculiar situation as did China. They STILL practice protectionism to a large extent and so we need to find the right blend that works FOR US. Even when we had a lot of oil money it was stiil expensive to manufacture[b] the problem is not just infrastructure.[/b] We have a deficit of entrepreneurs and that is why Indians are selling Fish in Nigeria and making juice why we have foreigners running Shoprite and DSTV and MTN. That is why every year millions of fruit and vegetables rot away Let us face it Nigerians do not have a clue about business. We have a skill and knowledge deficit in our workforce ad that is why we have welders from the Philippines in our oil industry
Not every thing is infrastructure,a lot is about the quality of our people and we do not invest in that
There are a lot of opportunities in our country that can be developed by a skilled and knowledgeable workforce.This is nothing to do with government or infrastructure but KNOWLEDGE.

The knowledge state in our population is abysmal. Our people are ignorant ,over-religiose and superstitious and generally very backward. Government cannot do everything. Our people still believe all the nonsense coming out of pentecostal churches.Such a population cannot make progress. Why are Lebanese and Indians running restaurants in Nigeria even at the airports . We need to focus on our knowledge deficit which is huge

I don't know how old you're but I guess you didn't grow up to meet the period we had almost constant light, steady water, good roads etc.
We had Michelin, Dunlop, VW and others producing or assembling in 9ja. PAN of course too. Cost of production became too high, that producing abroad and importing made more sense. You will still see remnants at Ojo.

What you don't realise is how many million people died of poverty in India & China during that period of protectionism.

Protectionism has to be reasonable. Nobody is saying we should import amala or ewedu.

Provide a conducive environment first.

Pentecostalism took so much hold because of poverty & fear of poverty (by those relatively well off).

I saw people (able-bodied, young) thronging a Pentecostal church in Mushin area one Tuesday morning. How many gainfully employed people in Toronto, Sydney or New York will have time for that? God seems their last hope. Government in 9ja has no time for them.

Now, for Lebanese and others, some have experience investing elsewhere like Kenya, Uganda beforehand. Some just open a branch in 9ja. We also generally give favourable terms to foreigners than ourselves when granting licences, etc. Especially if those foreigners know how to help govt officials launder money.

Dangote has tomato plants in Kaduna & kano I learnt. Hopefully it will get better.

Take even cement, we have limestone in abundance but cement is VERY expensive compared to most developing countries. Cost of production partly responsible.

If you have ever run a business in 9ja, you will appreciate this cost aspect.

Sure we need more entrepreneurs. To do good business, you need money, which banks prefer to lend to oil & gas sector instead of a an adventurous beginner.
In those countries where people are more entrepreneurial, they get incentives from government, whether it is tax rebate, low corporation tax, etc.
Where do you think money has been coming from if not FDI?
FDI in my opinion includes investment in stock market, state govts borrowing internationally to invest, our banks having easy access to cheap international money that they lend locally at cut-throat rate etc. Usually to oil & Gas & big businesses. Not just one Paris based company setting up shop in Okitipupa.

Oil boom had only one major impact: we were able to increase foreign reserve that boosted FG credit worthiness, helped maintain Naira value, so that borrowing from abroad was easier and FDI flowed into a country not likely to go bankrupt.

Oil money by FG and state allocations went 70% into recurrent expenditure

MAYOWAAK:
Many people think that a suicide attempt is a selfish move because the person just does not care about the people left behind. I can tell you that when a person gets to that point, they truly believe that their loved ones will be much better off with them gone.This is mental illness not selfishness.

You know psychiatric care in 9ja is very rudimentary.

People affected live in denial. Family members don't want to have "craze person" in their family.
Others are labelled as being weak.

Problem is, there are very many socio-economic challenges in 9ja, millions of people not sure if the can even afford lunch or dinner today, poverty, illness, marital discord, kids at home for lack of school fees, joblessness, abysmal working conditions and so on. The whole cocktail is a perfect recipe for mental health issues.
I think some states in 9ja barely have a single well-equipped psychiatric hospital.

We are sleepwalking into a major mental health crisis.
Pathetic.

Nothing person nor go see.

It seems 9ja condones jungle justice a lot.

If indeed the man touched her, he just got away from a sexual offence & assault charge.

He won't be registered and monitored as a sex offender. So other women won't be protected.

She just committed assault & GBH. And got away with it.

The court ought to weigh if the force she used was commensurate, since she did not deny injuring him.

But to most Nigerians, this is just grammar.


Supposedly educated people applauding violence is shocking.
It shows that things don't work well in 9ja, whether it's light or law enforcement/justice.

I had the chance to cheaply use agbero or a senior police officer relative to kick out a chronic debtor tenant. But instead I used the long drawn out legal process. Costing more money.

Nobody is gonna bring change, no matter campaign promises. Changing from a lawless, violent to a civil, cultured and law-abiding society must begin with us.

ratiken:
That guy is right. You are thinking like Buhari who believes the economy is only about crude oil dollars. Communication, automobile, ICT, finance sectors have key investors whose forex were domiciled in Nigerian banks. Those monies are all gone as nobody is furthering investments.

You see, people do not know the complexity of the economy.

Let's take Cuba. Cuba has no money to import. And embargo is just being lifted.

Now, Cuba has had to improvise, aside plenty of health care professionals churned out cheaply & high literacy rate, has isolation & so-called looking inwards helped Cuba? NO.

Nigerian economic boom since 1999 has been based on FDI. Foreign money came aplenty.

We have a market economy. With infrastructure, especially electricity & good roads/trains, local industry will rise again.

Right now, locally produced goods are more expensive than imported due to adverse environment in 9ja.

India & China once practiced protectionism, it did not help their economy.

Onijagidijagan:
2k yam sha

Up to 2.3k o.