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finally i voted. phew! 3 hours of standing, Jesus H. Christ!!!

Looking for food and Singing We don't need another herooooooooo by Tina Turner.

OUT OF THE RUINS
OUT FROM THE WRECKAGE
CAN`T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE THIS TIME
WE ARE THE CHILDREN
THE LAST GENERATION
WE ARE THE ONES THEY LEFT BEHIND
AND I WONDER WHEN WE ARE EVER GONNA CHANGE
LIVING UNDER THE FEAR, TILL NOTHING ELSE REMAINS

WE DON`T NEED ANOTHER HERO
WE DON`T NEED TO KNOW THE WAY HOME
ALL WE WANT IS LIFE BEYOND
THUNDERDOME

LOOKING FOR SOMETHING
WE CAN RELY ON
THERE`S GOTTA BE SOMETHING BETTER OUT THERE
LOVE AND COMPASSION
THEIR DAY IS COMING
ALL ELSE ARE CASTLES BUILT IN THE AIR
AND I WONDER WHEN WE ARE EVER GONNA CHANGE
LIVING UNDER THE FEAR TILL NOTHING ELSE REMAINS

ALL THE CHILDREN SAY
WE DON`T NEED ANOTHER HERO
WE DON`T NEED TO KNOW THE WAY HOME
ALL WE WANT IS LIFE BEYOND
THUNDERDOME

SO WHAT DO WE DO WITH OUR LIFES
WE LEAVE ONLY A MARK
WILL OUR STORY SHINE LIKE A LIGHT
OR END IN THE DARK
GIVE IT ALL OR NOTHING

WE DON`T NEED ANOTHER HERO
WE DON`T NEED TO KNOW THE WAY HOME
ALL WE WANT IS LIFE BEYOND
THUNDERDOME

Added We don't need Mr. Romney

your vote counts! vote for Charlie Crist on Nov 6

OLAADEGBU: If I don't vote for either is there a third option that reflects on my reality?

getting nervous

I don't feel like voting because i'm impatient with queue but I will. Even if it is just for women right and equal pay, here i come

God bless our troops
SemperFI.

ummmm, marry whomever and don't let it get into your head.

i'm an advocate of mixed relationship/marriage.

white women marry black dude if they have money
black gals don't marry for money but for love and career ladder

Not long ago we started wearing clothes in Africa in the old days, they take bath together at the village river/stream.
OP, follow your heart.

Following with my caramel popcorn.

sufferhead marriage ba gaskiya, who wan marry finish come dey chop bonga fish ogbono and okra soup?

marry a guy with great personal hygiene, willingness to allow you domesticate him and who can bring home fat bacon.

uwa d'egwu.
SemperFI

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#4

coughing, coughing coughing, this thread come fall for halloween period, coughing

women should equip themselves. Teach an abuser a lesson.
Thank God for military skills. No Adam son dare mess up with yours truely
still coughing.

Anyone remembers the Susan Ulner's case on Oprah Winfry? the AA dude that almost killed his wife.

imagine husband beating wife and asking their son to video tape it. Someone posted that if you have grace and poise, a man will not beat/hit you. Here was a great career woman who loved her husband to a fault.

"After the videotape incident, Ulner called a "family meeting" where he forced his children to call their mother a "white ho slut." Susan said that this was the turning point for her. Fortunately, there was a better domestic violence program in place in her county and she had a sympathetic work supervisor. She was able to escape with her children with the help of her work supervisor who was also on the show. Ulner Lee's grip on Susan was such that he made her call him everywhere she went, and after the police were notified, they were also able to record phone calls Ulner made threatening to kill Susan".

Susan story
watch the video yourself and be the judge.

Chineke mmmm, odikwa egwu.

I can't imagine the hefty mosquito in that area at night sucking Nwata like moi's blood. Wharra hell?

God bless obodo oyinbo.

wow! very eye opening thread. God bless you all.

Johndoe100: Don't you know these girls on this board? They are afraid of women like you. You represent what they can't have - happiness, stability and most importantly the love of a man. Look at the nonsense they preach. Pity them their pathetic lives and continue to give the true seekers your honest advise.

[b]An informat told me that about 3months ago my husband took a lady to his friends house during office hour to Be Intimate with her.
I then confronted my husband which he denied, but when I presented him with facts, it was then he Confessed to the said issue and apologised.
However I find it hard to let go, I can't beleve he actually slept with another lady. [b]Am so depressed as a lot ve been running thru my mind.

please I need advice 4m married woman who had caught their husband cheating how they handle the situation.
Thank you.


Read your post and read that of the OP, where is the stability and happiness?

Marriage should not be do or die, it should be enjoyed not endured common now, be honest for a nano second.

@ Berem
why can't she divorce and live a better life instead of the current life she is living where she is stressed and may be thinking of catching STD, HIV, Syphillis/Herpes etc. Divorce is better than Die-force don't you think?

berem: My sister,them no dey carry man matter for head o! Men are flirty in nature.no matter how hard you try to monitor your husband's movement through phones or informants,you will end up hurting yourself.no man is a saint when it comes to extra marital affairs.you are the woman of the house.he lawfully married you.then why bother about his extra marital life? In this part of the africa where we come from,women are always subjected to all manner of treatment by their spouses that's why we are termed "enduring wives".I advise you to be prayerful and concentrate on your kids.if the man flex finish na im go tire.I don't let my man's extra marital affair give me headache and high blood pressure!

ummm, damn! And i thought i have heard it all, screeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaminggggggggggggggggggggggg with my fist wide open
did you just dished the above to the OP, na wah.

that's catalystic ube

[quote author=Missy_B]What about this?

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Tasty with nicely fried groundnut. Those chucky one not as delish as the thinly sliced ones. My mom's fav snack for us, i can still hear her saying, eat before soup done

lol, haha trust guys. I tried 5 guys once, goodness! even their small size is huge

you are right, that's why you should be serving Asparagus, peas (make sure you count it), Broccolli. Don't allow him near any burger chain.

Obama loves burger. You can't take burger/fries from African Americans anyway

meaning do not serve ogbono, egusi with all the assorted meats/fishes, eba. go for filet mignon and 1/3 of peas.

give him what Obama eats broccolli and asperagus for dinner, snack must be almond nuts.

[quote author=Oko_AGB]

Input determines output. U go folo orobo at 30 de expect fit man at 50+, tall dream ma![/quote]

Agreed! Some people saying he didn't do what he promised is a bunch of malarkey ( ) I don't think anyone would have done better given the condition of things 3-4years ago. I have said it too to my friends, if Romanus wins, it is because of his being 'white'

davidylan: no it wouldnt. Actually if he wins he would only confirm the status quo we've all known for so long... that to be black is an added disadvantage in america.

May your lady be the woman in the book of proverbs. Bless you.

spyder880: Pardon my dissenting voice but I think a responsible man should look at the marriage with an eye of total responsibility for ALL financial expenses in the house, very hard but possible, while the wife takes care of every other thing that does not involve bringing in money. The responsible man should note that this is his God assigned obligation and should not shy away from it.

He also has a responsibility to respect his wife and kids, care for them and provide ALL succor for their upkeep. Buy the clothes, the surprise gifts, the eat outs and any other thing necessary for the family happiness.
He should build a house for them, even if its a manual intensive mud hut that he can afford to build, or rent a house and pay the bills. He should pay the school fees of all kids and even train the wife in school if she has educational deficiencies. (if he cannot, he should have as few kids as he can cater for)

The man should feed his children and wife, cmon, what respect will I have if I cannot ensure my wife and children are well fed and happy? I will work till I drop just to make them happy, if the worse comes to worse, even barrow pushing is not excluded from what I will do to make sure I live up to my manly obligations which I stated for myself in my teens.
The man should ensure security, plan ahead for everyone and make sure he is a role model for which the wife and children are proud of.

If you think the marriage is about the man alone, you are wrong. The woman has very heavy burdens placed on them by nature, so should not be bothered with making money for the husband. Pregnancy, child care, house care, etc. The woman should be strong and active to make the house work perfectly, providing a clean surrounding in the home.
She should clean, wash, scrub and arrange all items in the house. She should cook, store, preserve and act as accountant general of the home, spending domestic budgets with utmost wisdom, arranging all purchases of food and other household items while the husband will have more time to make the money.

All the points I mentioned for the woman notwithstanding, she should provide one vital ingredient in the home, PEACE. A ready smile, a listening ear and a pillar of support for the husband. Make sure he longs to return home everyday, make sure you prepare and launch him out to go out next day for his business/work with a smile on his face, recharge his emotional battery, give him the confidence he needs to believe in himself continually.

I cannot bear the thought of my wife working under someone else, who in this world can shout on my wife or make her work harder than I will want for her, for how much sef? How about those her soft smooth hands getting hurt while she is trying to make money, how much sef? I swore to care for her, why should she care for me.

Sometimes the men are lazy, (not all men) and I have seen cases where men marry for the money which the wife can make. Men should start from their teen years to prepare for marriage, save enough because this is one expensive venture that will last forever. Build your house even before you marry, make plans for a happy home as long as 10 years before marriage. Marry a wife to treasure, not to work for you.

An exception to this is where the women has itchy fingers to work, well, she can work but make sure it is not for the money, just for the fun of getting up and going to work to mix with others as she is not in prison.

who is still carrying smelling money around. Abeg fill your purse with CC

I as a lady, the stake is to make sure the bed is nicely done

dayokanu: If I as the man pick all the bill in the house then what is the womans stake in the house?

How is she better than a piece of furniture that just occupy space?

If he pick all the bills then he has a right to do as he want in the house without being questioned. Just like the chairs and table cant question the owner.

If he come into the house even with lipstick stains all over his body and you ask him, He would simply reply, Its those lipsticks on his shirt that feed house and clothe your lazy arse since you contribute nada to it.

Even contributing to your own childrens school fees, upkeep etc.

I can never have anything to do with any woman with such mentality

Tpia,
I feel you. Looking at them, eyaa. So sad, so sad.
Fine young men beaten and then burnt

RIP boyz.

[quote author=tpia@]Which way nigeria?

Looking at this picture is so saddening.

Young guys, posing like all young guys do, just discovering themselves and barely out of their childhood, cut down in that manner.

Smh, may God have mercy on human animals.

How can you see guys like this and all that crosses your mind is how to kill them?

Same thing that happened to cynthia.

If you are a pervert ( many of you are on nl), with sick thoughts taking hold of you, then for goodness sake, get help.
And if you know you're from a background that makes some bitter fellows envy you, mind where you go- the days are evil.


By the time you nigerians kill off your presentable people and leave yourselves with only monkeys and gorillas armed with planks and swinging from tress, sebi una go rest, not so?[/quote]

Now, i don't like the part where Romanus said women should be given time (let her go at 5pm instead of 7pm) so that she can go home to prepare dinner eh? what's that very funny.

i see why there will always be glass ceiling. why aren't the men given time to go home to prepare dinner? His housewifey status really got into his head.

i read somewhere the big O as in heavily feelings (wetin be that) make dem feel good at least temporary. If such indulgences result in baby number 1, 2, 3,.....12 etc so be it. Big O is poor man bread.

ignorance and backward mentality.

Tell educated african men about vesectomy and hear them, talk less of okada man wey cant do without his big O after a hard day job. He got to feel the skin to make him forget all his daily hardship flying naija road.

I thought of those guys. I thought of their bodies in their resting place. I thought of how restful with all the wounds and scar/burnt skins.
I thought of the kind of life those hitting them with planks and heavy wood would live among humans.

The Nigerian people should make sure those killer beast don't live among them again.

sigh, what kind of sufferhead-afflicted hangers are those?
those pants are better off as collage on a paper board than on those caterpillar bended hangers.

Omen100: it won't be complete without his pants displayed which i will be helping you guys with.

your lady should get a job. You should assist in connecting her with some flex job. Helping her mother esp in old age is not a bad idea maybe old mama needed the money for medicine. Not a bad idea if you have something to give.

money and everything in this life is vanity.

ha!! you? why didn't i ask you to buy me plantain powder for amala

how have ya been girl. I was like where Ronkelus now not knowing she is wakaing kakiri all over sango/aleshinloye/gbagi and dugbe

ronkebp: ^^^^^ it is a witch and a blood sucking wizard, will batter their children in such a manner that will make others raise eyebrows, there is no way on earth, you will raise a child and won't spank him or her, a little, just to drive home some point....My dad has never beaten me before, but i can't say the same for my younger sisters, my mum has never spared the rod when we were growing and i will repeat that none of us go outside to raise a fist against another. It is a mother-witch that will look at her children and in the name of correction, hit, slap and kick their children.

I was at Aleshinloye market in Ibadan last week, was buying some stuff from a lady, there was this 10 year old girl that worked for her, this woman said that the little girl steals and lies, and (she must have stolen something before i got there), if you had seen the way this woman was beating this girl, i could feel the blows from where i was standing i had to scream at her that i was going to call the police on her since she was obviously killing a child that is apparently not hers...she stopped when she heard me scream with all the energy i had left, the girl was still kneeling by the time i left, but am sure that woman was not satisfied with the beating she had given that girl and i am so sure, she will be dishing out more...That there is the abuse we are talking about.....and that woman is a witch, for those who fly at night, you can visit her coven to find out...she will be there life.

If anyone had been beaten in such a manner by their own physical parent or uncle or aunt, just go to them and tell them that they are witches and wizards.

Really I don't know what she needed him for again. Your take home pay is , you work, he is not there all the time no sex life because he uses stress to kill that right on walking in.

OP, about time you find your way. Dead people tell no tales.

God fearing nation indeed. They carry their own bible and koran more than those who brought it, reading it upside down.

Their colonial masters gave us idea of what they saw on arrival. You know they use human burnt offering to their useless god and goddess.

JoyfulSoul: It saddens me that we profess to be a God fearing nation but we conveniently forget what Jesus said in Matt.5:38-39 and what Paul wrote in Rom.12:17-21. We ought to leave judgement to God and pray for those affected by this tragedy and others that have been forgotten like the Mubi massacre and Boko Haram massacres.

And the case is dying slowly

Country of Savages.

Why aren't we seeing their pictures and names with monetary offers all around tv stations, trees, trashcans flyers etc?

Nigeria: filled with animals/wild beasts in human skin