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I remember once when I was attending a particular church I spent 9 years at that church and I don't doubt the calling of the pastor till date. He's truly called but his character is totally off it.
I was one of his ordained evangelists and also in charge of the Sunday School department. I write the Sunday School lessons, type on the computer, photo copy and bring to the church. They pay for the photocopying while other forms of things I do I believe I do for God. My wife was a part of the choir and we do have 4 vigils week in and week out.
Monday is departmental vigil, Wednesday general workers vigil, Friday general vigil, Saturday Ministers vigil. This is how it goes every week.
I knew something was off but couldn't place a hand on it and the difference in ideology was becoming more prominent and was just wondering how to leave.
One day my wife was discussing with me and she made mention of something that caught my attention. She said she's always afraid whenever she wants to minister as a choir. I was baffled, how could the Spirit of God move when you the minister is living in fear. Then she said Daddy always come on podium immediately after she ministers and starts ridiculing her ministration publicly before the church. I worship in a different branch where the pastor's wife also worship.
I was so angry and decided to leave. It was after leaving that I got to know the sort of person I take as my pastor. He is a dubious person who displays certain form of holiness. Moreso, it was after I left that I got to know that most of the things he tells us about some of his pastor friends weren't the real story. He only picks the part that he feels suits his outlook and start sharing it to us.
To cap it all it was after I left that I felt what it was for a pastor to pray evil prayers over someone. It really shook my faith but I thank God for restoring me

demoBaba:
You're the problem here bro, MOST YOU TELL HER YOU SENT MONEY TO YOUR MOTHER WHAT TYPE OF MAN ARE YOU? I didn't say you shouldn't open with your wife, don't relate your family issue with her, you send 50k to your mother, father, siblings etc. Tell her you sent 2k and enjoying your wife sample. Moreover I don't discussed those kind issue with my wife, if you want happy home. I spent my money the way I want it, but i make sure my wife, children don't lack anything that's most important thing. Good luck.

Bros if to sey I know you I go buy beer for you. Imagine a useless person telling his wife he sent money to his mother. Useless person

Nwodosis:
Aside lying, so Lai Mohamed also a thief?

What do you expect from a liar is it not stealing and oloshoism?

Cutting grass with Cutlass people I hate that thing die. I always have sleepless night the night before we are to cut the grass. Spend time to think how to do the job

Let's all forget about this hiring of a lawyer and recording his abuse it will take a long time moreso he doesn't know when next he'll do it. So I will advise you to simply be on the lookout for something new outside and move any of your things that might want to hold you back then any time he does that shit you not only slap him back you beat him black and blue then leave that vicinity entirely.

Because they are stupid

black001:


No diss to you, but I agree with him lol telling somone to go tru the thread of over 90 pages I guess if not more is weird lol were does a new guy start from , it’s easier to help if u want and if u don’t want too u can sit it out

You don't know what you are saying if 90 pages of information is too hard for a supposedly educated fellow to scour through for information then he or she is not really serious about what he intends to do. It might sound rude that's the truth. I went through 2 or 3 threads of over 100 pages when making my own research on this section. This week I have gone through 65 pages of a particular thread on this forum. Do you people always want to be spoonfed? Read through and think then ask questions that's when you learn more not expecting someone to always show you what to do. They give you ideas then you dig deep that's how growth is made and sustained

I will advise that have if you have a side hustle you can invest in go for it, and try to also have one of the tech skills you mentioned and is interested in. But the main advice is to think and work more on the third option which is traveling out. Why I say this is because of the plethora of opportunities abounding outside and what you can achieve for yourself in a sane environment. Nigeria is.also good but the clime is not encouraging to people who are not willing to cut corners and the business climate is so unpredictable. Regarding your health I believe there's more standard health institutions abroad which will cater effectively for your health in as much as you have a legal stay. This should be your end goal but if there's any way to use the funds you have effectively to.make more in order to hasten the goal go for it. The tech skills is a means also so that when you get over there you won't be stranded. So the ultimate goal is traveling, tech skills is intermediate goal while growing the savings is the present goal. This is my own advice or let me say my thoughts about the issue on ground

afembaba:
your advice is meaningless, how can you ask me to do it myself? When you know I it's not possible? As if it's possible to apply to jobs in Poland from Nigeria and get permit? You people are keeping leads and telling people to go and die indirectly, nobody is ready to mention how he did his or hers, all you keep shouting is do it yourself,what's the essence of this thread is this place is to keep secrets, post how you got yours, from there other people will learn. MBA, yet you keep saying what does not exist. Which point dey this thread? I don't see any points all I see is, "I can't say how I got mine cus of protocol"

Sorry if my advice is meaningless to you but the fact remains that if you open your brain to read, assimilate and understand their is enough pointers on what to do on the thread and what you need is do your own personal research and make a decision either to take the plunge or refrain. simple. You discussed with idabakanta and concluded to send money to him then you read things about him and you are asking for heads up I gave you advise to read through the thread you said my advice is meaningless so send the money to him and whatever unsavory happens bear it. it's your decision and life. We all attended school and before graduating we wrote thesis just to enable us learn to do research on our own. So what's the essence of that in your life if it doesn't teach you to think critically to make your own decisions. Stop asking useless questions either pay the person you want to use and bear the consequences right or wrong or do your own research

afembaba:
Please help,who has idabankata scammed here? Please, o was scammed by seqienko, am about to give money to the above named person,but I saw post against him and my heart is racing,who don fall victim for e hand abeg ?

Give him money for what? Why is he or she the one to collect money from you? Is he the one to process the visa or what? The thread is filled with enough points on how to go about the journey why not do it yourself. This is the main reason why Justwise is labelled all forms of names. Be aware that whatever you do with anyone is at your own risk so you cry alone if you don't do it yourself don't come here crying fowl it's your money spend it as you like but it's better not to waste it and spend it wisely. What I am simply saying is DO IT YOURSELF

muhdolamilekan:
Doctors in the house pls which drug can you recommend for itching of the body. I mean its itchs to the extent that I scratch till my skill will peel off and it cuz black sport to my body. Some time its starts after taking my bathe and its very embarrassing. So pls any drug to use?

My wife has been battling this exact problem for years. I pity her anytime it starts. It starts after taking her bath especially if she bathes with sponge and soap. She have changed water like someone suggested up here cos we have changed houses 3 times and it's still the same