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pazienza:
They are opportunists.
In Rivers state where they have numbers, they tell you straight to your face that they are not Igbos, and they show you standoffish attitudes.

In outside Rivers state where they lack in numbers, where they reason they could benefit by preying on the emotional sentiments of Igbos. They will suddenly claim to be Igbos and attach to the Igbo bodies in their location, for social security and other benefits.

It's not laughable. It's serious. We must baracade them and make sure they can at no point be Igbo. That's how we restore our pride and past glorly. Igbo ethnic group tag must not be something one can toy with as and when they like.

You know fully well these lots are not Igbos, but just opportunistic confused Bini people.
If you admit them into Igbo fold. Tomorrow when the Igbo are to benefit from something politically, Nigerians knowing that these lots have no real affinity to Igbo and does not truly share in our group agenda, would prefer to hand them Igbo slots, while cunningly telling us that they had given the slot to an Igbo man, these are like fifth columnists. They weaken us, and outsiders know it.

The earlier we purged them permanently from our system, the better for us as a group.

it would be difficult to purge them imo, this is because there are so many of them who genuinely believe and identify with the Igbo cause, i was invited to an IPOB meeting once by a friend, and I was pleasantly shocked to see, not only ikwerre people, but calabar, and ijaw men and women.
It was very eye opening, I even got to realise Biafra did not even start from an Igbo man. (Still difficult to believe).
But like you said, they only identify with Igbo when it would benefit them, as soon as it's sharing time, they let you know they are not Igbos but ikwerre's, same thing with the ukwuani people in delta.

pazienza:
If you live in PH, especially in those Rumu villages as an Igbo man, you will witness first hand the harsh realities of Ikwerre hate for Ndiigbo. If you can't visit those Rumu villages, you can at least join Ikwerre facebook pages and interact with them. You will be heartbroken and you will witness an Igbophobia more concentrated than what any other Nigerian group can muster, if you join those Ikwerre pages. I bet you, your life and perception of Ikwerre and their co travellers will never remain same after that experience, it's an eye opener.

My experience too, they have a love hate relationship with Igbo people, mostly an envious one.
But if you see them outside rivers state, especially in the north or south west, they will begin calling any Igbo person they see "nwannem o". I find it two faced and laughable.

XhosaNostra:
When guys are this good-looking, they tend to give off a gay vibe imo. I cannot date a pretty boy, they're not my cup of tea. I prefer a more scraggly look.

for some reason I find your inane talk engaging

YorubaKinging:
We don't need this information because there's no case of coronaVirus here
And there will not be a case of coronaVirus here
Because God is with us

Buy a mask, Godly people.

Anneka101:
Some guys will stare at you until you lose your mind!

And even some would use their inners eye to UnCloth you... Lol.

I'd state at you mindlessly, you are a beauty with fire in her eyes.
You go too like trouble

tsephanyah:
Frustrating to see smart people not getting it, this thing is basically the flu. Last flu season 60 million people had the flu and 57,000 people died from complications of the flu, most were elderly or already sick from something else.

You appear intelligent, don't let us doubt it.
There is a cure for the flu, there is none for this, until there is, it is a bloody epidemic that must be taken with all gravity

It is a sad sad thing to do to a woman, cutting off some or all of her external female parts, it is horrible. Sadly most Nigerian men don't even understand let alone know about it.
I have dated two women who this was done to, and i agree, sex with them was a chore.
I even started doing research about it and putting up posts on twitter to educate people on all its negatives.
The best way to make women like this enjoy sex is
1. be a good kisser
2.know how to use your tongue �
3. Buy a non irritant lubricant, very important if you must penetrate her.
4. Know how to use your tongue, i.e kiss her alot paying particular attention to her breasts, feet, (neck for some), mouth and all hollow edges or ends.
5. Use your mouth, do the whispering game, bring your mouth close to her ear, while gently rubbing her breasts, and whisper words like "Babe, I want to eat you forever" "you have the most beautiful breasts I've ever seen", nibbling on the ear or sticking your tongue into her ear. You get the picture.
6. Penetration should only be done when you can hear the sound of her breathing, and only after you apply the lubricant.
It's hardwork, but like you said, this is your wife.
God help you Sir.

ubunja:
ALPHA FVCKS, BETA BUCKS

Bad Boys impregnate, Simps raise.

This was just too brutal, are you sure you're a woman, you sound cold.

lastchild:
When a woman hit 35 to 40 that's when she remember that age is just a number, am dealing with one now, met her 2012, she was a corper, she kept complaining that she can't date a guy she feels she's older than, 8 years later 2020, we met again, omo conversation done change, I indirectly ask if she can date or marry who she's older than, she said why not? age is just a number

Lol... See old cargo trying luck with me when there are 20s beautiful ones, This thread goes For the girls deceiving themselves, Age is just a number is only in a man's life not woman, my father at 66 rejected ladies we brought for him for marriage

If you are over 35 as a woman and be consoling yourself that age is just a number, am laughing at you...

shut it, you sexist thing

We have never had it good with our politicians in Abia, we've been ruled by crooks and thieves, since the time of Orji uzor kalu

Lol, you can't blame them, now can you, every Nigerian male always check themselves before attempting to approach a beautiful woman. answering so many questions like
Can I take care of her
Is she not the expensive type
She has a car, I don't
I checked your profile picture, and while you are beautiful, you don't look intimidating though, so it must be the circle of guys you meet are still life starters.
Good luck on your search.

It's simple really, handsome men don't ask women for relationships, they feel the women should do it for them.
And so the only women who do this are the less pretty, bold and strong one's who are sure they can deal with his excesses and handle him accordingly.

You're dating the wrong men, my ex is 25 years old, works in a bank and leaves alone, she also makes her own money ''Alot of fucking money''
More than I do.
We dated for 2 years and would have gotten married if not for our blood group.
Anyway, I feel you have yet to meet confident men who don't give a rat's ass about your money or class, men who just loves you without the jealous drama.

Your wife needs that car more than you would ever.... Here's why
1. She's your best mate, and you want to make her happy
2. It's her OWN MONEY
3. for security of not jumping public transportation with your kids, it's easy to contract disease's especially kids in public transportation.
4. A civil engineer may need a car as you said, but you can do well without it too, I should know as I'm one myself.
5. Do you want a happy marriage?
6. If you really want to be financially erudite, buy the car for your wife and kids and trek yourself.
7. You post comes out as selfish sincerely.

hooha:
I remembered when I went for an occasion and was not given food. It took me time to forget that pain ooh!!. Then I was young, so my elder sister gave me the meat she was chewing inside her mouth since I didn't get my own food.

I'm not rich by any standards but I'm comfortable, but not eating in a party where I was invited to is still the most painful thing in the world, even if I go to a fast food later and eat better food, I will still be sorely pained.
There is a certain pain to missing free food after sitting for hours.

Pettyprincess:
He is average yes i agree bt far handsome than average black guy!!!

See a doctor

awakeuche:
Why won't they? This is the filthiest room I ever saw, if I lived in a place like this I'd be hard-pressed to put it online.
employ the services of a fumigation agent, let him scour this horror from top to bottom for 2 days, when he's done, buy a coat of paint and paint those creepy walls.
Change that stringy curtain, air the house, wash everything all over again.
This is a truly dirty abode.

How can a girl as pretty as you enter this horror show. Damn!

Why won't they? This is the filthiest room I ever saw, if I lived in a place like this I'd be hard-pressed to put it online.
employ the services of a fumigation agent, let him scour this horror from top to bottom for 2 days, when he's done, buy a coat of paint and paint those creepy walls.
Change that stringy curtain, air the house, wash everything all over again.
This is a truly dirty abode.

MUMU, in case you have not heard, some Fulani miscreants were caught kidnapping, killing and robbing people along the Benin/sagamu express road. and they mentioned that there are others. keep looking for Igbo's to blame, while they ravage your lands. Anuohia

WiLdFLame:
You fools
Yoruba is wiser
Insecurity can’t be tackled with emotions or sensationalism

This is what made the IPOBs dream failed.

Anyone who thinks Fulani herdsmen where the one who did that operation Na fools. We are playing into the trap plan of the crime perpetrators. Fulani herdsmen kill fashoranti daughter leave his driver and all..how can some people be so daft in Nigeria.

Yes Fulani herdsmen are notorious but does that also mean we should chase shadows when it comes to been factual and realistic?

The Igbo should leave our Political leader alone!!!
Go and query your Ipod Kanu why he failed and had you guys killed!! Go and query your Ojukwu why he failed !!! you think Yoruba are not wise to see your antics right? Leave us alone let us solve our case by ourselves

Igbos and their kinsmen were the first people to start kidnapping wahala in Nigeria. First war in Nigeria Na dem cause am. First coup Na dem cause am. An Igbo man left his aba house and wanted to be lord in Yoruba land. Igbo greed knows no bound. iPods abi IPOB abi wetin dem call their name should please shut the hell up and leave the matter. Stop being political on this incident.

Is Evan a herdsmen?—Asiwaju Ahmed Bola Tinubu

I used to have a love-hate relationship with this man, but I do respect him, he has evolved into a real elder statesman, its a shame he did it after eating his own share of the National cake.

These beasts made men are telling Nigerians, that the president has called the bereaved family. what the ffuck has that got to do with solving the pressing issues we face daily from insecurity...
this INFINITELY WICKED LITTLE LESS THAN WILD BEASTS

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Then Nigeria is finished ... If that's all the Asorock urchins could make of the genuine concerns from well meaning Nigerians.
Mr Buhari, Nigeria is older than you. It will still exist long after you have joined your ancestors. Fear God and do good today. Sycophants and jobbers will want the status quo maintained ... But patriots have seen a dangerous pattern and will wish you get off your bums and arrest the runaway security situation asap!

My little sister once sat on my lap when I was younger, I remember we were playing the infamous ludo game back then.
my father came in and told my sister to go sit on a chair, and asked me never to carry any of my sisters on my lap again. I felt weirded out all through that day, giving it some serious thought.
I then approached my mum and told her what happened, she smiled and said this "You are both young adults (Teens), experiencing new sensations, you know what is happening in the world today, there are all kinds of fetishes, evil going on's.
even if God has put in a natural disgust between siblings and relations, it is best to avoid situations where something you saw or have heard drives you to experiment or even put that thought in your head. A man can get turned on by anything these days, the weirder the better, with news going around of father's having sexual intercourse with their daughter's, its a no brainer if your mum nipped any such thing in the bud.
At a young age, I understood what she was trying to tell me, though I have over the years seen my siblings in different states of UnCloth (especially cousins), I have always had that voice at the back of my head that tells me it is better to knock before you enter your sister's room, not carry or allow them to sit on my lap, report my cousins to my mom when they wear underwear and run around the house.
It is better.
It damn well is better for your mum to say don't sit on daddy's lap, as evil thoughts and fetish desires respects' no man and can happen at any time. especially when the young woman is ....... whatever.

asdfjklhaha:
Please Did I Commit Any Crime?

Ok so I came home cos we've closed for the semester. And in the evening I came into the living room and saw dad sitting on the couch watching TV so I sat on his laps. then mum walks in and pulls me by my ear and tells me never to sit on Dad's laps again.

I felt very bad and angry. did I commit any crime if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.

Sorry, I was to quote someone else

ohigus:
Shhhsshhh

Johnkay01:
Hmmm...

I want to ask questions too
Why did it take her so long to reveal this crime against humanity?

I heard she was even a chorister at the same church before, why was she comfortable serving God in the Church of raper?

Why now that she's having issue with COZA that she decided to spill the beans (that's if there's beans in her mouth at all)?

Something she claimed happen over 15 years ago, why now? Why not when you still worship with the Church? Why did you harbour such thing and still remain a chorister there?

I'm not just getting it at all.

As much as I hate rape I also hate false accusation.

I stand with the truth, let facts decide it in court not sentiment.

shut it if you're not getting it then

Praisesongz:
I’m looking for another word instead of SIFIA pain

lol, extreme distress

Bossjakande:
dear d rooms know am not a tribalism I only do DAT wen am provoked. d lady I attack keep using bad word against Yoruba.sometimes I beg her to stop sometimes I ignore her. but today I do DAT just so she feel d pain I always feel wen she attack my tribe. why dont she ignore wen DAT funmi girl can be a troll.but she answer her back cos dats wat on her mind. d hatred for Yoruba. I want to say bad against IBO but I know is wrong cos I got IBO friend in real life and in rooms.wat she say is d hatred she feel.I only use DAT so she know how I feel. she was a girl I truly see as friends DAT why I feel hurt. right now am going thru shit but dis d last thing I need. too many fake pole who call u friends but will stab ur back even in real life.

sometimes I read comments on nairaland, and am utterly shocked at the base childishness. Two female tribalists insulting each other made you insult the Igbo's, and you claim you have Igbo friends..
My friend tribe baiting and Insults are done by kids.
Read, shake your head and move on. I have all tribes as friends and don't come to insult them online like my life depended on it, over the action of kids.
Maturity is a virtue

I am shocked this is a thing, I mean my girlfriend bought me a new generator, a dining table and new curtains for my room.
And we didn't even discuss it like it mattered and she's a corper

I honestly have never done something like this ever, I mean chat a woman up on social media whom I don't know. even the idea of chatting up a woman for months seems stalkerish to me. Why are most men this depraved for goodness sake.

Yoruba's are making this election an Igbo vs Yoruba thing, 9 out of 10 Yoruba's are voting for buhari, and if you ask them why they will say atiku is a thief.
Pathetic

Okoyiboz3:
Please, for those crying for deep sea ports in their barren, muddy landlocked lands, go and ask your Governors to give you.

Hope you can see Aketi's plan for Ondo and the Lekki Deep Seaport in Lagos? Both are State projects.

The only thing your Governors can do is fight over naming of street from Abakaliki Street to Club street.

Your rant was unnecessary, It is still been proposed and may remain so till he leaves, God forbid though.. Check out the ORE industrial park project, Ondo Sea port and omotosho power plant, all these projects are still either been proposed or are not working to full efficiency....
Ondipa is still not doing as well as they should, hopefully the ORE industrial park project will kick off soon and really be a blessing to the sunshine State.

Asuokaa:
‘Okanku’ masquerade, Mask called 'Otili’, of Ohaffia tribe, Cross River (1931).

this is now present day Abia state