@poster

dont actually understand your post well but however i can say to you that all my friends are much more older than me and most or all of them dont know it because of the way i behave and speak and also i grew up amongst people older than me. i am also in a relationship with a woman same age as me. so you cn date whoever you like. its depends on u nd what u want.

Its very risky and difficult ooo to be honest. i am currently in one and have been in it coming up to 2yrs and in the 2yrs i have been to naija 4times just to see her. i trust her very well and much but sometimes i do worry hwen mabie i call her and she doesnt answer or she doesnt call me and i wont call becos she didnt. and i just take the lead and do the calling, call her everyday morning, afternong and night or 2wice a day. whatever she does i just accept it even thou am not happy with it but i just play cool as i no say na condition dey cause am. lol. if i was on ground she go arrange herself well well. sometimes alot of bad things just come to my mind like she might be with her riends in company of some guy or, she might be somewhere and lying to me. few other thoughts but i dont let it bother me. as i no wan die or get heart attack.

queeneve:

Axeman,

Can you live without intimacy for six months include NO SELF SERVICING?

if you know the kind of person i am then you will know that YES i can do without it. i have done it and still ding it .currently i am in uk and my woman is in naija and i wont be going back home till August ending. all i do is wake up in the morning, work, school, home and sleep.

@poster

thats interesting. i am currently with the woman that we both had a crush on each other back in the days in primary school and people and even her aunty used to call us husband and wife then as faith will have it, we met 2yrs ago again and we were both single and we hit it off from where we atarted and its been great so far apart from the usual ups and downs. lol.

@poster

ur guy is a jelous guy. thats interesting becos the other day my woman was accusing me of not being a jelous guy as i dont always complain or monitor her movements. and i just smiled and said i trust her to do what is right. and if she like let her misbehave i will surely find out any which way. no matter ow long.

@poster

very funny, for someone like me if my wife like let her deny me access for 6months sef i no mind, i go jst bury my head inside my work and my star which is one of the things i can do well and still cotinue to be happy. and i wont even ask her for intimacy neither will i cheat on her. denying intimacy is not a way of beating husband without touching him. for someone like me, it wont work.

interesting question.

i greet my woman good morning with either a hug or kiss or both  and sometimes, we say the traditional good morning. it just depends on whatever we decide to say to each other tthen. its not necessary to greet good morning, as there are several ways of saying good morning without sounding too ancient.

@maski

lol very funny, na so u like me reach,? andrew kini, forget that thing, i don branch for mulika place dis morning shak 10naira jedi , so i dey kampe to consume anything available. lol. me sef holy for some areas sha but no be for shakis level. lol

lol, very serious jokes, bunch of jokers. safe keeping indeed. the ones wey dem dey collect from tief kep under counter never safe not to talk of big ones for inside GMGS

@masky baba

for where oyinbo man sef fit collect black man money oo, so no shaking. afterall once na quality him produce na di koko be dat. lol no i no be night watchman ooo. i just dey relax for house jare. because by the time me i dey finish work dey come back house, you for don dey sleep, or still dey relax drink unwinde wht bottle of star or guiness. lol. efcc for where. dem must be kokings. when bigger fishes dey to fry. my own fish go hook dem for throat. lol. make you cook well well ooo becos na ur house i go chop, breakfast, lunsh and dinner together. so i dey fast till wen i enter your house. lol

@ice

a very good morning to you mysister, and i sure say u sleep well. thats good, since na oyinbo i trust say him go fit do the job to a very good standard, and also you sure na na correct oyinbo and no be afin ooo (albino). anyway make u enjoy ur day for work.

@maski

maski baba, haba i no say u no dey flog person for sleep, anyway if u like send all dem winch for lagos transformer go my area, i no mind as i currently no dey lagos and were i dey na 24/7day light dey no shaking, mega full current. so for now you are free to exercise your constitutional powers. lol. but just for limited time. as dem better dissaper b4 i land toehrwise na fire for fire. ooo.

@iliugunboy

yes oo e go better make you upload you dining table oo make we for see him abilitites and also make sister ice also upload pixs of her sofa or dinning table wey di guy do make we for take choose. ooo. as i wan person wey go fit do correct settee and dinning table for me.

whith the one inside gallon or inside tank at least u don use am. no worry i go bring the nepa guy come from vllage to come bring light, i go take palmine wine and bush meat with alligator pepper bring am come. lol.

@all

have a good morning at work. as for me i still dey house. time for work never reach.

@richtronix

noo this one we are on the same page and level. so i trust say him no go open him mouth anyhow and even if him do sef, i gat just 5months left in the company and uk anyway, make i go joint the race for naija. lol

the woman better go and make peace with her husband ooo, otherwise she is digging a thread for hatred becos the children when they grown up will hate her and grandmother for what they did by not allowing them grow up with a father.

the husband also needs to apologise to his wife and zip up his trousers and stop dumping refuse at anthing wearing skirts he sees.

its very wrong, for a mother to go and pack her daughters belongings out of the house for whatever reason. thats why they say dont bring a 3rd party into your marital issues or problems.

as i keep saying and will continue to do, most times i prefer to keep my cash inside my house at least no one know say money dey house. and i am guaranteed of its safety. inside safe for my house. or better still go and queue at the banking hall and collect money, since ATM has decided to go on a defrauding spree and no paymnt holiday. i revert back to the old method of banking.

@ilugunboy

pls accept my condolences ooo.

@ice

sister which one be carfenter again, na furniture maker we dey find jare. wey go make correct chair and dinning. lol.

@ilugunboy

in naija for now , nothing good last long. lol. eya sorry pele na wao u sef harsh ooo, na im be say u dey store diesel for house, you dey prepare for scarcity ? lol, anyway at least you take opportunity warm your gen up. lol.

@all

have a good night rest and till tomorow to hear about your nights. lol. i no wan hear say mosquito bite ooo, or maskuraid dey flog you for sleep ooo. lol.

wow very interesting responses indeed.

personally, i keep my head down and do my job and what is expected of me, when they are gossiping i just listen an smile and dont join them in talking at all. currently its on myself and one ghana guy in my whole dpt that talk regularly but never the less my days are nuumberd there as i will soon be checking out from there.

@maskuraid

i second that motion on ice and megatsu as well.

for my compound na the aboki dey gossip to me say haa, correct oga say allmy thing for house na new new. lol. and also apart from my landlord and me nobody sef get ac for house wey dey work. lol. but ac sef i no dey enjoy as light too low to even carry stabilizer not to talk of bulb before ac. lol. anyway sha na only me never get car but i go soon get so them must create parking space for me. and i just dey laugh as we go fight tire, i dey come house late and dey commot late, so either dem create special parkiing space for me or dem cope with am. me wey 3gp water tank collapse filled with water, everybody commot for housse go check, na only me no show face, dey inside house dey sleep, when full current dey, ac dey blow. lol

@megatsu

welcome to the house, you are highly welcomed. ol boy you try thomas lou loun.
i remembered when i had to go for my friends back eve in that area around badore . jesu kristi,  it was hell as the journey seems to never end as it was very very far coupled with the traffic before getting to that toll gate. return leg was worse, if i was going to ibadan i for don go and come back sef.  anyway good to hear say u dey enjoy the area, most houses for dere na newly built so all go still dey intact.

@ice

hmmm styrofoam abi na foam i no sabo that one all i know is that it is that white packaging wey dem dey use pack electronics for side so e no go damage na im i wan force break wey i nearly spoil am. e better make you call ac man to fix am, the one wey do my own sef i know say him gba me well well, and e bought a stabilizer 5k watt for 13k becos of the bad ligh and low current for my area, anytime the thing dey regulate, he just dey spark and i don call the guy but he say na so e dey do make i no worry. i just hope say na so e be because if di thing spoil or damage my prperty him go know say i no be nice or correct man at all say me sef na original kolo person. lol

Bunch of jokers. ajority of them are the culprit am sure if jonathan listens to them and probes looting. 99.9% of these so called PDP members will be found wanting.

@poster

its better to buy good quality paint and dont compromise. currently i dont know much about external but i just spent about 30k or 40k on pain to paint the internal of my house and to be honest it was nothing to write home about, just looking at it and you will know it was either bad paint and painted by none professionals, so now am looking to repaint the whole place againa with good quality paint without compromising on the price and get it done by a professional.