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Softgamer:
show ur pic if you no be crminal. let people judge

show my pic? To prove what? For a no-life like you? Whose existence isn't even worth the data expended on this dead thread?

Even a badly programmed Ugandan internet bot has a better IQ than you do.

And majority of you criminals find their ways into the force.

You need mental health analysis and then a job. You're just existing as an internet debris and being very cool about it.

Shameless whelp

Softgamer:
e pain am. criminal like u

this jobless empty skull is just looking for attention.

Shallow dog, how you no go call people when important pass your entire lineage criminal.

Delusional washed out, attentio-seeking idiot.

Softgamer:
98% of the people against sars are either criminals or cultist .
immediately sars was banned. crime rate increased. skull miners increased. arm robbery and cult killings increased.
when i went to the end sars protest. majority of the people i saw where either yahoo boys or cultist or arm robbers. there was no responsible looking person there

you must be a criminal in uniform. Shame!!!

nwekeugochukwu:
"To Be Stingy With Your Pastor Can Lead To Untimely Death"- Pastor Warns Members of Stingy Men Association of Nigeria

A Nigerian clergyman, Goodheart Val Aloysius, has warned members of the ''Stingy Men Association of Nigeria'' not to take their stingy traits close to their pastors, IgbereTV reports.

According to Pastor Aloysius, being stingy to your pastor can lead to an untimely death. He shared this opinion on his Facebook page.

His post reads;


https://www.facebook.com/100038855382867/posts/409097813728728/?app=fbl

worthless piexe of human waste. No go look for work.

I still blame the idle old fools doing Stingy Men Association.

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

you really talk too much it shows in your post here.

However, your husband may not be as heartless as you think given that he even wanted to make your marriage work and hasn't made a move to divorce you.

As for he not being moved by your tears....I will ask you; are you the type of woman who uses tears to manipulate and confuse a man?

If you have given your husband one fake tears before, then you have broken the tears-power ...maybe for good.

Also your coming here for advice is almost as bad as he seeking advice from native doctors.

Nairaland has nothing to offer you.

FactBoyz:
He is a rich simp. Probably richer than you... One fact: There are more rich simps than there are rich alphas. But that is no cause to act stupid cause of a lady.

how is one richer than anyone a point?

Africans and everlasting poverty mentality.

Dude doesn't even look biracial.

Until Nigeria police stop illegal stop and search operations, rogue elements in the force will continue to exploit it.

Mynd44:
What Nigerian men don't understand is that if you promise to marry a woman and you don't, the woman can sue you to court.

In Nigeria, a promise to marry is a legally binding contract and contrary to what you think, she can institute a civil suit against you, win and be awarded monetary damages.

But how it became a criminal case here is somehow maybe due to the financial investment involved

stop talking what you don't know and don't generalise your statements.

Promising someone marriage and declining to marry by itself isn't a legal matter except it is clear the party who promised marriage is shown to have falsely led the other on and caused her great suffering and wastage.

Hope you get the drift?

Omihanifa:
Nigerians don't value their own
The judge should have at least accorded him some respect based on his records and contributions to Nigeria football.

So much hypocrisy and religious bigotry in the north

so if he wasn't a successful footballer, then his hair will be shaved, he will be persecuted on his religious belief.?

Fahdiga:
If you believed this woman in first place then you need a brain surgery

one look at the video from the beginning you know she was lying and acting.

Watch closely when she feigns crying, she peeps into the camera lense

Now everything seems fake.....dude didn't pay 100k for sex....this is looking like a publicity stunt and that dude may not even be a doctor.

RPirez:
What victim, abeg? The guy na the victim here joor.

I'm making a general statement inference to that post I quoted.

I am not talking about this incident.

virginprincess:
Exactly, i don't hang out with people i don't know, come let go to so so so place? never, it better we stroll on the street than to go to an hotel, but our girls we never listen.

vast majority of rape victims are well acquainted with their assailants. Strangers hardly rape strangers.

virginprincess:
Exactly, i don't hang out with people i don't know, come let go to so so so place? never, it better we stroll on the street than to go to an hotel, but our girls we never listen.

vast majority of rape victims are well acquainted with their assailants.

So American justice system only needed a witness account to convict one for murder?

Misplaced idiotic youths. Sexual libido won't make you achieve anything. Plan your life and get a purpose.

Snake as pet is new and alien to Africa.


And I have found that Africans raised in Africa who keep snakes as pets are extremely wicked and insensitive and inhuman. Ask people in Enugu.

humilitypays:
Foolish girl...with what she carry for front and back, many guys will gladly dish out 1mil for her to shop freely as she wishes, but pride and unnecessary shakara no go let her......Naija ladies will turn down a rich dude for clout and to feel high/not cheap among their friends, and then go back home regretting, and u people say mama iwota possessing ladies no de real

that lady is a thief but you're worse....you're a debased fool, mentally porous and an organic idiot.

So she should prostitute instead of stealing. How's than an answer to her problem? ... I think she should live within her means and neither steal or prostitute herself because prostitution is same crime as stealing.

Insecure dweebs like you won't understand. Maybe you have some loose change but lack personality or charisma. Mumu

Frustrated007:
nah ashawo nah
She dey find abroad husband.
I don't know why she had to stress that she is single

All the loosers wey Don chop Nigeria money finish go begin pm her hoping to f**k her with their deep pockets.

reinventing olosho

I fail to see how her being single has anything to do with the post or its title.

Advertising her wares more than she's advertising Nigeria.

All nah for stupid publicity stunt...Weak PR

sreamsense:
Try to post authentic medical certificate from a reputable doctor that certified that your low intelligence has improved and change that you 'BadBrain' moniker to something that reflects your current cure of low comprehension confirmation, then, I may interact with you again and tell you to go back to previous post that showed your low intelligence to repost with your new status.

Otherwise, I may be wasting my time dealing with person of low level and badly damaged brain who can not even comprehend simple text! I don't usually have time like this, so let me save more time by temporarily adding you to my ignore list pending the time your improvement is confirmed. I need to cure more people like you who think with free MTN and Glo megabytes, they can just post rubbish to abuse authority that are labouring day and night to make them better. Honourable BadBrain-dley, be well soon!

At this point we have to flag a behavioural therapist to examine the morality and brain level of your chromosome donors.

A snake gives birth to his own kind. Your existence is still mockery to God's perfect gift of procreation which your parents evidently abused and blighted.

sreamsense:
"I stopped at the first line and ..."
Yes, I myself expected you may not have enough intelligence to understand the content especially when I saw your moniker "BadBradley", I sensed you might have "BadBrain" to comprehend. You proved me right for your low intelligence! What to do now is to wait for when your intelligence improves and your BadBrain gets repaired before coming back here to comment again. Nairaland is waiting for you! Wish you well soon! BadBraindley

if there was any doubt you're a brain-damaged , little insecure whelp who found the internet for consolation, this post of yours just killed it .

You're still mentally impaired to do damage control or understand the very turf you stand on.

You haven't even finished understanding yourself and your father or how he met your mother.

You're still what we call the irredeemable purge of nature.

sreamsense:
I should stop personalizing but you are quoting one person here. I have told you to come out with your own practical example and stop talking theory. Why is it that only people you see and have as friends are the one talking negatively about CU? Show me your friend and I will know whom you are! Like you, like your friend! You have lots of people with positive testimonies more than negative ones, yet only negative friends move with you.

Is something not questionable about your character? Anyway, to avoid being punished or what appear to you as curse, do one thing. Obey! Don't teach them what they should do or not, rather, adjust to their systems or tell your parents to change your school to non-despline schools . If you want to leave in Rome, learn to obey Roman laws and regulations, and don't expect Roman to change their laws to suit you.

this directionless waste of sperm thinks he's making a point.

Are you senile or stupid or both?

sreamsense:
...And you who know how to run university; why can't you float your own university and show us practical of how you will run your own well? Go back to work, work harder, raise money and setup your own university successfully first before coming back here to tell us your own success story. Theory is different from practical! You are still talking from poor man mentality. If wishes are riches, all beggars will ride best cars before night today

Show us how you train well your own children first in moralities (to be a blessing to society) before you even come here to talk about university administration. Many people who can not even raised their children well in moralities for better society will come here to talk and teach someone who has been a symbol of success and blessing to others around the world in his own way.

As few waywords are complaining, uncountable numbers of students are thanking God for helping them to pass through CU and now blessing to societies in their working places, private establishments, political space etc in moral, intelligence and characters. Those small percentage complaining are Judas Iscariots who became unturned cake at homes, schools and religion places after several attempts to repackage them for better society failed

I stopped at the first line and psychoanalyzed you as a complete waste of procreation and a spiritual zombie.

African pastors,most of them, can't decipher the difference between authority and power. They expect the same faith-based (blind) followership they enjoy amongst their members in churches to materialise even when they run a firm or company that is governed by statutes and secular rules. It doesn't mix.

But human waste like you can't see or know even if the facts were dangling in your Oyedepo-tuned nose!

Bold fool!

sreamsense:
The problem with contemporary young generation is that many of you were born into your families when morality vacated your family homes. Being strict is different from being wicked, he is discipling you as his own children so your future can be better, you are here ranting he is wicked.

Many of you just like places you will not be tamed so that you can do whatever you want like forming cult groups on campus, turning campus to Olosho house. If he is not strict and people still allow to do whatever they like, these spoilt rats will still come back here to complain and cast aspersions if any bad thing goes wrong with the school. Go to Catholic schools and see descipline, you these spoilt rats.

Your fathers get money, but lack morality, so when your fathers finally dumb you into CU as correctional center, you begin to misunderstand 'strictness' to ' wickedness' because your fathers failed to even show you '101' of moralities before you left for school because your families lack moralities in the first place. If you like to become wayward and hates descipline, no need of going there, go to federal and state universities and do what you like. Judas Iscariots!

Somebody is sweating to make you great, you call it wickedness! Spoilt rats! Go to volatile areas in North and ask for the meaning of wickedness!

from the African experience, most pastors don't know how to run anything other than churches.

From what the students are saying, I won't call it wickedness. What it is ignorance and incompetence. You don't run a university like that.

That's ignorance

vickydankal:
No insult intended please,
For example, if your father falls into the temptation of adultery would you publicize it on social media?

if one's father falls into a sin of immortality, that's different. My father isn't a public figure or taking responsibility for people's spiritual lives and their well-being.

A pastor has people who have entrusted everything to them, and believe them more than their own fathers and mothers. It is trite that they are worthy of such exhaled position to not only lead others astray but for they themselves to be strong.

What you're conversing for is not only stupid, it is demonic and very devilsh.

You want pastors to enjoy all the catches of being celebrities and pecks of being in charge of peoples' lives and controlling households but never to be held responsible.

You're a very dumb or dangerous person.

When you're successful in your line of work and career, you will be mysterious, unavailable naturally. You won't need to act it or play it.


Go and work and plan for your life, stupid kids and foolish adults fretting about what doesn't matter.


Stupid and shallow idiots everywhere who want to be king of girls and failures in life.

We must condemn armed robbery and kidnapping with very strong measures.

However there's something wrong with black people in authority. There's always the urge to use power absolutely and carelessly.

Only the court of law can deny a person the right to own property, not the government or police or army.

It is not the responsibility of a landlord to account for his tenant's behaviour. He can report criminal activities but not to monitor his tenants and be held accountable for their way of life except he's directly complicit.

These situations create all manner of excuses for police and military to target innocent people and government to target their polical rivals via self-help.