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Her actions would tell.

Sounds like "Home Video" to me. Wish them luck and take a hike. You dont need such people around you.

@Dremoney, Kpele o! e bi like say ee pain you nor be small! such is life. Happy we have all moved on.

More stupid thing pple,

anorther one on my part was working and giving my whole salary to my then boyfriend cuz he was broke and out of work at the time. I really wanted to make him happy, cuz if he was then i would be too. He would take my money and still shun me

Many more to come pple, lets keep it flowing,

It takes two to tango, it took the boy and the girl to get the girl pregnant, why abandon her later? even in situations where she has removed her womb in the process. He should still marry her. They took the decision together. There should be no excuses.

Love is patient and kind,
Love is not jealous or conceited or proud,
Love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable,
Love does not keep a record of wrongs,
Love is not happy with evil,
Love is happy with the truth,
Love never gives up its faith, hope and patience never fail.
Love is, Eternal

For more, go to your bible!!!
If we can love like this, i bet there would be peace in the world today.

Haba! whats so wrong in dating a fat babe? Thats what he likes so let him be. Are fat babes not human beigns? They have got soul, blood, fluid, veins, lungs and the like. I really hate your type, really do! Who says the skinny/slim boy and girl match is the best.

@Dremoney, feel free to share the gist, afterall i told you all mine. No two aside. Just yarn am as e be. I dey wait o!

Baby boy, I had to go and look at your profile first before commenting (unfortunately i didnt get any useful info). O! boy are you for real. I thought God had stopped creating  men like you. Wake up and smell the coffee. That girl is not yours ok. Please in heaven's name stop using the word LOVE. What you feel is not love pls. Love is not INSANE, IT DOES NOT CAUSE PAIN, LOVE IS MEANT TO BE PURE NOT CUNNING.  Am so mad at you for beign a softy on this issue.  Please fix your car and give it to your Dearest sister, who will love you forever ok.

The girl (wouldnt use the word BABE for her, cuz she is not one) should go and meet a sugar Daddy to buy her a car, if thats what will make her happy. She nor get Papa wey go buy for her?
You donot need this hassle, go get yourself a good understanding babe. Dump her sorry ass.

Please learn from this experience that you dont have to promise a woman heaven and earth to get her to go out with you. Just be real, give and only promise what you can deliver. The whole idea is to get to know her. LEARN FROM THIS PLEASE

@Bigjay, am not defending the gal. Am just stating the obvious. Thats how some guys behave!! it might not be the case this time around but i doubt it anyway.

@dremoney,
Trusting a woman, the gist nor complete now, afterall nor be trust dey make us do the stupid thing before. Finish the tory abeg!!

whats the big deal, just ask for the number!!!! no funny games speak simple and correct english.

Am sure you saw it in her before you went ahead to date her. Why complain now? or are you tired of collecting your share, if you get what i mean.

A lot of guys see these qualities in a woman and still go for her. After satisfying themselves sexually, they come up with funny excuses. My dear am not going to say leave her, you laid your bed so lie in it.

@dremoney,

Haba! so you think i have been negative!! i dont think so. If you read thru the thread you would see i was trying to make her see sense but she was so hurt and couldnt, so i asked her to probably leave him if it will make her feel better. Will try to be more positive next time. Point noted.

"ode    it means his really missing you abi what else does he mean!!! shoi"

@omo eko, remember your words so there you go. you started it. Do not give what you cannot take. Am not an ode for starting this thread, its for laughs if you feel too knowledgeable to comment, then i guess you should take a HIKE!!!!

@Ruudie,

You are taking it too personal o! haba! are you guilty as charged?

some people are missing the point here. Am not talking about my boyfriend ok. Am talking generally. So don't refer me back to him. Of course i know what he means when he tells me. I donot need to disclose that in public. Its a general question not personal.

@Kike,@wa do mi very funny! if you notice the trend here, the guys are trying to say it doesnt mean sex, but the galz are saying it does. Why? i guess its because guys use it ("AM MISSING YOU OR I MISS U) more often than babes so they are beign defensive.

@WA DO MI,
why that name very freaky!

Am confused here, you know him better so you should know exactly what he means. If he has been putting you down all along, then talk about how he makes you feel, tell him you dont like it. Or better still, develop a thick skin, people will always have something to say about your looks. What if you were in "WARRI" or "BENIN" you for just go bury yourself then. People from that area can kill with their mouth and probably dont mean to. If you cannot cope with his bad mouthing you break up with him.

@omo Eko,
Ode ni e!!! it must mean something!!! use your brain if you have one

very funny story. Mental illness and case close, naija 4 life!!!! he did what had to be done simple. There maybe consequencies, who knows. I give your friend hand o! his actions simply shows she did not truely love him. If she did she would have stayed. Love is blind abi!

Giving "HIM" my virginity and truely believing we would get married someday. As if that was not bad enuff i travelled all the way to his school (without permission from my mum) to ask why he was not calling me with a cake and birthday card for him.

If you must know, it was meant to be a "HIT AND RUN JOB" poor me!!

When your man (meaning a guy you are having sexual relationship with, your boyfriend or lover or even your husband) tells you "I MISS YOU" or "AM MISSING YOU" what does he really mean?

I have had this discussion with my mates and we came up with all sorts. Some said he means your friendship i.e. talking to you, your laughter, the way you talk, your attitude etc
Others say he means your body, making love to you, cuddling, kissing etc

In your opinion, what does he really mean??

Your face looks old!!! that is completely his opinion you have your own opinion right! babes i think you have low self esteem. You obviously enjoy good compliments. If you are sure of yourself then it wouldnt bother you like this. The face is old and he still loves you! whats there? we are all not perfect, even the said TONI BRAXTON you earlier mentioned is not. Am sure his body isnot perfect too. If it will make you feel better mention his to him ok.

I always call a spade a spade. For those of you advising her to get concrete evidence first before she acts, am sorry for you all. Have you heard of circumstantial evidence? Its not in every case that you must have concrete evidence before you proceed for trial. The evidence she has is enough and she knows it herself. Did not want to join issues here anymore but when i read through, i had a good laugh i had to point this out. You can only forgive those who have come to you for forgiveness. this dude is not repentant and would never be.

He might not mean it in a bad way. Only trying to tell you something is wrong with the way you look. Maybe its your skin, or hair style or even make up since you say you were dressed in a chic way or maybe he thought the style didnt suit you. Check yourself am sure its not out of spite. My boyfriend has called me fat before and i definately was getting fat. He tells me when my make up is rubbish likewise i tell him when his mouth is smelling or when he looks like a prisoner (hair all over) thats why you are friends. The truth can be bitter. If he cant tell you then who would? if you are slim maybe you have become too skinny for him hence looking dried up and all bones. Dont take it personal ok. Ask him exactly what he means.

Cheer up missy!!!!

@Ijogbon

Hello, how u dey? Guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!! had a chat with my boyfriend yesterday, it went well. He is going to get groomed today, the hair, beards, nails etc am so happy he is even going to a spa. I just hope he keeps it up not a one off thing. Thanks so much. Now i have my own shine shine bobo!!!!! he practically laughed at me when i said i was digging Mr. Goregeous (he knows me too well). As for Mr. Goregeous, i have deleted his number and thats final.

Thanks to all those that contributed one way or anorther.

In china there is a saying "Men go bad when they are rich, but women need to go bad to be rich".

@ikomi, i like that saying

@dremoney, thanks for understanding, didnt mean to come out at you like that. Sorry!

Baby girl,

I hope it will end there. DRINK AND THATS ALL. No coming up for COFFEE!!!!

@luxiore

So sad this has to happen now. Just when you were considering moving in with him. Babes, its a very wrong move. There is and there should be nothing like a trial marriage. I know its not a biggy in london but trust me on this, it hardly ever works. Ask youeself this: whats the relationship success rate in london; especially between cohabiting couples? Back to the issue, i think he is cheating!!!! simple and short. What reason has he got to sneak into town without your knowing it. Like you said your cousin has no reason to lie. I think you should break up with him. Hanging on is a waste of time. If you do not break up this time around you would eventually cuz he would misbehave again. You were right to trust him but he betrayed that trust.
Do it now and move on. Time is of essence you will only get hurt the more.

Really sorry for your pain babes, thats just how it is. You seem to be a very easy going babe, no frontin and all, not to worry you would meet your perfect match ok.

@dremoney,

Exchange of gift between couples is not beign materialistic ok. It only goes to show you appreciate the other party. Its not compulsory its a gesture. We are not all the same ok. SO you want to date a girl for years without giving a gift (It could even be taking her to a resturant for lunch) na you cheap pass in that case.

materialistic girls are the ones that date you for your money basically. There is a big difference.

@Aloofa,

You are right. They ought to have been consistent. I didnt notice too. Good on you!
Dont mind those criticising you. It only goes to show you know what you are doing. Why should we be glad we got an ad like that things are getting better indeed. Things ought to be better than what it is today. Lets wait for outsiders to commend us (Nigerians) not us commending oursleves. That way we will never move forward. Hence INSIGHT COMMUNICATION SHOULD TAKE NOTE.