I would not start the blaming game here cuz the harm has already been done. Its obvious that your Ghanian chick wants marriage and nothing else. She used the pregnancy as a trap for you. Lets pray and believe that she loves you very much. My dear, work on the relationship o! you have to take responsibility for your action which is the unborn child. Whether you want it or not, the truth is she is not going to have an abortion so get ready to be a baby father or a husband whichever one you pick you are Trapped mate!

You cannot abadorn the baby even if you do not want the mother anymore, the child is innocent of all skirming acts of the mother. I know it would not be easy for you to do now, but there is always a way where it seems there is none. Try and be objective about the whole situation and stop saying you do not want the child. Face reality, she is having the baby.

Good luck!!!!

If you say a foot massage after a hard days job, am GAME!!!! dunno about the other touch touch!!

Never ask her for a Mouth Gig when you are not ready to give a head.

@poster

NO LOVE WITHOUT ROMANCE, the Romance can come in form of gifts, taking her out to wine and dine etc those really make the relationship rossy. It could be both ways of course. So where these are lacking my dear i doubt that kind relationship o!

Man wey wan carry woman himself get to HOLD him side well o!

@tomx

Brother! i was not ticked-off and neither was i venting ok. Just expressing my view.

[b]Guys, some of you make it sound like women are dull. like the last poster here tomx. Give us a break. Guys do exactly the same. They act all confused and dejected and expect you to know how best to pump their confidence without them saying exactly what their fears are. They tell you they love you and go back and sleep with another woman also claiming to love her.

Talk about women collecting money from guys!!!! i do not mean to sound rude but SOME GUYS ARE GOLD DIGGERS TOO (male Monicas) especially guys of this generation. The sleek, babe with a good paying job, nice ride, etc even if she looks exactly like Jezebel is the bomb. Just because she has some change to spare. Its our right to be spoilt by guys. Its only manly for guys to pay the bills after a days trip. When a woman starts paying it spoils the fun. But i guess am just talking rubbish cuz majority of the babes i know, myself inclusive do not get that kind of treatment from guys its always the other way round. They would spend your money, sleep with you and break your dear heart into millions of tiny pieces. Talk about taking advantage!!!!!

Like i said earlier, i have absolutely nothing to learn from you guys cuz i have been there and done that and it still boils down to the same RUBBISH!!!! even married women will tell you the same. the fact they are married does not mean that the guy is the perfect guy. Perfect does not exist.

All am saying is that you may list this and that, but when you finally meet a woman that complies you would still mess her up with one excuse or the other.[/b]

Let me get this straight like a good student, willing and able to learn.

Men want women for TLC (sex), they want us to be more caring and loving, to be understanding, not be a nagging B~~~~, give them space/freedom to do whatever and go whereever their balls directs and the like.

correct me if am wrong o!

I bet alot of women have done all the above yet they end up with BULLSHIT
The painful truth is this: GUYS DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. Am sorry ladies, WE CANNOT HELP THEM.

I feel u!!! but sometimes its best to call it quits. The explanation for the lack of connection is boredom. Both parties are bored, waiting for the other to make the first move in calling it quits.

Morally, i would say no. If you are principled, religious and all that but , temptation full ground o! when he is just your type of hype!!!!! leave story for Mathias o!

I thought they said once you get married the sex goes out the window!!!!!!!!! so wats with all the sex talks here in relation to marriage?

OBA ATOKPEHE!!!! my Edo Peeps. Am from Owan west (sabogidda-Ora)
I greet you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@poster

If you do no check your tenses she would most likely do it again, till she finds one who writes perfectly unlike you and dump you for GOOODDDD!!!!

Been there done that: Its possible big time!!! even three. You will love them differently though, each in his own unique way!!!!

A friend's ex actually broke up with her cuz according to him "her breast was too strong"

Another one: your mum does not like me

This story is just too messy. Tell your friend to take a time out and think. He should stop reasoning with his balls. He should get away from this girl for a while and think. I personally think he is beign used. How can he be so blind. A DNA should answer the question of paternity nothing else. He should get ready and get it done ASAP. How can a naija boy be this foolish!!!! i cannot explain it. Love is not meant to be stupid but rational. I beg him to THINK HARD O!!! Doesnt he have a family? cant they talk or the issue or something. His babe is a schemer a big one. Most women can be but it takes a smart guy to know it and act fast.

Please i need a two bedroom flat/house in Anthony, Lagos for rent. Rent should not be more than 250k/300k per annum pls. If you know of any let me know.

Lots of guys are after me!!!! na wa o! who for dey after you before?? na babes you want

You are sixteen sweetheart, i do not expect this kind of question from you. You should have finished your secondary school or even be in your first year in uni by now. I expect you to be smart. Not coming online to ask a dumb question. Sixteen year olds out there these days are smarter than this. You have friends, whom i believe are going through the same thing. You guys should talk about it and laugh. Do not take them seriously at all cuz they have nothing to offer you but SEX. A boyfriend should be the last thing on your mind now. You should focus more on your education. What you want to study etc. Men will always come, ignore them till you are old enough to handle them. They would want to buy you the world, tempting babes! but remember a gift from the devil comes with a price. Its never an enjoyable one. Be cautious, do not get carried away by all the flashy stuff, be well grounded. Talk to your folks or older siblings ok.
All the best.

@lovesaint,

How can you come online and advertise your illegal business? are you for real am shocked at what i just read. You want to give Nigerians SA passports. God help your soul when you get caught. Do you realise that you are among the thousands of Nigerians complicating issues for Nigerians home and abroad. For a babe to be involved in such, its so unlady like. Get another business cynthia and leave this doggy one. You can do better.

@Seun

Why do you allow such you should ban such adverts pls. There is one for visa appointment for N15,000. Look into these Seun pls

SO who gets married to such guys/babes since we all can't?

SO who gets married to such guys/babes since we all can't?

ruescho:

OK, maybe all of u are allrite, but tell me one thing:

WHY DOES EVERYTHING IN NIGERIA -EVEN RELATIONSHIP - END UP IN THE QUESTION FOR MONEY

By the way: I did not write this, but I even pay for her telephone bill!!!

P.S. I started a new thread concerning this question.
You find it here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-75809.0.html#msg1446373

Thats a funny question[color=#990000][/color] Nigeria is a 3rd world country. Poverty is at its peak. Our economy is next to nothing. Go to another 3rd world country and u will see that the same thing happens there. MONEY TALKS BULLSHIT WORKS!!!!

Couldn't help but laugh at some of the comments. Very funny. I would agree with Mandora to a large extent though. But i persoally think the best combination is EDO/DELTA. why they are a combination of WAZOBIA. They have the Igbo trait, (taking full responsibility of their women), Yoruba trait (groove specialist, can tripp from today to tomorrow) and the hausa trait (gentle and generous) all in different proportions which makes them the BEST. If u never try them u dey miss o!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BENDEL FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you not the one- Daniel Beddingfield

She should place her priorities right. what does she really want? marriage or just a fling? those jamos are mostly up to no good. Great sex though!!! thats all she would most likely get out of it.

She should place her priorities right. what does she really want? marriage or just a fling? those jamos are mostly up to no good. Great sex though!!! thats all she would most likely get out of it.

Move on big time. Shows how small minded they are in that family. Will thank God am not going there. There is nothing as bad as dealing with small minded individuals.