I work in a leasing company. We can be of help. Is it you that wants it personally or is it your company? there are some criteria you have to meet. You do understand lease i hope. We buy the truck(new we don't buy second hand) we give it to you and you pay monthly rent and VAT on it and after the lease term it becomes yours (direct finance lease). send me a mail if you are interested. lecon@yahoo.com (Attention Bebe).

@wham,

Thanks for the tip. Do you know how much a shop will cost (rent) in Wuse II. Its very good if she can get one around there. As for Garki II dunno about the light situation there. Is it as bad as Area 11. I know rent can be very high in Abuja, dont want to saddle the business with extra expenses. She wants the salon to be in Abuja town. More suggestions pls

@Ijogbon,

U are too kind. Nice move! it really goes to show you are a player (a retiring one i hope). I really like the strategy, did think of introducing them earlier but Mr.Gorgeous would not hear of it. He warned me. My boyfriend on the other hand might not even notice. He is that type of person. If i could i would introduce them definately but unfortunately i cant. It really wouldnt make a difference. I can discuss it with my boyfriend definately infact he knows i like people to really clean up (the grooming and all that) but he is not the type, i met him the way he is, became friends for quite a while and finally fell in love with him. I think i can live with his ways definately, i can't change who he is. Besides, i have dated the likes of Mr.Gorgeous before and it landed me no where. I will do my home work (that is getting him groomed), slowly but surely! he probably wouldnt notice he is changing but he definately would.

Thanks mate, a very nice move.

@nurexg and @luxoire,

How are you guys? sorry i left just like that yesterday. Na work cuz am.  Have you picked someone now?


@ Nurexg, u said one cooks, the other gives advise, the third i wouldnt consider if i were you cuz of the difference in religion or how you check am?

As for the cook, it depends o! if na food go bring happiness to you then go ahead but i prefer the one that gives advise find out why she is very busy, is it work or anorther guy? if its work then its no problem. She is hard working she wouldnt be a liability on you. Besides you too will be busy working so that would be a perfect match. It seems she is the sensible one amongst them i guess. Na so i c am o!

@luxoire,

U are one funny sista!

@poster,
when i said intimate i meant sex. Sorry i misunderstood yours ok. So you are just giving them time and affection!!! omo u are enjoying the whole attention. Please do yourself a favour, decide soonest so that you do not get to have SEX with the three of them ok.

There are babes like that o! When i was in school there was this girl that wanted to crucify me cuz her Boyfriend was gisting with me. She almost tore the guy apart. I later heard that it was a usual thing for her o! that she would go to his house whenever he misbehaved, break all his cds, tear his clothes, hit him hard all over even his PRIVATES! his neigbours will all come out to beg. Imagine!!! the bobo will just be calm and they will make up later. I know its wrong to hit a woman but my dear, i go so slap her! she go forget her name sef.

Babes like that are better left on their own o! the primary cause is inferiority complex. They need to work on their self esteem. Most of them lack confidence!

Its a very messy situation. From experience i have come to see that only GREEDY gals fall into such trap. Why in Heavens name would you willingly date a married man and agree to be second wife. Well like they say, Tell the truth and it shall set you free. She should come clean to the married guy and say the truth. If he truely loves her(wonder what kind of love it is anyway) he would understand and let her go. It might be a messy break up but nothing beats telling the TRUTH at all times no matter what. She has to dance to the tune of the "makosa" she put herself in, then in the mornging comes hope and sunshine. thats life for you o!

i think you are really bothered about this girl. What are you afraid of? forget her thats all everyone will tell you. If you can't you will definately get hurt again. Your frienddhip with her was a bad one. Good rediance to bad rubbish. You will make new and better friends ok.

A friend is looking to open a beauty salon in abuja. Can nairalanders in Abuja suggest very good locations. I mean areas that will sell. Nice and posh for such business in Abuja town.

I would refer you to the Thread: WHY DUMP YOUR FRIENDS FOR A LOVER. Go read through your problem is similar ok. Give her, her much deservered space. Its her loss! It hurts but what can you do?

Its already intimate!! my goodness you are one randy guy. How can you be sleeping with three people at the same time. Thats really DIRTY. You need HELP!!! my advice is completely irrelevant now cuz i dont know what to tell you. You are hurting those girls if you do not know, know it now. You guys always think sleeping with a girl is just a physical thing. Honey, its not so for us. Its 100% emotional. We only pretend that we do not care or send, we are having fun as the guys are. The truth is, it hurts like mad. Put your selfish self in their shoes and see how it fits. REPENT MY BROTHER REPENT!!!!

Am so sorry. Wish you had known earlier. My advice is not to marry this girl ok. I know people have said the chances of having a sickle cell baby can be controlled or monitored these days unlike in the past. My question is this CAN YOU AFFORD IT? its easier said than done.If you live in naija you would know that we do not have free health care system like NHS in England. Every penny is from your pocket. Another point, HOW COMFORTABLE WOULD YOUR WOMAN BE: WHEN IT COMES TO FLUSHING THE CHILD OFF EACH TIME ITS SS someone told me a story recently about a couple just like your case, AS and AS. They have been married for 4yrs now. She got pregnant a few times and they had to get rid of the baby cuz it was SS. She was not comfortable with that at all. It has affected her psychological and she can't seem to get pregnant again. They have been trying now for 2yrs.

Why go through such hassles when you can marry someone else and live a normal happy, Hospital-free, Doctor poking free life. You must think very hard i beg of you.

Its not strange but such things happen. I had a dilemma like this once, 2 guys in love with me very nice etc and guess what? i ended up with none of them.They were both wrong for me. These three women may all be wrong for you depending on your priorities. What is it you really want in a relationship? is it food, then stick with the cook, good adviser, etc. Give it time its not a biggy, time would tell at least thats what worked for me. In due time they would show themselves. But pls, dont have any intimate relationship with any of them o!!! it will complicate things. Someone will be hurt at the end of the day. Just be straight so you can reason with your head and not your BALLS even if you have slept with any of them before, stop now its not too late.

@soliq55 or whatever d name is,

Thanks for your comment. I wanted to hear other peoples opinion, i was really infatuated ok. Its not like i just wanted guys to waste their time. Dunno why you felt that way, maybe because your location is MIDDLE EARTH i guess.LOL

@ijogbon,

How are u mate? am ok. Decided to stick with my man, so no worries about that. Blocking Mr. Gorgeous from my memory and avoiding him completely. Thanks for asking. hp all is well with you.

Sorry babes, there is absolutely nothing you can do to help her. She has to make up her mind not to see the guy again. If she is not willing, let her be you have played your part. Just be there for her when she comes back to her senses. Thats what any good friend should do you can't force her and dont say i told you so when its over just be nice. I know you will probably be saying you will never do such(i.e. date a married man) NEVER SAY NEVER O! You probably dont know how it started.

RAYMOND,

sorry they missed yours. Let me help you out. RAYMOND- Short and full of himself.
That should do i guess. LOL

Why is everyone talking about the Lady? Guys can you marry a poor lady? i need to know. There has been a lot of scheming going on by guys these days when they want to pick a wife/gal friend its always the ones that are not liabilities the financially stable ones (very common with youruba guys)some of them are not embarrased to collect money from their women. What do you call that? Diamond DIGGING NOT gold DIGGING ABI! It goes to show that nobody wants a poor person (babe/guy). So stop accusing us guys!!!

@Poster,

where are you from? maybe Benue or Calabar abi! of course there are 30yrs old and above virgins around, could give you a list. I certainly cannot say for the above mentioned states though. Its not written on foreheads so you wont know one when you see her, if you EVER get there then you will KNOW.

Mens names and what he’s really like……
Just might be true. Enjoy! (www.hotspot.co.uk)

Adam- Gay, thinks he’s better looking than he is, very feminine.

Adrian- Usually short and very Hot, watches cartoons

Alan- Shy but sensitive, gets screwed over by women

Alex- Cute and short but a liar and a cheat

Andrew- Gay and still has a small Pecker!

Anthony- Great guy and kind to all galz, smells of weed

Arnold- Loser

Arthur-Hung like a slave and celibate

Barry-Lights fires, pinches girls bottoms and is well hung

Ben- Funny and can be real difficult to beat at games

Bob- Quiet and unpopular, eats with his hands

Brad-Thinks everyone likes him…, but they don’t

Brendan- Quiet and sweet, gets beaten up all the time

Brian- Mean and only thinks of himself, no he’s not the messiah he’s just a naughty boy

Bruce- Stinks bad and thinks everyone else’s name is also bruce

Carl- Fat and smelly, usually goes for girls fatter than him

Chris- Cant pull, will pay for women, but has a huge pecker and can use it too

Clark- Hilarious and always in trouble, problem with “jailbait”

Craig- Tries to fit in-he never does

Cyril- Well, Cyril

Damon-Total loser in a sweaty sort of way

Dane-Weird but can hold together a conversation with a mermaid

Daniel-Likes fine figured women, in reality goes for fat birds who he works alongside due to tiny penis

Darren-Rampant love god, all round top bloke (a must have for all women)

David-Simple folk born in barns, would be a rapist and a drunk

Dean-Full of himself and thinks with his dick

Dennis-Either very nice to girls or a gay

Derek- Has a great mummy, and blow-up doll collection

Dominic-Hilarious and will do anything to please

Doug-Has a greasy face, drinking problem and warts

Dylan-Hot bastard, who cant sing

Eddie-Wants too many chicks he will never get cuz he is an arsehole

Eric-Shy

Evan-A little slow but sweet, sexy and a model mental patient

Frank-Different- missing DNA-Favours girls named Lucy

Garreth-Sweet but dresses too good to be straight

Gary-Drug addict but willing to share

Gavin-Likes bondage, S&M with other men

Geoff-Prefers golf to sex and war to peace

George- Barman who drinks more than he sells

Graham-Very hard to understand, likes group sex

Grant-Hot!! But so sweet and you can talk to him about anything.

Greg-Really sweet and feels sorry for himself
Howard-Likes small breasted women and porn!

Ian- Thinks all the galz want him, but isn’t due to facial warts….

Jake-Shy and sweet but a slut when drunk

Jamie-Likes small boys with big willies

James-Organized and can be romantic

Jeff-Really ugly

Jeremy-Loud and thinks that he’s all that he says he is

Jack- Stupid but hot, always right

Jimmy-Sweet, has fantasies of love and affection

Joe-Built like a bear, sexy but tends to lose his head

John-Has no friends or life, tends to kill small animals

Jonathon-Likes small boys

Josh-Full of himself, Fun!!!!

Justin-Aggravating but lovable, insecure but successful

Kevin-Can never get a girlfriend

Keith-Good person to talk to when you have a problem- he is a worse!
Kenneth-Very, very…. anything you want him to be

Larry-Cute but wannabe player with big ass

Liam- Loud mouthed arsehole, normally found in rock bands and pubs

Luke-Seems to be sweet-Luke Solomons exactly!

Malcolm-Tall man who tends to lose his trousers

Mark-Wished girls liked him for who he is not his great looks, mouthy bastard though!

Matt-The fat boy of the class, likes sweets and full of shit

Mike-Very good looking but he will do anything for a girl,  which is totally sweet

Nathan-Stupid as hell and wears girls’ knickers

Nik-Cant get past the missionary position though

Oliver-Likes men but he is in denial

Owen-Cute guy who is immature, and sings welsh songs

Patrick-Drunk, drunk, drunk

Paul-Cool, calm and handsome, a quality only found in gays

Peter-Cutie but very shy, makes women feel like virgins

Philip-Stupid idiot who wishes he were cool.

Rick-Ugly shithead who everybody hates

Richard-Can’t stop wanking and more wet dreams than anybody

Rob- Tall and ugly……… everybody hates him. Not a boob man

Ross- Total loser and computer genius

Russell-Likes to play in the leaves, which makes him an arsehole

Ryan-Short but sexy body and even sexier mind

Sam-Birds love him, great in the sack

Scott-Has serious disabilities

Sean-Has small testicles and no friends, usually accident-prone and thinks he is hard

Shane-Thinks everybody wants to shag him and he is a virgin

Simon-Likes a night out with the lads and curries. Wears extra large clothes cuz of weight problem

Steve-Popular, but bald with shiny red nose

Stuart-Droll guy with great arse and suicidal tendencies

Tim-Hot but a bit strange, can never tell where he is

Toby-Bastard

Tom-Cool but can be arrogant

Trevor-Sweet and funny but sometimes untrustworthy

Warren-Cool, fat homosexual guy

Will- Wishes he were popular

Am capricorn too 16th jan. Lucky to be one cuz we are very strong, very determined and loyal people.

For the best relationships we get along with Taurus, Virgo and Aquarius.

@Cute-ass,

Just want to say thanks for your comment. Really well thought of. Its her loss like you guys said. Thanks also for putting ARIKKY straight at least you saved me the trouble. Dunno where she got hers from. Been reading your other comments on other threads and i think you are a very smart girl. Do keep it up. Thanks mate!!!!

Poor you! better leave her alone. Its too late ok.

Somking is only a bad habit it doesnt make you a bad person. We all have our bad habits, if smoking is hers then so be it. Go ahead and date or even marry her there is nothing there. You can advice her to stop though if it really bothers you but do not leave her cuz of that. The next one might have something worse than SMOKING how about STEALING

A lot of people get bored, i get bored too but you just have to keep at it. Try other ways to spice up the relationship. Sometimes things just happen naturally and the spice bounces back. If the guy is not making any effort, you do your part, he would follow your lead after a while.Its absolutely Normal to be bored after a while. Its not a biggy but what you do when you are thats what counts.

@Ijogbon,

Apology accepted.

You got me cracking up in the office. Do not let them give me query o! its so funny.

Keep it up such a comic relief. dont mind those dry pple trying to stop you. I bet they dont love and respect their mothers more than you do. silly things!!

Christian One Liners

Don't let your worries get the
best of you; remember, Moses started
out as a basket case.

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Some people are kind, polite, and

sweet-spirited until you try to sit in their pews.

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Many folks want to serve God,

but only as advisors.

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It is easier to preach ten sermons

than it is to live one.

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The good Lord didn't create anything
without a purpose, but mosquitoes come close.

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When you get to your wit's end,

you'll find God lives there.

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People are funny; they want the front

of the bus, the middle of the road, and

the back of the church.

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Opportunity may knock once, but temptation
bangs on your front door forever.

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Quit griping about your church;

if it was perfect, you couldn't belong.

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If the church wants a better pastor,

it only needs to pray for the one it has.

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God Himself does not propose to judge

a man until he is dead. So why should you?

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Some minds are like concrete
thoroughly mixed up and permanently set.

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Peace starts with a smile.

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I don't know why some people
change churches; what difference does
it make which one you stay home from?

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A lot of church members who are singing

"Standing on the Promises"

are just sitting on the premises.

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We were called to be witnesses,

not lawyers or judges.

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Be ye fishers of men. You catch

them - He'll clean them.

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Coincidence is when God

chooses to remain anonymous.

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Don't put a question mark

where God put a period.

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Don't wait for 6 strong men

to take you to church.

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Forbidden fruits create many jams.

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God doesn't call the qualified,

He qualifies the called.

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God grades on the cross, not the curve.

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God loves everyone, but probably prefers
"fruits of the spirit" over "religious nuts!"

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God promises a safe landing,

not a calm passage.

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He who angers you, controls you!

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If God is your Co-pilot - swap seats!

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Prayer:

Don't give God instructions -- just report for duty!

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The task ahead of us is never as
great as the Power behind us.

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The Will of God never takes you to
where the Grace of God will not protect you.

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We don't change the message,

the message changes us.

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You can tell how big a person is

by what it takes to discourage him.

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The best mathematical equation

I have ever seen:
1 cross + 3 nails = 4 given.

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May this bless you in a profound way today. Enjoy!!!!

I would recommend the LEFT BEHIND SERIES (1-12) its captivating!!! you would not drop it for a minute. Try Frank Peretti's novels too. "THIS PRESENT DARKNESS" and many more

If u love this guy, try to help him by talking about it. Be open about how you feel. If he is reasonable he would open up and you guys will sort things out. If its something you both cannot settle get professional help. E.g if its premature ejagulation doctors can help you out there. All the best o!

Am taking another dimension here. If your babe cheats on you there is obviously a reason. Stay and find out what you are doing wrong and learn to correct your mistake. she probably would not do it again if you correct your mistake.

If your boyfriend cheats on you he obviously has no reason to do so.LOL just being a dog that he is anyway.

Seriuously, i would want to know why he did it probably am doing something wrong.Sometimes its true, you are probably in the wrong. BUT MOSTLY ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.

@cute-ass,

Does cooking really count?? what if she has other good qualities besides that? would you flee?

@Poster,

I would say a soulmate, someone you get along with. You share similar interest, ambitions and the like. A good home maker.