janami:

@cybersleek
i wish that i can date my brother, probably has smtg to do with growing up among girls, but i have never met a guy that respects girls the way that he does

So very true, my younger brother is exactly like that. How i just wish!!!!

@poster i agree with you 100%

@poster

Please try and see this other guy. You may get to like him if you do give him a chance. Just try him out. Am not going to condemn you for falling in love with this married man, its possible he had gone to far with his girlfriend then and as such couldnot call off the wedding because he fell in love with you. There are so many marriages like that in the world today. Its not impossible for this married man to love, i wouldnot doubt. All i know is that very few men can call off a wedding simply because they have fallen in love with anorther. They would just go ahead and marry so that they would be peace. A good example is our dear Prince Charles!!! A married man can still love anorther!!!!!! baby gal, try this new guy and get on with your life even if you are still in love with the married man, just do the proper thing ok.

The case has closed. Havent got any contributions just want to say i like your response BLUEBAND!!!

Frankies:


*thinking* Just when I stopped being a player for my dear wife to have me fully someone is here praising players.

So there is nothing wrong in being a player?

Well, past is past.

Frankies, where in my post did i praise or encourage players? na wa for your interpretations o! i was only saying such games are meant for players not guys like him, who cannot handle such. Well since you used to be a player how would you have handled such situation if it happened to you?

oleh!!!

It works for me cannot do otherwise.

Am so sorry for the babe in question. What sin did she ever commit to end up with YOU. You are obviously sick in the head. Like Uchetobi said, just get a 5yr old to keep you busy while you wait for her to turn 16. You cannot even write simple and correct english. Please see a shrink you need HELPPPPP badly. Sick man!!!

@ Cybersleek, see how the venom came out of you without you knowing it!!!!! Them don show u!!!

The answer lies in you. You know them personally, you know their strengths, weaknesses, characters etc. You should be able to decide which one compliments you best, which one will bring more joy, happiness, organization, love, self worth etc to your life. The answer i say again lies in you and you alone. Good luck and may the best woman win!!

Ths is the problem i have with guys!!! You knew you were not capable of playing such games, why did you go into it? not all men are players. If you are not a player by nature do not try to go into such, you would just mess things up. Leave that game for the natural ones, they can always handle situations.

I would definately not marry him. Haba! you want him to rape me every night abi!!!

[b]Men generally think they are smart and less complicated than women but the truth is they are even more complicated. This assumption is quite annoying.

Men are mostly indecisive in terms of relationships!!!  no i will take that back EVERYTHING. They always need confirmation, a push here and there, encouragement etc and when the whole thing manifests they would be the first to beat their miserable chest and say YES I DID IT!!! forgetting your constant contributions.

Men are mostly users. He knows he does not love you but he would still string you along, to meet his sexual needs or financial or whatever needs he may have at that time. When he is done, he would dump you like a used rag,   undermining your feelings for him.

Men are mostly short sighted and blind. They never see clearly until its damn too close or should i say late. For example, He has a babe far far away, who he communicates with by just telephone, he meets another who is close to him, he sees her everyday, they share a great friendship and all but his mind is made up he cannot love anorther but his far away princess (who is probably shagging anorther in his absence). He forgets or fails to see that miss nearby is the one sustaining him, the friendship and company go along way. The minute miss nearby says she is done with him and moves on with her life, our dear old boy will realize his been a fool.  They are always late!!!! and slow in understanding situations.[/b]

If only their BRAINS can work and function as fast as they have ERECTIONS it would definately be better. Men, strong physically but as feeble minded as they claim women are. (yes, hate me or love me!!! you are very much so. Your only power lies in your lions)

In one word i would say men are mostly stupid (slow to learn or understand things, not intelligent or clever, showing lack of good judgement)

My top ten romantic cities would be the following:

Venice
Paris
Hawaii
Barbados
Dubai
Tokyo
Brighton
Madrid
Monte-Carlo
Cairo

Interesting!some people have been together for 18yrs, 9yrs etc. I hope you guys are married and not dating for that long. If you date someone for that long and you do not get married!! i just wonder. Where would you go from there? by then you would be like an old car (scrab) 3rd hand car, no one will want to buy you.

Good luck to you guys anyway.

Hell no!! even if he is the last man standing. It will look like you took her reminant.

You are not abnormal. Like i always say if you open up your mind, you just might meet 2,3 guys that u just get to know and fall for. But baby gal, try and help yourself don't make a mess of your love life by double dating. It could be fun; yes but also heart breaking for the parties involved.

Sorry poster, the part of wifey and co has been posted before. Makes good reading anyway.

Viceb, thanks will give him your number to call.

Omolara, Thanks for telling davidyland the jack ass off. He Never seems to make sense. Pretty stupid.