Olu Jacobs old enough to be your grandad haba!!! wetin you wan do with am lagoschic??

oooppss! i meant How about not dressing at all

How about not dressing out (Love dress)

I have got STEP MUMS (2)!!! how about that? Well i really do not have a tale to tell cuz we do not live in the same town. The wives have their kids, home and cars. We do not cross their path neither do they cross ours. We the kids used to meet up at our Dad's (before he retired and died) for hols. Was so much fun, but goes cold when a mother comes visiting. hated it then I love my siblings though all of them, we had fun. Now that my Dad is dead and gone we practice to your "Tent O Isreal"!!!!!!!! No step mum drama. I thank God for giving my Dad such wisdom even when he was wrong (that is marrying more than one wife)

Na today!!!!!!!!!!! Lonely Londoners. Visit www.lonleylondoners.com

funny question though. if you really want to know then do a sex change.

We talk about different things from academics/careers to fashion to boy friends/husbands to children/nephews and nieces, parents/other family members, other friends (a bit of gossip), accomplishments in life, latest purchases, church/pastor/priest, politics, entertainment news, novels/magazines, sports, new salon/joints to visit in town, our tailors/hairdressers/other workmen, good/bad products to buy/to avoid, weight etc

so you see, we talk alot and make loads of sense not just about GUYZ. Only women with low self esteem talk of men all day. take note.

@sillyboy, i answered you, go back to your thread, you will see it there. Your brother Niceuzor wan thief d greeting sef. how are u dear?

niceuzor:

@sillyboy

wetin i come do u this time na i dey yarn on my own u dey voice

abeg no let ground shake 4 me and u oh.

@bebe2007

who if i may ask?

The "Who" know himself , silly!

Mr. Silly (ejoyment officer) says you should enjoy since its your service year (a year of flexing)!!! i do not have a problem with that but remember people have gotten good jobs from youth service (that is they were retained).

The question is do you want the job after your service year? If you do, keep away from the babe. i warn you. there are no jobs out there, you should behave and get this job for starters. many more babes will come your way when you are employed and can afford to pay their bills. Say you do not get a job immediately after service and she does, would she still want you?? unemployed boyfriend!!! Think o! Naija hard ok.

Do not really know you so i cannot really say why. But if you do rush into relationships, you would rush out too. Try to take your time, write a list of the qualities you want in a mate. Work on those qualities. Learn about yourself too. Just take time out and think,do an analysis on your past relationships see what you could have done differently. In other words learn from your mistakes Do not compromise unnecessarily when choosing a mate, you deserve the best so take time and look for the best. Good luck.

@Silly, "You miss me small sha" Not to worry when you miss me big i will comment.

How u dey?

Corpers do not get fired. They can only frustrate you there by giving you more work than necessary. I do not think work can kill you instead it will make you stronger/give you more experience. But if you do want to be retained there, its best to play it low with the babe and face your job. If not, go for her if you like her. Good luck.

They have come again!!!

John Legend

Poor you!!! forgive him but stay away from him. He is so crude.

@Tola77,

Babes, i must first apologise on behalf of the Nairalander that called you ASHEWO!!!! Guys, thats so wrong, some people here are from the cutter obviously not ordinary cutters but deep, stinking, smelly, porous ones like the ones in AJEGUNLE. What rubbish! If you do not have anything meaningful to say then move to another thread stop hurting people. Am surprised some babes too are being rude even the ones that their husbands married soley for green card and all. Ignore them, they are not better than you in anyway, just hypocrites!!!

Though am not married, i have been in your shoes before. Infact quite recently. I came to nairaland too and got the good, bad and ugly. Was insulted by many but got some good advice too which i took. Babes, your feeling for Nick is only NATURAL. It happens. All you have to do is control yourself. Do not fall please it will pass. You can fantasise about Nick all day but do not get near him for anything. You are MARRIED, you took an oath  under your Naitive Law and Custom. Put yourself in your man's shoes, how would you feel. Avoid Nick and his games. He knows how you feel about him already, It always shows. He knows you are lonely, he would take advantage (a naija boy for that matter). The Mr. Handsome i was tripping for in my own case does not exist anymore, i stopped all contact with him. I guess he noticed it too and moved on to his next victim. Nick will do the same once you stop giving him the GREEN LIGHT!!!!! Am sure he knows you are married. Give yourself time and work on surpressing this attraction. It will pass ok.

Never!!!!! been in that situation before but couldnt go through with it. told my friend about it though. Would not like my bestfriend to date my Ex so i cant do that to her too.

Sweet T,

What exactly is your problem? Didnt buy the insult mate!
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Express yours carefully without insulting the poster. I have mine. I personally think its true. If you are not or would never be like other men in the post, fine!!! it does not change my opinion generally. Take care.

Darlyn Silly, i can see you are into this Chic!!!! so sorry. You must change your ways. Beg her to give you a second chance. Stop freaking about "the koko" all the time. Be her friend, show her that you can be serious. I know you can be, you have to convince her and if she still loves you she would take you back if not, LIFE GOES ON You will meet anorther and you would appreciate her better cuz of this experience. I have told you to step up your game, there are several threads here that you can learn from ok. Good luck mate.

WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! silly, na u be this?? cant believe it. On behalf of Nairalanders, i say a big thank you for not being SILLY. Poster, take him seriously pls, this is a first.

pterygott:

your girlfriend thinks u're unserious with her? Seriously, I seriously think you are seriously unserious with her and that is why she wants to go

"SERIOUS, SERIOUSLY" reminds me of Meredith and co in Grey's Anatomy.

@silly

What possed this babe to go out with you in the first place eh!!! she should have known better. You go give her gala!! poor babe, wey her mates dey collect CLk and other better things even house kpa kpa from their men na gala you go give her. Na make her wan fashie u so. Cheap skate. Make she quick fashie you abeg, i go organise her with a correct bobo. na your type dey carry their babe go mama put (Buka).

15yrs!!!!!!!!!!! that is no joke o!!!! you guys practically grew up together. You know all her flaws already. The question is:CAN YOU LIVE WITH THESE FLAWS? CAN SHE LIVE WITH YOURS? you cannot condonne them today and expect a change tomorrow. People dont really change except by the grace of God. You guys are taking the next big step:MARRIAGE, you must be sure of what you are getting into. I believe by the time you have your heart to heart talk with her you would come up with something. If she does not admit to any of the post, fine. Just talk generally about your fears at least now you have an insight to what she really feels and thinks of you.

I must commend your effort at trying to make your relationship work. Most guys leave it to the women to do. Keep it up ok. All the best.

My man Silly, am not surprised at all you know, cuz you dont know the first thing about women. Am surprised you even hard a gal she must have put up with a lot of your rubbish. She try o! If i were her i for don fry you chop since. Do her a favour and let her taste a real man

Now seriously, what did you do to her first? let us know then we can advise better. On second thought maybe you should just buy her a gift and give her some cash and some good time loving she might just change her mind. Thats always your remedy to female problems now, why you come dey ask us. A whole you wey know women pass them sef, i tire o! e be like say actor wan die 4 dis film o! Silly, actor nor dey die, WAKE UP!

So sorry! go back to your doctor i think its a side effect from your drugs.

@Kratos

How are you doing today? Hope u feel better. After the talk you will be fine. I hope and pray that she admits her mistakes and apologise for all the trouble. No more pretence!!!You guys must learn to communicate with each other more ok. Its a lesson. Do have a fantastic weekend.

It would be so boring guys!!!! Admit it. It will be bone to bone How sad!

@sillyboy

Are you sure you cant be gay? hhhmmmm v dis gay friend here, saw your pix and he is interested!!!!!!! he needs ur no,

@Thoniaslim,

I was talking to the poster. Easy o! one thing you do not know is this: the poster is not in a good mood so you should be able to excuse his reference to you as kuala lumpur chic its not an insult. Give him some slacks. You should be more sensitive it could have been anyone of us here.

@poster

Sexy talks here are usually overrated. If she hurt your pride, forgive. You know, not many women can be honest with their men about sex. She probably didnt know how best to tell you without hurting your feelings.Now that you have seen it here try and make amends. Your problem is lack of communication obviously. She acts one way and thinks anorther. You have to make her come clean with you. Does she want the guy with her Dad's blessing or you?

I have said things on nairaland that i would dare not tell someone in the physical, saying them here makes it easy cuz you are anonymous. I guess she wanted to use the medium to express herself. She probably wouldnt hurt you like this on purpose. I trust you to handle this rationally, put yourself in her shoes. Its like reading anorther persons dairy you know. you really cannot blame them for what they think about you but you could help to change that.

tunneryboy:

@bebe2007,
Are you a grown woman, if you are I wouldnt mind you o!

Am more grown than you can ever imagine. As my people say "Na for shoulder them dey carry relationships nor be for head" if you carry am for head when e become too heavy e fit break neck but if na shoulder you go softly just let am slip down o! So na one day at a time.

Thanks for your interest, too bad i have been taken. Take your time you will find yours soonest.

Silly, na so i like them. Old and grey, marry today die tomorrow!!!! so i can inherit their properties. No be so!!!! Am giving you what you want to hear, according to you galz are all MONICAS abi! Maybe when you are old and grey we can get together

Just calm down. You sound really pissed.  We donot use our real names here so how do you know for certain. It could be a coincidence. Pls sleep on this before you act. She cheated on you!!!! thats very bad but why did she do it? You guys really need to talk but definately not today do it when you are calm. Am so sorry.