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kulyie: the only thing they call husband in nigeria os the ability to have s3x with a woman and impregnate her.. by the way husband is coined frome house -band.the ability of a man to bind his home together.but this days its a sorry story
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What part of Nigeria is this definition from?

Good Morning everybody....

Enjoy this Yoruba Carol song performed by the Tabernacle choir, Mormon Church...USA...

Melodious and Sweet to the ears...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9gXWuqZcNw

IdaraCHODB: Related and relevant question, its a Carfax 1 Owner Vehicle but it also has Accident/Damage reported but it looks good and runs good. Its a 2004 year vehicle and it has 130,000 on the odometer and there is no indication of an odometer rollback. Would you buy?

I wouldn't buy because I have no idea of the type of accident whether it is a structural damage or another. You can always get an issue free car for the same price.

udumosam23: Her husband was short dead in 2005 by the joint military task force accidentally, she cried for justice but was ignored, she sued the state govt. But could not get justice as the case still lingers for the past five years. I came back home and find her in a very terrible condition
I wish I can help.

Case like this should be given to those human rights activists lawyers who understand how to use every sentiment wiping media. Could you please answer the questions asked?

La mexx: Do you consider a 2006 car with mileage of 131,000 as high mileage too. Urgently awaiting your response guys.

I think the average mileage per year is even 15k and not 10k. What you should consider now is if most of the mileage are highway mileage. Some car owners purposely drive their vehicles to transverse states or coast to coast.

US is a big country with vast of miles to cover. If the car is well maintained with the periodic maintenance done, its not a bad bargain. However, you can still push your luck for a $14k/$14.5 price.

onegig: The yorubas have a simple saying that your bulkiness or largeness does not open a door ,its someone with the key that unlocks the door. Its that simple. You dont need to shout , huff and puff before you get what you want. Wisdom is the key.
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Depending on the door.. A little force can open most doors...

Chillisauce: You never see anything. Very tiny difference between most Nigerians and animals in Africa.
Animals in western world behaves and have morals more than an average Nigerians.

Like the lion that attacked and killed her welfare officer in a Californian zoo to mention only one..

I know that what you typed up there is a joke. However, you wrote it forgetting that you and the person you quoted are both average Nigerians at best... Do I take the statement to include you?

Mai pride: Why do bad things happen to good people sometimes?

#teardrops#

Life really do sucks!!!

The same reason why good things happen to bad people sometimes....

The creator of the universe permits everyone irrespective of character to enjoy freely the sun, air, moon rain etc. He also allows everyone to pass through one trial or the other that no flesh may boast before Him...

Life is not a straight line curve but with bends, ups and downs forming an irregular curve. What will separate you from the others is the positive you take from negative experiences....

Weep not dear sister, it is well.....

Miner13: Nop.
Still with her parent coz the husband threaten to do something silly if they try sending her without a change.

Well, if this action achieves what he wants and the two can live happily ever after, then he did what is right for his home. I only hope he did it with the right intent.

I wish them both speedy recovery from this impasse and hope they both learn from their mistakes for a happy ending. That's all that matters now. Crying over spilled milk counts as nothing but forging ahead from here is what matters.

If you know the guy, advise him to seek a periodic report from the wife's family so they know he is still interested in their daughter except for her attitude. I wish them goodluck

@Op,

Could you please give me the concluding part of the story. Did her parents retrain her or sent her back to her husband? Abeg complete the puzzle

LILBIMS: Hello everyone have been following this thread for a while and its really a good and educative thread, there has been this thing bothering my mind, I actually got engaged a lady that was depressed before she met me and the cause of her depression was that her ex Bf BROKE her heart

How did the ex-boyfriend leave her? There is something about the guy that she is still holding on to. She is yet to let go hence her constant depression because of him.

Well, she will need to see a therapist as advised.

Phema: Couldn't open the file. Can you make it "readable"?

dvent.bridals@gmail.com
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B12 Renny plaza, Badore, Ajah Lagos.

WEDDING LIST
1) Color theme
2) Brides wedding dress
3) Brides wedding Jacket
4) Petticoat
5) Garment bag
6) Brides shoe
7) Hair accessories ( Bride, little bride & train)
Veil ( Bride & Little bride)
9) Gloves ( Not in vogue any more)
10) Lingerie ( Pants, bras, corset,shapewears, sleepwears, baby dolls , Garter etc)
11) Bouquet for bride, little bride and bridal train
12) Jewelry ( Bride, little bride & train)
13) Garter
14) Hair
15) Makeup
16) Hand fan
17) Little brides dress
18) Bridal train dress
19) Garter
20) Groom suit( grooms men as well)
21) Groom shoe
22) Groom boxers
23) Groom shirt ( grooms men as well)
24) Groom tie ( grooms men as well)
25) Groom waist coat ( grooms men as well)


WEDDING LIST contd….
26) Groom socks
27) Groom pocket square/boutonnieres
28) Rings & ring holder
29) Souvenir
30) Asoebi ( If needed)
31) Invitation cards
32) Program
33) Car
34) Venue
35) Decoration for hall
36) Photographer
37) Video coverage
38) Food
39) Cake
40) Small chops ( If needed)
41) Drinks ( Water, wine & juice)...


That is the content...

Okpuzu01: I am thinking of taking another wife.

When it got to this part, I stopped taking the story serious....

Please send the IV when its time.... Congrats in advance

I attach no value to rings under any guise neither do I give a damn if a married lady wears hers or not.....

The golden rule is the best way to raise your children. "Do unto others as you want to be treated.."

The link below contains a PDF document of sermon delivered by Martin Luther King, Jnr on overcoming inferiority complex. It is full of practical and real life solutions. Find time to read the article and it will help you a lot.

http://mlk-kpp01.stanford.edu/primarydocuments/Vol6/14July1957OvercominganInferiorityComplex.pdf

Shalom

Yemlizzy: Only men with strong hearts will stick to such a lady. Its just so rare in Nigeria to be candid, for such a decision to made by a man. Love truly hurts,there are always other options to be taken,yes thats true, but how many men want to father a child that truly isn't theirs if one advises them to adopt a baby. Be sincere, what would you do if you find yourself in such a situation?

If it is Love, it is pure and does not hurt. There is no fear nor hurt in Love. He that is hurt or has fear is not made perfect in love.

Only if the lady is worth spending a whole life with

Lilyluv028: Tell u the truth am just scared because a friend of mine i gave birth before her,her baby has started walking,so why is my own different.i cry everyday for God to answer my prayer.

First parenting mistake... Never ever compare your child with another, its a blunder that kills the child's self-esteem. If you do not stop this comparison at this early stage, it will sink into your sub-conscious and you will keep comparing the poor boy with his peers as time goes on. With time, you will remind him of how he couldn't walk fast like his contemporaries and how sluggish he is with life.

Please, I urge you not to ever compare your child with another. Every child is unique and take to life in their own time. Parents are only to guide them in the path to follow that do not lead to destruction and not to raise standard of achievement for them.

Even the popular baby website "babycenter.com", has this caveat in all their developmental write up, "Remember, your baby is an individual. All babies are unique and meet milestones at their own pace. Developmental guidelines simply show what your baby has the potential to accomplish — if not right now, then soon. If your baby was premature, keep in mind that kids born early usually need a bit more time to meet their milestones. If you have any questions at all about your baby's development, ask your healthcare provider."

Mrs, nothing is wrong with your baby since medical professionals have given him a clean bill of health. Be patient, you will be surprised that when he starts to walk, he will dare what those that started before him can't do.

Please and please, stop the comparison..

I hope you have actually tried to learn and understand the precept and path they want you to walk. Whatever you think is archaic they are doing to you, they only want the best for you. Why not have a parent-daughter discussion with your parents about their parenting methods if it displease you that much?

If you have been reading the book you termed easily deceived, you would have been good enough to educate them on some things and straighten out certain areas with them.

Meanwhile, by the time you become a mother someday, do not be disturbed when your children call your parenting methods archaic and stupid when you are trying your all to make their life better. Whatever a man sows, he reaps in abundance

You don't have to panic, some children are late starters while some are early starters. The first step to do is to see a paediatrician for a thorough check to ascertain it is not a medical problem. If he is given a clean bill of health, be patient he will walk when he is ready to.

You can however encourage him with a walker. Although the Canadian association of Paeditricians kick against walker for babies. In all, do not be disturbed nor panic, he will walk when he is ready to..

Eyop: @ Bellong she said the baby has not even started crawling so that's why i advice is not normal for 1year.

There is nothing abnormal about it. Some babies are very lazy and fearful, they even find it difficult to crawl. Her baby is not the first neither will he be the last.

It is not everytime we ascribe spiritual challenges to issues. She needs to be sure if it is not a medical problem before exploiting other options. Yes, I believe in prayers

Have a discussion with him on where the relationship is heading to.

You should also know that no sane man will think of marriage if he is facing financial challenges. Nevertheless, he should be able to tell you his plans for the future. So, I will say discuss it with him and let it be a frank talk, not emotional taunt.

You don't have to panic, some children are late starters while some are early starters. The first step to do is to see a paediatrician for a thorough check to ascertain it is not a medical problem. If he is given a clean bill of health, be patient he will walk when he is ready to.

You can however encourage him with a walker. Although the Canadian association of Paeditricians kick against walker for babies. In all, do not be disturbed nor panic, he will walk when he is ready to..

Woged2005: However,

- the Naija chief who wants a male child to answer his name - Genotype matters to him
- The majority who want peace of mind at home - Love matters to them.

How does genotype relates with the Y-chromosome?

sholay2011: Oga sir...how gbogbo nkan? Long time.

Nice thread @ .

Very fine my brother... How are you holding up?

Congratulations sis... May the child grow in grace, knowledge and sound mind...

Hope they are not triplets...

Good article...

Nothing takes precedence. One is not independent of the other. All factors must be put into consideration holistically before making the final decision.

onegig: What do you expect when the role models they have are no better? Objectivity and common sense is now lost.

Completely lost and thrown to the gallows

Tachere,

Welcome to the fun room.... Due to logistics constraints and unavoidable circumstance, your welcome party will be put on hold till the gods are appeased...


Enjoy..

chaircover: errrmmmmmm we did not see you ni

You did not look for me... I have representatives in the house from the gods...