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Royal Roy: Long time Bellong.

Hope you are doing good?

Wish u well

Thanks bro.... doing fine we thank God but hectic schedule these days... I crash at 9pm now unlike my earliest 12midnight sleep.

How you dey and runs in Anambra? Hope you will be out of there by next week?

Tgirl4real: Ermmm...Sir, u can use that time to prepare ur debate and send it to me.

I actually plan preparing for the topic I suggested. I do not understand the preliminary rounds you explained. Waiting for the round you suggested I can join. However, as things are going, I may be busy till middle December but can still find time to submit my essay.
Thanks

You need government certification of your wedding before you can do a change of name. Meaning, you will have to go to court to get marriage certificate after which you can follow the steps given to you earlier.

Do you have a lot of stuff on your mind you think about?

Good morning to all..

These days are crazily busy but got some free time on my hands today...

What have I missed?

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yellowpawpaw: Who come c the eclipse naw?
Abeg post pikshure make I follow c too.

E dey here

Good story.... Always appreciate one another. Anytime you are experiencing trouble and storm in your marriage, always remember the good times you spent and reasons you married your spouse...

Go through this thread, you will see enough information. Ask your question there too.

https://www.nairaland.com/826936/uk-student-visa-tier-4

Why throw your pearls to the dog.


If he denies paternity, use any name that suit you.

@Ifeleke,

Don't just rub the tummy, read novels and stories to the baby in there. It creates a very strong bond between father and child along with the mother's bond.

mysticgal: what is the meaning of ifeoluwaleke please ifeleke

The love of God prevails

It shall end well for you both in Jesus name.

Some countries do give paternal leave so that the father can have time to help the wife.

It is necessary for the fathers too because not only the mother's sleep is disturbed in the night when the young babe is hungry.

bigheart2013: How can anyone be talking about 'juju' in the USA -what do you need it for - to attract spouse, money, or protection from what abeg?

You think there are no spiritualists or juju loving people in the USA?

[quote author=wwwlord]You've made some great comments and they are well noted but read what i wrote again,sending her out of my apartment when she came to beg doesnt mean sending her packing. Not sure i mention ever cohabiting there. thank you[/quote]I already put a caveat if I misinterpreted what you meant. You didn't make that part easy for me to read either because what I read was you sent her packing out of your house. It is entirely different from sent her away.

Disregard my last post. Wish you the best in your decision.

It is more than enough reason for those who value children of their own.

If you don't want kids, find someone who shares your view.

I don't think you have to disturb yourself too much about saving the friendship since you have not done anything negative against your friend.

He should be the one looking for ways to educate his wife than being more Catholic than the pope. Since the scented perfume is used in a lot of homes in the States, let him take his wife on a visit to as many homes with scent to disabuse her mind of her ignorance and spiritual paranoia.

You just keep being good to your friend and let the wife handle her own problem. If your friend decides to listen to his wife, let him go. Do not fret over it.

@Op,

When or if you eventually let her go, I will advise you that you shouldn't let religious appearance or fellowship/church position becloud your judgement about anybody, females inclusive. I want to assume you are a Christian seeking a relationship with a godly lady.. Your yardstick shouldn't be her religious commitment, service or position but her actions.

Many in this age only with their mouth profess to know God but their hearts are far from Him. I wish you would understand how to put little tests of integrity, faith and trust to a lady before you commit yourself to any. Ladies do not need big tests to expose them but very little and seemingly inconsequential tests that surely bring out who they are. They will pass the big one because they know, they are under scrutiny.

Another advise for you, never listen to those who says you may not find a better person claiming nobody is perfect and all girls once had a past. It is a self defeatist statement. No human is perfect but not all humans are reckless and irredeemable from greed and immorality. There are ladies with visions, character, godly and a past to be proud of out there. With patience, artificial and spiritual intelligence, you will definitely identify them to live happy till death do you part.

As for the girl in question, need I tell you more than the position of everyone. Let her go. She is presently using emotional blackmail against you for you to bring her back. If you can let your brain prevail over your emotion, you will know how to shut your heart against giving her another chance. Everybody should be able to live with the consequences of his/her choice. She has chosen hers. You have given her enough chances to block her out now. I may not be wrong to say that she was corrupted by her wayward friends considering she still has little interest in religion. Such a lady is difficult to reform.


PS: Thought you believed she was godly but you allowed her to cohabit with you. For her to agree in cohabiting with you is enough proof that she is only religious and not godly. If you want a godly union, cohabitation is a wrong foundation to build it. I am sorry if I misinterpreted that part you said you have sent her packing out of your house.

veryunlucky: also.. you are judging by my ID? really?
thanks for being so insensitive

How old are you?

If you are not comfortable with all his actions, tell him to stop kissing or romancing you.

If he doesn't stop, cut-off your holiday in their house and return to your parents' house. The decision to go down with him or allow him to continue with the free flow of electric current lies strictly in your hands...

Put an end to it and stop whinning. Do not let whatever promises made corner you to do what you will probably end up regretting...


PS: You said you felt you were played. What does that mean? E don happen?

To all those celebrating today, I wish you all greatness and a fulfilled life...

Happy Birthday

BLOSSOM20: HOW I WISH I COULD ELABORATE IT,BUT EVEN IF I DID SOME PEOPLE WILL STIL FIND REASON TO RAIN INSULTS . THANKS ANYWAY FOR BEING REASONABLE

How do you expect to get a balanced and reasonable solutions/advice when you intentionally withold tangible and important information.

For the little you have written here, your husband did no wrong by asking you to take his mother as yours. We don't even know if those three sisters are not living in the same state with your MIL.

What I can deduce is that you already made up your mind on what you want to hear and any contrary view will be taken as insult.

@Yokis,

Congratulations... Please do not let overjoy hinder an excellent performance in this last paper. Wishing you success....


Good morning to everybody

If only adults and not children get married, all these idle talk of 'gender equality/disequality' wouldn't arise.

Why on earth will you marry someone whose dreams and visions will not dovetail into yours? Doing that is setting up your marriage to hit the rock. Marriage is making each other help-meet, hence both dreams should always find alignment.


People should always learn to take responsibility for their decisions and stop laying the blame on gender.

lalaboi: Ars 9points
Napoli 6points
Dortmund 3points..

Or

Ars - 6Points
Napoli - 6points
Dortmund - 6Points

WHich looks better to you?

The first would have been preferred but the second still does not spell doom as being speculated by pundits and Arsenal haters. I wonder why people are so obsessed with Arsenal....

lalaboi: Wouldnt a 3 points against Dortmund do the same? thing? You lost and now you are in danger of not qualifying cos you have are tied on points with 2 other teams.

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And those two other teams with same points are not in danger of not qualifying?

vitus101: Pls can anyone in the house gimme a breakdown of the processes and exams to be written,required documents for visa app for a prospective Msc student that wants to study in Aussie.

Thanks in anticipation

Nobody will do for you what you can do yourself. Go to the link below and check the universities that offer your course. You will read the requirements, process and all you need on their websites.

http://www.australianuniversities.com.au/list/

Happy Birthday to all celebrants of today....

May the peace of God fill your hearts now and always.................

This is the only advice I have for you...

Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them;

While the sun, or the light, or the moon, or the stars, be not darkened, nor the clouds return after the rain..........

Good Morning to you all....

On behalf of myself and family, we hereby express our sincere gratitude and appreciation for yesterday. May God's presence always be with you all.

For those that missed the party at the Hawaii beach, enjoy this cake I reserved for you....


@Dutchess,

I understand how you feel betrayed by those you trusted with all your heart but know this fact, men will always disappoint you ONLy God cannot. It is why the scripture says "Do not put your trust in MEN but in GOD..." Vain is the trust and hope in men. Some will disappoint you not because they wanted to but the fact that they are mere mortals who have no control over some situations. Cast your burdens on God alone and not on men, no matter his/her status in the church. It is well with you.....

sholay2011: @bellong...
Em...sir...we all know age is just a number. ..so can we know how high that number is today??

Ha ha... I am only a young man of two dozen and ten yrs........

Tgirl4real: It's ur birthday? Cool! Happy birthday. LLNP.

I thot u said u would be busy early 3rd week. :\

C'mon naa.

I said I would be free 3rd - 4th week. The 3rd week will be from like Thursday.

Thanks for the birthday message