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malmo: Is it possible for grilmadi pple to be stealing vehicle items? or is it clearing agents handiwork? missing ac knobs,fogs lights

Thought they said Grilmadi is safe?

[quote author=Kay-Dee]Rebound or not, it was Özil's assist, he was the last player in contact with the ball before the scorer.[/quote]Technically, rebound doesn't count for an assist. Only 2 assists will be awarded to Ozil for the match.

ALISMILE: I'm not say sayin that the sss is not workin.The sss statutory duty is suppose to be Intellegence. But to wat watextent ve they fared in this regard.

You will need to get the Act that established the organisation to understand their other core duties. To what extent they have fared in intelligence gathering cannot be ascertained by anyone of us except the bodies to which they are mandated to share the intelligence with. You initially mentioned of the many arrests made by police, it wouldn't be out of place to say that the SSS must have been part of the success for the intelligence shared with the Police.

mysticgal: A big NO,not even a joint buisness venture,no matter how much you're in love with your spouse,just to avoid,greed,murder,heartbreak e.t.c,just my view.....my three kobo

why would you marry someone you can't trust living all your days in bondage of fear?

ileobatojo: Does this really need a thread on NL? What about just sitting down and talking about it? He took out a loan to start a business for you, so it's not like he's an uncaring man. So what's hard about simply having a discussion about how to balance things in your home?

Ewomab: i never said he is uncaring, infact he is the most caring man a woman wld want, i just dnt understand why he does not key into the idea, or was what i did wrong?just wondering, that is all.maybe i should just stop helpin out.

Do the bolded first before you seek for help. Communication helps a lot, its marriage friendly.

ileobatojo: Does this really need a thread on NL? What about just sitting down and talking about it? He took out a loan to start a business for you, so it's not like he's an uncaring man. So what's hard about simply having a discussion about how to balance things in your home?

THREAD CLOSED.

sweetcheecks: [/b]
@bellong, please take your advice to OP a step further on how to do a due diligence on a Nigerian man. Where should she start as the guy is from a thousand miles away for once and the only thing she has to do is to trust and believe what he says. Unless your advise the women of the world is never ever to trust Nigerian men. Its not like there are databases people can check on like US search etc, or numbers to call to verify any information you might suspect like if the guy is married or not.What you asking these women to do is a mamoth task
especially when one is inlove. I really think your blame is hugely
misplaced on this one.

Its not as if people only fall inlove with Nigerian man only, different races from different corners of the world get into relationships everyday and sincere ones at that, so what you are saying is ladies must treat Nigerian men differently with suspicion and mistrust? If this is is your advice please let it be known so thatwhen the Op writes and publishes her memoirs she could quote advice from a Nigerian forum, from Nigerians to advise her fellow sisters better.

@Op, Sis I can feel your pain. Its sad really that this happened to you and you are not to blame otherwise they would not say "love is blind". Do whatever you need to do to heal and have a new start. You are beautiful lady and I am sure your children (if you have any) are blessed to have a mother like you. It's alright dear. May the God help you in your healing process.

I am very sorry that I may not be able to help you to comprehend what I wrote. Is there anywhere in my comment that I mentioned "Nigerian man"? The OP was talking about Africans in general and not Nigerian men in specific.

If a grown adult does not know how to test sincerity of a relationship without resort to database, I am sorry I can't be of help. You may probably re-read my post to have a better grasp of what I was trying to say.

Thanks

yellowpawpaw: Mr Bellong, I asked u this somewhere but I don't know whether u saw it.
Are u by any means a musician?

@YPP,

Far from being one. I have one of the worst voices for music. If I had ventured into music, failure would have been my middle name .. but I love music just don't have the luxury of time for voice development.

Between, wishing you speedy recovery from the foreign invasion... Get well quick

@r231,

This is to celebrate your day with you. May the good Lord keep blessing the works of your hands and prosper you. You will live to fulfill purpose on this planet....

whats your favourite music for me to play....

Happy weekend to everybody...

@Roy, I hope the Cheny project is moving to the permanent site?

Sometimes, carrying such weight is not easy except you let it out. The best way for you to free yourself is to let it out so there can be relief and lifting of burden.

She is your mother and you have every right as a child to talk things through with her not with the intention of revenge but unloading your burdened heart. If your sister agrees, arrange a meeting together with your mum choosing a convenient time for all parties. Let her understand all what you know and that despite it, she still has your respect and trust as a mother but you are only telling her to understand that you are getting it off you. Whatever reason she did it is none of your business but her and do not question why.

Forgive her and move on with your life. It must be noted that she sinned against her husband and God, not the children.

beewhyfocs: Yea, I get the drift. Albeit, manpower should not be an excuse for the government. I don't mean to sound pessimistic or act as the devil's advocate in this matter. What has the government been doing with security votes? The amount voted for security keep increasing in proportion to the spate of crime in the nation, yet we have not seen a corresponding improvement in our security affairs.

You will agree with me that some of these monies are not been used in a justified manner. Unemployment is so high in the country which implies that these jobless youth can be made to function in these security apparatus. Yet we do nothing about it.

Anyway, I give it to the SSS on this particular case.

Yes, you have very good and valid points. That is why I noted earlier that this is where the FG needs to be up and doing. Its a pathetic case that the politicians benefit greatly from insecurity because of security vote. If all security agencies have adequate manpower and there is good security across the nation, how do you expect them to overbloat and siphon security vote?

It is apathetic situation my brother

rockbase360: take am easy o

No be fight bro.... Its the hasty conclusion that is not good. Its better to direct your grievances against the guy than the collective character defamation.

beewhyfocs: Ok. Let me take that as the truth. But what has the SSS been doing about the rampant cases of kidnapping in Nigeria? Are you of the opinion that this is the only case got the information ahead of time?

You will agree with me that every sector of the nation lacks adequate resources to carry it out including the security agencies. The country is becoming so hard that most youths are looking for short-cut to success. The few operatives of these security agencies are not enough to combat the increased spate of kidnappings. They have too many to contend with.

This is where the FG needs to be up and doing. Every of the agencies is trying to do what they can in alleviating this problem including the police but there is limit to what a limited resources can do. Do you understand the drift?

In short, there is lack of manpower.

What a myopic and foolish conclusion from you. What has the action of your friend's older brother got to do with the hopelessness of the country. Like beget like, if your friend's older brother could do what you described, it only shows the type of people you attract and in same analysis the type of person you are.

Nigeria has millions of issues but your story is not good enough to conclude there is no hope for the country. Meanwhile, Nigeria is made up of Nigerians which you are part. If your friend couldn't do anything to resolve this situation, my humble conclusion is that its you, your friend and the older brother that seems to be hopeless in this situation.

beewhyfocs: I guess its because she has SSS attached to her. Not every Nigerian has such privileges. So no need to praise the SSS, they only did their job!

No private citizen is entitled to SSS deployment. The SSS is different from NPF. No, she doesn't have SSS attached to her, they only did their job because they had the intelligence ahead of time which is one of their constitutional duties.

COOLDUN: Nwanne m, that woman as a Kwara woman never married that Igbo man for LOVE, it is a taboo for a real yoruba man/woman to marry a Kwara man/woman. [/b]Whenver they see another fellow from another tribe in the country they will rush the person. When you make that mistake you are gone forver. The first thing they do is to brainwash your children with somany nasty stories about you and your people so that the children will remain in their domain.

[b]The Kwara yorubas have one bad culture that permites their men to be sharing their wives with their brothers, when their younger brothers enters into their houses with their wives, they would leave their foot wears at the door, when the husbands of the women see the foot wears they would say Abro mi wa nile, meaning that my junior brother is in my house, he will excuse them till he finishes with his wife.

Just make a personal research over what i have just writen down here and see if i made any false accusation. For a real yoruba to marry a kwara fellow is a big TABOO. From the story of the girl's mother , i know that the children of that Igbo man are gone. Sorry is the man's new name name now.

Where did you get the bolded statements from? Will you please stop spewing thrash and misinforming people here. How comfortable was it for you to confidently type the BS above. Half education is worse than ignorance.

For most relationships, individuals tend to have reasons and motives for going into it. Some because the guy is rich, the lady will give free s-ex and many more sincere and insincere reasons. The onus lies on each partner to ascertain the sincerity and intention of each other in the relationship.

My blame will mostly be on the ladies that are swindled into marriage for selfish gain of the men involved because most, if not all, of those women do not apply their head and brain in verifying the sincerity of the men. They are always betrayed by their emotions and sweet talk, probably because they have not heard such sweet words from men in a long time. No matter how good a guy can lie, he will always leave a loophole showing his real motive for the relationship and only the lady whose emotion has not taking over her reasoning can detect this.

Advise your fellow African-American women to do their due diligence in verifying the identity and sincerity of a guy before throwing away all forms of sensible caution.

ALISMILE: . Of course they ll impress u cos they make only high profile arrest and also cos u need a job. Ask ursef hw many real time danger they ve had to face;like havin to confront armed robbers,militancy or BH? An ordinary division in the police make hundreds of such achievments witout the IG havin to come on air. I knw they ve a very very poor image amongst us nigerians and that is also cos they dont spend much time and money on image makin.

In an ideal situation, all the law enforcement agencies are working together to achieve a common goal, peace, security and stability of the country. When one of the agencies' image is already battered, do not blame the public if the agency is not given adequate commendation because they brought it upon themselves.

Comparing the NPF with SSS for their work on internal security is like comparing Yam and Beans. They have different statutory responsibilities and if SSS is doing police's job, is that not an indication of the failure of the police. The hundreds of arrests made by the police like you claimed, where do you think they get some of the intelligence from?

Meanwhile, the SSS does not make noise about her daily functions like the police. The few you hear and see are just tip of what they have achieved. This thread is not about the police but effort of the SSS. Don't take it away from them.

Please let us know how each of our widow's mite can be sent to Cheny.

Thanks

Sissie: Hello.

I met Cheny4love today, saw the house, met her mum and spoke with the house agent. And I think she's genuine and really need our help.

YPP over to you.

YPP, the result is out. I think r231 has been coordinating something of this nature before, maybe he can also do this.

peggykorol: Once a man starts abusing the wife physically,he won't stop.it goes on and on.thats how mine started and I thought it would be the last.i know some people on NL feel am not real or I caused my problem myself but you are free to feel or think however you want
As am typing this now,I have some wounds on my back and hands.thats the recent beating I got from someone who claims to luv me very much.for every time I question his fidelity,I get beaten up seriously like a thief who stole in the market square.he sleeps with girls anywhere.ranging from his car to our matrimonial home to motels,
Now ask me how I knew all this

The easiest way to be free from a physical abusive person is to stay far away from him. You need to keep distance from the man to resolve his personal issues before he turns you to story that touch.

Never be bothered about the irrelevant opinions of others, it won't do you any good but more problems.

[quote author=dimples*]Hello guys! I'm here on behalf of a close friend

She aint feeling suicidal but she is worried and needs counselling!

A divorcee(man) wants to marry her but she is just sceptical about it. Like how will people see her?is she commiting sin?etc.

The cause of his. Divorce was because d exwife. Had. Blood oath with her bf plus having sex with him was always a problem!!!

Pls any. Advice will be much appreciated thanks.[/quote]Could you please explain the bolded?

Peace be unto everybody. Good day to y'all...

This music will bless your hearts... Peace be still...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibUOowJF4Kk

nairaspace: Do i send the original title with the trucking company delivering at the port?

The original title must be delivered along with the vehicle at the port. Hence, the trucker must be in possession of it for the vehicle to be accepted. For easier and fast shipping, send it to Galveston, Texas.

Good.. In the multitude of counsel, there is safety and wisdom for life. Things are seriously happening and people dying in silence with no help foreseen.

I hope this thread will help heal wounded hearts and broken homes with good counsels that will come from here.

Happy Birthday to little Princess Damiso. May God continue to keep her in sound mind and health. She will live to be a blessing to her generation.


My son is 9 months today. He started crawling when he was 7month but he is afraid to walk now because he has fallen many times hitting his head on the ground while trying to walk on his own. I guess, he developed walk-phobia

This children' song for little Damiso...



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BT6y_S6dAQo

I don't think the painted scenario is about being an Igbo but about what the father wants. The father of the bride has the final say in a union, he represents divine authority (My opinion). If he wants it in the village, so be it except you guys can persuade him to shift ground for you.

@Op,

Play her this song by Commander Ebenezer Obey... "Iya jiya nitori omo re" (Mothers suffered for their children)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taIszZVyIKc&list=RD02dwNil2_-XXw

kayboysuccess: @ wip7- thank you for your reply, the info on turkish embassy only states sponsor. my question is can I fund myself? and will also appreciate a reply as regards the confirmation of my name in the embassy. Thanks bro

If you have convincing evidence of available funds enough to fund yourself, the embassy have no issue with it. All the embassy needs is proof that you have means of paying the school fees and living expenses without constituting nuisance to the country.

Hope this helps?

If it is in the night, switch off the light and ask if she can see any shadow. Later switch the light on and see the difference. Then explain to her, the light reflects her own image called shadow. That is why she can't see it in darkness and the sun serves as the light during the day.

she will understand

Congratulations my sister.. May the boy grow in knowledge, understanding, grace, sound mind and the fear of the Lord... The Lord will make all things needed for his upbringing available to the family......

Let the party begin with Shola Allynson (Omo tuntun)...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84pE7klVo3Q

I do not understand why anybody will defend the wife in this scenario. Going by the short conversation between the poster and the lady in question here, I can deduce the lady has a lot of issues with myopic view of marriage and relationship.

She has no single concrete evidence of the mother's evil doing towards her except she is cold to her. What an ambiguous statement to make. Nobody knows why the mother is cold to her and if she can't pin point to one bad thing the woman has done, the wife is the wicked fellow in this case. The husband takes to his mother's advice over her. Men are not emotional being who do not look at merit of advices before jumping at one. The fact that you are my wife does not mean I will reject a superior argument and better advice when I see one irrespective of who offers it. That doesn't give the husband excuse to table matters before her mother daily. Only fools reject good counsels based on emotional sentiments.

For two good years, she has nothing tangible against the woman and yet she is very bitter against her coming. She is an ingrate of a wife. She is enjoying her husband but failed to recognise who nurtured him by God's grace to be who he is today that she is happily married to. Some wives need some serious brain and orientation reset. Like I said before, she can continue with her present attitude to the mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law will pay her in same coin with compound interest.

It is because of this, I patiently and diligently chose a good woman with compassion and deep understanding. Not one of the girls of these days who lack depth and are myopic.

She is not suffering from clinging syndrome but ignorance and selfishness. She will grow to become a MIL tomorrow. She needs serious help because if she continues this way, her husband will soon get tired of the tantrums against his mother.

No wife should hate their MIL especially when there is no cause to. If her husband cannot share secrets with her, it shows that she is yet to earn her husband's trust. How will she even earn it when she is busy hating on his mother.