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baralatie:

waat is this

Lazy youth I know you don’t like it

ShackWes:
Good morning NLders, so I was checking my WhatsApp status this morning when I came across a video which seems like almost all my contacts uploaded it, it was my borther's fiancee shaking her ukhu and breast going flappy flappy like a disc .. at first I wan mad, cos about 7 people posted it on my WhatsApp list. my brother is currently abroad and he made sure he engaged this girl before he travelled out last year, the so called girl has been calling me since morning because she knows I would have seen that video. it's viral now.... do you think I should let my brother know? obviously he would get to know but don't you think he should hear from a reliable source first?

Save your brother from this devil by telling him , people will tell you to mind your business but at the will you like to see your brother in tears and regret?

perkyB:
All I see wittten up there is blah blah blah STEREOTYPE blah blah blah

You can’t even comprehend talk less of differentiating truth from stereotype

iamGholdaniel:
White fluids like milk comes out from my Woman breast during sex!!!
Is it normal?
And she have never done abortion before.

She had abortion

Cashsteady:
Bro south Africa yes but bostwana and Namibia hell no! Some parts in the island part of Lagos will bury the cities in those two countries this is fact! Lagos is actually beautiful just that most Nigerians are ignorant and don't love their countries

Botswana is better than Nigeria, google it

Onepeople:
Tinubu political halluluya boy ,allow the woman with her opinion, she does not want to be fixed like yourself.

So you know she has her own opinion before quoting her foolishness at highest rank that’s what disturbed you

afroniger:
Madam why are you always sounding bitter? Leave the messenger and focus on the message (just pretend it has nothing to do with Tinubu then maybe you will feel better).The message is universal. Your body too dey hot.

Dummy she only ask a question

Winneygirl:
7 times??

Like you said something is wrong and she know it

Quality20:
This is the view of many northerners. Sometimes ,i wonder why UNN and other FG institutions are sited in the east, because most people see those institutions as purely igbo tribal ones, most unemployed northerners would rather remain unemployed or underemployed than pick up an offer at any of those FG institutions sited in the east, even northern students would rather keep on applying to institutions in the north and in the west than look the way of the east. I really wonder why so many people, young and old fear igbos and their territories.

Is better they fear us like that than to kill us like Yoruba people

Patrioticman007:
Fi D Fi , power to the looters !!!.
Fi D Fi, has been cashing out on Nigerians for more than 16 years, while the Conmen Apc have just began, Nigerians need to change the change.

PDP are envious of Ganduje smile.

Cash out of APC for five years is worst of that of 16 years

What you said maybe true but it doesn’t have anything to do with our economy

Fahdiga:
Only in the west

West side

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Oga she is not ready for marriage

malcom1X:
Guy be a man.
Don't ever borrow money from your wife to do anything. If you don't have tell her you don't have. That her money should be spent on her children.

Pay her dowry, don't owe her, it's her money. She saved you from embarrassment.

You’re talking nonsense, two shall come and become one, he don’t own her anything she doesn’t save him from any embarrassment rather she brings that embarrassment to him

DEmejioba1:
I got married in 2018,since then I have been battling with some unimaginable experiences with my wife even when I thought I married to a religious lady.

To cut the story short,

Prior to our marriage, things was not so good enough for me but because of age consideration of both of us we decided to wed with the help of our families.

The first thing that happened which caught me thinking afterward was that during our make up to wedding,my wife insisted that she's receiving 50k dowry which she knew I wouldn't be able to get it just shortly before the wedding. I told her that there is no way I could afford it then that she should reduce it may be to 20k, she said I should not worry that things will be sorted out. A day to the wedding she told me that when it's segment for dowry collection that she would pronounce that she had collected it. I said no problem. Since then I have not been able to pay it because she wants full cash. Now, any slide misunderstanding she refers to it.

Secondly, immediately after the marriage,I was left with 60k which I thought we would manage to get a room and a parlour apartment for a start, just to do according to my pocket in my present rent house. But my wife insisted that we should let 2 bedroom flat at 100k but knowing fully that my source of income would not maintain it couple with other obligations that I would be discharging. She said, she would lend me 40k.
Thank God I was able to pay her the money. But still thinking over wasteful of almost 50k,while 150k can secure a land for bulding house in my area.

Thirdly, few months after our marriage. We were having misunderstanding and I carelessly said if the marriage can not work it better we go our separate ways, my wife holds on this statement and continue saying that she just need me to say it twice more and the marriage is over.

But I used to think over all these with other ones that I cant write, then, I ask myself if truly she loves me or may be am with wrong person.

What is your thought about this?

She do not marry you because of love but because she’s aged and she doesn’t have another choice, you’re only option available

mezico96:
Nope

Expect anything from in-law, tell him to calm down it happens, I have seen it , like I said it’s a church doctrine

pbae:
It looks like this site has some eye catching stories

I will be 46 years this year and my marriage will be 5 years this year. I have been paying bills ( Nepa bills, house rent, putting food on the table, etc) since we got married in the spirit of a supportive wife. Although we are both civil servants with the salary of 44,000 and 55,000 respectively. Unknown to me, he has accrued huge debt before I met him despite the fact we did a lot low key wedding without reception (which was my idea, in my mind I don't want to stretch his financial capacity so that we can enjoy our after wedding). He keeps telling me things will get better even though I supported him going back to school which he will complete by God's grace this year. The Lord blessed us with a bouncing baby girl last year( she is 4months now ) unfortunately, I couldn't not lactate so I had to formula feed. Which I have been financing alone all with no effort from him. I have told him to please look for side hustle so as to relieve me of the burden but he said I should wait till he finishes his HND and he is been upgraded to Senior staff. Recently when we had misunderstanding, he told me whatever assistance I am rendering is for my sake, that I am not helping him. He said when he finally have money it is me that will enjoy, that whatever I do now is what I will reap. he is also not contributing to the welfare of our child

https://www.naijalogic.com/forums/how-can-i-deal-with-my-ingrate-husband.

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You should be doing it with full happiness, a man look at you at age of 41 and you’re here talking trash, you’re the one ungrateful idiot

mezico96:
How do you mean please?

He has collected dowry, the rest should be between the couple

And then ? I believe the guy knows this from the beginning

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen men of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

Yeah I have seen it that’s their church doctrine

Why will I shave it, it filtered my shit

rocknation62:
My friend,they’re doing what they are being employed to do...They’re doing there JOB...

They will treat you the way they treat him

Don’t be surprise he steeling this phone for a woman

LegendHero:
Lol.

Lamido should instead focus on his PDP and tell us the plan the PDP have for Igbo presidency.

He should leave Tinubu with Buhari and let them sort it out in APC.

Anything you bring Igbo in this matter? Focus on what lamido said about your criminal uncle

tayeloveme4rel:
I don't know how to do with my woman she just a fan of clubbing with female folks,don't know why.we have had break-ups countless but i still find it hard to leave her for another lady.i have sit her down severally to advice her but all she does is to smile i don't just know why she is like that pls nairalanders what do you think about it

We are waiting for another thread where you will be crying

BKsoul:
Adimnma.... How is business? Hope you are doing grea i wish you a blissful day.

I thank GOD, 09023290712 WhatsApp only

I thought zzor and Nairaland girls say men is not everything

BKsoul:
Hmmmm.... Onye aruru ala. Good morning

Woman they send you? How far

Dliquidmetal:
all this una jazz sef,all na hearsay. Until I experience all this things first hand I wont believe blindly like the herd does.

And you must surely see it