₦airaland Forum

ShackWes:
guy go die

guys pls read my signature

He need to die

charles009:
Good people of nairaland,
Everything you are about to read is not fiction but certain reality.

At the heat of this DNA wahala, a married Ex called me on 6th of Jan to notify me that her son is mine and not her husbands. I remember vividly a certain Saturday in 2015, when we argued intensely over the paternity of the child during her pregnancy. She insisted it was her boyfriends, make una fear women. She swore she was single. Our calculations showed she was ovulating while we had some encounters. She proceeded to block me on all social media platforms and 2 months later, her friend informed me of her wedding.


The issue here is that I am married with two kids and expecting another, she told me her husband lost his job early 2018 and it has been a very rough patch for her family. she says she wants a divorce.

I asked for the boys pictures and it put instant tears to my eyes. Showed a few friends and the resemblance is striking so they said. The most painful of all, he looks not properly looked after.

I am doing fairly OK now, I wouldn't wanna to see my blood suffer, if you were in my shoes how would you handle this. My wife would not want to hear of another child...

Mature advise please...

Confirm the child is yours with a DNA test , if the child is yours then tell your wife how it happened I believe she will understand

woleabayo:
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TO SIT YOUR WIFE DOWN AND EXPLAIN EVERYTHING TO HER AND BEG HER TO FORGIVE YOU

Explain what without DNA test to confirm if the child is yours?

Beckysexy:
Please who is he ?
Because we don't know him here in Canada .

Canada in ijebu ode

Exactly Nigeria system of banking very annoying

Sixfeetbelle:
Everytime this issue comes up, you will see men shouting bride price is too much, they are selling their daughters that's why men don't respect women, and the rest of their unintelligent jargons.

Ogbeni, will you shut up there? Do you know how much was spent on the girl since she was born till before you met her? Her feeding? Her clothing? Her shelter? Her schooling? The money spent in raising some kids is enough to buy a plot of land and build a mansion in it. Can you monetise it in today's currency exchange and tell me how much should have been the bride price?

Just because you spent two million to wed her, you're now wailing like a headless chicken. Oponu. You, calculate how much your parents spent on you before you became independent and tell me if two million is anywhere near that amount.

See, let this nonsense of 'too much bride price' end here. You are not buying the lady, nobody is selling her to you cause even if they were, cause you can't afford it. So, jejely, pay the one you can and keep quiet about the rest.

You’re such an idiot by saying that, are you selling that girl? If I’m the one that marry her , you will never come to my house as in-law because you sold her to me

tayewomi:
Afternoon,nlanders if u would remember when i type here around Nov that my gf is traveling somewhere and we in serious rlns b4 she left.
months after she left we used to call and do video call and always in touch,this is the girl i always boast in front of guys that no matter what she can't leave,i could remember i told my bro how she love me bt he told me it's time that she may leave later but i argued, just around Dec she asked for Xmas Moni but i just tell her to wait that i will send her but didn't due to some reasons,but attimes when she's away i do send her cards and cash sometimes even when she's not asking me,just after the new yr i discover she change,she hardly calls or flash as she always do,she came BK home on Sun without even informing me and i called to see her even if it's just to see her face she said no,later she didn't pick my call and refuse to tell me her location,i called 5 times she didn't pick,she later told me she's in a new rlns,life continues..

Bros before this year ends that same girl will start to disturb you again, she will blame devil

JovialJune:
I've tried this with mine, and it felt and taste normal, I wonder the pleasure you guys feel when sucking boobs..

Nothing, just to put a girl in the mood, that’s all

Manoftheyear:
Good day guys, happy New year to everyone, please I will make this post as brief as possible.
My brother asked me to help him look after his business when he wants to travel for Xmas, and it happens that I know much about the business, and he have a salesgirl too whom from my observation is a single mother though she is still very young.
Now this is the problem, since I started coming to that shop, I noticed this girl used to do some uncertain things (wuru wuru), so I decided to be more watchful and that's when i found out what she has been doing in the shop. I have caught her red handed in this act.

The first occasion was during last week Tuesday when we were about to close for the day and I was going through the sales book only for me to realized that the items we sold earlier in the day, the quantity in the book was different from what we actually sold, she minus some quantity and I called her to it and she acted as if it was a mistake, I acted as if nothing happened.

Second incident was last week Saturday, I was in the shop and one woman came to the shop with an Item she bought from our shop, so I was in my corner not minding them but I realized she came to complain of something to her and later bought another thing, I saw the item she came with so after the woman left, I called the girl and asked her when the woman bought that item, she said it was on Thursday, so after sometime, I went to the sales book to check if she wrote it, but I was shocked when I went through the whole week sales but I couldn't find it. I kept my cool, till in the evening when we were about to go and i asked her to show me where wrote it, only for her to be going through over and over again, I asked her, I thought you said you sold this thing on Thursday and she said no. Now because we have closed for the day, she wrote it as Monday sales, but I keep wondering if it was only this item that the woman bought. Even is she sold it on Thursday and forget to write it down, the Money would have reflected after the close of the day, but it didn't, that means she intentionally stole the money. She is the one with shop keys and she opens the shop before i come every morning.

Now my problems are

1. I love minding my business

2. It's my brother's business which he entrusted to me to look after for him, so if after finding out all these things and still keep it to myself, if anything goes wrong in future I won't forgive myself.

3. This lady is a single mother and very young, I assume this is the only place she gets what she's using to take care of her herself and her baby, I really feel for her and I know she is going to loose her job if my brother gets to know about this.

Please what should I do?


Please forgive my errors, I'm not perfect

You’re indeed very stupid someone is stealing from your brother that’s almost yours and you’re here talking about minding your business

That’s the only thing she has

Gentle men please ask them what they have , they find it difficult to give? What are they stingy of

Hahjascho:
Mad o.

Modified:
fear women

Some women can be dangerously cunning though.

The man has replied with evidence

Simplyleo:
Sodomy
Infant molestation
Incest

All rolled into Chukwutem Victor Inalu

I think Buhari and Tinubu should share the blame on a ratio of 2:1 and we are good to go.

Let me go and insult afonja and abokki so I will assume it is their fault.

I hope you will read the man side of story now with evidence

No, it’s only women that kill them selves for nothing

No, it’s only that kill them selves for nothing

BaddieFreak:
What is with all this stingy men association trending. Is the association even real, if it is then the members are some of the foolish people on Earth.

What is the usefulness of these association?

What are the benefits and their aims?

Most of them seems like broke and frustrated people except if it is for fun, if it isn't then I weep for this generation of men.

Our forefathers were strong and wonderful men who took care of their women like queens that was why the society was peaceful and everybody was happy but this male generations are weak and frustrated.


If you no get money, hide your face.

May God help us.

This picture show that it’s only sex a woman can offer

BaddieFreak:
What is with all this stingy men association trending. Is the association even real, if it is then the members are some of the foolish people on Earth.

What is the usefulness of these association?

What are the benefits and their aims?

Most of them seems like broke and frustrated people except if it is for fun, if it isn't then I weep for this generation of men.

Our forefathers were strong and wonderful men who took care of their women like queens that was why the society was peaceful and everybody was happy but this male generations are weak and frustrated.


If you no get money, hide your face.

May God help us.

E pain you, get a job instead of depending on men please

Truvel:
Av U Ever Been Envied because Of D Kind Of Food U Eat? Share Ur Experience. I Av Experience Dis Times Without Number. I Will Be Eating, I Would Sense D Feeling Of Envy Or Displeasure 4rm Some Folks Abt What I'm Eating. E.g If I'm Eating Food Like Rice, Beans & Egg On It. I Usually Sense Such Feelings 4rm Some Folks Around, As If Dey Are Displeased With It. Although Some Guys Don't Av Such Feelings. Has Anyone Here Experienced Such Too? Or Am I D Only One? Or Is My Assumption Wrong?

Your English always give me headache I swear

Simplyleo:
Sodomy
Infant molestation
Incest

All rolled into Chukwutem Victor Inalu

I think Buhari and Tinubu should share the blame on a ratio of 2:1 and we are good to go.

Let me go and insult afonja and abokki so I will assume it is their fault.

Tomorrow idiot like will claim redpill, a woman that want to destroy her husband because everything does not go in her favor, before you blame him , hear from him first

Hahjascho:
Mad o.

The man is really mentally derailed.


An empty mind with an unguarded thoughts is dangerous than what could be imagined.

Why hurriedly marrying someone she knew nothing about his life affairs?... trust no one.

Why you people always conclude without hearing from the other person? Nigeria woman anytime thing don’t go in their favor they go to social media to talk trash of the man, when this man talk now you will hear another thing

Millenniumlady:
Why must the woman be paraded naked

They both paraded naked and besides she deserves it because she the one that brings that man into her matrimonial bed

SweetBuns:
what are you nosing around on her SM accounts for?

who are you dating, her or her social media accounts?
let's be mature please

Tomorrow now you will start looking for GOD fearing man

CuteMike01:
E bi like say you neva know the guy...

I no know ooo

CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.

Let me disect those words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you can't notice it easily until you start talking to me. She said I have to bear the consequences of my actions towards her... looking back, I have done unimaginable things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she didn't want blood transfusion from unknown persons as a result of her Christian belief not to contract demons from the blood of unknown person. Fortunately, my blood group is that of a universal donor. That means I can donate blood for anybody. Note that she had never done any noteworthy thing for me apart from giving birth to our babies. About being a juju man, I will tell you how she arrived at this: somebody was about to give birth from her family side and the baby was in breech position. She asked for advice and I told her that if I take the woman to the village my uncle will give the woman a concoction to reverse it. Her faith is against it, but because someone from her side just gave birth through CS, which almost led to the death of mother and baby, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The breech position was reversed. I'm surprised she now labelled me a juju man.

Instead of me to take her message personal, I urged her to please herself. This infuriated her the more. Instead of leaving me, she invited someone to intervene, tracked me to the second town, and it was settled there.

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.

Carrying those word in your heart will harm you, speak it out, talk to her you can even invite her people

virginprincess:
With the way relationship and marriages are crashing these days, isn't it obvious that something is not right,and most times it is the men that are always at fault.

Even the one that born two kids for another man is also men fault

CuteMike01:
You use to comment like person wey dey drink ogogoro. No offense

Wait Oga Na person you tell this this

CuteMike01:
You...

She will be in pain always

If you wish to hangout, go with her and some friends to make your day memorable, don’t take only her out but before anything check the kind of gift she will bring before taking her along

jaytii:
Arm yourselves with pepper spray, knuckle ring or a taser.

All those things you mentioned did you know how much they cost in the market?

ForestHill:
The government should start arresting bad roads, poor health care system, gutter education system, insecurity and many more. Local crimes will reduce

Are you justifying it with the criminal they catch?

DaddyRochie1642:
I swear to God in Heaven each time am traveling my Heart Sinks to the Bottom of my Stomach,
Especially each time all these massive Trucks pass my Vehicle,... I just can't help but keep imagining like
"What if this Truck driver is High or Drunk or the Truck Fails brake and enters my Lane and Collides with me, especially with all those strong powerful metal and steel that Truck is made with, what will be my Fate",.... These kind of thoughts always sends Cold Chills down my tender Spine each time am traveling.

It is well with my Soul..... Amen.

Amen
I thought I’m the only one that think like this

Starz825:
Give your life to Christ Oga..
registering your life in Christ book of Life doesn't stop you from doing whatever you want to do... including avoiding her totally.
she's an angel...give your whole to him
..
having said that;
one thing is important, she might be seeing you as God's will for her...you can ask her about it....

instead of running away from why don't you just sit her down and discuss...you are matured now

Discuss what, can someone say I don’t want in this part world and people will let him or her be?