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DuBLINGreenb:
Cause of death: Gambling

Which Kain lie be dis?

Men for done go tey tey ontop bet Naija and naira bet dem na

You don’t have mind like Chinese , immediately they lose money like that they commit suicide

Olunmercy56:
These people are jobless, go inside bushes and look for criminals. Wetin be dis

Why all of them come from west?

My people from the waste

ChiefJusticeFuc:
Why does Igbo culture accommodate for bastadry ?

There is this custom whereby in the case a woman cheats on her husband and it results into a pregnancy which her husband knows is not his, the man is expected to lay full claim on the child as his.

I don't know if this is an ancient and long standing custom or something that was fashioned for modern times but what I do know is that almost all Igbo clans practice this culture.


So why do they subscribe to such customs?

One would have thought the first instincts of every man is to reject the bastard alongsids the cheating wife, but not so among the Igbos as the man is expected to keep the child as his .

Was this custom drawn because of the high level of infidelity among Igbo women?

And if so, why do the men think by claiming a bastard born by an adultress will some how compensate for her cheating?

Pls I need answers on this.

Oga it’s not custom , it’s a case of when the man is impotent he will marry a girl that’s pregnant and rejected

ChiefJusticeFuc:
Why does Igbo culture accommodate for bastadry ?

There is this custom whereby in the case a woman cheats on her husband and it results into a pregnancy which her husband knows is not his, the man is expected to lay full claim on the child as his.

I don't know if this is an ancient and long standing custom or something that was fashioned for modern times but what I do know is that almost all Igbo clans practice this culture.


So why do they subscribe to such customs?

One would have thought the first instincts of every man is to reject the bastard alongsids the cheating wife, but not so among the Igbos as the man is expected to keep the child as his .

Was this custom drawn because of the high level of infidelity among Igbo women?

And if so, why do the men think by claiming a bastard born by an adultress will some how compensate for her cheating?

Pls I need answers on this.

Oga it’s not custom , it’s a case of when the man is impotent

You won’t see any of those lunatics here because they hate truth

nairalandankrah:
So Of all the numerous problems plaguing this shit hole, it's only alcohol that is your problem..
Op nah wah for u oooo

Mumu did you know how much Nigeria make from alcohol consumption?

Saneesk:
Hello guys,how arr you all doing.so i i real need your help in this issue.

There's this my cousin that's been giving me greenlight to the point that she jokingly said she wanna date me,but the problem is that she's 16 while I'm 18.

Someone said i should accept her love proposal so that i can monitor her love life and guide her through this her tempting age.
As someone said even if i don't accept the proposal she'll still get the d**k from someone,so what I'm trying to say is that I'll accept her proposal and make sure it doesn't lead to anything sexual till she attains maturity......


But I'm afraid i feel like I'm taking advantage of her immaturity at this time cause i know when she grows she'll find someone that she'll love more than me .......


So guys what do you suggest
Should i accept or decline
NB:in my culture marriage between cousins is legal,so datings also legal...

Pardon my english

You’re not confused you just want support from Nairaland

This question is for ladies but all this clown here can’t let hear from lady , what is really your problem? Is it joblessness or sex starved?

Facts , all of them are lies

Rossintii:
Haba......These are her oyinbo slave masters. She can't say anything negative about them.
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Update: Death toll is now 4 shot dead in the US National Assembly, and 14 injured.
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If this had happened in the National Assembly Abuja, anti-Nigerian elements on Nairaland would have declared the country dead and buried, and rained curses on the leadership.

But it's happening in oyinbo land, so they lose their manhood and turn silent pussycats.

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Whatever that happened in US it far better than Nigeria and you’re hustling to go to US even in their crisis time

tyup:
the only pepper soup I eat Is that of goat meat

That goat did you ask of their status/value?

Wittyglam:
But her pastor said is a sin.

I’m saying if she can’t hold body, other way round maybe worst later run

TypeRubbish:
I am not sure am the true son of my dad. I don't look like him. seems my mum must have played him . I feel my real dad must be a rich man..
How can I make him do a DNA test

Please let that old man die in peace, don’t send him to early grave

Help yourself to avoid story that touches the anus in the future

paulolee:
invited a girl over after all the mouth and she ended up calling me a weakling because I couldn't do marathon with her..
I thought its dt easy but na after I don believe say we don fire reach 1hr naim i check n see say na jus 20mins..
I jus gave up and she ended up watching movies all night after I slept off..

you no go come go kill yourself

felong:
So why don't you believe that true love exist in this part of the world, or don't they love you back?

We managed and close our eyes on their cheating

felong:
So why don't you believe that true love exist in this part of the world, or don't they love you back?

Oga stop this your jamb question, there’s nothing like true love in Nigeria

OcVoice:
I traveled to my village this festive season and I met this girl who looks humble and simple. I engaged her in a discussion, and was impressed with her intelligence and humility. We have been visiting each other. I like the character I'm seeing so far. She's also a graduate. I've also asked about her family and discovered she's from a good family.

In one of her visits, my elder brother saw her and when she left, I told him I would like to marry her but not so soon. I need to know her very well and also pray about it.

My brother said she's ugly and short and her English not too sound. He asked if I would be proud to introduce her to friends, neighbors, church members in Lagos? I said yes, and that I like her the way she is. I told him that character is the major thing for me. He said I should add beauty and height too, including front and back.

So my question: what qualities matters most when looking for a wife?

You answers to him say it all , if you’re proud of her as he ask you them go on you don’t need any other consultations

Don’t mind those useless set individuals

Michelle55:
What is this world turning into?

DNA test should be made compulsory in every hospital to save one from stress biko.. I would allow it if we talk about it but going to conduct such test without my knowledge is a big No for me.
Come to think of it, some hospital do switch babies at birth right? What if there's a possibility of carrying someone's else baby home

In some cases there’s switch but fidelity make a man sleep with their daughter, DNA test should be included is hospital bill during child birth

Yoruba don’t disappoint anywhere they go, she have harvest his organ

StacyO:
Either she's talking about sex.

Getting a man to commit is just to play without sex.

I think you’re only girl that reason normal as a girl here

StacyO:
Either she's talking about sex.

Getting a man to commit is just to play without sex.

I this you’re only girl that reason normal as a girl here

This debts Lagos state government is owning what do they use that money for? No road , no light , no government infrastructure, nothing to show for this money they borrowed

Molahnelson:
How can we help this woman?

She doesn’t need any help , in fact she’s correct, urgent 2k and all sorts of indirect way they are collecting money from men is what she addressed here

So far he is a Yoruba, he did it

Righteousness2:
Do not let this Paternity fever kill you,
Dont create Unnecessary problems in your Homes,
Allow Wisdom and Understanding guide you in your actions..
The way I am seeing this DNA talks, it's looking like something projected to destroy homes in these times..
Wisdom is Profitable to Direct.
If you Have no tangible reason to Suspect, do not involve yourself in it

Stupid black man mentality, everything was projected by devil when will common sense work for us in this part of the world?

dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

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Play along , make her your sex object

Tissaia:
IPOB have kidnaped and killed him

Go and harvest him

Sex enchantment