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Crime › Re: Man Who Bought Human Head For #20,000 Naira Confesses by Bennysam: 10:50am On Jan 10, 2021
Ewedu republic I hail you people
Crime › Re: Teenagers Confess To How They Removed A Girl's Private Part For N500,000 by Bennysam: 10:47am On Jan 10, 2021
They learn from their slave
Romance › Re: Lady Narrates How She Married Her Twin Brother And Had A Child For Him [VIDEO] by Bennysam: 10:32am On Jan 10, 2021
You don’t mean it

Romance › Re: My Ex Is About Getting Married But She Still Loves Me by Bennysam: 10:10am On Jan 10, 2021
Meteng:
Orrr, and he said she loves him, yet they separated and she's getting married to another man. Some men eh?
His a dummy, he don’t think like a man, a girl that love you won’t leave you for another man
Romance › Re: My Ex Is About Getting Married But She Still Loves Me by Bennysam: 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2021
Why do you separate from her before he find that man?
Romance › Re: Successful Nigerian Men & Their Love For Foreign Women by Bennysam: 10:25pm On Jan 09, 2021
If Duncan might marry foreign girl all nonsense we are hearing now you won’t hear them , he would have had peace of mind
Romance › Have You Thank Your Maker This Year by Bennysam(op): 3:41pm On Jan 09, 2021
Thank your GOD in every situation you found yourself

Romance › Re: UPDATED-My strange Experience With A Runs Girl As An Undergraduate by Bennysam: 3:19pm On Jan 09, 2021
Kwantinu

Romance › Re: My Flashback Pics. Rate My Figure Back Then by Bennysam: 3:12pm On Jan 09, 2021
Are you mad or planning to be mad or even intentionally mad?
Romance › Re: Come Let Reason Together by Bennysam: 2:59pm On Jan 09, 2021
Nazgul:
We weren't talking about relationships we're talking about betting.
Don’t waste your time on someone that has made his mind
Romance › Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Bennysam: 1:40pm On Jan 09, 2021
Your life your decision
Foreign Affairs › Re: Lehigh University Has Rescinded Trump's Honorary Degree by Bennysam: 1:22pm On Jan 09, 2021
olajizz01:
Guess he will fight the war by himself because I believe the US Army will refuse to obey him at this moment.
No matter what he still have people that’s royal to him
Business › Re: Meet Grasshoppers Seller Who Makes ₦20,000 To ₦30,000 Daily In Kaduna (Video) by Bennysam: 12:51pm On Jan 09, 2021
People eat that?

Family › Re: Aderonke Sikirat Anifowose Missing After Observing Juma'at In Ikorodu Lagos by Bennysam: 12:49pm On Jan 09, 2021
Organ harvesters will do the needful no doubt
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 8:28am On Jan 09, 2021
SweetCunt97:
Did I say gift everyday? Yes you right, a reasonable mother shouldn't bring up such. Personally I thought it was his first visit
No it’s not, I tell you from my own understanding , first visit is for you to present yourself to the girl family for them to know you and the parents will ask you a few questions
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:33am On Jan 09, 2021
SweetCunt97:
When growing, every day my parents buy things for us when coming back from work. Every fvcking day. Like I said it could b fruits.


Will it be proper if he visits and no one offers him anything? It's simply courtesy.

If you don't buy, you shouldn't bother to eat there... Abi na longthroat?
Oga if you have not married, I’m married and also visit my in-law before we got married nothing like gift everyday what my in-laws is after is well being of their daughter that is what a reasonable mother will be after
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:48pm On Jan 08, 2021
SweetCunt97:
But you know it ain't cool to go see an intending in law empty handed nwokem. The lady no wise though
Every time?
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:34pm On Jan 08, 2021
izzou:
[color=royalblue]I find it funny that you are still defending the irritating attitude your mum displayed

He did not bring any gift (as a boyfriend) and your mum is angry. I wonder what would happen when he marries you

Always apply wisdom, my sister. It's not everything you talk or react to. You could have simply apologized on his behalf and talk to him to apologize to your mum, rather than confront him on why he didn't bring anything.

I just pray you don't ruin a good relationship because of gift[/color]
Age is still on her side that’s all
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:29pm On Jan 08, 2021
lilioj:
While it would have been nice and presentable for your fiance to bring something for your mum, it's not enough for your mum to be vexed and not even enough for you to call and reprimand him

If you truly want to be with him go over to his place and try to patch things up.

Meanwhile what is his financial capacity?
Just curious to know if he couldn't afford to or just didn't think it necessary.

Modified : just seeing that he has bought things for your mum previously.
You and your mum are wrong.
You shouldn't even have mentioned anything to him.
This is not his first time going there, first time he went with something, must he go there with something all the time?
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:27pm On Jan 08, 2021
Trayceey:
not really. The first time he came to see her, which has been a while now, he didn't come empty handed
See where you got it all wrong, do your mom want him to always come with something? Correct that impression from your mom
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:18pm On Jan 08, 2021
Mariangeles:
We are Africans. Let us be honest with ourselves.

A man going alone to visit his would-be mother in-law empty handed is a red flag. Something to worry about.
What was the purpose of the visit?
Even as a female, it is still wrong to go visit the mother of the man you're going to marry empty handed.
You’re desperate and hungry, visiting for the first time as a potential husband you don’t need to go with anything just present yourself for the family to know you then when you’re familiar with then you go with gift
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:11pm On Jan 08, 2021
Trayceey:
must you be insulting? With the way you sound, u re not responsible and reasonable enough, so your opinion doesn't count
What he said is truth but he didn’t present it well , call your boyfriend and apologize to him
Family › Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bennysam: 7:10pm On Jan 08, 2021
Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?
First what do you mean he came empty handed? What did your mom want him to come with? You and your mom need a change of thinking
Romance › Re: Girls Mindset Fantasies by Bennysam: 6:46pm On Jan 08, 2021
It’s not fear, it’s fantasy she want to do like other, she wants to belong
Celebrities › Re: Rahama Sadau: I Am Not Quitting Filmmaking For Marriage by Bennysam: 4:11pm On Jan 08, 2021
Ask your brothers in the north
Romance › Re: My Experience With An Abuja Babe.. by Bennysam: 4:08pm On Jan 08, 2021
fuckaholic25:
re u the OP?
No but you take it personal
Romance › Re: My Experience With An Abuja Babe.. by Bennysam: 2:22pm On Jan 08, 2021
fuckaholic25:
bro, this 2021 o... u better Goan hustle!! blogging no be ur way o
As least jump and pass
Romance › Re: Feminist Hypocrisy by Bennysam: 1:09pm On Jan 08, 2021
Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]patriarchy tells you to protect women, so, shut up, suck it up and do what you're meant to do as beasts of burden.

feminists are not your saviours nor the cause of your woes.[/color]
Why are you so pained
Romance › Re: I Was Just A Girlfriend In 2020 – Lady Celebrates As She Gets Engaged [photos] by Bennysam: 12:56pm On Jan 08, 2021
They will still come to Nairaland and claim they don’t need a man
Romance › Re: Salt & Pepper (18+) by Bennysam: 7:41am On Jan 08, 2021
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Crime › Re: "I Killed My Girlfriend Used The Proceed To Buy Beer"- Osun Ritual Killer by Bennysam: 8:15pm On Jan 07, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:
shocked




And I was even thinking that I've heard it all??


#StrangeThings
Why are you surprised when my Yoruba brothers is involved
Politics › Re: Accept Biden As President - Fani-Kayode To Trump by Bennysam: 3:52pm On Jan 07, 2021
Simplyleo:
FFK dribbling his ipobian followers everytime thereby always throwing them into confusion. He really needs to be stable so they know what brand of foolishness is reigning.

Abi no be dis same man talk say him see am for dream say dem swear in Trump on 20 January?
Why everything about sound idiotic even your looks , you look like slowpoke

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