₦airaland Forum

frozen70:
Pls just leave her there to be nurtured by her mum as this is her first pregnancy,she needs her mother's care more than before

Do send allowance to her and visit her as you can

If she keeps bringing up the wedding issues, tell her you are saving towards it but for now ,her pregnancy and delivery is the major thing in your mind

It's will give you the opportunity to save towards her delivery and future wedding

By the time she thinks she is stable to travel to be with you ,she will demand for it and you can them come and pick her


Though at six months of her pregnancy she would have been strong enough to care for herself with little help

Unless she insists on staying with her parents then come after delivery, good better for you

GOD bless you , op take this advice

shawnfamous:
Na marriage right u say u do and u wan carry am go house.. She for no Carry belle for u sha

Wedding is not a must my friend , only thing that matters is what you do in her fathers house with both family present

chiddyok:
You are a wicked, selfish, cheap creature. It’s bad enough she’s pregnant, you don’t want her to wear a white gown, so that the insults will reduce. Women suffer. If you know what is good for you, use this corona period as an opportunity to do a wedding with strictly family members, possibly 30 people in total. Don’t you know the law can’t protect her until you celebrate a wedding; either traditional or white, or registry.

You are stupid one here , you people don't consider a man situation just only know yourselves, selfish idiot

[quote author= post=93519078]Over 15 Million Nigerians that voted out the thieves, criminals and looters that raped and stole the destiny of Nigerians unborn kids and their unborn kids will most definitely vote them out again over and over.
If your party of destruction and looters that took our nation 100 years back were ruling the nation well, no one will ever vote them out.
FFK, former aviation minister that looted our treasury along with his principals should bury their stupid end in shame.
May God punish all politicians that took our nation down the drain along with their miserable supporters.

We Rise![/quote]Fool

Firespitter:
Please stop giving undue attention to foolish people

Who's foolish here?

humilitypays:
If you are a single lady that is not from a well known rich family background or you have a well known and established career or flourishing business, don't ever make mistake of going to Lekki or VI or Ikoyi to live alone.



I am advising you single ladies as a concerned brother, of course the bad guy side of me love it but the good guy side of me told me to tell you single ladies to desist from that move.

Nigeria is not New York neither is it London.


Nigeria is located in Africa and every nation is shaped by their culture, tradition and values. Nigerians irrespective of wealth, exposure or what have you are shaped by our Nigerian culture, tradition, religion and societal values.


If you think it is a wise thing to do, ask your fellow Nigerian single ladies living in Canada, London and US how market!



Don't expect Seun Osewa's parents to be like Tyler Perry's parents. Our mamas and papas are Nigerians, there are things they will neglect in their son's girlfriends but will never dare when she is about to turn to their sons wife or DIL!


Forget the opinion of some Nigerian guys trying to form Americana, I am telling you sisters, the moment you meet a guy that have a good intention to wife you or date you for keeps and he asks you where you stay, and you mention Lekki, Ikoyi, etc and you are not living with your parents or uncle or brother or elderly relative, forget it, he will reduce your score by 60% on his score card and activate his Playboy mood to chop his own share and run!



A word is enough for them wise fifulu

My brother you just said it all , this is what I think anytime I see a girl living alone those places, I can't even date them talk less of marriage

Sandypearl:
Every story has two side just like a coin has two side.

I know that it must be a girl that say this

ggirl4real:
Some men and ladies can be overbearing.

You can't force someone to accept you. Simple.

When I see comments from Nigeria girls I feel bad , you know you won't marry him and you let him train you and now you're telling it's not by force to marry , you're evil and who ever that support evil , evil will the person see

Rahmanjargo:
Na evangelism or church sermon you dey find for hook up applications?

Mumu post from a mumu person

You be mumu, it call dating site not hookup site

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

You're ungrateful person if you don't help them

Kriss216:
Lol
Who knows the vagina person that wonjure your heart like this

I'm telling you , who did this to you that makes you wakeup and wrote this

Kestolove:
Go to ur village ND get solution...no allow pastor buy private jet for ur head

Take this advice if you really want it to end , but if you see good man of GOD for deliverance , it will be better

Blackmoran:
didn't know which hole to insert my junior

Lazy youth why can't you pass, do you think everyone is like you

phrancys001:
Two of Una no normal

What makes two of them not normal, what concern the op, he is just saying his observation and you're talking out of point please read before comment

Because that's only thing you can offer

[quote author= post=93310059]We remembered vividly, this interview by the Chairman of Innoson Group recently........

Innocent Chukwuma, Chairman, Innoson Group of Companies Nigeria limited, says the federal government, under President Muhammadu Buhari, has given enormous patronage and support to his firm, Innoson Vehicle Manufacturing (IVM).

Mr Chukwuma made the disclosure in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Sunday in Nnewi, Anambra.

He also named Enugu, Ebonyi, Ekiti, Imo, Kogi, Anambra, Gombe, and Bauchi as well as Nigeria military among the states buying Innoson vehicles.

Mr Chukwuma further told NAN that if patronage is given to his firm, it could transform Nigeria into a vehicle manufacturing hub in Africa in no distant time.

“I can say that Innoson vehicle manufacturing is doing well, especially with the level of patronage and support the company is enjoying under the present federal government, led by President Muhammadu Buhari.


God bless our darling Daddy,
A man after God's heart.
Anyone that hates who God's love will never see any good thing in life.
No be curse
Na FACT!

Only if God doesn't love him... [/quote]You are more foolish than buhari himself

ZINIBANKS:
Can you state your reasons for saying this

She's more exposed than you even more experience and she will control you with all those things she had

[quote author=XXXXTENTACION post=93202544][/quote
If it's not a movie then you're idiot

WibusJaga:
That's about $600 per week!
Wilfred Ndidi of Leicester over $90,000 per week!
It is well.

A million naira is $600 to you? Really

Pamfresh:
I had to create a new account because of this topic.
Mod please help me push this to front page as it would help mould or mar my relationship. Thanks!!!
Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me.
I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences.
This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it.
Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable?

Oga let it be only relationship, don't marry her I repeat don't marry her

krushdripper:
So you are married with a daughter & you think chasing & dating under 18 year old girls is cool? You must be actively indulging in that rubbish. Get a life boy.

18 years of age have reach to make a decision for her self, so any thing she does , she take responsibility for it

afonjabreed:
See as People dey lie

When a foolish man talk you will know, so people don't know what they spend on their wedding day, stop smoking damm weed

donuchris007:
. One came to hotel room after I satisfied myself,he ask for money to sock her shop because she over heard my conversation. I told her, am not her parents.menh you need to see her face. Don't get me wrong, do good to a good woman, but you see those hoes( slay mama) show no mercy.

That's what happened to me sometime earl last year

donuchris007:
. Don't be, just finished using those hoes and pass them on to another bro. Keep only those who are virgin and are ready to submit. Never help a hoe

That's it you nailed it

donuchris007:
. What do you expect? They are the same. Hoe and bitches.

I'm surprise at this people all the time

Shanklee:
I pray you mistakenly impregnate that small girl you are currently dating then rush to Nairaland for help on abortion

Oga I'm married with a daughter now but what you said is trash

Shanklee:
You are prolly one of them. NOTED

Get a life bro

Look for another work, blog no fit you

Zzor:
Rubbish,as far as a lady is not married to a man,she can decide to leave at any point in time.You have leech tendencies from your write-up

Nigeria girls and their support to some of their fellow girls evil deed

Have you finished or you still have nonsense to say?

Why always this kind news from west