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Cooldude234:
How? Please explain how I'm putting myself in the friendzone

Are you not the one that write where she said she don't want to spoil her friendship with you, she see you as friend but is left for you to go for what you want

You're using your hand to put yourself in friend zone

techmo:




Childish Man Child

59 year old man who would clock 60 this year is still acting like a child


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You will sell your father just to show the world that you're angel

abu12:
ever since I read kayode ogundamisi respond to ffk, that's when I realised , he is truly a nuisance. only ipob glorify him.

ogundamisi really finish fani kayode.

https://www.nairaland.com/5706868/kayode-ogundamisi-blasts-femi-fani-kayode

I come to realized that 90% of Yoruba youth is idiot

Golan007:
Nobody wants to know your side of the story you idiot.

Don't let hatred destroyed your sense of reasoning

IntersexSherry:
women no be human being again? Is it bad to help fellow human being?

Help you as how? Your parents or what?

Don't mind this first comment , you just nailed it

IamWonderful:
Cry as you wanted Buhari still remains president till 2023 and Osinbajo till 2031, you own your mouth.

Dreamer idiot

Amotolongbo:
Official Assignment.

Moreover, Wetin concern me with GEJ?

Don't mind Yoruba Muslim and their stupidity

davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.

Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.

Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.

We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.

Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks.

At 35 you're still doing boyfriend and girlfriend, go and marry

2dice01:
She is testing your love Bro

You almost there

Just 4years more before she says

YES

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Oga you funny die, so you encouraged your fellow man to continue till next four years

Binhamid:
Are you saying I should dump her and move on?

Yes and stay away from distant relationship

womenareapes:
are you that dumb!

the way you simps keep popping out one after another is just amazing

Dumb is under statement, he is dumb and stupid

womenareapes:
are you that dumb!

the way you simps keep popping out one after another is just amazing

Dumb is under statement , he is dumb and stupid

Nigeria men what happened? We complained about our girls everyday but we are the curse of it all

Tonyspecial:
he didn't say All Nigerian Ladies biko, AVERAGE NIGERIAN LADIES

Whatever my friend , it's not Good

Bloooody:
I picked up this slim looking slay queen and after some weeks of wooing her we finally had sex and her puna was smelling as if she just ended her period cycle.

Why is the average nigerian woman so dirty

You all should stop this madness, why call all Nigerian lady because of one dirty girl like you , you pick on the strwet

Onijagidijagan:
No wonder na them ipod the tax evaders

Ghanaians you did the right thing. I beg you all in god's name close up all their shops and lock up your borders...they're wired never to pay tax.

The good ones let them continue to enjoyed their businesses

Heart attack will kill you and your generation

Ojb194616:
Is that easy?
Na so them they marry?

Well, my heart is with her.

Marrying my tribe might not give me the joy I want.

Then be a mam and follow ur heart

Ojb194616:
Is that easy?
Na so them they marry?

Well, my heart is with her.

Marrying my tribe might not give me the joy I want.

Then be a man and follow your heart

Medunah:
I would have said let sleeping dogs lie too but did u guys see the part where Op said he shows less love to the girl compared to his other kids because of his doubt?
Pls op, do the DNA test and clear your doubts.

But the question is, what will you do if she isn't your daughter? Ask your wife to take her to her father? Or you will start to treat the child with even more contempt than you have been doing before?

My own advice for you is treat her solely as your own and show her as much love as you show the others DNA or no DNA

Of course , I will not rise another man child

chris2face:
Is weired to just wake up one day and ask ur wife for a DNA test on ur girl for me if am the wife not biggie i wil do that but thats the end of that marriage
I will tell the Op the let the sleeping dog lie

What of after 20 years you found out she's not your daughter what will you do then

memories1:
IF I were your wife, I would prefer you talk to me AND also do the DNA test. If the girl is truly yours, then I'd always dangle the guilt over your head.

Either way, communicate your doubts to your wife, do it with tact. The earlier you allay your fears the better. I'm sure she would agree to the test... but if she appears reluctant or begins to emotionally blackmail you....well, check each other's fidelity.

The best advice you can take

Oyindidi:
Baba T for President

If I'm your wife, the marriage will end after the DNA test.

And if the girl is not his , what will you do after DNA?

Go and marry from your tribe simple

You funny please next,,,,,,,,,,

She's desperate for a husband

SaintXto:
I've actually had a talk with on this with herr....


I personally, I do not keep my ex's close! No matter what we shared and that's because I do not ever wanna compromise things with herr...


And she was like: not everyone is like you.

My brother take or leave it , she is nor actually into you, she's using you as spear

Oga there's possibility that she will go back to him again because she still love him , my advice is, talk her about it but if she repeat it again don't take that relationship serious let it be for sex only