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Crime › Re: Zainab Justina Adeyemo Raped To Death In Ondo by Bennysam: 9:42pm On Aug 02, 2020
I'm not surprise
Romance › Re: Our Tradition Has Made Our Men Selfish!!!! by Bennysam: 10:17am On Aug 02, 2020
itsmeurLady:
I understand that too and dats y I used the word in my introductory sentence "Most" and not "All"... buh majority is the order of the day... if u go through this thread, some posters are already proving it by their remarks... Good Men that appreciate Values are Rare but there are still some Good ones out der
You're indeed confused
Romance › Re: Don't Gold Dig A Man You Don't Want To Settle Down With by Bennysam: 10:11am On Aug 02, 2020
Zzor:
and where is the sense
I noticed that any truth someone here write about woman don't make send to you, try and change now unless you will end up at Shiloh
Romance › Re: The Reason Why Our Girls Are Becoming Something Else by Bennysam: 10:02am On Aug 02, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
I don't drink alcohol
Maybe you sold it because of five minute pleasure
Romance › Re: The Reason Why Our Girls Are Becoming Something Else by Bennysam: 10:00am On Aug 02, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:
Madam why are You Furious because he Spoke the truth??
Don't mind Nigeria girls and their foolish understanding
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri: I Am Opposed To General Buhari But Sowore Lied by Bennysam: 9:22pm On Aug 01, 2020
Simplyleo:
In the said video, ipob miscreants were seen drinking Sowore's urine.

Reno said the video was characterized by dishonest editing for malicious intent.

Now, between sowore, the newly enthroned god of ipob lunatics and Reno, a long time god of ipob miscreants, which side will the miscreants be?

Only time will tell. undecided
You will die of heart attack one day
Romance › Re: Help My Gf Missed Her Period by Bennysam: 3:01pm On Jul 31, 2020
rowland545:
kip silence if u r not wise enough
Keep on confusing yourself,
Romance › Re: Help My Gf Missed Her Period by Bennysam: 12:56pm On Jul 31, 2020
rowland545:
I had sex with this girl like 3 weeks ago and she was suppose to have seen the period on the 21st of this month but til now nothing. And mind u while we had sex I did not nut inside I did wedrawal method.

But I'm still scared and we've done 2 pregamcy test using test strip and all is showing one line which is negative. But up til now no menses. I'm really scared pls someone should help me explain this....

I'm in no mood for bashing so its either u say something meaniful or u fvck off thank u
Idiot what kind of help do you need?
Romance › Re: My gf Don't Have Much But She Going Crazy Over Material Things by Bennysam: 12:51pm On Jul 31, 2020
You see all this thing and still come online for advice? Dey there
Romance › Re: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by Bennysam: 10:08am On Jul 31, 2020
frozen70:
There won't be any need for that, women are irrelevant in gays world
You get it from your mother
Romance › Re: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by Bennysam: 8:45am On Jul 31, 2020
frozen70:
Because you are a gay, you don't know the value of women, that's how useless gays like you reacts
Come and see if I'm gay woman
Romance › Re: Nairaland Guys Ain't Worth It. by Bennysam: 10:22pm On Jul 30, 2020
astonished:
What is the problem?

can you share your experiences you have with anyone of them
No experience and monopous is around the corner
that's why
Romance › Re: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by Bennysam: 9:57pm On Jul 30, 2020
frozen70:
For the fact that you are a beast, the only thing you can explain about women is that they are useless

I know you have a mother who is a woman

So you are also referring to her because she is the first woman in your life
If you're not useless then why are you talking as one
Romance › Re: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by Bennysam: 11:37am On Jul 30, 2020
[quote author=frozen70 post=92261922]You are talking from experience based on your observations on your mother towards your dad [/quot
Is this the only thing that comes to your mind, lazy idiot
Romance › Re: Men, If This Is The Brideprice To Pay For The Love Of Your Life, Will You Pay? by Bennysam: 8:52am On Jul 30, 2020
I will die single
Family › Re: Man Finds Out His 3-Year-Old Daughter Is Not His After A Secret DNA Test by Bennysam: 1:58pm On Jul 29, 2020
As evil as they are, you won't see any comment from a girl here
Politics › Re: Jide Zetlin And The Yoruba Culture Of Molesting Women by Bennysam: 10:20am On Jul 27, 2020
[quote author=AlabiJ post=92153136]Which woman did he molest?? Are you sure you are Ok? He dated a woman who later felt scorned after he broke up with her and then she set out to destroy him and you call that 'molesting'. You ipobs and your upside down thought process sef. Can we also say because more igbo men murder their RN wives in America means igbo men have a culture and tendency of being serial killers? Oga when will you receive brain? [/quote
Most of you is in bondage because you will
truth and call it a lie
Nairaland General › Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Bennysam: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:
But ladies can raise their hands on a man?
Ask the idiot , i get annoyed when some people talk like this
Nairaland General › Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Bennysam: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2020
[quote author=NockMedia post=92096759]I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.[/quot
I pity some of you that talk nonsense
Romance › Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Bennysam: 11:21am On Jul 21, 2020
SweetCunt97:
many sir. Move out of ur street and see them in banks, parastatals, markets, govt agencies. You simply just sounded like a recluse
Oga go close to those girl you mentioned and see their mentality , forget
Romance › Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Bennysam: 8:04am On Jul 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
U see ur mentality? So na only ladies earning 30k u dey meet?
How many Nigeria woman do serious business or work?
Romance › Re: Why Are Like 80% Of Nigerian Girls So Useless? by Bennysam: 4:30pm On Jul 17, 2020
77Craze:
Your mum was once a girl remember? She should be in right position to answer this
Stop nonsense if you don't know what to say
Romance › Re: Women Are Evil. by Bennysam: 4:26pm On Jul 17, 2020
Ladylite:
What happened to you? Why this mindset
You will not see anything in what he says because
all of you support evil your follow women do
Crime › Re: John Mitchener: Interpol Indicts American For Advance Fee Fraud In Nigeria by Bennysam: 10:52pm On Jul 16, 2020
Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
Ewu
Sports › Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Bennysam: 10:45pm On Jul 16, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
p0rn/masturbation, drugs, gambling and junk food are addiction that are not easy to get rid of, unless you have a strong will and desire to do so. sadly, it looks like only when that dude you owe money will catch you (and severly deal with you) that you will hopefully understand that betting is rubbish. until then, no matter what we tell you, you will continue gambling
shut up if you don't know what to
say
Romance › Re: Some Women Squirt And Some Don't: Why? by Bennysam: 10:07am On Jul 16, 2020
[quote author=Flier post=91514792]It’s urine and only dirty women do it beside it only happens in porn movies
It just like peeing during sex [/quotei
It's a lia , in fact around East African if you don't squirt ,
you are not complete wonman . if doubt it make enquiries
Romance › Re: Ladies Get Intimidated By My Looks. I'm in trouble! by Bennysam: 2:44pm On Jul 13, 2020
Dicktion:
I make these bitches uncomfortable. I'm an extremely attractive guy that only needs to step out and vrooom both genders drool. Even guys gosh I'm not even gonna talk about the ladies.

I weep whenever I see average looking guys shouting upandan and terming themselves "fineboys"... The fine ones don't make noise they let people do that. This is not me tryna glorify my looks or anything of such cos I don't fvcking need that. It's just me tryna be clear from the start so y'all will grab everything by the end of this thread. But I don't give a fvck if you force yourself to see it however you wanna tho.


My Aunt once told me to never look her in the face when she talking. That I make her uncomfortable and nervous with my eyes. Wondered why an aunt would say that to her nephewhuh Me sef still dey wonder o


So whenever I hang around girls they're always "not themselves".. The guys who have experienced this would understand me. The ones who haven't and wish but couldn't may cry over this thread. Whenever I'm around these ladies make so many funny moves and shit happens but this particular one that happens today got me thinking. Like can looks only make one looses themselves around a soul and become something entirely different from their true selveshuh

Well they say it's just from the start and they'll eventually loosen up when they get used to you but funny enough these bitches don't get loosed up and free even after months of being with and knowing me. Just few adapt (like 2 out of 20) that's poor huh? I guess!

Now lemme get straight to what inspired this thread.

I'm currently living with three ladies in the same house. Not currently in the mood to talk about how I ended up there, but maybe later. So many funny stuff happened since I came through but this particular one this morning got me LOL.. 2 pretty ass ladies with one average looking heftily endowed one. So the latter made rice this morning and dished as humongous as usual for me. Have never finished their food before no matter how much I always try. I no dey fear face if I hungry I go chop everything finish. But this particular house I never finish food wey dem gimme before. They're impressively caring I wanna give it up for my looks but I'm not the type that attributes stuff like that to my looks. I loathe pride that's cultivated by mere looks. Who looks help? Truly it doesn't help but mine may land me into an abyss sad Only when you see me you'd understand fully

OK i digressed but who careshuh So miss endowed served me and ate in the same plate with one of the other pretty asses (the other one went to work. Emergency)..

Knock knock! They got a visitor (another fresh meat got me wondering why these fine ladies don't wanna keep at least one ugly friend like their Co-slayers do)..
She was served and this time I'm done esting.

Then I'm like "I like the way y'all eat with style. Lemme watch you guys eat I'm loving it"

And that was the end of the journey. Nobody gree eat again. The New lady dropped her spoon. The other one turned her back to the wall and miss endowed covered her face while chewing. It was hilarious I had to go out and let them enjoy cheesy




I went to visit my bro last week at Utako and his boss's daughter asked him to come greet me. This lady I haven't seen her before according to my bro when I asked she only saw me from her room when I was coming from the gate. I didn't get to see her until I went there few days ago only for her to run back inside when she saw me coming out of my brother's room. It was my bro tha told me this time too I wouldn't have known. So literally I haven't seen her till date embarassed


So many events I can't even say 1% and I'm used to it cos it's been so since I turned 19. Can't even talk about ladies been extremely insecure when we are like Dating? Don't even wanna go there. A lady once said she'd waste me if I ever leave her. I'm glad I ran for my life. Most times I feel threatened by my looks. I feel like what I have will put me in more danger someday (yes It has put me in danger severally. Story for another day lipsrsealed )

No lady ever trusts me. No lady has ever felt they are enough for me. Even if I choose to be loyal and straight forward in a relationship it's never enough. Cos immediately you start thinking this man is all yours, you'll be outrightly discouraged once see your fellow woman staring at him like woah! And if I come follow the woman exchange pleasantries small then they loose all hopes. A few ladies have told me "Jake(fake name) I can't be with someone everybody wanna be with". And they left cry

I just think I'm a male version of tha light skinned princess every Motherfvcker wanna fvck and dump, or love unconditionally or flirt with or even rape. The type all men wanna hunt down. I think that's what I'm and you know how species like that are endangered to our society nowadays.
If they don't have you, they will loathe you. Some may even seek for ways to destroy yousad

I always pray the lord my soul to keep!
Keep on fooling yourself
Romance › Re: . by Bennysam: 2:42pm On Jul 13, 2020
DreamyEyes:
So I saw a thread where a guy (dicktion) claimed he was so handsome and girls get insecure and uncomfortable around him lol.
And nairaland girls were disappointed as he didn't share his pics to prove his audio extreme hansomeness lol

I can bet that guy ain't even as gorgeous as I am even if he actually is very handsome

I have pictorial proof unlike him
I'll upload after 3 comments. wink

Cc Rozz drella laughitall merieam16 IammyIam nerdyrudegyal UndauntedYOCA queenitee Goldp5988

Modified: photo taken down
Idiot
Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Revealing Their Age? by Bennysam: 2:36pm On Jul 13, 2020
Leezah:
I think because we live in a culture and society that values youth more than age, more so in women. A female goes through at least three distinct stages in her life, that of a child, a maiden, and matron. The peak in a woman's life if typically the maiden period in that they are young but considered women. It is like that sweet spot where they have that youth and beauty that men desire, and therefore men value women in this period more.

When she was a child she lived underneath her father's household, as a matron she is under her husbands care, but as a maiden she in theory has at least some control over where she goes after that.

When a woman is in that maiden phase, it is relatively short in relation to the rest of her life. Like ten years at best? And inevitably the woman will age out of this maiden period, and then more assumptions and expectations are piled on.

After the maiden age range, a woman is expected to be a mother and to be ferrying kids to soccer practice, and needs to get home to cook the meal for her family, people stop viewing her in the context of an individual but in the context of a family.

And I can imagine having people hearing your age, and automatically placing you in this context can be frustrating. Assuming that you are married, but if you aren't that you want to get married desperately, that you have kids, but if you don't, you want them desperately.

I read a critique of statistics of how hard it is for women to get married. Pretty much a lot of single fear mongering goes something like this: "It is harder to find a partner for A demographic, X% of A women are unmarried at the age of Y!". However, they never factored in the possibility that they were women who didn't want to get married at all. If I am 35 and single, it isn't because I "couldn't find a man", it is because I didn't want to get married. But people would automatically put me in the pitiful box, and that I must have tried really hard to get married only to fail.

But because of age there are so many assumptions are piled on a woman. So as a way to circumvent it a bit, women might lie about their age.
That's a very big lie , women around the world does
the same thing
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode: Tinubu, Osinbajo Will Be Crushed After Magu by Bennysam: 8:11am On Jul 13, 2020
encriagona:
always talking with two sided mouth. no one knows which side he belongs.
He is saying this truth but you fail to see the hand
writing on the wall

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