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Crime › Re: Couple & Two Others Caught With Human Skull In Ogun State by Bennysam: 12:24pm On Sep 29, 2020
NeoWanZaeed:
yes o.. and even theft..

them go con use business cover up.. person go think say em rich
Even those that sell hot drinks do money rituals
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 11:36am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
gringrin oga face ur work abeg i dey go. bye
Yeye dey smell
Crime › Re: Couple & Two Others Caught With Human Skull In Ogun State by Bennysam: 11:36am On Sep 29, 2020
NeoWanZaeed:
na igbo do money rituals pass
You can't compare them with anyone
Romance › Re: My Neighbour Whose Husband Is Abroad Wants To Sleep With My friend by Bennysam: 11:31am On Sep 29, 2020
Iseoluwani:
I have a beautiful, curvy, tall and fair woman in my compound. Her husband has been in America for 2 years without visiting once. She is clearly s3x deprived. I am the only barchelor in the compound. She a 10 year old kid.

This woman has given me too many green lights. It is just too clear that she wants to sleep with me, but I can see she is kind of careful cos of fear of rejection. She discusses everything in the world with me including how she misses s3x and doesnt mind cheating on her husband. She didnt tell me or show me directly that she wants to sleep with me but from her expression and our discussion, everuthing points towards that direction.

I have reprimanded guys who have slept with married women and would tell others not to indulge in such, but sincerely I am in a dilemma here. This woman is too beautiful to ignore and coupled with the fact that the husband hasnt been around. I am tempted to show her some real good signs too and just sleep with her. Plus some other benefits will follow: She is the richest in the compound, a big business woman, drives the best car et al.

I know most of you will ask why I have come here since I already want to do it. Well, I just need some people to give me reason why I shouldnt maybe that would keep my mind off it.

FROM A FRIEND IN DILEMMA
Prepare to reap what you sow, it must surely come
Romance › Re: Nigeria Girls At 30yrs And Marriage Is Something Else. by Bennysam: 11:12am On Sep 29, 2020
fati2001:
ur own matter big.
Tell us here , is there any other Nigeria girls at the age of 30 think apart from marriage, let us know it today
Romance › Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Bennysam: 11:10am On Sep 29, 2020
[quote author=StacyO post=94408879]As written by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

In as much as this post may be gender based, I'll love to indicate that it is equally PUN free.
Over the years,technology and western civilization changed our lives and we all tagged it the 21st century (smiles). This 21st century didn't only bring us closer to change but,it equally is robbing the good morals left in some of us.
After this whole write up,the main BIG question comes up.
Majority of guys I've come across always complain that their women cheat or have a high body count. This leaves me wondering how many body counts the guys in question might have. You go about complaining that Nigerian girls are all for the sex,hoes,sluts(I mean, all sorts of demeaning names). But,come to think of it,who actually created this hoes you always scream about??
Being a virgin in Nigeria is not an easy task,as a matter of fact, "it is a full time job".
I hear you guys take pride in comparing foreign girls with your Niger chicks. Do you know that an average foreign babe(your babe) sleeps around as much as she wants,until she's ready to get married??
But,I don't see you guys debating about this undecided
Instead,all you do is paint your own pride black. Just to prove what exactly??

Then comes the sex vs money war;
You claim Nigeria girls have nothing aside sex to offer,what asides money do you have to offer?? (I mean money sad )
Sex as research says and I believe is something both partners enjoy in a relationship. Your girlfriend can never offer you her body for money. As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for.

The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something).
This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED.

To the ladies;
Stop giving out your body to people that don't appreciate it,if you want to fvck around,do it cause you want to. Stop giving someone sex due to what they say or offer you. Channel that few minutes energy into something resourceful and useful.
Forget that you've deflowered, it was your choice anyway but,stop making it look like you're selling your body out for money.

You as a lady and you're a virgin,please hold on to it cause,it's rare to find one this days. Forget all the confused rants on the internet,men are dying to find your kind.
Don't let one confused human being confuse you.

To the men;
Come off it. You complain that the girls have entitlement mentality, they can't bring new things to the table. What exactly have you brought to the table??
For you to even know that all Nigerian girls are hoes only makes you a male whóre (You're practically cheap).
You are the ones creating this hoes you cry of.

A lady can never offer you sex!!
You don't pay a lady money for sex unless she is a prostitute!!
And you wonder how or why people still get married in Nigeria with all the confusions flying around.

NB: The word "some" was used in this writeup though it wasn't indicated.
I'm not supporting any gender,just jotting undecided



NB: All that is needed is an ANSWER to the question,don't come here and start singing your normal lullaby.

Now the BIG question as regards the topic;
#whatexactlydonigerianmenwant¿

cc lalasticlala,Dominique[/quoho
And what are Nigeria girls is if not hoe , who take money after sex what does she called?
Crime › Re: Couple & Two Others Caught With Human Skull In Ogun State by Bennysam: 11:08am On Sep 29, 2020
NeoWanZaeed:
na only Yoruba dey do juju abi
They don't have compare
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 11:07am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
U don tire abi cheesy
Don't use indirect way to toast me madam
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 11:06am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
U don tire abi cheesy
Woman I'm not jobless, you're working for someone and you you're talking boss like me
Crime › Re: Couple & Two Others Caught With Human Skull In Ogun State by Bennysam: 11:05am On Sep 29, 2020
Macsjebs:
What's this world turning into cry cry cry cry
Kindly see my thread on my signature cry cry cry
World is not turn anything, ask Yoruba people what human head do to them
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 11:02am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
Nairaland guys and their mumu mentality. see u yeye
Are you this jobless?
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 10:58am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
Nairaland guys and their mumu mentality. see u yeye
Madam go and get yourself something doing
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 10:41am On Sep 29, 2020
merieam16:
So becos ur sisters er regular attendees at shiloh, u tink everyone is an evening newspaper. smh
Stay there and be deceiving yourself
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Bennysam: 11:04pm On Sep 28, 2020
merieam16:
@ Op, first of all he never loved u forget all these sacrifice of school fees he did during school.Some people do some certain things to get favour in return. Secondly, he remembered u because he needs solace nd he knows u will accept him

My advice is dont start what u cant finish and if u feel u can finish it, just av @ d back of ur mind dat he will leave wen he' back 2 his feet

Just help him d way u can nd be careful baby number 2 might be loading...
You're devil, if you don't know what to say just shut up , evening news paper
Romance › Re: Guys Stop Flooding Me With Your Nude by Bennysam: 5:34pm On Sep 28, 2020
Casalindal:
It seem you guys have never seen a pretty girl before? Please stop with the nude it’s coming irritating stop it please I’m begging before they say Casalinda has started posting or exposing your nude on Nairaland please stop it’s the last warning
You have got the attention you need, now hide your facr
Christianity Etc › Re: Wearing Seductive Clothes To Deposit Lust In The Heart Of Others by Bennysam: 10:51am On Sep 27, 2020
dingbang:
Whoever looks at a woman lustfully has committed sin..


It didnt say


Whoever dresses seductively has committed sin..

Africans sef.
You lack understanding, indeed what you say is true but your dressing in the present of GOD matters a lot
Family › Re: Reno Omokri: "Your Money Is For You And Your Wife. But Her Money Is Not For You" by Bennysam: 5:24pm On Sep 26, 2020
BrownCookie:
Bloody tout.
Hoodlum
Hoe shame on you harlot
Family › Re: Reno Omokri: "Your Money Is For You And Your Wife. But Her Money Is Not For You" by Bennysam: 3:19pm On Sep 26, 2020
BrownCookie:
Frustrated pig.

Take your frustration out on your inability to provide for your home that is if you have one.

Evilish grim soul.
Buffon. Piss of shit.
Bloody infidel.
You think I am waiting for your class to give me anything? I can provide all by myself so go to your fellow hungry paupers.
IDIOT
Haha idiot
Romance › Re: Men; Never You Wife A Hoe Nor A Prostitute. by Bennysam: 5:35pm On Sep 23, 2020
Aksnoopy:
I pray they don't use the two girls above.
When you both are dead, then you will get the story and message.
Joy is fvcking dead and she will be shaking her head for you both. undecided
They do the same thing that late woman do , that's why you see that trash comment
Education › Re: LASU College Of Medicine Management Throws Out Students’ Belongings From Hostels by Bennysam: 2:15pm On Sep 23, 2020
decatalyst:
Your comment shows that you are bereft of ideas and alternatives to doing things well.

What happens to packing those properties and storing them somewhere that would ensure they are not damaged. It's raining season and I am not sure your eyes are defective enough not to see that some of the things thrown in the open will be damaged by rain or too much sun.

Most of you shouting and ranting about public office holders will performance worse if given the chance to handle institutions or governance.
More comment of yours show how stupid you're, they are informed on time and you still want them to pack it for you, dummy
Education › Re: LASU College Of Medicine Management Throws Out Students’ Belongings From Hostels by Bennysam: 12:05pm On Sep 23, 2020
decatalyst:
Why would a sane individual do this?

Why would a responsible school management engage in this?


Well, people do rubbish because our justice system is rubbish!

If organizations, institutions and citizens know that they can be sued/punished/penalized for acting against what is acceptable, we will have less of absurd actions like this.
Sometimes some comments show how stupid some Nigeria is, they were warned to pack their belonging out, they will wait for your lazy ass
Politics › Re: Obaseki, Shaibu Get Certificates Of Return, Set For Inauguration On November 12 by Bennysam: 7:28pm On Sep 22, 2020
Dreal1247:
If elections continue to be conducted in Nigeria like the Edo gubernatorial election, our politicians will be forced to have a rethink. This is because all the money they use to buy over voters will be wasted. Most people collected the cash from the APC but went on to vote PDP. Knowing fully well that it was the cash meant for the development of the state that were diverted to buy voters. Imagine borrowing money for political campaign in the name of one project or the other. Imagine presenting a yearly budget with the soul intent of diverting the funds for other purposes not really related to the budgeted project. But for advancement of political domination.
Tell Yoruba people that worship one idiot with brown teeth
Family › Re: Reno Omokri: "Your Money Is For You And Your Wife. But Her Money Is Not For You" by Bennysam: 7:06pm On Sep 22, 2020
BrownCookie:
Wisdom is profitable to direct
You will support this one immediately, lazy woman with evil mentality
Romance › Re: UNDIES AND PHONE. by Bennysam: 3:58pm On Sep 21, 2020
tee59:
I see nothing wrong here. If it we're to be guys given gifts by opposite sex, I know it wouldn't cause much trouble like ladies.
Why will you see something there while you lack sence to know it's an insult and invitation to cheat
Romance › Re: "Men From Age 19 To 27 Are Liabilities, Don’t Date Them" - Nigerian Lady Warns by Bennysam: 3:43pm On Sep 21, 2020
GOD please have mercy on Nigeria girls of nowadays
Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Trying To Defraud Me?.... Matured Minds Please Help! by Bennysam: 3:39pm On Sep 21, 2020
emillysmigael:
She is innocent till proven guilty...
His will he prove her guilty, you Nigeria girl will never see
Bad thing in everything ur fellow girls do, that's why all of una is evil
Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Trying To Defraud Me?.... Matured Minds Please Help! by Bennysam: 3:37pm On Sep 21, 2020
TheAviator2000:
I have a situation going on in my life right now with the woman that I love and i need your perspective in this situation.

To give you some background, my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years in a mostly long distance relationship as i left the country after the first year of meeting her. When I finally found my feet abroad, I started sending her about 40k every month as upkeep money even without her asking. I have been consistently sending her this upkeep for about a year now and have never asked nor received anything in return.

Few weeks ago, my girlfriend mentioned that she needed a shop to expand has fast growing business as working from home is no longer convenient and she is beginning to loose customers as a result of that. I was really happy to hear that and promised to give her my support.

She eventually found a store that cost about N300k per annum and indicated that she had saved about 240k and needed about 150k from me to cover the remaining rent fees, agency fees, admin fees and minor renovations. I pledged to send her the money this week and as a man of my words, i intend to send it.

However, somethings did not sit right in with me and I inquired to know how she was able to save 240k as she had never ever mentioned having that type of money saved up. Before i sent her monthly upkeep money (40k), i always inquired to know how she was doing financially and there has never been a time where she mentioned she was saving money or have 240k saved up somewhere. As a matter of fact, she has never indicated to have more than 10k at any point in time

To end my doubts, i asked her send me a screenshot of her bank statement showing the savings and this made her really upset to the point of going into a rant about "lack of trust" in the relationship. Mind you, i have never asked her to send her back statement before and have never been the type to distrust the things she said as she has never really given me any reason to. I have always been supportive and the one time I actually needed some "assurance" to quell my doubts, she wasn't able to provide it.
At this point, I feel there is some level of deceit on her part to get some money from me.

I also asked her to send me picture of the store and she said she didn't take any picture when she went to check it ...

Last week, i told her to apply for a passport and wanted to send her like 80k to do that as my goal was to facilitate her eventual relocation to join me but on Saturday, she told me that she prefers the money goes into getting her store set up and she can always apply the passport with the money she makes from her store... hmmmm

To be honest, i am really upset and slightly depressed because I come across people back home trying to "job" me for cash but never thought it would come from my inner circle.

At this point, i have mentally moved on and after i send that 150k, i will block her everywhere and move on with my life. ... That is honestly how i feel right now
Bros stupid is understatement of what you are, this do not have anything in mind for you she's there because of the money she's getting from you and next you will see is her invitation card, why are you foolishly spending money on a girl you're not married to, focus on what you went there to do when you come back a lot of girl who's royal will be waiting for you , all this things that our girls is doing to their husband abroad you still bring a pussy hoe there, please get some sense
Politics › Re: Yoruba Youth Forum (YYF): Tinubu Has Sold His Integrity On The Altar Of Politics by Bennysam: 3:21pm On Sep 21, 2020
TimeManager:
Nonentities making too much noise without substance.
If the Southeast had a Tinubu, they would have produced a President under the platform of PDP.

kiss the truth!
Keep on fooling yourself
Romance › Re: Why Do Many Ladies Lack Personal Vision? by Bennysam: 1:37pm On Sep 19, 2020
fati2001:
so follow the one with the reasons why they are in life.... and leave the useless one.
okay.
full stop.. no need for whining!
You're the one whinning now and take it too personal
Romance › Re: Am A Business Man I Reside In Lagos I Need A Serious Lady To My Marry by Bennysam: 1:32pm On Sep 19, 2020
uchman:
Is your account hacked?
Why writing all this negative characteristics about the guy, just to bring him down?

His message did not even portray all you wrote up there and am wondering where you got all that from.

I used to respect this user before because your post then used to be sensible and you have been an old Nairalander.

You are not even a lady and you just rushed to spoil the guy show.

E no good ooh bros!
Don't mind the idiot , some of naija guy can be foolish some times
Romance › Re: Am A Business Man I Reside In Lagos I Need A Serious Lady To My Marry by Bennysam: 1:31pm On Sep 19, 2020
dingbang:
Judging by his post, he feels money is the solution to problems since the first thing he mentioned about himself is being a business man and resides in Lagos.

His lack of patience in trying to come up with details about himself, just providing only his phone number shows that he thinks ladies are desperate and cheap and will call, and also shows he lacks good command of grammar based on evidence of spellings and lack of proof reading.

There you go, I hope you don't fall for material things but value proposition cool cool
You are the one that understand it like that, don't put words in his mouth because u want to impress girls here
Romance › Re: Every Woman Is A LovePeddler By Nature by Bennysam: 1:28pm On Sep 19, 2020
fati2001:
you see ur stupidity!
Nigeria girls truth always sound stupid to you people, stupid people

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