I reason with you sister, but this issue of not wanting a child. Well I hope u will not ending up regreting it.

Am very close with my wife but I hardly sleep on the same bed with her. So it's not true

Please , stop worrying about all this because I used to be like you before but now now am far better than the so call nomal growing up children.

Points

I. first, u are not the only person that is depressed in in this country especially within your age group. Google it. 18 to 29.

2.You sound like a decent person and most of the reasonable decent people we have find in this country find it very had to blend in with most people in this country. Why, because their way of thinking is different with yours. They are full of envy, materialist world, emotional black mail e.t.c.

3. The way you mentioned that you save some money, believe me most of them no matter how much they earn they can't save a single Kobo or help others like the way u do and even though they we rised in a harsh or less privilege or whatever family.

4. The issue of girls or been introvert is not a big deal because once you have your own family, all this will be water under bride. You will have your own world ....like me my wife and my kids are my best friends.

5. Ignore Nigerian girl because majority of them are useless.

6. Concerning porn, Most people watch it but try and limited it.

7. Stop fighting and bleming your inocent parents because you might regret it later.

Yes many many times, but that was when I was a teenager. I used to be very handsome with athletic body. But later penples and fatness get a better of me.

You have a terrible taste on TV shows. All this are low budget series man

May be is sun reflection

[Why did she get that (ribbon) hair style? may be na deep ocean saloon.

I get u, but this kind of topics is not for Nigerians. Believe me

Hell No

The only problem here is that u are a nice normal person and in this country most people will take u for granted.

Advice
Don't marry her but keep using her/ fucking
2- find another lovely lady. There are so many fishes in the river

i reason with you. but its common in NIGERIA, especially in our northern part of the country. one day they will own their on house. but the most important thing is if he is a good man

Am totally disappointed on u. This is the best thing that ever happened to u and u want to ruined it for just a stupid vision and believe. Good luck

you're not the only one. i grow up in a broken home and I've a chorionic asthma like yours or worst. I lost my parent at the same day. ok

1- issue of extended family= forget about them , its nomal. they always want their son to succeeded and u to fail
2- the dead of your mum is in evitable, is not your fault at all. she wants you to go ahead with your life
3. you're not lazy
4 this is how life is, especially in this country. just hang on. one day u will get your family and everything will be ok

please don't do..I am currently using nissan altima. bro, the body is strong but the engine and all this dash board, taping glasses is given me a headache .and a lot of people are making the same complain

Playing hardcore video games and listening to Rock music/ movies

You're not alone bro...but please, don't ever try dis sex with out a condom. I beg u please.....

abeg no vex, because we're Nigerians. 90% of us are abnormal, always angry , sociopaths, fake e.t.c

my sister, this is normal …majority of men are having this porn addiction. don't be surprise that his brother his own case is worst than your husband

this is common everywhere. My senior brother's wife is exactly like that. to make the matter worst, the man is not loaded like you, but his wife is behaving like retarded person.

Bro, it has always been like this. U can't tell...just follow your instincts.

Can u imagine.. you married a useless person and all of a sudden you want him to step up in a broad day light and be like ubama story..
Keep dreaming.

bro, your problem is almost exactly like mine. I used to be a gentle talker THAN, compose. But now, am avoiding people because of this problem. now I talk too fast, loud with spit....no matter how i try to control myself, I just couldn't....
I think is from the brain....

Your husband is such a nice gentle man. Just follow his advice and let everything go please. Look at the bright side, you are healthy with a nice family that loves you. That's all that matters

[me too I wonder... Nigerians are not good people

Bro, if you're a handsome like u mentioned, that's all that matters, she will fall for u.. imagine how many handsome do we get in this Nigerian society..just go and take a nice Barbe and talk her. Also keep your side bucks and beer

just let it go and please allow her to continue doing her job. sorry, I feel for u

Well said bro. But this is the reality. Nigerians lady don't have any no purpose in life apart from raising kids and cooking.. never mind them please.

Your story is exactly like mine. you're not the only person that is facing this kind of issues. Me too am tired.. believe me is everywhere in this country....the worst part if get they will never consider

She just want to chop your money and waste your time.

Just give him tuwon rice with water. Or grasshopper....it's easy , but mind u, one day it will just disappear

Concerning her monthly period, she lied to you. it's happened to me once. It was after we're through than I came to notice some blood around my shirt. Anyway, u don't have to be worried as long as your condom is not broken, u are good to go.

[bro, they do that all the time....my wife usually said the same thing