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Heineken:
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Check my posts. My contact is there.
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bloodyBLOGGER:
www.nairaland.com/2819628/husband-beats-pregnant-wife-flogging

The above thread by omotayor123 by shares a story of a man that beat his wife cos she beat his dog. Posters on the thread were quick to judge the man wrong, which he is, but failed to look at the issue in a broader perspective. I'll try as much as possible to do that


The man was wrong to have beaten his wife likewise the wife wrong to have beaten a dog that just delivered. The man might have reacted seeing the danger ahead which many posters in the above thread can't see. The dog might be his source of livelihood.

If you visit the pet section of nairaland, there are many adverts on puppy sales in which a single 8weeks old puppy can go for 300K and nothing less than 60K depending on the breed. Dog marketers and breeders like bobbysaxy, knyte, prodeegee, jado and chucky234 can attest to that. Imagine your dog giving birth to 8 puppies with each selling for 250k. That will amount to 2million naira in your account. According to the news, the man has about 3 dogs which must mean he is a breeder or an extreme dog lover.

The man in question must have felt he was about losing his investment cos beating a just delivered dog can weaken the dog to the point of death thereby endangering the life of the puppies cos they'll have no mother to suckle. His reaction should have been limited to just scolding his wife and making her see the wrong in what she did cos two wrongs don't make a right.

This thread is to also point out the wrong the woman did. It is wrong to beat a dog that just delivered especially when your excuse is cos the dog barks too much. That is wickedness and animal cruelty which can be a jailable offence in saner climates. She as a pregnant woman ought to know not to beat a female specie that just delivered.

A righteous man has
regard for the life of his
animal, But even the
compassion of the wicked
is cruel. Proverbs 12:10

Who knows, she must have done that to get back at the husband for a wrong he did to her. Perhaps, she feels he gives the dogs too much attention than he gives her. Such dogs really need attention cos they consume a lot and need a budget for health care. The gain is when they give birth. The proceeds will be spent on the family, that's why it is good to have regards for your animal but not to the extent of beating your wife. Wives too shouldn't dare their husbands. That family needs to look inwards and realise there is actually something missing that's making them lash out at each other while using the dog as excuse.

A concerned dog lover.

Another angle to this is what if the dog bites the woman such that she dies? Everyone would start to blame the husband or what? Its riskier for the woman to beat the dog than for the man to beat her. I pity some folks who are quick to blame u op. Don't mind them.

docspikkey:
They say love is blind but marriage opens it up. I don't want to have a failed marriage later in life as this my girlfriend cum fiancee is really bringing out the beast in me and I think it's time we called it quits.
I don't want it to seem like I'm over reacting to some things that's why I'm bringing it here for advice because I'm really starting to loose it.

1. When we first started dating, she was pretty cool headed (or maybe she was pretending), and more shapely than she is now. Now she eats every thing she lays her eyes on, she's developed too much belly fat and even looks older than her age. A little caution from me to her and she goes on the defensive. She maybe derives pleasure in making me angry and I've got a temper I try to control. Nothing is too weighty for her so say. At times when we have a disagreement, she makes annoying references to my mother and she wants to be a daughter in law to this same person?

2. She expects me to do everything in the house for her from arranging the house to cooking to and expects me to do it with joy. Yes I can cook, and I don't mind assisting her in the kitchen, but it becomes annoying when she always wants me to cook when she's around and doing nothing. Is this what I'm going to face when we finally get married?? Leaving like a bachelor in my fuk!n marital home? Worse is she never fails to mention she's not my house wife...so maybe when we get married, she would say she's not my slave.

3. Hygiene, and in terms of neatness, she turns me d fuc.k down. Dropping her Bleep!n stained pads all over my house during her period or in my waste bin . Now as a medical practitioner, those things hardly irritate me but what should be done ought to be done and rightly too. I've tried talking to her but there are things a guy doesn't need to tell you if you are a mature lady. If she can't handle herself during her period, what would she teach our daughters when they get to that age? At times during sex, the smell is a turn off but I'm so careful not to hurt her feelings that I don't even tell her.

4. She tends to nag a lot until things go her way. That is my greatest turn off ; she knows it, yet she does it during these sessions she at times goes physical and expects me to lump it. There are times I get so mad I just go out so as not to loose it. I'm strictly against beating women but she's really leading me down that path and I think it doesn't need to degenerate to that extent before we go our separate ways.

These are just some of the things she does and most times when I imagine life with her due to all these her attitude, I get scared.
Or could the fault be with me? Could it be I'm expecting too much from her? Could it be my standards are too high and need to reduce?
Please advise me cos I'm seriously at a loss on what to do again with her and I'm writing with anger shaking every part of my body. I love her but that's not enough for me to condone every thing she does.

Sorry bro but I've got just 1 advise:

*in snoop doggy dogg's voice* Drop her like she's hot! She'll do worse

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I believe I can learn a lot from you and probably work with you guys someday.


Waiting for your presence.

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Hi, I sent you a mail to the address on your profile regarding this. Please help! Thanks.

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Marvel1206:
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Google63:
Please, who has an idea of how I can use adobe cs6 after the trial expired. I've tried al the serial numbers I saw on the internet, but none worked. Please I'll really appreciate if someone could put me through

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toksbisola:
@Op; this is a tough one. Your really need to sit your wife down and let her know that she needs to learn to manage the finances you currently have. If care is not taking, you’re going to run into a lot of financial debt. You wife is not even thinking of putting some saving techniques in place. (I may be wrong though and I hope I am).

Currently, she is complaining a lot about you not giving her enough money and on the other hand, she’s aware that you’re paying up some debts that you currently owe and yet she's not sympathetic to your plight.

From the look of things, I’ll advice you to encourage her to draw up a budget that would be appropriate for running the home. As long as she’s not starving and has a roof over her head and cloths to wear; then she should learn to manage the little money you give her. What will happen when you start having kids? Is this how she'll be demanding money any how without being content?

A man hopes to marry a woman who can manage his finances and not one who would want to put the family in debt as if she’s catching up with the ‘Jonese’ and incurring unnecessary expenditure. She’s not working yet and hence doesn’t understand the concept of saving for a ‘RAINY DAY’. She’s complaining about you not meeting her financial needs. What needs exactly if I may ask? (No offense; hope none taken).

For now, and in my view, as long as you provide a home for her, you provide an allowance for her to take care of the home-front and other maintenance money for herself, SHE SHOULD LEARN TO MANAGE UNTIL SHE GETS A JOB WHICH WILL THEN CATER FOR HER OTHER SO CALLED “FINANCIAL NEEDS”.

It’s at times like this that having a wife that works is helpful as she’ll have been able to carry the financial burden with you; owing to the fact that you are heavily involved in some projects that is taking a lot of your current finances.

To conclude, let her make a budget (as I have mentioned above) of your income and expenditure to avoid LIVING BEYOND YOUR MEANS SO AS NOT TO GET INTO UNNECESSARY FINANCIAL BURDEN/DEBT.

I rest my case

Thanks bro. And I though I was the only one thinking like u. The wife just has to be reasonable with the situation of things. Except when they got married, they were super rich and things now went bad, then, I could say, she had gotten used to d rich life style but they are trying to build things up and yet, she doesn't want to understand.

Same way a wife was reporting her hubby that he is financially capable of taking care of her blah blah blah! Dis said guy has govt work and earns abt 54k, in addition, he does side jobs to make extra 50+ and yet, d money is neva enough. She'll still complain, frustrate his sexual advances and still cry out that the guy isn't having sex with her.

Women and wahala!

freddymanny49:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am in a big mess at this point in my life. I have been suffering from low potency for months now. I don't get morning erection like i used to some 3 - 4 years back and beyond. It is causing me so much worry and pain that I had to call of engagement. I feel dead and dry on the inside. What do I do to stop this mess from messing and ruining my life. I don't want to use viagra to get it up because I am aware of the long term effects. I am still young and I am too young to be using viagra. I need serious help.

Guy, there's nothing wrong with u! Not getting morning erection doesn't mean u're impotent!

On the other hand, you're bothered about sometin and that is affecting u psychologically! I've been there even as a married man! Just try and keep your mind off it!

But ensure u haven't gotten an infection sha o but all things being equal, u'll pass the stage.

Try to take oroki everyday or any other jedi herbal fluid (non alcoholic o)! Its more or less like topping up your car's engine oil (maintenance tins)! Don't let the condition nother u too much or it may get worse! Ciao!

op, you causes your own misfortune! How can u romance a lady to d point of "losing herself" like you said and you refuse to penetrate?

u left her hanging on several occassions and thats even worse than not romancing her at all!

Now, thats a lesson for u guys: if u arouse a lady, be sure to phuck her brains out! or dont even try to give her a peck if u're not gonna have se.x!

hypocrisy of the highest order! If u keep doing this, most ladies will keep dumping u!

"romance ye not if you're not ready to phuck her!

D mecho simply lowered the idle speed via d idle speed control but one of the main culprit is the spark plug wires!

U know d cylinders fire 1-3-4-2 and once sometin is wrong with d firing, d idler (or whateva name the pros call it) would raise the idle speed to keep the car from stalling/or dying off! And in my own case, the plug 1 wire was d chief: its was having partial contact and also leaking current into the cylinder block!

Mine is a 1995 camry xle sef!

i guess what the op is saying is that the car starts fine but idle speed is very high! maybe 2000rpm or more! i had a similar problem sometimes ago!

Brokenbars:
Pls how much does civil defence pay graduate and wat level will they be.

Graduate as in HND or bsc? I can't be discussing such here. Drop ur whatsapp no and let's talk

vroom:
Pls drop ur WhatsApp and BBM details

drop urs and i'll buzz u. i simply don't want my number all over the place. tx

musco4me:
hello. Hw far?

i dey fine jare.

well, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to how to cook and eat a chicken: grilled, boiled, fried or roasted!

i believe same applies to driving but i'd like to point out something: if u've been driving a manual gear car and later switch to automatic, using both legs may cause u to stamp on d brakes in a hard way (just same way u clutch down) but for "we" non-professional drivers who've never driving manual tranny for long before sticking to automatic, its preferable!

i drive with both legs and trust me, that has saved my flat y.ansh several times most especially when d sill.y okada or taxi drivers suddenly cross my path or else, u'll be reading about a ghastly accident by now. still, i dont brake hard as claimed by d pros in d house.

i drive an old school toyota camry xle (1995) with automatic gear!

Lemme reiterate: i'm not a pro but using both legs works for me and i can drive for several hours, non stop and im comfi with it.

dunno if its wrong or right but it does work for me!