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Update: We just got our promotion letters last week 29th May running through June 5th.

And that's 2010 entrants and below. Even d 2012 were not promoted yet.

So, no recruitment or replacement issues in the air for now. Not this year or next year.

Thou shalt not allow thyself to be scammed!

I have warned you o.

If there's anything you're clear about and you can't find here www.nscdc.gov.ng, buzz me on whatsapp or bbm or quote me and I'll clarify.

There are so many guys out there who are ready to scam and rip you off your money. Beware!

I think difference in libido might be a root cause of these issues ma'am.

Its most likely your libido is like 1zillion and ur man, 100, hence he's not too keen about sex as much as u want him to.

As in, there's possibility you want it "fire-fire" "hot-hot" as d marriage is still fresh and hot but he aint forth coming.

Fablady:
Trust me it is not what you are describing. Plus I can understand you are a man so I am not surprised. I am not asking him for too much. In fact, I am the one doing too much just to minimize confrontations. He leaves me to do stuff without assistance and ends up complaining if it does not 'fit' his standard.

*sighs*


Then you really shouldn't make any rash decisions now cos why he's acting d way he is now is a hard nut to crack. But with God all things are possible.

I responded to ur post cos at a point in my marriage, my wife was having this same feeling/complaints and deep communication with each other helped us in a way.

I'm not trying to be bias cos I'm a man but I'm just trying to exhaust all forms of remedy for d situation.

It is well sha. Just be more patient with him.

Trust me, he might equally be bothered about things which he might not be able to communicate with u. For instance, u mentioned that d se.x is horrible and I'm damn sure, that's one big area he might be lacking. Which might just be as a result of common hemorrohoids (yodi in yoruba) and that may prevent him from discharging his duties efficiently. He might not even be aware he's got it but would be wondering why he aint moved seeing u nu.de. And that can frustrate not just d man but u as well.

That's what happened to a friend of mine recently so, I mentioned that area cos I'm trying to see how dis whole stuff can be sorted.

Meanwhile, you guys are yet to have kids I guess? That may be another stress on its own.

All is well ma'am

i get u OP. i think the problem here has to do with you. i'm not blaming you but if your hussy is d quiet or sensitive type, you are probably doing something "inadvertently" that pisses him off and he doesnt want to hurt u by confronting u.

another thing is sometimes and most times, our ladies always have this over hyped expectation about we husbands.

i think you should try to take things one at a time. dont be in a hurry to "have it all". your man is probably trying to get used to the new environment (marriage, so to say).

just be cool with him. i'm sure he'll open up one of these days. (trust me, i've been there and i understand)

nwachivis:
Please nairalanders help me out.I am not an expert when it comes to writing,but i will still manage to drive home my point to the best of my capacity.

I proposed marriage just of recent to my spouse and went ahead with the family introduction.I have ever since been making preparations for the wedding.

I had told her in our previous interactions that i cancelled the marriage preparations with my ex when she told me she had once aborted a baby for her ex,which made her bleed for days.she told me back then that she was scared her womb was damaged because the pregnancy was 3 months old when she carried out the abortion.she pleaded with me to still marry her,reminding me of God's ability to perform miracles,even though she admitted that it was a difficult thing for any african man to do.I immediately called it quit between the both of us and moved on to my current spouse.

Just yesterday in one of our outings,my fiancée opened up to me that she once had an abortion in the past.she begged me not to call it "quit” with her,assuring me that no damage was done.

Am confused here because i can't handle the trauma of childlessness and a lot has been going through my mind. I love her and she loves me too.

Please advice me.

Do i continue with the marriage ?
Do i accept that it is my destiny to settle down with
a lady that has done abortion in the past ?
Do i insist she get pregnant for me before our wedding ?
Do i just go ahead and marry her with a positive
mindset ?

Please help me out of this quagmire..

Guy, deception too much. If she confessed of her own volition, and not that u caught her by yourself, you may forgive and ensure you go for comprehensive pregnancy test. I don't mean just scan o! Do hsg, laparoscopy etc and ensure she doesn't have pid which most times lead to blocked tubes.

May God help us guys

teetopalad:
I heard that some new personnel are about to be given their letter of appointment from nxt week yet u said nothing is happening? what can u say abt that?
besides, so many recruitment used to happen in d background, can we find info abt it on their site? NO!

Point of correction. No letter is to be shared to any new intake because nothing of that sort is happenning.

What is going on is a promotional exam for we that are already in and confirmed.

And d exam is 24th/25th.

Its like you people love being scammed, ehn? Go ahead and pay someone for some fake papers. Come back later and tell us how u were scammed.

Berra open ur ears and eyes to see d truth in what I'm telling u.

Anyway, the choice is yours

ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

my sister, it does happen in several marriages and it doesnt necessarilly mean hes cheating with another woman.

men sometimes lose interest in sex for a myriad of reasons.

D question is, that once a month that he "visits your ministry", does he "scatter and destroy every nook and cranny"? if he does, then he probably doesnt have e.rect.ion problem but hes not just too keen about sex or he just lost interest. And thats not to say u're not attractive or sexy. The way a man's mind works is very funny. Our mind wanders or to be specific, plenty of things run through our minds and tend to distract us.

try not to be angry with him or do something stupid. Wheneva he comes to visit your ministry, and hes done bulldozing everywhere, try and see if hes in a good mood to listem and u could chip it in that "my dear, u really scattered everywhere anytime we av s*x. I'll love it if we can have it more often like once a week". From once a week, u can graduate to 2 or 3x a week which is ok unless u're a sex goddess.

and remember, sex is not food so, dont expect to be having sex 3x everyday. too much of everything causes problems.

remember, he still has to run around to get what the family would eat and drink, shelter and clothing etc; so he needs d strength to do that but if u're constantly killing him softly with ur veejayjay everyday, he'll fall short in providing for d home and that would cause another set of troubles.

another thing you should consider and observe is his state of health. Anything fever affects men's performance etc. so, watch out, if he has constant malaria/typhoid attacks, he would naturally slow down to once a month.

i'm equally a married man and talking from experience (both personal and that of others).

Whatever you do "dont get mad at him!"

darm2009:
Please Is there any latest news on NSCDC replacement or recruitment?

Nofin of tht sort bro!

Check ur blood sugar level. Try to do fasting blood sugar and also, random blood sugar test.

Though, my dad made mention of somefin like dengue fever

ronkiss:
am 19 and still bed wetting , av done everything I could do, it hasn't stop, please anyone who has any information about what I can do, please share with me...

its not something so rare. i used to have a sibbling who did bedwet till age 19 as well but now, shes a big girl and doing fine.

From what ive read so far, it has to do with the growth/development of the part of the brain responsible for night time urinary control. if theres a delay in its maturity, u'll still be bedwetting till 19. thats why u see some kids that dont bedwet even at age 3.

so, relax and dont panic. just try and reduce fluid intake some hours before bed time and also, empty ur bladder once u want to sleep even when u dont feel like urinating.

1 more thing: if u happen to be asleep and u're dreaming of peeing or going to the bathroom/toilet to ease urself, pls, try and force urself to get up cos urine is on its way out.

relax dear, u're not alone. u'll overcome this phase in no time, ok? cheers

Kizito2nv:
pls am havin serious issues sleeping created a thread to get solutions dat doesnt involve drugs as in medication, most of the surgestions though great but doesnt seem effective please i need any drug dat can effectivly make me sleep in 30 minutes i actualy bought 1 yestday *aspain* but it was efectiv and pleas it should be a drug dat is accesibl at over the conter chemist or phamacy cos of my location thanx in advanc

Op, u don't need all those drugs. One thing u should understand is something is bothering your mind and you really have to slow down.

On the other hand, try get this beverage: horlicks. U put 2-3 table spoonful inside a cup of warm water. Drink around 7pm. You should sleep naturally. Its just a beverage like milo.

I had that same problem while working in abuja and it was just like suddenly, I couldn't sleep. I neva had any girlfriend or any thing bothering my mind but d damn sleep wouldn't come. I tried d horlicks and I got result.

Those sleep drugs like valium 5 or 10 can get u killed easily and cheaply and easily. So, don't buy them.

If you need to talk, buzz me on my bbm 29926927 or whatsapp 0803 431 1147

faithugo64:
pls dear,my friend is about to pay 500 for a form and 14700 for registeration,i doubt the authencity of this,is there anything like replacement this year?

*in DBanj's voice* Your friend is sitting on a long thing!

I guess there's so much money and d problem is how to spend it!

On a serious note, there's nofin like form or anything.

Go to nscdc.gov.ng for any info as regards the corps!

@op: stop this "they said" attitude and try ur hands on them all.

The method is use is this: d easiest that would help me get the job done d fastest way is what I go for.

I use cinema 4d and super easy and equally powerful for motion graphics, vfx, etc.

If u're talking hard core vfx, go for 3d studio max or maya.

Hope u get my drift?

2gb is more than enough except u're uploading huge video files.

I get by with even 250mb sef when setting up a wordpress site. So carry on bro

*Remember to send me my share of the profit when you have finished d project*

getting married to ladies raised by single mothers na wahala jare

check konga.com and get a reasonable prices core i3 or i5 laptop with 4gb ram, 250gb hard disk (could be more/higher). shouldnt be more than 60k. use the remaining money to buy study kits to better ur lots, increase ur skills and also avail urself better job opportunities. if u need more clarification buzz me up, im always online

damn! wickedness of the highest order. the woman should be beaten into a pulp!

by d way, the boobs of this supposed 12year old girl is a pointer to something else more deep: sexual abuse! Ohh yeah and I'm 95% sure of this.

Anyway, lemme pause and allow others with more knwledge in this area comment!

Ohh yeah! There are many softwares that do various stuffs. I've just been fortunate to experiment a little with some abt a couple of years back even though I can't really say much now cos of patents rights, companies buying up companies etc, as led to d clamping down of some stuffs.

As per voice to type softwares ( u dictate and it types, Dragon Naturally Speaking does nice job. Even microsoft office xp also has that feature.

For blue pen ink writing to computer text, I've nt had the time to try them out.

But as far as abbyy is concerned, I've been using the software for donkey years. Especially a variant of abbyy fine reader and its called abbyy scan to office. I use it constantly and it works.

For additional info, buzz me via whatsapp or bb messenger! Bye!

classicB:
I once created a thread about introvert and extrovert in love, seeking for opinions of my fellow NL members on how to cope but I didn't get any.
Firstly I know it's not all guys that can date a chronic introverted girl like me, a boring home girl. So am really lucky to have a faithful guy like my bf, we will be 4years soon.
The problem now is he has been complaining so much that am boring I cnt change that, it's not my fault. He does most of the talking in d relationship and get bored by the time I stop replying him. I am not this romantic or adventurous extrovert type of a person, I love him so much but I haven't been able to show him tru my actions.
I dnt kiss him, tell him 'i love u' to his face, go outing with him and so on.
I want to improve but I dnt know how, if we get to break up cos of my introverted nature am sure the next bf will leave me cos of that too. Please my fellow introverts how have u been coping in ur relationship with an extrovert? And I need the extrovert ladies to give me tips on how to be more romantic and outspoken I cnt afford to lose a cool and faithful bf cos of this.
I dnt like this introverted nature self.

My dear, u're not alone. I used to be an extremely introverted person and trust me, I paid dearly for it in relationship, business, opportunities etc. I felt associating with extroverts would do d trick but it didn't.

1 book did help me and I'll recommend it to u:

"Talk your way to the top" by Kevin Hogan!

U don't av to read at once but slowly and practice consistently.

U'll learn how ppl think, interact etc as well as how to spark up a conversation etc.

#my 1kobo advise

Alfred234:
just subscribe to the plan and it said the plan is compatible with BB and any other device type but I can't check my data balance... *123*9# doesn't work for this plan.

Bros, se na d 3gb @ N1,400 u subscribe to? Abeg, confirm whether the data can be shared via mobile hotspot on blackberry. God bless u.

I'm not a super expert but if I get u correctly, u need a car who's fuel consumption is highly minimal. Well, u didn't specify body size or type but I'll recommend the following:

1. Toyota Yaris (hatch back) - engine capacity is usually between 1.0 - 1.5 litres (more like d engine in a nissan micra)

2. Nissan Almera Maroon (2000- 2002) (hatchback) engine capacity 1.4-1.8litres

3. Honda Jazz (hatch back) 1.2-1.5litre engine

4. Toyota Camry 96 model - 1.8 - 2.2 litre engine

5. Toyota Camry 1999 - 2001 2.0 - 2.5litre engine

The list is ordered in ascending order of engine capacity. Please, don't believe anything anyone tells u until u check and read it all up on wikipedia where u'll get a comprehensive info abt any car of ur choice.

Stay away from sienna by toyota cos its got a big engine (3.0 litres v6) though d consumption can't be compared to a nissan xterra, u might pay a little more for petrol.

I rest my case here and let d more professional folks take over

trigar12:
Well, am 21years old and I just finished my ND program. Currently am looking ƒσя company(ies) to observe my one year industrial attachment. I won a phone on a radio station in VI, lagos and am to redeem the my price between monday 5th to friday, I told my dad about it and told him I'll be going to the place tomorrow and I also want to use the opportunity to drop my IT letter in some companies in VI. He called my uncle and told him he dosen't know Wђεяﻉ am going to and that the place am going to might be a ploy ƒσя ritual stuff. I ve been receiving calls from various family members talking to me like a child. Am just angry, they don't even know what I do when am in school or Wђεяﻉ I goto in school, though I don't engage in any bad parole. Am just pissed off .... Don't know what to do. I need advice, cos am tired of being looked at like a 15yr old child.

Guy, wake up! And stop whining! I know what your parents are trying to do and its called "domestication". They'll stop u from going out to make it in life and would still blame u and push u out at d end of d day. Don't allow it! Be a man! Don't let them domesticate u.

I av a friend who's parents did dis same thing to: he wasn't allowed freedom, hence, was more like a chicken. 15years after (he's abt 36years now), d parents are complaining of him not going out like his siblings who are in lag and other states. And I warned in back then but he wouldn't listen. Now d father is planning to throw him out if he doesn't get a place of is own: And this was same thing I told him donkey years ago. He's got no serios job as we speak!

Oun t'aye ba so e da, ni won maa fi bu e (yurba adage) and it means u'll be blamed/abused by same folks who hindered u from making progress! Wake up man!

greens:
Dear friends.
My wedding will be coming up on Jan 03 2015. My problems is that I will be compelled to dance. That is my major concern now because I cant remember if I have ever danced in public before and I know I dont know how to dance

Please drop your tips dears.

Thank you very much

Op, that should be the least of your worries. Concentrate more on the borehole job ahead of u. Meanwhile, u'll discover u're way much ahead of me in dancing. I've been a pianist for a long while and all I do during service is sit my ass down during praise and worship. I couldn't do much on my wedding day. People were like dance, do craze. I simply ignored them and swayed to d music. U're not alone bro. U cld try get some few dance lessons from a trusted friend who knows hw to dance and also, how to teach. Just cram some few stuffs/tricks and u're good to go!
Wish u happy married life in advance! E go be

ProffT01:
Is there no replacement this year?

Nope! Nofin of that sort!

ajayiopy:
Am reading the soft copy already, tell fisherman to stop this myopic way of thinking ,Guys don wise up ,no monkey for idanre again

Guy, abeg, where did u get the soft copy? Kindly help via my email: olaoluwaperfect@yahoo.com

No matter how good your dating site is well developed or good looking, that's not a determinant factor for the traffic.

If u don't have/provide what people need, they won't come. When last did u visit myspace? And to be sincere, myspace has got wonderful features but everyone is stuck with facebook.

So, think and plan well before you commit your money o!

@OP, staph is not something u go to herbal guy for d treatment. A friend of mine once had it and d doc placed him on injection for 10days + some antibiotics. I think d injection is gentamycin or so.

Best bet, go to a good and qualified doctor to fix u up. Some of these guys claiming to sell drugs aren't loyal bro! Don't let no one give u poison man! Life is too short.

And by d way, how did u know u've got staph, huh? Hey, u can't know by any symptoms unless u go for SFA ( Seminal Fluid Analysis). That's a sperm test, done in a lab. When u're confirmed infected (don't mind my word), then, go see a good doc. In 2 weeks, u're fixed up and good to go! If I hear say u pay any dough for concotion, ama flog ur little ass man! Take care.

itsabdul:
thanks for your comments, you mean that i have to wait for 30 days before i can renew it. No any other way?

If u allow it to expire before generating a epp code and also, unlocking the domain (in preparation for transfer to another host), na 30 days holiday ur website go take rest! If not more! My ugly experience with them bro!

Once u give them the vaguest idea u're moving the name/hosting from them, they'll frustrate u!

Log into ur wp admin area and go to the widget area. Remove any widget u don't need by dragging it/them away from the sidebar!

That would fix it.

If u need additional help add me up on bbm 29926927 or drop ur whatsapp no and I'll holla at u.

Check this site I did with wordpress.
Samoremphotography.com

No side bar wahala except on the pages I want it to show!

onyengbu:
how does building from scratch affect any thing. Abeg, I need to know.

My brother! Technology is evolving faster than the speed at which u drink pure water on a sunny day in Sokoto!

While u're learning something, 20things are out with better offers, fast and efficient.

For instance, I was learning abt building apps for apple iOS 6 and trying to understand Cocoa (programming soft), etc boom apple brought up brand new tech! I had to abandon that and start learning something else but for how long?

So, embrace pre-made framework u can modify and u deliver faster and make more money in lil time