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Na God ooo!

If d 2 parties involved are serious about it and they are matured, it can work but if one or d 2 party is a player, then, its more or less a joke/mockin around with someone's emotions.

Ensure u and d person are on same page and for peace sake, take d person as he/she is; trust him/her. If u see or hear sometin, don't get mad ask questions.

But don't stay too long apart or d other person cld stray away.

Well, the fact that she has a baby is not the main koko but the fact that she didnt mention it on time till the guy found out.
Thats deciet and it shouldnt be taken likely.

I might end the relationship if i find out such tins.

and like someone said, if she could lie about her kid, only God knows a myriad of tin she would be hiding

By d way, how many married couples can boldly come out standin and tell us "no touchin"? None @ all

Out of 100, maybe 5 or less.

U're not expected to kiss @ all not to talk of handle. And I'm being realistic.

If u do any of those, tell me what u're thinkin in ur mind while doin it.

Helloooo, anyone?

kwabet: I tried a God-Centred relationship while in d university with Bible studies and social interactions as basis. I had to go dat way because she was apparently a core christian. I know and can interprete d Bible more but she is sincerely more a xtian dan me,pple attest to dat. To be concise,she was a virgin. Two yrs into d relationship I attempted to kiss her and folks,Quess wat she asked. Why haven't I kissed her all along,why do I hav to wait till den. She was pissed,that she has been burning wt desire and had waited all d while for my touch. Dat changed my view on Sexless relationship.

@kwabet: I concur. I've seen both sides of dis sex or no sex tin. 1 tin though, what works for A might not work for B. David in d bible was said to be "a man after God's heart" yet, he's also after his pricks wishes. I think, u shld make ur decisions whether u want to obey God in that area or not.

From observation over time, I think most boys/girls become aware of sex at a very tender age. Or why wld a virgin, and a sister of God be expecting d bros to come "poke", huh?

@OP

Its not so easy. I dated a lady who was a virgin and a "super spiri koko" sister. I felt, finally, I can go abt my biz and not get bothered abt intimacy and it'll be super easy to stick to d "no rockin d boat" rule, Guys, I was super wrong.

She pressed for sex! Its that plain and simple. And she's d type that wld do anytin to get what she wants: u just must give. She'll mount pressure so much u'll almost choke. I wasn't a virgin anyway and gave in after some time. And she wld call for it regularly as if it pure water.

We broke up anyway and not cos of d sex tin, cos some of u already raised ur sledge hammer.

We broke up cos of her mouth: "she'll say anytin abt u to anybody"

Staying away from sex in a relationship is not that easy, especially if its bein pushed by just 1partner, its a mutual effort. "Can 2 work except they agree?"

By d way, I've dated a lady b4 and there weren't any sex. I tot I was doin great till I later discovered she had someone who does d "regular maintenance" I refused to do. We broke up eventually on that ground.

So, d no sex tin is a double edged sword and not as easy as some say. It requires extra discipline on both sides.

May God help us

In abeokuta, ogun state, I got mine done for 17k and it took 4hours.

U'll also need driver's license or a means of identification, 2 passport fotos.

U'll need a guarantor though. Someone who's got a intl passport, 2 passport foto and a means of identification.

One of d worst tins that cld befall a man is gettin hooked to a "super" nagging wife.

I once dated a girl like dat. She wld nag d heaven into u and nag d hell out of u. I had to break up cos such ppl hardly change and they wld alienate u from friends, biz associates, colleagues.

I av a male friend who's havin issues with his girl but we his friends know he is d problem. We've tried to talk to him but he wldnt listen.

We've left him with his wahala

Best tin is: neva get caught in marriage with such ppl cos they wld make dis earth worse for u. Infact u wld wish u were neva born.

And to those who ar in marriage with such, may God grant u d energy and patience to cope with such. Amen

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Wish u all d best.

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It all deends on what u want to achieve. If u tell me what fx u need, I'll tell u what plugin u need and where to either buy or download them

Its d export codec settings. As in, d format u used wen exportin d video.

Which app did u use to edit and what format did u export to? If u state dis, I cld profer some solutions to d problem.

Hope to hear from u soon

Yes, I have such templates. What's d advert like?

I av a handful of guys who cld do a voice over for u.

And I'm into 2d/3d motion graphics biz. After effect is 2nd nature to me.

If u're on ymessenger (olaoluwababs@yahoo.com), we cld hook up and talk provided there's money to pay everyone for their service

@Op: i'm interested, pls send the details to my email address: olaoluwaperfect@yahoo.com. thanks

@Op: Several factors led to these

1. Our daddy factories ar just too busy producing females. For every 1boy born, there ar abt 3-8 girls

2. D few boys around got bad due to heartbreak from some bad girls; hence they run from commitment

3. Ladies eyes are overclouded with a lot of unrealistic expectations I.e. Rich, handsome, must av a car, his own house, his personal business, infact, a personal jet. Even when d right person comes along, they wld never see him.

Not until they become 28/29 with no serious relationship in view
. Then, desperation sets in and at that point, they would gladly accept watever comes their way.

Afterall, half bread is better than chinchin or kokoro!

Nevertheless, we have good guys/ladies who despite fallin in to wrong hands, still have a good heart and wld make a good hussy/wife IF their future partners are wise enough to locate them

@Op: its very possible.

U cld meet ur man/woman just anywhere. D success of such relationship depends on d individuals involved.

What wld u say abt girls/guys u met in d church and yet, they messed up @ d end of d day? If u were to consider dis, u wldnt want to meet ur spouse in d church.

All said and done. I met someone wonderful on NL and we're getting on very fine, atleast, since October 2011.

Guys/Ladies, If u av d qualities someone is all out for and vice versa, who says d 2 of u can't move to the next level from there?

Let's wake up and put sentiments aside ooo!

Well, we're at it again. After being paid monthly allowances, taken outside naija for "so called" training, now they are back in the creeks.

A friend of mine told me how these guys were unrully and misbehaved in south africa. They wld see the toilet but prefer to defaecate just outiside the toilet, etc

The main problem has not been addressed. And we ar all smoking while sitting on a tank of explosives.

I hope someone in govt is reading dis nairaland thread sha.

@marcmuzma: if ur comin is for visitin purpose, I'll advice u to suspend it till later. But if u b naija guy and a real hussler, then u can come. But be warned, d fuel subsidy removal tin is causing a little tumoil here and d boko haram guys aint smiling at all.

If u insist on comin, I'll strongly advice u not to go anywhere near the northern states. Not even d middle belt states too.

I wish u all the best. And please remember nigeria in ur prayers.

If she were a nigerian, I wld say well, times are hard, she got frustrated, etc but south african? Even if she doin petty biz there and brings d money here to buy tins to resell, she shld be fine.

She should be whipped very well before being jailed! Why do drugs, knowing fully well, some of her friend(s) were caught some weeks or months ago.

She Bleep up well well! I won't pity her at all.

Merry DrugzMas is all I hav to say

Ha? At dis stage dis world has gotten to and we are talkin developin vacinnes, cure for aids, etc, we r busy encouragin more guys marryin more girls and. giving birth to more kiddos!

Eko o ni baje my foot!

Whether or not nigerians are cowards, we shall see next year. The hardship wld force us all to kick back and revolt. Its very imminent. Moreso, US predicted sometimes ago that jona might b d last presido we might hav as a country.

Let them remove d damn subsidy and see if there won't be a series of chain reactions.

Let's all keep our fingers crossed.

See what we're talki abt? They can't secure ordinary d fg website and they assurin us to nurse no fear, relax our mind.

Security ma foot!

Male, 30, Abuja, Federal Govt Employee/ 2d/3d motion graphics artist, producer, etc

Mature and interesting babes.
Guys r welcome as well

the optimist see the dough nut,
the pessimist sees the hole ,

it all depends on you

Wat do  u have to offer? If u ar very smart, u can make it in a very short while in america: d opportunity and structure is right there, ready to be grabbed. same opportunity is here in nigeria but a little bit tougher to key into.

u cld solve some problems, get a patent for it and become a millionnaire over night. it all boils down to wat how u use ur senses. some folks are making cool millions even in nigeria. Do they av 4heads on their shoulder? abeg, tell me something else about nigeria and america joor

yeah, smack the poster and the newspaper who raised such dust!

But suppose the substance was an explosive and it did went off? I guess if some of u were there, it won't affect u cos "she's a fulani woman", "it could have been fura de nunu", "the newspaper doesnt have credibility", huh?

Bombs wld stil be bombs and u don't Bleep wit explosive materials. tak caution folks. I dont live in lag but i've was opportuned to go to the police headquarters an hour after the bombing (as a security operative) and i tell u, its an horrible sight compared to wat u see on tv.

Those who died there wld not have waited to know whether the suicide bomber was real or not. Or whether he was playing pranks or not.

Abeg, make una take caution o! We don't want no bomb in lagos!

@poster: nice post but u didnt specify whether the graphics he does is still or motion graphics. I like to promote people who does graphics cos it is not easy.

I do both still and motion graphics, 3d etc as well. i would love to meet that samuel of a guy.


meanwhile, u could check some of my works out on facebook, search for olaoluwaperfect@yahoo.com on facebook and check my photos

ok. i'm an editor, 2d/3d motion graphics artist, compositor, camera man. I'm interested.

What date, location, time?

Whats in it for me?

reply asap

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nice one!

u are mouthed jooor!
oole nu pa!

Its d mockery on fb that d bobo use spoil d whole tin.
Girl, get moving cos life goes on,
Too bad, u were at d receiving end but u should have learnt ur lessons now
Relationship is not about u loving d person alone but asking yourself if d other fellow loves u AND IF D WHOLE SHOW LOOKS REALISTIC, OK?
Best of luck next time

@smartsoft:

it all boils down to how soon u want to get up to speed and how flexible u wanna be. Forget the so called "industrial standard bullshit" and take this seriously:

Go and learn Cinema 4d - its very flexible, renders stuffs very fast and to cap it all: it integrates well with adobe after effects WITHOUT the need for u to buy one nifty plugin. U wanna know why? Cos it comes with it free.

Maya is equally good. But it takes almost forever to render some simple stuffs and God help u if u don't have enought firepower (super dupa fast computer running like intel xeon quadcore) which i believe might be outside ur reach for some time. lol

Tell a maya specialist to model ur name in 3d and hear wat he or she has to say.

3d studio max is good too but the way the tools are arrange in this programs are a bit confusing.

Get this programs yourself and see how fast u can understand them in a short while. Should u need help with cinema 4d, as in getting up to speed, i'll be more than ready to help u. I can send some files to u for u to break apart and learn from.

tak kia bro. wish u best of luck