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Konnektions146: funny enough, i trip for young single mothers alot, i respect dem , they are much more mature than all this crazy youngies everywhere.

just dat our mentality is just somethin else

U took d words from my mouth. And that's very true, they're far far much mature. Some folks wld disagreE and that's ok. What we want in a woman differs

Ha? How can u claim to "love 2 girls"? At same time? Oh, or u wanted to say 2girls u've been eatin their potato? Guy, get real, u don't love any of d 2

Talkin abt callin dis network folks, save ur batteries dude.

My fone was stolen by a pickpocket in ibadan, while on my way to abj. And I called etisalat, they directed me to nokia. I emailed nokia and they re-directed me to etisalt: like ping pong ball.

Nokia howeva made a point: activate phone lock code. That's d surest way to make d fone useless to whoeva stole.

D imei blockin tin worked as per some stolen blackberries that were brought here; they wldnt work. Infact, the operation was funny. A friend bought one like that.

I don't think think dis network i.diots wld do sometin abt blockin fones via imei no in d next 5years

tutulicious: hello sweetie long distance works it requires lots of prayer, patience, luv and commitmt. six months in to my relationship i got admision in MINNA for a 5 years course the hardest tin to do was to leave him behind in abuja dat was abt five yrs ago, we had diffrences but d oda party always beg d way tru, he cheated i kw i even caught him, but dnt all guys do? MIND U am not making excuses for him. We survived so too u can if d luv is dere u ll too. NOW we r enaged to be married.

Thanks jare. That's d nicest tin I've heard on dis thread.

Guys, neva say never. Cos it didnt work for u don't mean it won't work for others.

Give it a shot, be honest and pray. It is possible for it to work out

[quote author=deal_ordea]Can anybody tell me why some women tend to be with another when they are already married?[/quote]For a myriad of "stupid" and sometimes, reasonable reasons.

For instance, wen u stop doin tins u did wen ur love lives started I.e. Goin to d movies, givin her attention even wen ur work schedule is tight, etc.

Women av what I call a short attention span. They get carried away easily by fiddly lil tins so much, they forget d 95% good they got and go after d 5% passin by.

So, they need constant jolt to keep them up and runnin or they'll wander away.

Guy, try upgrade

@Op: go give d man d damn money and get d damn weddin done before he sees another girl and decides he's no longer interested in u.

Not cos he doesn't love u but cos of this attitude

"He that is faithful in lil, wld be faithful in much" and vice versa.

If she cld cheat online. Only God know what she does wen d hussy is away.

A bitch is always a bitch. If u like, treat her like d queen of england, hav a 25in long 5inches thick roddy piper, she'll always cheat.

I'm not sayin d guy shld divorce her or not but, he's gotta be careful or next tin he'll see is his wife in a h.ard.core movie on youtube or youp.orn

Op, d guy shld find out why she's cheatin "virtually" and learn from it and adjust: if he's willin to forgive and forget and move on

Men do so for a myriad of reason, some of which are silly. I'll try to itemize d ones I know:

1. Cos they are used to eating variety of potatoes. They enjoy havin variety of women

2. Cultural/religious reasons: d culture or religion permits them and they believe they should

3. Wen d 1st wife is fond of naggin/pissin them off constantly. They get another woman and use her to spite d 1st. If d 2nd turns out same tin like d 1st, he goes ahead and marries more and more

4. Some men have it in their genes and wld marry another for reasons they themselves can't say.

5. If d 1st wife can give birth at all or she can't give birth to a particular sex the man wants.

D list goes on and on. D important tin as a woman is to ensure u keep ur man. Though, there are extremely few good men/women out there, locate a good partner and ensure u keep him. Simple little tins piss men off. And some wld fight u tooth and nail.
Some men wld simply walk away without a word

Wish u all d best

@Op: just like FBS has said, a good woman has no nationality/tribe, a good woman is a good woman, period.

Hear her out even if u decide to not to accept her back.

And try to understand d following:

1. Ladies are complex

2. There might be some tins d other guy is doin that u're not, learn that fast!

3. Whatever makes her say she doesn't want to continue can stil make her repeat same tin, so be careful abt ur decision.

I wish u all the best.

Na God ooo!

If d 2 parties involved are serious about it and they are matured, it can work but if one or d 2 party is a player, then, its more or less a joke/mockin around with someone's emotions.

Ensure u and d person are on same page and for peace sake, take d person as he/she is; trust him/her. If u see or hear sometin, don't get mad ask questions.

But don't stay too long apart or d other person cld stray away.

Well, the fact that she has a baby is not the main koko but the fact that she didnt mention it on time till the guy found out.
Thats deciet and it shouldnt be taken likely.

I might end the relationship if i find out such tins.

and like someone said, if she could lie about her kid, only God knows a myriad of tin she would be hiding

By d way, how many married couples can boldly come out standin and tell us "no touchin"? None @ all

Out of 100, maybe 5 or less.

U're not expected to kiss @ all not to talk of handle. And I'm being realistic.

If u do any of those, tell me what u're thinkin in ur mind while doin it.

Helloooo, anyone?

kwabet: I tried a God-Centred relationship while in d university with Bible studies and social interactions as basis. I had to go dat way because she was apparently a core christian. I know and can interprete d Bible more but she is sincerely more a xtian dan me,pple attest to dat. To be concise,she was a virgin. Two yrs into d relationship I attempted to kiss her and folks,Quess wat she asked. Why haven't I kissed her all along,why do I hav to wait till den. She was pissed,that she has been burning wt desire and had waited all d while for my touch. Dat changed my view on Sexless relationship.

@kwabet: I concur. I've seen both sides of dis sex or no sex tin. 1 tin though, what works for A might not work for B. David in d bible was said to be "a man after God's heart" yet, he's also after his pricks wishes. I think, u shld make ur decisions whether u want to obey God in that area or not.

From observation over time, I think most boys/girls become aware of sex at a very tender age. Or why wld a virgin, and a sister of God be expecting d bros to come "poke", huh?

@OP

Its not so easy. I dated a lady who was a virgin and a "super spiri koko" sister. I felt, finally, I can go abt my biz and not get bothered abt intimacy and it'll be super easy to stick to d "no rockin d boat" rule, Guys, I was super wrong.

She pressed for sex! Its that plain and simple. And she's d type that wld do anytin to get what she wants: u just must give. She'll mount pressure so much u'll almost choke. I wasn't a virgin anyway and gave in after some time. And she wld call for it regularly as if it pure water.

We broke up anyway and not cos of d sex tin, cos some of u already raised ur sledge hammer.

We broke up cos of her mouth: "she'll say anytin abt u to anybody"

Staying away from sex in a relationship is not that easy, especially if its bein pushed by just 1partner, its a mutual effort. "Can 2 work except they agree?"

By d way, I've dated a lady b4 and there weren't any sex. I tot I was doin great till I later discovered she had someone who does d "regular maintenance" I refused to do. We broke up eventually on that ground.

So, d no sex tin is a double edged sword and not as easy as some say. It requires extra discipline on both sides.

May God help us

In abeokuta, ogun state, I got mine done for 17k and it took 4hours.

U'll also need driver's license or a means of identification, 2 passport fotos.

U'll need a guarantor though. Someone who's got a intl passport, 2 passport foto and a means of identification.

One of d worst tins that cld befall a man is gettin hooked to a "super" nagging wife.

I once dated a girl like dat. She wld nag d heaven into u and nag d hell out of u. I had to break up cos such ppl hardly change and they wld alienate u from friends, biz associates, colleagues.

I av a male friend who's havin issues with his girl but we his friends know he is d problem. We've tried to talk to him but he wldnt listen.

We've left him with his wahala

Best tin is: neva get caught in marriage with such ppl cos they wld make dis earth worse for u. Infact u wld wish u were neva born.

And to those who ar in marriage with such, may God grant u d energy and patience to cope with such. Amen

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@Op: Several factors led to these

1. Our daddy factories ar just too busy producing females. For every 1boy born, there ar abt 3-8 girls

2. D few boys around got bad due to heartbreak from some bad girls; hence they run from commitment

3. Ladies eyes are overclouded with a lot of unrealistic expectations I.e. Rich, handsome, must av a car, his own house, his personal business, infact, a personal jet. Even when d right person comes along, they wld never see him.

Not until they become 28/29 with no serious relationship in view
. Then, desperation sets in and at that point, they would gladly accept watever comes their way.

Afterall, half bread is better than chinchin or kokoro!

Nevertheless, we have good guys/ladies who despite fallin in to wrong hands, still have a good heart and wld make a good hussy/wife IF their future partners are wise enough to locate them

@Op: its very possible.

U cld meet ur man/woman just anywhere. D success of such relationship depends on d individuals involved.

What wld u say abt girls/guys u met in d church and yet, they messed up @ d end of d day? If u were to consider dis, u wldnt want to meet ur spouse in d church.

All said and done. I met someone wonderful on NL and we're getting on very fine, atleast, since October 2011.

Guys/Ladies, If u av d qualities someone is all out for and vice versa, who says d 2 of u can't move to the next level from there?

Let's wake up and put sentiments aside ooo!

Well, we're at it again. After being paid monthly allowances, taken outside naija for "so called" training, now they are back in the creeks.

A friend of mine told me how these guys were unrully and misbehaved in south africa. They wld see the toilet but prefer to defaecate just outiside the toilet, etc

The main problem has not been addressed. And we ar all smoking while sitting on a tank of explosives.

I hope someone in govt is reading dis nairaland thread sha.

@marcmuzma: if ur comin is for visitin purpose, I'll advice u to suspend it till later. But if u b naija guy and a real hussler, then u can come. But be warned, d fuel subsidy removal tin is causing a little tumoil here and d boko haram guys aint smiling at all.

If u insist on comin, I'll strongly advice u not to go anywhere near the northern states. Not even d middle belt states too.

I wish u all the best. And please remember nigeria in ur prayers.

If she were a nigerian, I wld say well, times are hard, she got frustrated, etc but south african? Even if she doin petty biz there and brings d money here to buy tins to resell, she shld be fine.

She should be whipped very well before being jailed! Why do drugs, knowing fully well, some of her friend(s) were caught some weeks or months ago.

She Bleep up well well! I won't pity her at all.

Merry DrugzMas is all I hav to say

Ha? At dis stage dis world has gotten to and we are talkin developin vacinnes, cure for aids, etc, we r busy encouragin more guys marryin more girls and. giving birth to more kiddos!

Eko o ni baje my foot!