₦airaland Forum

odinson1:
Dude Your Brother is a Man Worthty of Respect. This is how you discipline a woman,by making her know she's easily Replaceable. Some foolish men will advise you to have a heart to heart conversation with your wife and beg her,these Are just a waste of time because she will only use that Conversation to Manipulate you even further.

But... I'll advise him not to divorce her...yet. the fear of divorce alone is enough for her to Know who is the Man of the house.
Trust me,she will never misbehave in that house ever again

If the brother accept her back, she go dey take permission to eat dinner sef. No be by shout shout. That is why as a man, build yourself up in character, finance, position and other wise and trust me you won't have anything to lose.

I stand with your brother

TheKingsmann:
Tunde can neva insult dos he's gaining from, he's a slave to rich guys, if u know u know

Man is now obi's personal piper

If you want someone to talk quantum theory and mechanics, get a nerd. Your boyfriend is clearly not the chatterbox.

IMO, he's the definition of a "real man" - talk less, act more.

She get's a nerd now, i'll be he's not handsome, he doesn't talk at all. Well i guess we can't have it all

nnamdi640:
My brother no body can give you an accurate analysis of the future price, people just do prediction based on some factors around the global trading, don't be surprise that a particular event that will happen might just drive it high, that is why expert will tell you that you should do your own research and don't conclude with their own prediction. Some expert are saying that strong bull will soon show up on the chart because it has being selling strong for almost two months.

True no doubt but you can't rule out the law of supply and demand in any market. And there are technical analysis which would give you an edge. I don't know if you're a trader, check the weekly chart, it'll give you an edge to predict where the market is heading to and i'm also not ruling out the effect of news but knowledge of technical analysis can not be ruled out

LemmyOdafe:
It's still going to crash more. The Chart shows a Double Top in Weekly Time Frame.

Na only you dey speak the true language of trading, according to my analysis, it's getting to 29k

Jennyclay:
I can't have civil conversation with a bloody and pathetic rapist like you.

You're so disgusting... Please, shift let me puke!!

Better than the man that has the title of a father in your life. Like i said earlier, worry about how to help your brother, and how to see that your father get rehabilitated and oh, i forgot, you fvck his type for a living. Don't quote me again, if you don't want your life to be unfortunate than it is already. Disgusting LovePeddler

Jennyclay:
You this rapist, please don't quote me again.

Wow, i thought you're human enough to have a civilized conversation but i was wrong, never know that stupidity and ill manner attitude runs deep in your family and take my word for it, it didn't just start from you. Check the strength of your stupidity from your family tree, you'll realized that it doubles up from every generation. Sister to a crackhead, daughter to LovePeddler mother, daughter to a pevert father. I'm even kind with my word if you wanna be a bitch, make sure you charge a huge sum, to help your brother with his addiction. Don't ever in your 1-70 years of your existence in this earth quote me again

dangoteinlaw:
Notice how no one is asking why the girl refuse to unlock a phone the boyfriend bought her hahaha, power of the pussy. This is what redpillers are talking about. Notice how the simps on nairaland are jumping in defense of her. But if the girl got him the phone and caught him cheating it would have been the same response still defending her.

If you like yourself and peace of mind just get a baby mama to give you kids and carry on.

Not supporting violence but why she sef no go unlock phone wey him buy, she sef like the beating

Jennyclay:
Your wife did the right thing by moving to her parent's house.

You hit your wife so hard that she was bleeding from her mouth (only God knows how many times you hit her be4 blood gushed out), you saw her bleeding mouth, and you raped her. Sir you're a professional in raping.

She also did a good thing by not releasing your daughter to you. Because you might rape the little girl too. We have read many cases here on nairaland how Men rape their daughters and it all started like this.

You want her parents to welcome you with beer and asun for beating & raping their daughter?? oga you're on your own oo.

We know the man is wrong but in as much as your seeing that the pays for his action, why ain't you asking why she denied him sex for two month. Marriage is partnership and communication. So a woman denied her husband sex for two, shit happened and you're still blaming him. Man is not a cheat na problem, man still cheat another problem.

Nothing. He is your governor, you guys trusted him with the governor seat, he should return the favour. But on the flip side, shey im go reply the mail or calls??

MrBrownJay1:
you need to FIRST figure out what you truly want in a wife , and then stick to your guns until you find the girl who has the character/attribute your require... but let me just say that age is nothing but a number.

At OP this is the best advice here. What do you really want in a lady. Map out your standard, if any girl with the criteria with an oustanding percentage, yeah, i said that wife her.

My own be say "anything thing wey you no fit continue, no start am". Nobody is perfect, what if kids start rolling in

Sgtkoselupa:
this is a counsel of the ungodly. Don't do it!

Ungoldly how, was a pastor there when they made the convenant?? Haven't you seen a consistent problem stopped by just apologizing to the offended person. Even if she go meet pastor, the boy has the greater part to play in this plot. He is the root of everything.

At OP, you have fallen out of love with the guy. And you're here saying he is using it to his advantage. A cheat doesn't commit talk more of a convenant. It's means the same guy has been faithful to you all along. Just reason with him to let things go. Report him to the police, you get mind ooo

alizma:
Assuming he is the one that wants to dump you, how will you feel? You were ok with it when it favour your thought only.
Well keep begging him or go to a strong Church where such convenant can be broken

If it was a guy, all the nairalanders female warriors would be out in the full shapes and sizes with shields and spears, ready to attack. I just noticed i'm ain't seeing their comments.

Faber:
Hire hit men tell them about your ordeal, pay them heavily and they will storm your boyfriend house while you're with him alone. They will put a gun to his head he go use speed break the damn shitty covenant. That's the only way out of it.

Thereafter you abscond to a far location cos he will surely come for a return leg

Shit doesn't work like that bro. It gotta be in all sincerity. The ecstasy and joy used in starting it should be how to end it. The guy has to be willing to let go

helinues:
And as well, I should be expecting someone with such character cos that rule was boldy written in my love map.

Bless you for this. I go with this rule anyday, anytime

Johnrake69:
Drug users don't get sentenced in a saner clime. They're made to go through therapy.

You're informed. 14grams of tramadaol and 15 grams of weed, na him person go face 12 years in jail. These people are jokers. Shebi dem dey find people wey dey use drugs abi make dem go fela shrine or mushin. Bunch of clowns

Dshocker:
If efcc was truly doing their work,a lot of people suppose to be behind bars,they claimed to have recovered over N152b in 2021 but cannot give an account on how the money was used or to whom it was remitted to.

If truly Mompha was caught,let him prosecuted according to the law.

The EFCC as a body that was set up to fight corruption are known to be a bribe taking organisation

The issue of Mba Maxwell Odum;He was a very good trader with good intentions,but wasn't a certified/registered trader;He bribed the efcc with billions of naira the first time and when they came again,he refused giving them another bribe and they frozed his account and declared him wanted.

Very good what?? Nigga wasn't a trader one fucking bit. "Good intentions, but wasn't registered" bro, are you a fraud apologist?? Real traders don't even need public funds to thrive. Was the so called max well a certified fund manager and when i say fund manager, i mean having worked with financial firms. Nigga ran a successful ponzi and like every ponzi, they had an exit period. Nigerians aren't just wise

Na family matter, i no dey put mouth

Is she single, better person no suppose dey tae for market

lyriclekidd:
How much cash dem Meet for him pallazo hotel room? Na anjonu or demon carry the money come nah..

He was caught with $40M. Hush is a money mule, man ain't no damn hacker or shit. Didn't you read how he provides drop account for bank hackers??

lyriclekidd:
Bruh stfu you out here spewing bullshit. Cfo wey pay hushpuppi almost $100m na oshole too abi or na you he use for the ritual?? If you like go do oshole you fit still no buy pass muscle. Plenty boys for abeokuta and ogun wey dy do oshole the highest car there na still venza. No dy talk wetin you no know. Boys wey dy do crypto with better capital dy buy house for lekki too bros.

cfo pay hushpuppi $100M, na you be account officer abi, do you know what is $100M

Weyrehmod:
I went for job hunting last week... After going for interview and submitting my CV, i asked how much is the salary and i was told 20k with accommodation (cleaner in a mall)

I just burst tear, imagine 20k can't even cover my feeding for a month ( if i spend 700 for food in a day, a month is 21k) i don taya for 9ja

Make i go find yahoo do

At this point sef, if i tell you make you no do yahoo, for your eye, i fit dey wicked. But make we dey ask ourself some question, shey you go continue to dey do am on the long run, what of if client no come dey use ordinary eye pay again, wetin you go do. Make i tell you one secret, if your grandmother still dey alive, grandma wey like you. Buy things wey she go appreciate carry go, tell her make she pray for you. Even your mama sef and carry God near body

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I go just transfer 1k now, add bitcoin for narrative, your eye go clear now 70 year old man

At OP reading your first post, you just proved one universal notion. "Anything one want to achieve or acquire in life requires detailed planning"

princewarri1985:
THE PROBLEM WITH YOU HERE IS THAT YOU ARE SIMPLY JEALOUS OF YOUR BROTHER, EVEN IF HE IS OCCULTIC OR OGBONI SELF, JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE AND SIMPLY MIND YOUR BUISNESS, HIS LIFE HIS MONEY, LEAVE HIM ALONE, YOU DONT FORCE YOURSELF ON PEOPLE IF YOU VALUE YOUR SELF WORTH, RESPECT AND DIGNITY, TAKE WHAT EVER YOU FEEL YOUR BROTHER IS DOING TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AS A CHALLENGE, AND GO OUT THERE AND HUSTLE HARD, YOU COULD EVEN BECOME RICHER THAN YOUR BROTHER TOMORROW, BECAUSE NOBODY HAS THE MONOPOLY OF RICHES BECAUSE THE SKY IS TOO WIDE FOR ALL THE BIRDS TO FLY

So if something grave happen to him, who do you think will be on speed dial?

At OP we're Nigerians and there is alot happening and somepeople would want to convince themselves that it is not real but shit is real. People will come here with mundane writeups to backup some questionable acts but whatever. I don't see why you'd have money and properties buy still choose to live in a rented apartment, i mean even elemelu no do reach this one sef. Your brother might be or not be an occult man, but one thing i'm damn sure is, he's sick in the head. Thank God for your life. Don't forget to always put him in prayer, that is the best thing you can afford to him as a brother

kansoboy:
Madam I have already been divorced long ago..since u have been saparated for months,

All I will tell u is this: is not goin to be easy for u have over 3 kids to take care of, if no kid or just one kid, then I can say ride on, but u see 3kids? U will be stressed out, forget about remarrying for a very long time, as most men that will come around u making adavances and telling u sweet things just only want to have sex with u an run.

If your family members are giving u mind to get on with the divorce process, remember that sooner or later those family members will start mking Mockery of u and Ur failed Marriage, then depression will set in for u.

Divorce is not easy for women worst of all woman with kids in this Africa cum NIGERIA.

My humble opinion, think it out well for the divorce process,
I would have said, if the problem is reconciliable, please go and reconcile, if it takes you to go and beg this so husband or go to his family, look for who he respect most and let the person go with you to beg him and reconcile.
That a man:
Cheats
Womanise
Sleep outside

Is not a enough reason to leave your marriage, because the next holy man u see out is going to still cheat.

If you are the sturborn type and believe the man can go to hell and u don't need husband......think again.
Arrive is all about sacrifice, as a mother or father(husband or wife) u must sacrifice every thing possible for the sake of your children.

However, you alone will face what ever that come after Ur divorce good or bad.

Do not compare Ur mairrage / divorce with d present yeyebrities that marry today and divorce tomorrow, and still marry again to divorce again...those ones are purely ashawos and okpoh they are into.

Goodluck

Omo na only you spit facts for here. But the "cheating, womanizing and sleeping outside is not enough reason to leave a man" dey do me one kind for body But truth be told, if it is something that can be settled, let sleeping dog lie.

Go visiting with your ransom money

Which kind of heading be this *spits*