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Mautinfoster:
I feel your point. Attachment issues, I will say yes. Thank you for your time.

Aight man, i wish you the best

I don't know for sure but lemme tell you something. I know it's hard keeping it all this years and right now, you probably feel you're not appreciated enough. I don't know but maybe you have attachment or validation issues. I've been there. You're 27, she 19. You've lived enough to not want to make mistake, she's young, probably just want to start making mistakes. You still gat alot of love in ya. This is what'll i'll tell you. Some girls are like wild bird, virgins or not, they don't want to be caged, they want fly high, match their strength with the breeze from the forest. Get something productive doinh, delete that "i want to marry her thought" from your head. Since you point her fault countless time and no change, let that ship sail. Remember, she just started living,

OP, kudos to you. For you to change a full grown adult, that is a hard work but you did that under how many months, maybe years. Nice one, don't just stop at her, continue the project

Botking:
CBDC is centralized, Bitcoin is Decentralized, which one is better

Nigerian govertment can seize your funds at any given time, bitcoin nobody can do nada to your funds, i think bitcoin is better

From the heading gan sef, i think say you smash one red piller girlfriend. Well for the fact that you assume the guy is a redpill and she was crying, making it seem like she's the victim is everything. You could have inquiry from him what led to the thunderous voice but as knighty you are, the lady comes first. Welldone OP

Shame dey catch me for this we country. What kind of arranged arrest is this. Continue stalling his extradiction. Clowns

anewchapter:
The baby doesn't even know why they're beating him in the first place.

I'm telling you. This is first degree murder. Poor obinna just want to go to school and play with his friends.....

kushme:
According to their manipulative skill, a REAL man is that man who lives for the excitement of a woman.. If you are not making women happy then you ain't REAL.

Say no more comrade, a dictionary couldn't have simplified this

KhiaW:
How is this being a REAL man?

A man is only real when he gift his woman something. This explains alot

Zionzoom:
on Instagram or Twitter?

Instagram

Elporo:
Had to respond to this. Women over and over again (especially southern girls) keep showing their poor understanding of wealth and money.
All you know is give me to spend.

Do you know what it takes for a 25 year old man to own a 7 - 10 million naira car; without a rich uncle, brother, mother or benefactor? It takes experience in an niche or less exploited industry. Currently the IT & Advertising industry is the only industry, where a young man can earn such money. IT and Ad's are highly technical jobs/skills. Their are certain skills on must hone or master to excel.

How many of your so called rich boys can type @ 60 - 80 wpm? Can tell the difference between Unix and Linux? Can explain the quirks in HD resolution? Can properly track, filter and retarget with ads? How many Aunty?

- Go look at Marques Brownlee on Youtube; see a rich man making money of Advertising - listen to him talk ; how many of you "rich boys" have one third of this knowledge.
- Go look at shutabug on Fisayo Fusodos' channels ; 27 or is it 29 year old did 40K USD in year. Listen to shutabug talk; how many of your "rich boys" talk like that.

You think wealthy or rich people are uncouth, loud, popular/infamous for no reason, uncultured, grossly incompetent in their said fields of achievement?

You think when young boys (few of them) come out to say, I would'nt become a fraudster; but so and so is a fraudster - you think it is envy, for cheap women ; who can't differentiate between a fake Gucci purse and an authentic one. Cheap women that think Hermes and Birkin are independent brands. A man is in a 7 million naira vehicle; sporting a fake watch; and you are grinning from ear to ear .

Baki tapa shan AC bane`?

Bro, i could give you a year supply of your favourite brand of wine, you brought receipt along side your points. Someone said what if it is true love, you're inlove with a fraudster who moves around with fugazi, wardrobe is all fugazi. When they have nothing to say, they turn the whole narrative to, judging a grown woman lifestyle. Like you rightly say, all they know is to spend. Y'all clamour to be love and treated right, but your choices of men still fall within fraudsters and gangsters. Money is not easy to make anywhere, if you see anybody legit making thousands of dollars monthly, trust me, it took him nothing less than 2 years of constant grinding into that craft. Y'all should continue to make wrong choices, then come to nairaland to advocate for the ill fate befalling your gender. I'm proud of y'all. Peace out

Zionzoom:
redpill is on Twitter and Facebook now
As for Instagram,I don't know

Follow beta2alpha.mindset and redpill hub. Watch how your life transform

Omoo, i just dey laugh at some comment. You mess up when you dey husband house, even your mama no go allow you come her house and person wey knack you sef get serious girlfriend, you be housewife again do whatever you like with this information

ExAngel007:
Money can't buy love

True but what is love in present times?? how much a guy can spend. If you need true love, get a pet. What we have now is transactional love and the guy with the biggest currency do what, is the lovable and caring guy

TheGoodJoe:

As in eh!!! She just shock.

I'm telling you, she humble

okoroemeka:
law of self preservation,this is an eye opener to the crowd that advocates go and make money and any girl is yours,I laugh loudly because they are yet to understand women

Can't be every girl though but she can be yours for flings but not for keep

Now this is how you win a case. Goddamn that is a retirement fortune

At OP, i read your story and i'm sorry you had to go through all these. I'd advice you seek the face of God deeply, that is just it. All these 6 months period, if you want to go by this, then your age target should be men from 40's upward because as it stands now, even 30's never even sitdown reason marriage one day. May the Lord grant your heart desire

Kate999:
My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

Mother always weilding this particular sentence like a gladiator in the arena. Had my own fair share today. What is your father saying about it?? Is your granny still alive??

MMempire:
Crypto can not be easily traced if you know the know. They tracked the couples I.P to the bitcoin wallet through the internet provider and began to monitor them. They were not smart enough to use a public or scrambled internet. They also failed to keep their fortune (the bitcoins) in a hard wallet like the Ledger Nano. You don't do such transaction on your personal phone or computer. Every phone or computer bought is a potential spy gadget from the government through the manufacturer.

At least someone is making sense

Take heart brother. Take your time

Nigerian men 1: Africa Feminist Nigeria Chapter (AFNC) 0

I go give you mature advice oo but normal normal, you suppose collect better spanking . But you sef no try, how you no go dey give your wife monthly money. Maybe you're truly sorry, or maybe not. You're just intimidated by her achievement. I like your wife method, "render then useless with success" At this point sir, she can survive without you, painful truth and she still gave you 6M. Not to be offended, but on a fair ground, you don't deserve her. The one thing i would advice you to do is to, RENEW YOUR WEDDING VOWS WITH HER. Have a wonderful day sir

PotatoSalad:
Aphrodisiacs and sex enhancing drugs reduce your heart rate so much so you can last longer.
If you have underlying health conditions, avoid them. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, not a competition of who lasts longest.

Before you pump and head straight to your maker.

Not just sex sha, any individual above 30 should have a good blood pressure monitor at home and also a fitness band. People are dropping everyday because of stress

OP talk say it increases heart beat , you say e dey decrease, make una talk fast abeg, my guy get match tomorrow, make i lecture am

These men should carry women their age, you go carry young girl wey get horsepower pass ford mustang. Who know if he has taken enhancement. What am embarrasing way to end life

loladius:
Talk to a lawyer and get a prenup or postnup.

At OP, this is the only advice you should take here. You saying you want peace, you don't want divorce, does your intentions reflect on hers?? You're in a foreign country where women has upper hand than men in marriage and your wife records every arguements and you're still talking about peace. She don draw battle line for you. Make she just catch you with any lady or devil enter you, you raise hand on her, you see that peace wey you dey find, na the one wey go dey comot for your body for jail (piss). Better seek the counsel of a lawyer asap. I see some guys saying, give her good sex, take her out, call her pet name, settle every arguement bla bla. You can't be building something and your partner is hell bent on destroying it. My guy, if una get any joint asset, better dissolve am sharply. Like i said earlier, seek the counsel of a lawyer

You think they call some guys players just because it's called players. Thing is y'all still fall for the worst guys. Person compliment your physical appearance na wahala, or you want me to start saying, your heart is beautiful

Nigerian interior decor with gold, na 5 & 6

They did and i've known that our government don't just through favours around. We know say all these na strategy

illicit:
These ain't men

Straight up

1. People marry for the wrong reasons
2. Patience is lacking is present time marriages
3. People now invite God when swearing in the marriage oath but as soon as they leave the venue, they leave God there
4. Marriage is about service to each other, but sadly evveryone want to be served, not only when you're Hot
5. Alot of people carry "dating character" into marriage
6. Some partner want to be begged, appeased before they would communicate their feelings


Just a few though