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Oct 14: the court rooms will be filled to capacity. Too many divorce cases

Jennydoris:
It shouldn’t come of any surprise to ladies that men are initially attracted to women via their physical appearance, but that does not mean all men are looking for the Tyra Banks super model type. Different strokes for different folks. Some men do like thick women, some like them curvy, etc.

But it’s the first five minutes that counts the most. That’s the time you have to use your physical appearance first and then your personality to “reel him in.”

Here are some characteristics that men say they tend to notice when they first encounter a woman.

• A woman’s shape- Relationship guru Dr. Paul Dobransky says men look at curves and shape. And he won’t hide it, either. So don’t be surprised to catch him looking you up and down when you enter his space.

• A woman’s attitude- Men love a woman with confidence. Her posture, her ability to look him straight in the eye and her air of confidence are all traits men will be attracted to.

• Her smile- Subconsciously, men are drawn to certain smiles. Some like sweet and genuine, while others like a mischievous look.

• Your girl friends- Oh yea. He is checking out whom you hang with. He will be intimidated by a large group of women, but will approach a lady in a trio. If he’s rejected, at least he knows the giggles will be at a minimum.

• A woman’s hair- They like well kept hair that smells good. So make sure your weave is fresh! In fact, research shows that men notice your hair before they notice what you are wearing.

• Your makeup- Keep it light and natural looking. And wear lipstick. It doesn’t (and shouldn’t) be bright red, but he will notice moist shiny (yet natural) looking lips.

• The butt and the bust- Yea, you knew that was coming. But be cool about it. That doesn’t mean you should wear spandex or a shirt that leaves nothing to the imagination. Do leave something to the imagination. And remember, some guys like a handful, while others go for the melons .

• Your bag- Yep. He will check out your purse. If you are lugging around a big ol’ bag, no matter if it’s Gucci or not, he will take that as a sign that you are high maintenance and that you are also materialistic (that you need a lot of things). So when it comes to bags, bigger is not better.

So ladies, look your best and show that smile , whether you are going to the super market or out with your crew. You never know when you are going to encounter “the one.”

Wtf! You're a female talking about what guys see? Don't you think this should be a guyz topic. And yes you totally blew it up where you wrote bag, hair, makeup, girlfriend, shoe and all. Oh come on! Wrap it up! Who gives a 4k about that? Shape, size, complexion, smile, and a friendly attitude over writes all the shoes and bags and earings and all. Even if you're wearing a one million naira watch or bag, with a friendly attitude, a humble guy will talk to you

pascyj:
Errmmm,VERY TRUE.
I'm not your comedian.

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Sweetlemon:
Sorry o. So what's his duty? Coach me? Lecture me?

Abegi! Take it from me, a relationship/marraige should be at least 65% fun (which includes good sex/body language, outdoor activities/outing, doing stuff together (like eating, watching TV) playing indoor games. Then 40% of brainstorming, planning, etc.

Odawise, Odikwa very frustratingly boring.

And the girl should never be the party provider? Don't you think your opinion is too left-filled? You wrote " what's his duty?". And I bet you, even if he does more than all that list you gave, you'll still not be grateful. 90% of you.

Rapzino:
i'm a parrot on social network but in real life i don't talk much and i'm mostly indoors. Ever since the first time i gathered courage from heaven and hell to toast a girl (i was shaking and nearly peed on myself) and got turned town, i've never tried it again.

Too funny.
But don't give up! Out of 10 girls, 1 will respond positively.
Depends on what you are actually after- her companionship, her money, or her stuff... You know what I mean.
Always bear in mind- you have a right to try, because you are human, not a spider. Spiders are solitary- me to my web.

Sweetlemon:
hehehehehehehhehehehe

Laughing my asss off.

OP congratz o. You don get bobo be dat. Your post just touched the hearts of 90% of active NL guys (they are introverts)






















They'd bore me to death!

This is the problem- its not a guy's duty to always entertain you

Mzflexydeeva:
sent an invite since

Accepted, but still pending

Mzflexydeeva:
shoot!

I've shot

Pervert1:
virginity is over-rated

Pervert number one

tosyne2much:
na wetin I hear ooooo.. Me I neva bleep b4

Lie

This case should be thoroughly looked into. Yes! The troops opened fire in the presence of the General Officer's Commanding out of their own volition, but the circumstances that led to their activities of protest should constitute what is known as assisted mutiny. Their fellow compatriots were sent on an expedition only to get surprised by the fact that BH had got wind of their route and Modus operandi, they were besieged, and murdered so cheaply that the troops in that unit could not but express their grievance by any other method than a protest.
Not only were they ill- equipped for the expedition, their health care benefits ( large enough to service the expenses of 3 ministries put together) was siphoned by few superior officers, they also detested the jettisoned policy of rotational operation in the deployment of troops to the troubled spots.
If they are deserving of the death sentence, what happens to the officers whose ineptitude assisted the circumstances that led to the said mutiny?

Mzflexydeeva:
shoot!

30ef4ca2

Mzflexydeeva:
how u?

I'm good. Let's chat on bbm. Do you mind?

Mzflexydeeva:
so lets start by making the room fun. just give a little description of urself and ur likes>>>>>>>>>>>> i like to be called deeva_da boss cos i am love the idea of independence. from edo state and love to meet people.

Hello boss?

vizkiz:
i guess i am getting bored with this "7 types" of every freaking thing i see on Nairaland these days

The next time i see any sh*t like this, amma deactivate my account right away

Ohhh noooo! Please don't!

If you do, nairaland will vanish and our phones will fall into water.


Wake up bro! Its 8:0 clock

evegran:
NO! And Nigeria is NOT ready for a female president, maybe in the distant future.

Good! One love sister!

Lilimax:
Yes we are ready when given the right platform.
Women should be allowed to participate freely in politics.

You know what?
I find something very amazing about you women!
The hypocrisy! Oh yes! The hypocrisy!!!

You support yourselves in social media, whereas in the real sense. If I put 2 girls in the same room, 2 days won't pass away except that they will fight and keep malice with them selves.


But guys support them selves every where, and yet live in peace with each other.


Why?


Why can't you be real?


Tell me sincerely, do you want a female president? Especially if she's not related to you

dhammyg:
WHAT PATRICIA ETTEH STOLE IS NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT MEN LIKE ABACHA,IBB AND IBORI STOLE

See ehn? I don't like it when people quote me. So after this, please don't

What Eteh stole in her capacity reflects what she would have done if she was a president. So we can't conclude.

I give one: men cut hair for #200.
Women have brazilian hair of #350,000. (Half plot of land in Abijor area of lagos island

I'm not saying all women though, but most men steal to impress women.
If you could love us without it, then, we actually don't give a 4k about the G-wagons and bentleys and compressors and and whatever! We just want to serve God and teach children mathematics.

impactz:
Very possible. If you have read about woman, you'll know they have a higher thinking ability than men #NoOffence. And Women has great sensitivity... am just saying YES its possible

Guess you want many gurrrlsss and gurlsies to hit the 'like' button

Sorry bradah, they don't gif a 4k about you.


You wanna know if we ready for a black woman president? Okay may be patricia Eteh has an answer for you.


And for what its worth bro! There aint no such grammer as "women HAS great sensibility"


I won't tell you the correct grammer! Ask ya lil sister sissie

emmanuelogbe:
Mr. Who told u those are unrelated scenario? I am not trying to be defensive here but factual. I have sisters, female relations and also female friends. I have seen how guys fool themselves up and down just because of ladies, not to talk about how some of them beg the ladies for s*x. After all these, you guys come here to call them all sort of names. That is so unfair. You don't just examine a handful of ladies whom because of one problem or the other find themselves doing this and then you come here to say 97% of them are prostitutes. If you insist they are prostitutes, then you guys better ask who they are selling their assets to. If they are prostitutes, stop patronizing them.
The fact that you call them prostitutes corroborates their perception about all men being cheaters. Why call them prostitutes when they start looking glamorous? Can't they afford it? If they don't look good you guys complain, and if they do, you call them prostitutes. What do you guys really want from them?
I would say guys are more immoral if you try to compare the behavior of both sexes. Beside the issue of prostitution which is a mutual act between the two sexes, you guys don't have any strong case against them. The guys are not only also involved in prostitution but also molestation, armed robbery, fraud, cultism and other vices.
So I suggest you people should open more threads about guys, and also ask yourselves why you guys are so obsessed with the ladies and what they do.
Remove the log in your eyes before looking at the one in your neighbour's eyes.

Emmanuel ogbe? Sounds male to me. Let me assume you are innocent

Say NO to skye. They fight customers for any error in a transfer form


Keystone is always empty, so feel free.


Fidelity is faithful. They will never close your account even in 10 years


Access- no network,


Gtb; atm will cause you trouble when you are stranded. (The best bank though)

4k!
That preacher never forgets to come with his permed hair and fake voice.
Btw is op in uniben?

Pervert1:
women deserves much more respect ....pls.

And your name is pervert1? Maybe there's a new definition for that word

victorazy:
Just for one classrom?
She must have studied in abroad!

I just tire oh! How much is it to build a new class then? If you spend 400k on blocks, you would have built 2 class rooms minus roofing, tiles, fan, and sliding windows

Yes!
Especially Ijebu girls who go to the university to study Economics
On their birthdays they ask for black berry Q10
On your birthday they bring you boxers!

BlackTechnology:
80k is good enough for a recruit who is not a graduate.

If he invests a part of those salaries every month for 10yrs, he would be able to establish a good business for himself that can take care of him after retirement.


Remember

It is not how much you earn that matters but how much you are able to set aside to invest for businesses

So when picking a job, you look at how much you can set aside to invest for businesses

For me a SSCE holder earning 80k can invest 30k every month which will amount to over 3.6million in 10yrs sufficient enough to start up a good part time business during his remaining military years.


For a graduate earning 180k, if he invests at least 80k every month, it will amount to 9.6million after 10 yrs. Sufficient enough to start up a good part time business during his remaining military years.

But first we must verify their real incomes

Examples of good business abeg. I know how to work and save but not invest

steppin:
You know already. Read your first post! You sound like you someone who's being cheated on before. Doesn't mean all men are cheats. There are still some good men out there. Women cheat too. So, don't make it look like it's just the men that cheat.

Exactly what I told her before she started insulting like the village witch that she is

lynpetra:
Now you wanna insult me?!Make thunder fire your pillar and two stones!!

I looked at your profile. You look good. But..... Like I said....

lynpetra:
You are still not making sense.

Okay no need. It means you don't have anything left in your sense bank. No network for your head

lynpetra:
You no make sense at all.

You are not married to the person who disvirgined you. So is mary, and ruth, Even the micheal who disvirgined you neither married you nor mary nor ruth. So why do you think Micheal is guilty and you are not?

lynpetra: i can see no man wants a cheating wife but their priiccck dey waka up and down like 404 .Today na amaka compound,that evening sef na ruka mama backya.hmmm!

Are you a virgin?
If not, its the same priiccck that Amaka, Ruka and cynthia were looking for that you got. And I guess you don't want a cheating husband either