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Health › Re: Trying To Conceive by Blendy77(f): 10:59am On Dec 21, 2020

successking401:
@the bolded it seems that you are familiar with con men in all your dealings both online and offline. Anyway, I forgot to add that I always give my online clients a special privilege which I called " option B" it simply implies that you won't pay a dime until you certify your treatment. However, let it be known that you and I will have a very strong agreement with your lawyer and mine present. Because that you are looking for a solution to your problem doesn't automatically confer on you a sainthood status. Shalom

Abeg go sitdown for corner. Scammer

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Health › Re: Trying To Conceive by Blendy77(f): 7:40am On Dec 21, 2020

The only solution to fibroid removal is surgery especially if your Dr already advised you to take it. Leave all this con men posting herbs up and down on NL

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 2:42pm On Dec 20, 2020

I have a very strong feeling this Mummy4life is not mentally stable so please lets allow peace reign so we don't derail the thread.

If you have IVF questions please shoot!!!

Make una no vex too much biko. cool

One love!!

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 3:49pm On Dec 19, 2020*

Mummy4life1:
So, there's motives for someone to share information openly?

My point still remains, don't divert anyone to personal group.

All the discussion should be shared here openly.

God bless you

Obviously somethg is wrong somewhere if you consistently preach openess and keep avoiding the question on why you u also sent me emails. If you post your question here u feel u wont get answers or u just need attention and when you didn't it you resorted to blackmail? Why not concentrate on your fertility journey and let others be? My WhatsApp group is full like I posted earlier and told u and if others have WhatsApp group to assist Sisters please let them be. Not sure anyone is a kid here so biko face front and let them make their own decision. You can't be me so quit trying.

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 10:51am On Dec 19, 2020

Mummy4life1:
I did because I wanted to no the reason for you diverting people to personal group.

In Summary: I still appreciate open discussion for others to learn even after so many years of sharing the information.

So why are u sending me private emails instead of asking your questions here? And because I refused to send you my number you came here to rant? And even to the extent of tarnishing my image that I collect commission for advising those going for ivf in these clinics to quote my name or my group name to obtain negotiated discounts? May God judge you for tarnishing the image of someone who hasn't done you any wrong. I leave you in His hands.

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 9:06am On Dec 19, 2020

Mummy4life1:
Why not post the information here for others to learn. People can still make use of the information after the procedure.

I can still remember when you started, you came here to learn alot of things and you asked questions and some of us make use of the answers given to you.

Why are you diverting people to Whatsapp group or you're having any attention behind it?

Telling people to mention your name at fertility clinic for discount is totally lie.

Olive Branch gave me discount personally after negotiation without mentioning any one but I eventually use Kingswill because of distance.

Getting commission from people that took time to save for the procedure is not the best.

I can remember that after my successful procedure, all my remains drugs was given to someone through the nairaland without asking for any money.

Thanks

Am laughing in Spanish language my Dear. Me, get commission for negotiating with ivf Drs on behalf of people I dont even know. Ignorance and poverty is a very serious somethg and am sure you do same hence you assume everyone is just like you.

I answer questions as much as possible here and as often as am mentioned. And I stated above that most of my posts are hidden by the mods for reasons best known to them hence I hardly post here of late. How many people who started this journey with us here and now have babies and still have time to render help and pull others out of infertility? Yet we make the sacrifice carry women along and help beyond emotionally.

You also sent me emails requesting for infor and even my personal phone number yet come here to discourage other people who are seeking help outside this house. What exactly do you stand to gain by all of this psychophancy is what I don't understand. You hold so much grievance and bad blood against those who help others (which you also plan to benefit from) yet you you will still kneel down and pray to God to make your procedure successful and have a healthy baby? May God have mercy on you.

Obviously you don't know me, ask those who do. Since you use Olive Branch you can do well to ask the Dr or his nurses or even the accountant about me. Dont think everyone is like you struggling to make a living out of other's sweat. A lot of us give to make this journey easier for others. Live and let live is my advise to you. Allow people make their choices on what to do wt their ttc journey, since you don't want people to share information outside here, stop doing same sending DMs and private chatting me as well.

Your goal in life should be to get result and have a healthy baby and pray same for others. Leave all this psychophancy alone, it will not take you anywhere and trust me, the air is too wide for all birds to fly, concentrate on your your journey and leave others to do same for theirs.

On a good day, I wouldn't av honoured you with a reply but lets say today I have some spare time. You know what your pain is, and am sure am not part of your problem so try and get a life.

One love!

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 8:01am On Dec 19, 2020*

Mummy4life1:
Don't join any group Biko. You can learn alot here. Even after some years, your post will still be useful to some people.

If I may ask, what issues do u have with people joining fertility groups? Does joining a whatsapp group stop people from posting on nairaland or stop information from being shared here? Some groups like mine have been in existence for the past 6 years, has it taken anythg away from here or stop people from posting here? Take it easy my Sister, bottom line is to get results and if people feel joining a support group will help just let them be and face your own journey. I had to reply you here because you also sent me private emails asking to join my group as well and you post here to discourage people from seeking information privately. Not nice. Its even your emails I read that made me visit this page today. Live and let live my Dear, ttc is enough challenge on its own, if joining a support group will reduce the pain for them, just let them be. It doesn't stop this tread from growing. One love!!

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:24am On Dec 19, 2020

Bebeda007:
Hello Mamas
I am in a dilemma. I just did a failed IVF circle at Emobile hospital in Lekki. They tracked 6 Mature Follicles and only retrieved 2 of which one was fertized but didn't yield a BFP. Doctors says egg quality issues because of my age (35). I need help. What can I do? Any advise? Please. Anyone?

Were u given option of donor egg before the commencement of the procedure? Was amh done? 35 still have age advantage so you may need to boost ur egg quality and quantity 3-5 months before your next cycle. Although someone with regular ovulation and periods will definitely have a declined ovarian reserve from 35years but it won't be that bad. Since transfer wasn't done, am sure the clinic will giv u good discounts in your next ivf. Discuss with them. All the best, and I hope you get to read this before its hidden wink

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:10am On Dec 19, 2020*

Radiantsun:
Please, can I be added also?

Just seeing your post. The group is filled up for now. When we have available spaces we add people from time to time. But before then you can drop your questions here other Maamas will attend to it to the best of their knowledge. When i respond to most posts the mods hide my post for reasons best known to them even without mentioning drugs.
All the best to all still in God's waiting room.

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 8:33am On Oct 30, 2020

gelavin:
Hello house please does anyone know a good ivf hospital in Lagos with high success rate or a faster option for conception

Whats your budget and your location in Lag?
If you live on the island, you can try Medisson Dr Ivie @Lekki phase 1. If on the mainland you can also try Kingswill. His prices are okay and so far has good success rates. Just that I heard the place in a little bit rowdy with long waiting time. But these 2 places, their success rates are good so far. Olive branch is also a very good one but they are on the high side now so I hardly refer people there but if you can afford N1.7 minimum its your best bet. All the best

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 1:39pm On Oct 16, 2020*

So sorry for the late response, to be honest with u all, the whatsapp group is filled up for now thats the issue, its been in existence over six years so its not like its a new whatsapp group. When we have spaces will let u all know. Am sure other Babes also have whatsapp groups they can add you on. U can also post ur questions here and mysef and other maamas will help out as much as possible. One love!

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:15pm On Sep 17, 2020

Lukyme:
even me 2 my sister, u should pls help add me to the IVF group

No problem if u meet our criteria. Its a basically strictly women's group.

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:13pm On Sep 17, 2020*

Mummy4life1:
Congratulations in advance Ma'am. Many fertility hospital are doing great.

You can send a mail to me even though I might not reply on time.

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 5:03pm On Sep 15, 2020*

fruitfulnathia:
Blendy77 pls add me to the WhatsApp group for ivf cos am considering that route now thanks

Family › Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Blendy77(f): 3:51am On Aug 17, 2020

You can put her in an orphanage temporarily while u find your feet. Most orphanages Foster children so far you visit the child from time to time and have an agreement with them that you dont want the child adopted. They will take care of her, put her in school till u are ready to take her. What state are u? If you are in Lagos, look for orphanages in lekki/VI axis and your child will be well catered for

Health › Re: Two Months After Fire Incident, Deaf Couple Yet To Get Medical Care by Blendy77(f): 6:28pm On Jul 18, 2020

This is really sad. I just don't understand this country at all. If a teaching hospital could reject them where else do they want them to go to? Kai Madam so sorry o, I cant even imagine the pains. It is well

Romance › Re: What If You Discover You're Pregnant After Breakup? by Blendy77(f): 9:20pm On Jul 08, 2020

A colleague it happened to went back to the guy to let him know and they made up for the sake of the pregnancy and today that boy is 13years old with 3 other siblings. They are happily married. Any responsible guy will take responsibility because of his child and renew whatever love he had for the mum before breakup except of course infidelity on d part of the girl was part of the reason for the breakup

Celebrities › Re: Bollywood Female Celebrities Photos (Pics) by Blendy77(f): 9:11pm On Jul 03, 2020

Hardeyshinardt:
Where is the like of Ileana D'Cruz, preity Zinta,Katrina Kaif, kerena Kapoor, Deepika Padukone and shraddha Kapoor.

Achana too lolzzz

Celebrities › Re: Bollywood Female Celebrities Photos (Pics) by Blendy77(f): 9:10pm On Jul 03, 2020

Mkayfrenzy:
the list is incomplete without Kareena Kapoor

I was actually looking out for her. My fav any day. But Indian women fine sha

Health › Re: Surrogacy, another alternative for waiting couples before adoption by Blendy77(op): 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2020

Omojudy:
She is an agent. She spams every thread. I spoke with her when I advertised for my own surrogate that i wanted to use here last year.

Like seriously? Na wa o

Christianity Etc › Re: Ibidun Ighodalo Funeral Service In Pictures by Blendy77(f): 5:34pm On Jun 20, 2020

Such a kind hearted and beautiful soul. She was pretty in and out with the many lives she impacted. If only people's tears and testimonies can bring the dead back to life, Ibidun would have been very much here with us but God knows best why He had to take her early. May God help us to always live for others and help others with the resources He has given us just like Ibidun did. Rest on Dear, may God console d family you left behind.

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 5:18pm On Jun 20, 2020

Damilolly:
Can you add me to your fertility group please?

Send me an email Dear. If u meet the criteria u will be added. Ruonar2000@yahoo.com.

Family › Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Blendy77(f): 10:39pm On Jun 15, 2020

This Babe deserves some flogging. Just imagine. You cant force the man to give. The Man has already paid his dues so its left for him to assist or not. My Bro inLaw also married into a family like that too, Ibo family. Very long list that he spent all his life savings on wedding alone. The guy struggled n paid and after wedding he lost his bank job, the yeye father inlaw was telling everyone who cared to listen how he warned his daughter not to marry him cos he saw it coming. This Father in law in question was a Pastor of a church o. Today he is working now in a good place, forgave them and still footing their Bills as a serious Christian. It's his choice but a lot of peeps will severe relationship wt that type of family

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Health › Re: Surrogacy, another alternative for waiting couples before adoption by Blendy77(op): 12:35pm On Jun 14, 2020

Treasure4u2:
Are you in need of a surrogate mother? Please do contact me on +2348146040114.Thanks.

Are u an intending surrogate or an agent?

Family › Re: Single Life And Married Life, Which One Is More Enjoyable? by Blendy77(f): 11:51pm On Jun 13, 2020*

When you marry your friend as in someone both of you started from scratch, trust me married life is more enjoyable. A lot of people are suffering because they are not friends with their spouse or they married for the wrong reasons and after several years discovered what attracted them in the first place is no more there. I met my hubby in school and today after 14years of marriage, I can say proudly that God has been faithful In making us 1. We look out for each other's growth and try to build up ourselves in the best possible ways with God on our side. The job I have today that has greatly prospered us, it was my hubby who applied for me even when I wasnt interested 13 years ago cos I assumed then that I wont get that type of job without knowing any big man or senator in Nigeria. The job he has today I was the one who got infor about a vacancy there and made enquiries and my friends working there asked me to send his CV. Today after 16years of working there he is seen as one of their strongest hands which has earned him lots of awards and overseas training yearly which other of his colleagues dont get. That is the kind of relationship am talking about, being friends first, having the word of God as your guide and helping each other to grow. Years after even after the kids arrival, you will still see yourselves as friends.
It's not like we dont have misunderstanding or we dont quarrel, of course we do once in a while but because we are friends we settle and over look each others lapses. Of course married life is bae for me any day and anytime��

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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Blendy77(f): 11:27pm On Jun 10, 2020

35years old man not ready for marriage but wants kids? Babes are u sure this guy doesnt have a family somewhere? He might just probably be taking advantage of you knowing fully well ur family background. Pls and pls since Babymamarism is not what you want for ur life better let him go. Or at least give him space. If he values you he will surely return. You are still very young. There are lots of good men out there. You should even mingle with your age grade and leave old papa who is not ready to settle down to look for a divorcee or widow to be his baby mama. Yeye man. Pls dont allow any man spoil ur life for you o

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:19pm On Jun 10, 2020

nanaman:
Please what natural means can my wife use?
She went for HSG today and she's in severe pains. She already used pain relieve drugs. Kindly advice

She will feel better by tomorrow. Not sure there is anythg she can take aside pain relieve drugs. Tell her sorry on our behalf

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:16pm On Jun 10, 2020

elizino:
Please Blendy77, can you add me to the group?

Send me an email Sis then we will talk.

Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 2:26pm On Jun 09, 2020

MummyHalo:
Are you God?

My Sister ask him. Lots of scammers in this group.

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Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 3:46pm On Jun 06, 2020

Goldie16:
Is there a link to join?

No link Dear. The group is not for everybody hence it's not publicised but send me an email and we will look into your issue ruonar2000@yahoo.com

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