Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo Is Dead by blesdman(m): 2:18pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
madapcmod: Might have died as a result of the embarrassment from the infidelity saga That was an infinitesimal embarrassment compared to what's happening to Apostle suleman. He already had health issues of hypertension. Leave such baseless judgements alone. |
Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo Is Dead by blesdman(m): 2:16pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
blacksam01: everything u said of him is very true Haba!!! U guys are writing like the pharisees and saducees of Jesus time. Someone has moved on with his life and still in harmony with his wife and u are judging him. What a people! |
Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo Is Dead by blesdman(m): 2:07pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
hammer567: NO, HE HAS SPENT HIS WHOLE LIFE LIEING TO HIMSELF.
THE MINUTE HE GOT CAUGHT, SHAME TOOK OVER.
HE COULD NO LONGER KEEP UP THE LIE.
SHOWING HIS FACE IN PUBLIC MADE HIM FEEL ASHAMED AND WITH WIFE(CHILDREN) STRESS, HIS BLOOD PRESSSURE WENT OUT OF CONTROL.
PROBABLY STOPPED HAVING SEX TOO, SOMETHING THAT CAN LOWER THE BLOOD PRESSURE, SO HE DIED.
IN LIFE, BE REALISTIC AND DONT LIE TO YOURSELF OR GOD. Stupid write up... |
Politics › Re: PDP Crisis: We’re Now Integrity Group — Wike, Allies by blesdman(m): 3:58pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
tesppidd:

Wike dey body himself sha..
1. Integrity. 2. Wike.
These two words are like parallel lines.
No meeting point whatsoever! Wike always does his talks |
Romance › Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by blesdman(m): 10:20am On Nov 17, 2022 |
bestdudes: Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.
Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies
It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.
I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.
Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.
For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.
We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.
Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.
After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice
She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...
That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.
I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.
If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?
I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.
On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.
Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.
She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.
While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.
Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?
Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.
For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.
Let's move on
Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.
Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.
We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.
Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,
On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.
The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...
Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.
Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE! I like the ending: IT IS NOT POSSIBLE |
Nairaland General › Wike Program Of Projects Commissioning This Week by blesdman(op): 11:14am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Wike is set to commission 4 projects this week. Inviting Oshiomole, Buhari and Peter Obi. E go choke this week
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Investment › Re: Crypto Is Not Just For Me, Massive Loss (millions Gone Under 2 Days by blesdman(m): 3:43pm On Nov 11, 2022 |
GREATIGBOMAN: I need ur input.
Money way I wan use start house project
I bought that USDT Because I didn't want my money to be loosing value in the bank
Now all of a sudden immediately I got usdt some people are now telling me I should have gotten BUSD
Why on earth did Naira appreciate
As if they were timing me Same happened to me too....bought $1400 worth....I de watch am now.... |
Politics › Re: Bawa: Court Sets Aside Conviction Of EFCC Boss For Contempt by blesdman(m): 7:54pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Akinsete19: The judiciary system of this country has destroyed the country. They want to uphold only sharia courts....while judiciary is to settle only election matters |
Politics › Re: Aisha Yesufu At Labour Party Presidential Rally In Nasarawa State (Pictures) by blesdman(m): 6:51am On Oct 30, 2022 |
In saner climes, buhari and emefiele should resign |
Politics › Re: Nigerian-born Khadijah Haliru Wins Councillorship Election In Canada (pix) by blesdman(m): 11:29am On Oct 27, 2022 |
Diversity matters abroad but not in Nigeria. |
Politics › Re: FG Earmarks $7 Billion For Poverty Reduction by blesdman(m): 8:27am On Oct 26, 2022 |
Buhari and his goons are out to finish this country before 2023 |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Loses Three Million Oil Barrels Monthly – FG by blesdman(m): 4:07am On Oct 26, 2022 |
Buhari, CBN gov and his scabinet should just do the honorable thing and resign!!! |
Family › Re: How Do I Forgive Him? by blesdman(m): 7:08am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Very painful decision from the OP. Egocentric action. A man gives a woman alot in the course of her life, and the man finds nothing wrong in the woman getting some extra from what is given her. Just for the mistake of taking so much from what the woman gave, hell is let loosed.....hmmm...am shocked at such decisions. Apparently it seems u want to be separated from the man by ur ownself cos u have funds. |
Health › Re: I Might Be Impotent by blesdman(m): 7:35pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Another thing is to suck a beautiful woman's breast, or u allow her to suck ur nipples and in no time, u will get erection for thrusting. In other words, get involved in pre-intimacy, it will definitely rise |
Health › Re: I Might Be Impotent by blesdman(m): 7:30pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
nifemi25: Masturbation is killing you gradually... Lie....he is not mentally prepared |
Celebrities › Re: Teni Shares Throwback Pix With Buba Marwa by blesdman(m): 7:09pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
mumu9gerian: Marwa was good, no surprises he is doing well in NDLEA. Fantastic Man Antecedents are vital |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why do you go to church? by blesdman(m): 2:13pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
I go to church for social connections |
Politics › Re: Okowa: My Administration Created 223,000 Direct Jobs by blesdman(m): 8:38am On Oct 09, 2022 |
Okowa is a criminal, as well as most delta politicians; they are real scammers EFCC should go after |
Business › Re: "No More International Transactions!" Did You Receive This? by blesdman(m): 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Arysexy: Next LEBUL!
By the time Buhari and APC are done with this country. The trekking urchin now trekking with APC Coffin will develop elephantiasis of both legs from trekking
It's my turn (Emilokan) to sleep! True talk..Buhari and ApC supporters are parasites. They want to destroy the country. |
Politics › Re: Wike’s Group Pulls Out Of Atiku’s Campaign by blesdman(m): 12:35pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Tzar: Excellent! The parasitic North doesn't own Nigeria! Wike is currently the boldest politician in the cowardly South! I am loving this! Fact. Fully supported |
Health › Re: Surgeons Struggle To Remove Live Snake From Woman's Ear (pictures/video) by blesdman(m): 10:07am On Sep 13, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Heaven Made For Christians Only? by blesdman(m): 1:47pm On Sep 11, 2022 |
Heaven is not a place....but it is a metaphysical representation of achievement of any goal. Know this truth and u will understand why wicked people continue to prosper regardless of the curses being hauled at them. They know certain secrets. Religion is a tool of control generally. Government is also a tool of control. Everything starts and ends here or translated into another form of energy. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Thought Honesty And Hardwork Pays? by blesdman(m): 12:08pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
Chimera30: Yesterday i quit my job. I heard stories about how former employees before me, stole from the company. Even the last person i met there stole hundreds of thousands and was sacked 3 weeks after i joined. I was hardworking , honest, punctual, polite and hands on the best worker.
I was made employee of the month , a month after i joined and guess how much i was given as reward? #250! Lol After i requested permission to travel to the East for a close Aunt's burial for a week and 2 days, i was permitted yet Half of my salary for last month was still deducted and that's why i quit. After the way i served and upheld this company and even worked overtime most times and always get home very late at night. It is well.. i know God and life has better plans for me. ASUU strike or not. If u can realise that the term God is a metaphysical representation of any person in authority, ur own mindset and the great God(unseen), u will be wise in how u deal with people. Therefore, when u work be clear about ur boss being a good God or a stingy god.May God bless u simply means may a Good man bless u or favor u. This is why it is wise to work to be seen and appreciated by a good boss. Religion was introduced to instill fear in humans; be wise |
Travel › Re: Check Out Some Beautiful Places In China (Pictures) by blesdman(m): 10:49pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
Righteousness2: When you see what man in his sinful State comes up with in terms of architectural wonders, you begin to wonder what Heaven looks like. You begin to wonder what the HOLY ONE of ISRAEL has in store for His children in Heaven.
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Heaven is a place everlasting Joy and Happiness. A place where all tears are wiped away forever and ever. There is no night there. The streets are made of Pure gold. Whatever beauty we see on earth is thrash in comparison to Heaven. Don't miss Heaven for anyone or anything. Whatever or whoever will make you Miss Heaven, Cut it off. It's not worth it. The ONLY way to Heaven is through JESUS CHRIST. Heaven is when u achieve the kind of life achieved by china. It is imaginary mentaphor of the excellent life u can live here on earth. Get to work and create value on earth to achieve it. That's why the streets are laced with gold cos it is for them who work well |
Romance › Re: Trending Video Of A Young Nigerian Man And His Onyibo Lover (Photos) by blesdman(m): 8:26pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
utenwuson: No matter thr poverty..... God forbid this great granny abeg U no serious obviously |
Car Talk › Re: Tesla Owner Implants Keys Into His Own Hands ( Pics, Video) by blesdman(m): 7:24pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Umeah: May God protect his people Think like God! Whites are thinking like God, u are thinking like a sub_human. That's the difference between u and them |
Education › Re: Russia-Ukraine War: African Students Experience Racism by blesdman(m): 11:20am On Aug 17, 2022 |
fredoooooo: Just make noise and it will end there .. European system is racist , the world know these ... Even Nigeria de racist sort of |
Politics › Re: Ibrahim Babangida Celebrates His 81st Birthday Today by blesdman(m): 10:27am On Aug 17, 2022 |
Mokason288: I wished you killlllled BUhari in your coup d'ètat
You would have saved Present day Nigeria from a lot of Worries
Meanwhile Happy Birthday Sir . Enemy of country prosperity and progress... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Clapping For Jesus Is Wrong — Pastor Damina Lectures Christians (Video) by blesdman(m): 4:04pm On Aug 16, 2022 |
ayourbamie: Na so one pastor say Alleluia is not an heavenly language Pastor Damina is a commentator or critic, not a pastor. Period |
Education › Re: 17-Year-Old Student Commits Suicide Over Failure To Pass Exam In Kwara by blesdman(m): 9:30am On Aug 04, 2022 |
eedimo: The reason why i don't put too much pressure on my kids. My dad almost pushed me to this boy's state.
Sometimes you need to constantly evaluate your kids emotionally and psychologically before giving them task. Mbok I no born pikin because of school. As a father, I only concentrate on giving them life skills and helping them to basically read and write well for the purpose of business and others. I give them reasons aside passing exams. Exams are colonial scams |
Politics › Re: How Nigerian Presidential Guards Fell Into Terrorist Ambush by blesdman(m): 11:18am On Aug 03, 2022 |
abobote: Nigerians army are not trained to fight terrorists, but beat bloody civilians Only in Nigeria terrorists are kept in prison, whereas in other climes they are killed on the spot. This Buhari matter tire me |
Science/Technology › Re: Nigerian Men Fabricate Sound Proof Noise Cancellation Box For Generator (vid) by blesdman(m): 3:16am On Jul 31, 2022 |
NaijaRoyalty: Nigerians are hard working people but the government of the day would rather support terrorists than support Nigerian youths to grow True talk. Under the grand patron of terrorist, buhari |