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PoliticsRe: Atiku Abubakar To Name Wike As Running Mate - Tribune by blesdman(m): 7:35am On Jun 09, 2022
Best combination for PDP, they will shock APC after all.
PoliticsRe: What Tambuwal Told Ayu, Saraki, Bala Mohammed Before Stepping Down For Atiku by blesdman(m): 7:04am On Jun 01, 2022
Obviously betrayal runs in Tambuyal's blood; breakfast go reach everybody!
HealthRe: NCDC Confirms 21 Monkeypox Cases, One Death In Nigeria by blesdman(m): 7:01am On May 30, 2022
Hashabiah:
Dem don come again o. Scamdemic has landed in 9ja . May God help the poor masses
No be small thing....scamdemic
PoliticsRe: 3 PDP Presidential Aspirants Purchase Guber, Senatorial Nomination Forms by blesdman(m): 6:58am On May 01, 2022
Baawaa:
They are political jobbers, simple
Politics is a career in Nigeria
Christianity EtcRe: Wet Dreams: A Thorn In My Flesh Going To Two Decades by blesdman(m): 3:16pm On Apr 24, 2022
Pray4meJC:
No sir actually l'm not into covenant with any person. Why it baffles me much is that I do not lust after the opposite sex. That was in the past.

I was told masturbation can help eliminate the chances of wet dreams hour before going to bed but I find out in my case it was all lies from the bottomless pit. After masturbating (ejaculating all semens) then later in my sleep same day, wet dreams still erupt with sizeable fluids expelled. Many times this could not help and I knew this is strong spiritual bondage on me.

Another strange one is that I find myself having strong erections (not ejaculation) towards some females when they come close to me without any contact or sexual desire, thoughts whatsoever with them. Just ordinary discussion about trades because I was selling in a shop. It thus seems there's a strong sexual force in those females that activates the sexual demons tormenting me. I have never had sex physically with any body since I came out from my mother's womb.
I was in same shoes before I got married with regular sex, and it stopped. Since u have never had sex, I guess it must be the reason.
PoliticsRe: Seasonal ‘romance’: How Politicians Deceive Voters With Fake Lifestyles (pics) by blesdman(m): 3:08pm On Apr 24, 2022
Islie:
https://punchng.com/seasonal-romance-how-politicians-deceive-voters-with-fake-lifestyles/
Punch newspaper doing the work of God back to back in telling truth to our politicians
PoliticsRe: Kaduna Train Attack: Bandits Collaborated With Boko Haram - FG by blesdman(m): 8:53pm On Apr 13, 2022
Nigeria is being ruled by devils in human form.
EducationRe: FG Spends N12bn On School Feeding Monthly — Dr Umar Bindir by blesdman(m): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2022
Criminals In power. This is a stealing government.it is official
PoliticsRe: Buhari To Reps: I’ll Finance ₦7.4trn Budget Deficit With New Borrowings by blesdman(m): 6:54pm On Apr 07, 2022
GooodHardDick:
By the time this man is done with Nigeria, una eyes go clear!!! angry
Exactly...with a rubber stamp senate
CareerRe: How I Got Fired From Chevron By A Gay Boss by blesdman(m): 4:30pm On Apr 07, 2022
WoundedLamb:
OP, I don't know how true this is, but it's not entirely unbelievable cause these things really happen. Though it would have been better if you had told us the events that eventually led to you getting kicked out, so we can decide for ourselves to what extent they are connected to your "love affair" with the boss. Nevertheless, this is does not undermine your story cause whether you got kicked out or not and whether you really did something bad to justify or necessitate getting kicked out do change the fact that your boss erred.

I don't care about his sexuality. He was going to cheat on his wife. He was going to violate office policies by trying to engage his junior colleague in an amorous relationship. He didn't know when to stop. And to make it worse, he allowed that to influence his disposition towards you. Such people shouldn't be in corporate organizations. I mean, if you went through this in the hands of a man who is a member of the minority in terms of sexual orientation, can we now begin to imagine what ladies go through everyday? It's so disconcerting and it pains me that you guys take these things without having anyone to run to. Otherwise, you shouldn't leave your job in a multinational organization cause of one man who's not the owner. That bit is hard to believe cause such organizations have strong HR. What's the worst that could happen? You were already on your way out anyway.

Sorry about your ordeal. He will meet his match some day.
Organisations in Nigeria do not take the inputs of their HR seriously. I have seen work bullying not treated
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: Terrorists Suffering Heavy Casualties From Military - Lai Mohammed by blesdman(m): 3:59pm On Apr 07, 2022
[quote author=BeeBeeOoh post=111712577]https://www.newtelegraphng.com/insecurity-terrorists-suffering-heavy-casualties-from-military-says-fg/[/quote
Masters of scam is what this Lai Mohammed and government are.....
PoliticsRe: NAF Jets Kill 33 Terrorists In Coordinated Airstrikes In Borno, Zamfara, Kaduna by blesdman(m): 6:27am On Apr 03, 2022
What is 33 when u have 300 bandits entering a town at the same time..this govt are the sponsors of banditry.
PoliticsRe: Fuel: Buhari’s Unkept Promises, Failures And Bungled Subsidy Policy by blesdman(m): 8:09am On Apr 02, 2022
Buhari is an abysmal failure packaged to cripple Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Mele Kyari: NNPC To Become Limited Liability Company From 1st July 2022 by blesdman(m): 7:10am On Apr 02, 2022
Buhari came to steal, kill and destroy!
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu: Lagos State On Its Way To Becoming The Silicon Valley Of Africa by blesdman(m): 8:17pm On Mar 24, 2022
carl90:
Lagos have beaten other states in Nigeria hands down.
Lagos is now aiming to be the tech hub of Africa.
True, also the business hub and entertainment hub; They are obviously doing well with a passion
PoliticsRe: 2023: Uduaghan Drops Senatorial Ambition, Blames Election Fatigue by blesdman(m): 8:06pm On Mar 24, 2022
nairavsdollars:
https://punchng.com/2023-uduaghan-drops-senatorial-ambition-gives-reason/
Uduaghan is a failed governor and a shame to PDP and delta state
PoliticsRe: Murray-Bruce Announced Bianca Ojukwu As Miss Intercontinental In 1989 (Video) by blesdman(m): 12:01pm On Mar 19, 2022
Nigerialabalaba:
Hahaha..with all dos bleaching cream, artificial hair, fake eye lashes, fake nail ,pancake, lipsticks, etc yet u still dey pretend say u no see am, walahi , u fit lie for Africa aswear2gud.

I like her o, as a strong widow, she try but she don old and she no get work, period. She used her prime to dey chase or allow old men chase her so tey at 50 she don quick old and still no get job despite on top plenty money her papa,late Chief Onoh, take send her go school for 9ja and Uk . Chief onoh go dey regret and turn for hin grave how her daughter don turn. abi u go fit compare her to Helen Prest-Ajayi? if u win beauty contest, e no mean u go turn to ashewo.

dis go teach dos oloshos wey dey form celebrities today wey tink say dem go fine for ever, na so dem too go old like bianca. go learn beta work, ashewo no be work o.

Go see d likes of Kate Henshaw if u dey look for old, pretty wey con get work for hand, no be dem wey be ashewo at 50 like Bianca, according to Ebere obiano. If she get work, ebere no go dey call her ashewo. nobody go fit call Kate Henshaw or Helen Prest-Ajayi ashewo even as dem two no get husband and dem be over 50 years.

I like dem beauty and brains not beauty, brawn and zero brain. tufiakwa!
What is this one saying?
PoliticsRe: Deletion Of Section 84(12): Malami Effects Judgement In Line With The Law by blesdman(m): 10:27pm On Mar 18, 2022
It is obvious this is the worst AGF in the history of this country. Same AGF that does not care about court orders, hastens to effect this one since it favours him. smh
PoliticsRe: Okowa Congratulates Soludo, Hopes For Greater Cooperation by blesdman(m): 4:16pm On Mar 18, 2022
Gkay1:
Okowa is one of the useless governor in South south.
Trye
BusinessRe: Make Legit Money & Have Peace Of Mind. Share Your Testimony Stop Ritual Killings by blesdman(m): 9:13pm On Mar 17, 2022
biggy00000:
Those who are into business and make money legit hardly mentor young ones; while those who are into shady means of wealth are always willing to share
This is the crux of the matter. Thanks to the OP for the thread
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Vs Buhari: What Has Changed? by blesdman(m): 3:24pm On Mar 16, 2022
Peng12345:
Well Jonathan wasn'tthe best but better than Buhari and we taught Buhari will be better. However my major concern is there were uproar during Jonathan's time, from North, South, East and West, and now we are experiencing a worst scenario yet no one could speak up
Reason for the quietness is cos of the brutality of buhari antics. He has dictatorial tendencies
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Vs Buhari: What Has Changed? by blesdman(m): 1:51pm On Mar 16, 2022
Buhari and northerners are determined to destroy this country. We need to choose our own determination.
Christianity EtcRe: 8 Groups Of People Bound For Hell by blesdman(m): 11:41am On Mar 13, 2022
4tomandchi:
8 GROUPS OF PRETENDERS AND DANGEROUS PEOPLE. YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE (NOT TO HATE THEM) IN 2022.

(1) Thomas Group- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but don't really believe in you. They keep on delaying your vision and mission. (John 20:24-29)

(2) Judas Group - They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but are after what they can get from you or elsewhere. They are not loyal and can easily betray you. (Matthew 26:14-16)

(3) Demas Group - They walk with you and possibly live with you; but once you start facing challenges and difficulties, they run away and forsake you. (2 Timothy 4:10)

(4) Korah Group - They pretend to be walking with you but when GOD begins to bless you, they will be jealous of your success. They challenge your influence and authority. They have issues when others acknowledge you. (Numbers 16:1-3)

(5) Ham Group - They are close to you, yet they expose your secrets and unclothedness. The day you made a mistake or committed an error and find yourself in a sinful situation, they tell everyone of your weaknesses and exposing you to ridicules. (Genesis 9:20-24)

(6) Absalom Group - They are very close to you. They are impatiently ambitious. They detest your rising profile. They secretly position themselves to hijack and cut off those who believe in you and win them over by saying that they are better than you. They say all things about you, as being unfair, insensitive, wicked and incompetent. (2 Samuel 15:1-6)

(7) Gehazi Group - They are excessive greedy and insatiable. They collect money behind your back. They ask for financial assistance and make people to feel you are not taking good care of them. (2 Kings 5:20-24)

8 Diotrephes Group This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vs 9-10)

NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches.

On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Shalom, Peace. This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vs 9-10)

NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches.

On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Shalom, Peace
There is no future hell or heaven.
CrimeRe: Man Had Sex With A Married Woman, Recorded It & Posted Nude Pics On Social Media by blesdman(m): 8:37pm On Mar 10, 2022
Zonefree:
While the husband was outside the country hustling for the betterment of his family, his beloved Nigerian wife was busy sharing kpekus like Tom-Tom to a riffraff. Tueh embarassed


To get married to a Nigerian girl is 4th most dangerous things on earth!
How men marry a woman and leave her here in Nigeria to travel abroad amazes me. The man left her and did not even give her money for accomodation. High level or deep level of irresponsibility. Tufiakwa
RomanceRe: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by blesdman(m): 6:58pm On Mar 07, 2022
Datboredberry:
Lol... grin

Many things we do in Africa don't make sense...

You're not getting married to her mother, why should you pay the woman's bride price?


A way for the family to cashout? undecided
Every thing about African traditions na for cashing out. Know this and know peace. Money is the name of the game. If u can negotiate in the market, negotiate a way out.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Why Are Some Bosses Heartless? by blesdman(m): 1:11pm On Mar 03, 2022
JONNYSPUTE:
....Your friend is very lazy and entitled. If he doesn't want the job he should get out and allow someone else take his position.

I'm a boss and right now I have a project in the east that the state government gave me 3 weeks to complete.I'm working tirelessly day and night without a single moment to sleep with my workers to complete the road project and I ve not died. Lazy fool. Let him go and establish his own company a d become a boss too.
As a boss, intending to finish a timeline, try to motivate humanely.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Why Are Some Bosses Heartless? by blesdman(m): 1:09pm On Mar 03, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
since your friend believe he can get a better job, let him leave so that someone grateful will get that job!

life aint easy and if you think that you can dictate how your boss can treat you, then you better wake up from your daze.
True statement. One thing I have learnt though is go for what u want. If u want the boss to behave well to u and all....take that as a goal and play the games necessary to get that treatment
RomanceRe: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by blesdman(m): 1:03pm On Mar 02, 2022
ajailer:
I hope she ain’t one of those ladies that use waist bead cos if she is then you are most likely been jazzed by her.

Lots of ladies out there looking for loaded guys whose wives n kids are abroad, they know these guys are lonely as they are missing the woman touch in their lives. I am talking from experience here o.

If you truly don’t want to mess up your life n your family’s be very careful with these lady. She is on the long game with you n she knows you will eventually fall for her charms. Osifo Ataga comes to mind here. This girl has nothing good for you but to mess you up and run away with the loot.

Make your wife come back is the only solution here or you relocate to meet her. Even if threat of separation will be involved. It’s not good for a man and his wife to live away from each other, you guys have just opened the door for the devil to come in.
What u have said is very correct. U are in Nigeria, wife lives abroad is a 21st century marriage scam. Otherwise, run ur things while in Nigeria. First law, don't allow such ladies to know to ur house. 2nd, let ur family come back to Nigeria or u meet them there. Long distance marriages are openly or hybrid-ly polyamorous.
PoliticsRe: NNPC Confirms IOCs Exit, Insists On Gas Development by blesdman(m): 8:15am On Mar 01, 2022
Devils in human form
SportsRe: Sunny Ojeagbase: Akin Alabi Mourns Death Of Complete Sports Founder by blesdman(m): 6:56am On Mar 01, 2022
A great pioneer. Was greatly influenced by his writings
FamilyRe: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by blesdman(m): 10:59pm On Feb 25, 2022
This happens to people. U are not the first. Good news is since u discovered it as pattern, u have a right to tell the pattern to stop, in form of a declaration. Declare that ur improvement starts now! Matters of life are consciousness. Since u have been conscious of the fault be conscious of u as the solution through the power of ur own words. Try this and check ur results. Fear not

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