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PoliticsRe: Zainab Ahmed: Economy Doing Better Than Previous Governments Under Buhari by blesdman(m): 8:18am On Jul 28, 2022
iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/07/economy-doing-well-under-buhari-than-previous-govts-finance-minister/
I hear say abokis Sabi de on steady highness...this is obviously what we are seeing
PoliticsRe: Lawan: Additional N900 Billion Approved To Tackle Insecurity Is Not Enough by blesdman(m): 7:10am On Jul 28, 2022
PoliticsRe: IED Explodes, Kills 8 Repentant Boko Haram Members At Scavengers Site In Bama by blesdman(m): 10:03am On Jul 27, 2022
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu: Buhari Has Done Everything To Win Terror War by blesdman(m): 7:02am On Jul 25, 2022
CelebritiesRe: Yul Edochie Wife, May Speaks On Her Battle With Depression by blesdman(m): 7:25pm On Jul 20, 2022
ukaface:
Omo
Be like he better to chop breakfast for dating time than for marriage time.

Some guys won't make heaven sha. ASE!
Every in a state of his achieved desire is in his heaven
PoliticsRe: Abdullah Adamu: I Am Not Aware That APC Lost In Osun State by blesdman(m): 8:55pm On Jul 18, 2022
Freezyhot:
Are all these APC guys suffering from dementia or are they all on drugs or something..? The things they say are incomprehensible to a sane mind. I just don't get it...

The moment a sane mind joins that party, it gets insane...

Look at a wonderful leader, a model in politics, that ought to keep his place and respect as a renowned political King maker, making comments like "feeding 50million Nigerian youths/recruits, with agbado, cassava and beans, morning, afternoon, night...take away from their source..."

I don't understand... Maybe some people do, but I honestly don't.
True talk
PetsRe: My Puppy Has A Swollen Stomach by blesdman(m): 8:33pm On Jul 18, 2022
Papa85:
He used syringe and drain white liquid from the stomach. I feed it with dog food (optimax), rice, eba. I also go to were they sell point and kill and book for the head. Lately, is getting lean and sometimes use it teeth to scrape or chew bricks.
Vets are legal dog killers. Give antibiotics to the dog..it will heal. Also give worm medicine...
RomanceRe: My Soon To Be Wife by blesdman(m): 1:57pm On Jul 16, 2022
I doubt this story as real
maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks
PoliticsRe: All Boko Haram Suspects In Kuje Prison Have Escaped - Bashir Magashi by blesdman(m): 1:42pm On Jul 06, 2022
festacman:
If bandits and Boko Haram terrorists had infiltrated FCT for sometimes now as Intel by DSS had shown, why should all high-profile Boko Haram prisoners and captured bandits still be kept in Kuje Prisons instead of scattering them all over prisons and military detention centres all over the country?

How come DSS didn't pick up Intel on this attack given that FCT where the seat of government and DSS main office are should be well-covered?

There is more to this ...
Only time will tell. It is safer to leave the country as we have Islamic terrorism apologists in power
FamilyRe: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by blesdman(m): 10:10am On Jul 06, 2022
JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?
Go to a town with less cost of living....hustle from there
FamilyRe: A Law Banning Poor Men From Polygamy. by blesdman(m): 3:35pm On Jul 04, 2022
Manny21:
Either rich or poor, polygamy is degrading, disgusting, primitive, un-dignifying, ignominious and backward.
Says who?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 12 Jobs That Make Your Girlfriend Promiscuous by blesdman(m): 1:53pm On Jul 01, 2022
donestk:
1. Bar maid

2. Hotel receptionist

3. Banker

4. Nurse

5. Fuel pump attendant

6. Customer service

7. Online sales

8. Marketer

9. Masseur

10. Restaurant

11. Personal assistant

12. Secretary

...add yours.
Haba, make women no work? What's this?
PoliticsRe: Ekweremadu, Wife Sue NIMC, NIS, Banks Over David Ukpo’s Real Age by blesdman(m): 10:21pm On Jun 27, 2022
Fahdiga:
Whatever that is the outcome of this case, Ike Ekweremadu has ruined his reputation.
Lie
Christianity EtcRe: About The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by blesdman(m): 4:39pm On Jun 26, 2022
Interesting15:
It is no longer a secret that premarital sex (or fornication) is something prominent in the circle of youths today. However, it's not only a sin, but there are also tons of terrible repercussions attached to the act. The Bible is straightforward about sexual immorality.

"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside to the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" 1 Corinthians 6: 18

Yes, I know you have healthy sexual urges. But you must know how to be in control of yourself, hence you find yourself in trouble and get disgraced (the devil utilizes sin to disgrace people). Trust me, living holy and chaste in a corrupt society like ours is still possible, and it's very beautiful.

"Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness... Because of these things the wrath of God is coming upon the sons of disobedience" (Colossians 3:5,6)

Premarital sex comes with terrible spiritual repercussions too. When a person indulge in it, you give access to the devil to plunder your life ruthlessly.. And what the devil does is to "steal, kill, and destroy" (John 10:10)

"Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?" (1Corinthians 6:19)

You don't own yourself actually. Hence, you must live your life pleasing God in holiness and in truth.

There are several sexual temptations out there today. In your school, at home, there are several agents of sexual temptations. Hence, you must always avoid people, places, things, and situations that can lure you into sexual immorality.

"For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit which are God's" (1 Corinthians 6: 20)

When it comes to living a life of true holiness, it gets easier as you give yourself wholly to the Lord Jesus, because He will send the Holy Spirit to you, Who will help you (the Holy Spirit is our Helper). So, if you are yet to give your life to JESUS, this is another good opportunity, as tomorrow might just be too late...

Simply tell Jesus, "LORD JESUS, have mercy on me and come into my life".

"Blessed are those who do His commandments, that they may have the right to the tree of life, and may enter through the gates into the city. But outside are dogs and sorcerers and sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices a lie" Revelation 22:14, 15

You are blessed for honouring GOD with your body. You will be rewarded by God both here on earth and in eternity..

But if you die in sexual immorality (young people too can die anytime) or the rapture should take place now (the signs are more and more stronger), such person will be condemned into the lake of fire (where there's no more room for repentance).
Please help yourself by aligning with GOD now that you are still young.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/06/about-high-rate-of-immoral-sex-amongst.html?m=1
What if everything u wrote here are lies and concoctions to control people behaviours?
CrimeRe: See The Comments That Made Me Realize Yahoo Yahoo Has Finished Our Youths by blesdman(m): 12:57pm On Jun 22, 2022
aycorporat:
Sincerely, that is the moral decadence we now have in our society

Parents no longer care how the children make money
The Church/Mosque celebrate people with big donations
The society only applauds those with deep pockets irrespective of how the money is made
The Yahoo boys will oppress you making you to question your creator why you ever came to the world
The useless government of the day care less about its citizens

The Poster should not be pained.
It is what it is
However, there is a sad end for every evil doer
What if religion was a scam to control people? And that You are a co_creator?
RomanceRe: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by blesdman(m): 11:54am On Jun 13, 2022
DonBenny77:
Senior man anything for your boy
Just gimme one bottle of VSOP from tonite's budget make I use boost my business.
Apply wisdom if it's affecting your finances.
Here in the south Big boys go to bars and drink beer you fit drink overnight you never spend 20k
Na why Cubana close down for PH.
We are wiser
Learn to love beer
grin
True talk, Cubans close. Even lounges de run am pocket friendly in PHC
PoliticsRe: Atiku Abubakar To Name Wike As Running Mate - Tribune by blesdman(m): 7:35am On Jun 09, 2022
Best combination for PDP, they will shock APC after all.
PoliticsRe: What Tambuwal Told Ayu, Saraki, Bala Mohammed Before Stepping Down For Atiku by blesdman(m): 7:04am On Jun 01, 2022
Obviously betrayal runs in Tambuyal's blood; breakfast go reach everybody!
HealthRe: NCDC Confirms 21 Monkeypox Cases, One Death In Nigeria by blesdman(m): 7:01am On May 30, 2022
Hashabiah:
Dem don come again o. Scamdemic has landed in 9ja . May God help the poor masses
No be small thing....scamdemic
PoliticsRe: 3 PDP Presidential Aspirants Purchase Guber, Senatorial Nomination Forms by blesdman(m): 6:58am On May 01, 2022
Baawaa:
They are political jobbers, simple
Politics is a career in Nigeria
Christianity EtcRe: Wet Dreams: A Thorn In My Flesh Going To Two Decades by blesdman(m): 3:16pm On Apr 24, 2022
Pray4meJC:
No sir actually l'm not into covenant with any person. Why it baffles me much is that I do not lust after the opposite sex. That was in the past.

I was told masturbation can help eliminate the chances of wet dreams hour before going to bed but I find out in my case it was all lies from the bottomless pit. After masturbating (ejaculating all semens) then later in my sleep same day, wet dreams still erupt with sizeable fluids expelled. Many times this could not help and I knew this is strong spiritual bondage on me.

Another strange one is that I find myself having strong erections (not ejaculation) towards some females when they come close to me without any contact or sexual desire, thoughts whatsoever with them. Just ordinary discussion about trades because I was selling in a shop. It thus seems there's a strong sexual force in those females that activates the sexual demons tormenting me. I have never had sex physically with any body since I came out from my mother's womb.
I was in same shoes before I got married with regular sex, and it stopped. Since u have never had sex, I guess it must be the reason.
PoliticsRe: Seasonal ‘romance’: How Politicians Deceive Voters With Fake Lifestyles (pics) by blesdman(m): 3:08pm On Apr 24, 2022
Islie:
https://punchng.com/seasonal-romance-how-politicians-deceive-voters-with-fake-lifestyles/
Punch newspaper doing the work of God back to back in telling truth to our politicians
PoliticsRe: Kaduna Train Attack: Bandits Collaborated With Boko Haram - FG by blesdman(m): 8:53pm On Apr 13, 2022
Nigeria is being ruled by devils in human form.
EducationRe: FG Spends N12bn On School Feeding Monthly — Dr Umar Bindir by blesdman(m): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2022
Criminals In power. This is a stealing government.it is official
PoliticsRe: Buhari To Reps: I’ll Finance ₦7.4trn Budget Deficit With New Borrowings by blesdman(m): 6:54pm On Apr 07, 2022
GooodHardDick:
By the time this man is done with Nigeria, una eyes go clear!!! angry
Exactly...with a rubber stamp senate
CareerRe: How I Got Fired From Chevron By A Gay Boss by blesdman(m): 4:30pm On Apr 07, 2022
WoundedLamb:
OP, I don't know how true this is, but it's not entirely unbelievable cause these things really happen. Though it would have been better if you had told us the events that eventually led to you getting kicked out, so we can decide for ourselves to what extent they are connected to your "love affair" with the boss. Nevertheless, this is does not undermine your story cause whether you got kicked out or not and whether you really did something bad to justify or necessitate getting kicked out do change the fact that your boss erred.

I don't care about his sexuality. He was going to cheat on his wife. He was going to violate office policies by trying to engage his junior colleague in an amorous relationship. He didn't know when to stop. And to make it worse, he allowed that to influence his disposition towards you. Such people shouldn't be in corporate organizations. I mean, if you went through this in the hands of a man who is a member of the minority in terms of sexual orientation, can we now begin to imagine what ladies go through everyday? It's so disconcerting and it pains me that you guys take these things without having anyone to run to. Otherwise, you shouldn't leave your job in a multinational organization cause of one man who's not the owner. That bit is hard to believe cause such organizations have strong HR. What's the worst that could happen? You were already on your way out anyway.

Sorry about your ordeal. He will meet his match some day.
Organisations in Nigeria do not take the inputs of their HR seriously. I have seen work bullying not treated
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: Terrorists Suffering Heavy Casualties From Military - Lai Mohammed by blesdman(m): 3:59pm On Apr 07, 2022
[quote author=BeeBeeOoh post=111712577]https://www.newtelegraphng.com/insecurity-terrorists-suffering-heavy-casualties-from-military-says-fg/[/quote
Masters of scam is what this Lai Mohammed and government are.....
PoliticsRe: NAF Jets Kill 33 Terrorists In Coordinated Airstrikes In Borno, Zamfara, Kaduna by blesdman(m): 6:27am On Apr 03, 2022
What is 33 when u have 300 bandits entering a town at the same time..this govt are the sponsors of banditry.
PoliticsRe: Fuel: Buhari’s Unkept Promises, Failures And Bungled Subsidy Policy by blesdman(m): 8:09am On Apr 02, 2022
Buhari is an abysmal failure packaged to cripple Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Mele Kyari: NNPC To Become Limited Liability Company From 1st July 2022 by blesdman(m): 7:10am On Apr 02, 2022
Buhari came to steal, kill and destroy!
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu: Lagos State On Its Way To Becoming The Silicon Valley Of Africa by blesdman(m): 8:17pm On Mar 24, 2022
carl90:
Lagos have beaten other states in Nigeria hands down.
Lagos is now aiming to be the tech hub of Africa.
True, also the business hub and entertainment hub; They are obviously doing well with a passion

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