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Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

brain54:
Sad!

And I like this guy…my favorite.

He seemed cool with his wife.

gaby:
Na wa

Bros wan trend to announce one of him Christmas gigs...

The usual media gimmick, I suppose.

MarketDispatch:
One person, 40 properties, yet could not build a single standard hospital that he too can attend for his people. God cannot be mocked

Reporting34:
It is very sad when a nation turns its back to almighty God but it is horrible when the living mighty God turn His back to a nation.


marriage is the union between a MAN and a WOMAN, so why this rubbish seriously

slow joe 0bidenDeliberately destroying the institutions of marriages and the family's.
Very sad development. Democrats are a mad set of people

Deliberate tactics to weakened society and exert more control, so very Disgusting act.,

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
The bible itself is an idol.
how person go leave his indigenous religion just to adopt a whiteman's god/religion? slavery & foolishness.

Tareq1105:
Projects Gov for the benefits of his pocket while human capital development of giving works out to residents is zero bcoz he's more concerned about what foreign contractors would bring.

Princeton92:


The present government needs to acknowledge the previous one for giving them the opportunity to finish their project.... That's if you get what I mean!

sreamsense:
That is exact reason PDP is a no-no for me when it comes to voting because they always start project, but don't know how to complete. And when you make enquiry further under PDP, it is either they don't pay contractors or shared money allocated to fund such project. What is the benefit of abandon project to masses? APC really tried in infrastructure development by starting and finishing instead of starting and abandoning that were common with PDP. Thanks to Buhari; those who are born with hatred in their hearts toward Buhari will still ask you to name one project Buhari did because hatred can't let them see well

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

tesppidd:
So that is integrity right?

If a man always kills someone if he says he will kill someone or a man always refuse to pay people once he says so, that is integrity right??

Okay.

hammer567:
E CAN NEVER MAKE SENSE TO U.



WICKEDNESS CAN NEVER ALLOW IT MAKE SENSE TO U. SHORT MAN DEVIL!

madapcmod:
There is a difference when people accuse you wrongly but you know you are clean ( Suleiman case) and when they accuse you for what you did (Sammy case)

madapcmod:
Might have died as a result of the embarrassment from the infidelity saga

blacksam01:
everything u said of him is very true

hammer567:
NO, HE HAS SPENT HIS WHOLE LIFE LIEING TO HIMSELF.


THE MINUTE HE GOT CAUGHT, SHAME TOOK OVER.



HE COULD NO LONGER KEEP UP THE LIE.



SHOWING HIS FACE IN PUBLIC MADE HIM FEEL ASHAMED AND WITH WIFE(CHILDREN) STRESS, HIS BLOOD PRESSSURE WENT OUT OF CONTROL.



PROBABLY STOPPED HAVING SEX TOO, SOMETHING THAT CAN LOWER THE BLOOD PRESSURE, SO HE DIED.



IN LIFE, BE REALISTIC AND DONT LIE TO YOURSELF OR GOD.

tesppidd:


Wike dey body himself sha..

1. Integrity.
2. Wike.

These two words are like parallel lines.

No meeting point whatsoever!

bestdudes:
Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.

Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.

I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.

Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.

For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.

We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.

Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.

After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice

She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...

That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.

I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.

If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?

I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.

On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.

Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.

She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.

While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.

Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?

Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.

For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.

Let's move on

Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.

Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.

We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.

Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,

On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.

The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...

Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.

Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!

GREATIGBOMAN:
I need ur input.


Money way I wan use start house project


I bought that USDT Because I didn't want my money to be loosing value in the bank


Now all of a sudden immediately I got usdt some people are now telling me I should have gotten BUSD


Why on earth did Naira appreciate


As if they were timing me

Akinsete19:
The judiciary system of this country has destroyed the country.

nifemi25:
Masturbation is killing you gradually...

mumu9gerian:
Marwa was good, no surprises he is doing well in NDLEA.
Fantastic Man