₦airaland Forum

onyegwu:
Pls keep quiet and face ur own life issues OK! How do u know is out of jealousy? Do u know the friend before? People just talk any how know wisdom applied. Nonsense!

Are you the friend or you just want to make noise. He used a probability statement which is not out of place. Grow up

miracood:
.WAT will they gain by climbing dangerous mountains??

They gained exposure, knowledge, understand nature better. This is why they are better than Africans. Most Africans are afraid of everything and they like to enjoy from the sweat of those that painstakingly went through the storm to make many things possible

We have foreigners coming to Nigeria and we have never seen them in the news for this shit reasons. What the heck is wrong with these empty souls that kept behaving foolishly and stupidly abroad disgracing themselves.

Nigerian government needs to start a thorough screening before international passport is issued.. Every one needs to explain in details why they need it. And also renewal must not be granted until a review is made on applicants immigration history.

But I trust my comrades na their belly concern dem go take scatter the initiative

naijapips04:
They steal Jonathan project, rebrand it and call it theirs. Lifeless government. No ambition
, no foresight.

Are you saying Jonathan is Nigeria? Are you saying governments should be abandoning projects of the previous administrations?

yemmight:
Can you imagine. 12m and you expect anybody that pays such amount not to steal?

Don't mind them. If we will tackle corruption, let's start with our homes and political parties

abokibuhari:
83-85 the lifeless cow started destroying everything

And the likes of IBB made matters worst than expectations

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

With your last statement, you have just built a foundation for an unhappy marital relationship. I wish the man that will marry you will also come with that same mind set that all women are sluts and lack manners if not uncultured, then you will understand that you need to grow in understanding and not in emotion.

dingbang:
Nowadays I don't believe ladies who accuse all these uber/taxify drivers because most of them are always wrongly accused.

Meanwhile, first bank customers can now perform exciting transactions on the first mobile app. Please click the link on my signature on how to register on the app. Thanks.

Moreover is it only ladies that use uber and taxify that they are the ones that complains all he time

Otatom:
After 5kids kilode do you want to born 11. Man was already tired of changing diapers, please.

Why did he not do vasectomy. He and the doctor should be arrested and jailed

She is damn stupid. The guy will marry someone else. Sometimes I wonder how people reason. Please who is more wicked, the guy that broke up or she that shot herself. Even her new face is off.

Vibra:
Both parties need to be blamed but then the most painful part is not allowing the guy to pick anything from the place before demolition.
Haba na

He knew they will, either way he should have stayed safe with his business effects

pejuakinab:
This is what bullhari has reduced hustling Nigerians to.
Shegeh!!

See this one as if Nigeria has ever been better. Until Nigerians learn to be truthful to themselves they will never have a direction in fundamental, and economic growth. What a shame

seunmsg:
I reason with them. It's so hard for many states at the moment to pay 18k minimum wage and labour is now advocating for 56k. How will they cope?

In my opinion, the principle of federalism that we all like talking about should be applied. Each states should be allowed to determine whatever it has the capacity to pay based on negotiations with state chapters of organized labour. If we are to wait till all states concur to the proposed new minimum wage, we may have to wait till eternity. NLC and TUC should conclude negotiations with federal government and let implementation start at the federal level.

The only reason most find it hard to cope is own to the fact that they are less creative, no system, they steal the little that even comes in

eleko1:
cc: bluffly.U see dis

Bros law does not recognise ignorance. Secondly, after God, you have to fear the government. Collection of tenement rate is by the Local Government and not the agency or state parastatal that controls land matters.

There are various approvals by which are by the true state of law, by small boys which can backfire prematurely, and by the big boys which can catch fire in the nearest future. So do your due diligence to make sure it is by law. Once you are caught in the web, your tears will hardly save you.

The same perception is applicable to the rest of the points.

Well, I commiserate with them but they will need to buckle up.

eleko1:
. Who approved d building b4 /are the agency blind b4 he finished with it?i

If there is no loophole, there can't be exploitation, hence I said due diligences was not embraced.

eleko1:
those bastards dnt have human feeling. He struggled to build this only for u criminals threatened to demolish his sweat/labor.

This is the view that keeps Nigeria from moving forward. His struggling should have been he more reason he ought to have taken due deligences in making sure he complied with every regulations. Now government does not have human feeling in a land with laws.

This is Nigeria and not Africa. A party that cannot communicate their ideology from their name. What is his Ideology. People will not vote you because you are young.

Lalas247:
We need proof ...
Who go harass this one
Maybe his gay .... no be say she take o na Just small harass ! Plenty guys praying to be harassed by females

Quite unfortunate

edoman2016:
Hello nairalander,
I need advice on how to tell a friend to stop coming with his girlfriend to my apartment to have sex. This friend of mine, we went to the same university and know each other from there. He is based in Akwa Ibom and into palm oil business. When he comes to Lagos for supply to stores, he resides at his parents' house which is very close to where my apartment is.

However, when he wants to have sex with a girl in Lagos, he brings her to my apartment because he knows I am not yet married. Rather than sleeping with the girl in his parents house. I am tired of it and I don't like it but I don't know how to tell him so that it won't end our friendship. He is quite an intelligent and ambitious man.

What do you think I should do about it?

God gave you mouth to talk. So use it when required to tell him that your house isn't an hotel. How many times do you also have sex in your house not to talk of him. Say your mind to him and make him understand.
A man without principles dies without honour.

Alvin007:
Yea...you have a point there...but get a good/competent auto technician(Rewire) to help you check it out.

Thanks

Alvin007:
Before investing in another obd2 scanner, kindly, ascertain whether there isn’t a break within the link between your ecm/ecu(Brainbox), and your obd port.

How do I go about that? At the same time I think it may also have to to do with the type of OBD2 protocol.

Buynownow:
Please, contact on 09062216263. I have the one that would work with your car.

Why not advise me here?/ Maybe people with similar request using my type of car will benefit.
Thanks

TechCapon:
use the universal OBD2 car reader. I recommend the Panlong Bluetooth OBD2 Super Mini auto scanner. Works well for Japanese cars. The OBD2 port is usually located under the steering wheel....

Please what about this Avensis, which obd scanner will you recommend. I have a Bluetooth OBD2 I bought but it does not detect my ecu.

dammy13:
Actress Lilian Esoro had some relationship tips on her mind which he gave as an advice to her followers.

Lilian Esoro thinks a woman submitting to her husband is dependent on the man and how he treats her.

The mother-of-one wrote: “When a woman is treated right, submission comes naturally. Am I communicating?”

http://kikiotolu.com/how-to-make-a-a-woman-submissive-lilian-esoro-shares-hot-relationship-tip/

Vague. What does she mean by "right". She needs to explain instead of using a blanket word. Does she mean spending in her, indulging her in weakness, permitting her not to change car tyre herself, bla bla and so on and so forth. Explain the word " right"

magicminister:
Nigeria is a country of 200 million people.
If 20% of 200 million people (40 million) people patronize our local movies, don't you think that is a large market??

You also factor in the revenue generated from streaming accounts like Iroko or netflix.
I personally have iroko account and netflix account.

Nollywood movies will eventually get there but we need to support them and there is need for the government to clamp down on pirates of movie, music and other intellectual works.

How many people still dey buy Disc, both foreign and local, when their is online version that can be downloaded and watched after airing. Maybe the low class citizens does anyway.

FortifiedCity:
The worst disgrace to a woman you don't love is to put your peni3 inside her anus

Doddy style does not translate to anus (anal sex). Learner.
It is penetration into the vagina from behind with the penis

cvibe2:
Op, you shouldn't even be bringing this up as a topic. How is your wife's daughter really affecting you?

I've seen a man take care and even sponsor to study abroad the 3 kids his wife brought into the marriage from a previous relationship that didnt work out. You, you are here lamenting.

Go and also ask that man that married that Tuface' s baby Mama called Sumbo Adeoye if I remember rightly.

You can't just expect your wife to throw her daughter out of her life.

One size does not fit all. Rather for you all of to plead him into accepting that child, you are abusing him, thereby making matters worst for the child. You used Tuface baby mama as an example, how does that add up.

My own advise to the Op is to go and pray and seek further spiritual advice. If God says go ahead and take her, do but call the father to a sit and make him sign than for the girl to live in your home he must approve the adoption.

Let the truth be told. He is flaunting because to have your name on a street, you will have to pay the LG. He will be paying annually.

delugajackson:
Party of criminals and political dramatists. It's a shame that the people who were supposed to be a beacon of hope for the younger generation would in turn make bad examples of themselves.

Surely, the APC government does not need another characteristic to confirm them as evil, demonic and anti-people.

Stop mentioning political parties. Wake your brain up from its slumbers and know that The problem with Nigeria is not political party but the people because it is from the people that you have your institutions. So face the cause and not the problem.

Any lady that wears that out is a Jezebel, be it sanctioned by your husband or not. Such dressing only seduces men around you. So what is the point? I am amused by the husband saying he is showing off what he has. Is his wife an artefact or an object. I yet to understand some thinking as to why the wife is also not showing off the husbands penis and chest at least to show off what she has.