BAZ001: You are not married yet and already talking about cheating in marriage From the look of things, you will probably be the one to cheat in marriage. See as u stomach flat
Flat Stomach.. You sure say she still get womb? She don take surgeries scatter herself
cherishsweet: ..... This just shows that marriage or relationships as it were, is more than just having a banging body.... With all of this.. She's scared of being cheated on... Funny..
Stupid people everywhere.. Senseless people everywhere.. .. So, you just have a silly feeling... And boom, you pay a woman to go and enjoy your husband?? .. Do you really love that husband of yours??
These people are so obsessed with IGBO PRESIDENCY... They don't care if the Igbo People All Perish. They don't even know what benefits or losses that the Igbo Presidency will bring. ... All they care about is just the Igbo Presidency. .. WICKED ELITES.!!
HardMirror: I am not complaining o. I am marveling and want to hear the experience of others. I am happy cos she is actually my best staff now so worth every penny
So, increase her pay then. Why tagging Nigerian Women??
HardMirror: no I employed my girlfriend, do u understand now? Pray u are able to do same too
Even if you employed your wife, your wife becomes your employee. How you relate with her may affect either the business, or your home, or both. If she becomes a Partner-In-Business or a Co-Owner, then it becomes a different issue.
Cutezt: Who dey organize all these rubbish awards encouraging our wicked politicians to think they are deceiving us well and continue their evil?
Sometimes, we are our own problem in this country, what are you giving Maryam Abacha award for? For what exactly? This Alex, you are one of Nigerians greatest problems all in the name of useless awards to get brown envelops. I no blame you sha, I blame nairaland that is trying very hard to give you relevance, I no know how much you pay them.
fvck: I would had taken her seriously if not for the initial rejection
The fact that she is all over you is because you welcomed her. You still want her. Yet you still don't want her. .. Why are you confusing yourself and confusing her too?
And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?
She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.
But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?
Ladies don't want anything. It's you that is confused. You don't know what you really want.
ArewaFanatic: Come on! You expect a panicking man or lady fleeing from some threat to his/her life to keep these rules of yours? How in God's name is such a person not to make quick movements or remember to raise his arms up? Would you keep your own rules if you are in the same situation? Soldiers and policemen are trained on these stuff. They do countless simulations on how to handle people who are in panic. If we cant run to them, who do we run to?
It's not about the Nigerian Military or police. Whenever someone is in possession of any type of weapon for the purpose of protection or defence, it is the normal rule not to provoke the person or put him in a position to believe that he is under threat. .. .. Now, coming to the Nigerian Military, they have this natural tendency of intimidating civilians. It is also on the records that they are among the most-easily provoked military personnel in the world. But even at that, there is a way to approach anybody that is wielding a weapon. It is not about rules. .. Like for instance, in the story that we just read, even with his shock and dilemma, he realised that he had to run away from snake. Then he saw soldiers and forgot that those ones are also a totally different set of dangerous species altogether??
Heyaaa... This is a very sad way to die. .. .. Please Nigerians. Whatever you do with a soldier, even if you're in distress, please maintain a good distance. Don't ever get yourself too close to them. And never ever ever make quick movements, even if you don't have any weapons on you. .. Finally, always keep your hands and fingers where they would be seeing them clearly while you explain yourself slowly and calmly. .. .. The Nigerian Military Men are not bad. (At least, not as bad as the Nigerian Police) But the truth is, they see any human being (and animals too) as a potential threat. .. ..
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But they told you to enable cookies... Then enable the cookies naa.. ... I did my registration online. I even swore affidavit join. I have gotten a business-name registration number and a TIN too. .. Up till now, I have not gone to collect my physical certificate from their office though.
50pseamer: I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.
I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.
I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church. I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming. We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit, She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused. In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.
Now we are living like neighbours in the same house. Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?
You're also a major part of your own problems here. A lot of things you're complaining of here are totally unnecessary. Things that “silence-but-actions” would have solved, you will go and start talking and arguing unnecessarily, forgetting that you can never over-talk a woman as far as talking is concerned.
EnemyofGod22: I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.
Here is my true life story My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.
Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.
Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.
One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.
Fast forward to January
On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.
On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.
On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.
Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.
Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.
She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.
Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.
To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.
Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.
Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.
Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.
mod please push this to front page.
Are you sure that this Moniker of yours is not affect you??
There is a thread that made front-page, where a lady was flogging her man non-stop, and she was repeatedly asking him: “What the hell is wrong with you?”.
The only condition that might lead to this type of scenario inside this video is that: the lady is the sole provider in the relationship, and the guy is still hoping to plead with her later so that they can continue with the relationship (thus, the reason why he was still playing cool amidst the flogging). Because if he himself considered the relationship over after the first few floggings, he would have shown some form of struggle - at least to get himself out of that torturous space. Oooohh.. One thing is clear.. Once such a man is caught cheating, that relationship is over. The lady cannot take him back. ... Now, let's look at another situation.. If they are both providers in the relationship, the lady would just let them know that she saw him, then she would say some few rhetoric words so that she won't feel too bad at that moment, and then she would leave the scene, and then quit the relationship. .. Ok.. let's flip the scenario once again. If the man is the sole provider in the relationship, the lady would either start creating a scene by fighting both of them (while in the fight, more of the fights would be on the other woman involved), or she would start to create some scenes by crying and being emotional so as to gather some sympathy. But in the end, she would definitely forgive the man and still remain in the relationship.
Celebrities › Re: Tega Dominic: Many Nigerians Don’t Read To Understand (Pix) by BluntCrazeMan: 6:04pm On Dec 20, 2021
