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TheOldGods:
6 months is too long. Would have wasted my time trying to figure out if she is the right one or not.

TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because this was a test, to see if she can help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

MonsterLoader:
I love my girlfriend very much and we have sex most times but guys I am tired of having sex with her all the time, I want to try something new like I Don tire to chop this same food always. The sex isn't becoming interesting again for me even though she is very good in bed i don't just have the urge for her now because I Don too do am with her. Please I really don't like to carry other babes but I come they reason. Any advice please? I'm confused. How do you stay with only partner sedually without getting tired?

Godknowwhy:
Greetings to everyone please i have decided to create this new account to stay private! My name is John and wife name is favor not our real name though. I catch my wife cheating on me through her phone after 5years been together with her and we have done our traditional marriage 1years ago with two children already and she confesses that she only Cheat on me once and i push her to do it which i cannot confirm if is only once, Now this is the main point she have confess to me is true but if i can forgive and take her back that she we never made that mistake again. So my own concern now is where can i do the necessary things according to our tradition because we are not correctly living in Nigeria should i do the sacrifice in my place or her place because we are from two different state and know that i have forgiven her already but we don't sleep together neither eat together and cook my own food for now because of what my tradition say about a cheating wife for my own good. Please remember my writing English is not that good is not my fault

Teekay21:
My friend and I were very good friends since childhood. My friend get into relationship with a light skin bitch which he worship like she is a goddess. She is Pretty and also gentle no doubt about that but I don't know if she is just faking her humility whenever am around.
Well there was a day I bought a charging chord for my phone not knowing my phone charging point was damaged, so I decided to take the phone to any repair shop and to return back the chord to the seller. On my way I met my friend with his bitch walking around the street like vigilante group who are after a thief, he stopped me and was like hey dude where are u heading to? I said to him am returning this chord to the seller, so immediately my friend said he is definitely in need of a chord and he will give me the money for the chord, I said no wahala but he said he ain't gonna give me the money now cause he left his wallet at home, as a friend I understand so we talked and I went my way.
The next day he came to my house and gave me half of the payment saying that all he got as my gee I understand and pop up to another gist, we discussed alot that day and when it was evening my friend left.
The next day I went to work and I found out an incident happened that cause me a lot to pay so I start to borrowing from relatives and friends, so I went to that my same friend to lend me money but all he had to say was that he had a project which will cost him alot, I understand him cause as my guy I will love to see him succeed, the next day he came to my office telling me me how the had fun with his bitch, he even had the balls to tell me that he bought his bitch a new phone. So am wondering why your fellow guy won't help you just because of a bitch.

seanwilliam:
Walai I don almost piss for body reading the bolded.

Widowscharity:
A person may rightfully be happy if in this life he could do a great favor for widows and orphans, could assist support than, and facilitate fate of people.
We can point the finger at adults for the stupid decisions they make in life, but an orphaned child can never be blamed for the situation in which they find themselves.
All children deserve a loving and supportive family and that family can appear different depending on the situation.
Do not refuse to help widows nor orphans.
Many of them are dying in silence.

Majority of them are dying in kogi state their market is not selling or they have no capital to countinue or they are sick and no one to care for them.
We need to promote this page and help them with the little we have.

ogbiwa:
So sorry to interject madam, but I think you may have some issues you need to work on offline. I think there's something missing in your life and you're trying to fill it up by getting abusive attention online. I've seen this symptom too many times and see where it ends. If you're willing, I can show you the love of God to fill that missing space. You can quote one of my old posts. Trust me, you're worth far more than an online troll

SultanOfPuna:
Girls dont marry who they love.
Girls marry whoever that can provide for them.
Romance and love stories are pure scams
If you are doing mumu romance like zeeworld, my broda you are wasting your fvcking time.

Fathers are selling their daughters out like cattle in the name of bride price.
Will the father accept romance as bride price or will he accept 500k for bride price

The worst thing you can ever do as a man is to believe that useless lie women tell us.

"I love you with all my heart"
"Nothing in this life will seperate us"
" you are always in my heart"
"You are the love of my life"
BULLSHIT
Make you lose your job first, u go know say na women na scam.

Never in your life make sacrifices for a woman except your Mother
Always put yourself FIRST before any bloody babe.
Never beg a girl to stay with you. Never!!!
If she misbehave, move on to another girl

U see a fresh 25 yr old marrying an old ugly rich billionare.
And some motivational Fool will come out and say "True Love Exist". False!!
In a capitalist society nothing like True Love

Kingozymandias:
Such a beautiful soul. How are you enjoying your week

czarr:
I want my future wife here on nairaland to ask for my account number, I feel like eating pizza today.

Be fast about it please, before I change my mind.

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

Amb1045:
Dear Men,

If you want to make it in life, you don't have to enter every HOLE you see. Some holes are dead traps. Some holes are destiny destroyers, business destroyers and life destroyers.

My brother, do not obey your Erection at all times. Most Erections mislead you to wrong direction. Control your erection if you don't want to to have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your sexual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth. Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends. Not every girl has a good spirit. Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.

Be careful.

Blacksavage:

Please I need answers
Thanks

Jeon:


THIS PICTURE IS BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU POSTED

and ERYS is not his recent album.
CTV IS THE RECENT ALBUM WITH CABIN FEVER

Jeon:
the children are troublesome apart from the senior ..
those are past photos thou.

Kingozymandias:
Not pained at all... Hehehee on the contrary Intrigued and anticipation of what's to come....

You won't understand... You assume we are all emotionaliy unintelligent and must react with negative emotions

Williampisces:
Thegidredpiller is a handsome dude... Rate this looks

Jeon:
the family are really beautiful.
I love Jaden look in the foto.

treziMcCarthy:
LOL, bro I don't need anyone to tell me how good I am was, she even told me when we were talking about the sex, that she didn't see that coming, I was too big... Not pride bro... I intentionally didn't put that part in the initial statement... After the sex... We have been talking well and she's been telling me how she would love to have more of me not until last night I joked with her..

treziMcCarthy:
Hello good day nairalanders.
I'm not really happy this morning,
Please forgive my writings and mistakes, thiss is my first time of posting on here.

I relocated to a new environment, after 2 months, I met a lady in my area, we talked, so I invited her to my place, she stays next street from mine.
So after talking and gisting, as a guy man, i needed to hit And make her one of my babe, so she promised to come 2 days later, she came we had sex, honestly I gave her the best... My head game was out of universe,
She went home and we talked about the sexx and shee was happy, 3 days later she travelled with her family, so we were talking on phone, not the calling type tho but I didn't want to make her feel like I was only there to hit, last night after talking, we did the normal goodnight thing and she said she want to sleep... I said alright, only for me to come on whatsapp and see she was active... I jokingly said to her, I Don catch u.. Oya go and sleep jare.
I left her, honestly I didn't take it serious, because I no be small pikin for the game, I respect everyone attitude because there's a reason behind everyone action..
Only for me to wake up and noticed she blocked me on whatsapp and when I tried calling, my number was also blocked from reaching her... So I messaged her throus sms, *can u unblock me I need to tell u something*...
Now she unblocked me and asked, *what do you want to ask me.*

Hey guys, please should I reply her or ignore... And if you have an idea of any action I can take... I would bee glad to hear from you.. Bashing is allowed but in a reasonable perspective.
I one love

luminouz:
Will you just keep quiet??
You are not even making any sense....

Why don't you just be called the DentedTruth or LyingTruth or some shiit

victooman:
logic is what u use to know,, 10yrs is too much oga

victooman:
wife my ass,, no man should chase any woman for 10yrs,, if a woman sees u within 24hrs she already know if she will be with u or not, keeping u waiting fo a whole 10yrs mean u were never her option, and l can bet u go to that man home and u will find out the love is still one sided,, no man deserve to be used like this.

victooman:
you chase a woman for 10yrs? and u think her been the mother of ur kids is an achievement,, after all options are gone why wont she take the left over to the only Available simp

Spiff20:
Most of these stories of you guys ghosting girls and they started chasing you are all lies. Some you ghost them and they never remember you exist but y'all will come here and say they were chasing after you.

Prettygirl200:
yeah for the forbidding part here in delta the urohobos and isokos do if u as a married woman u are cheating, if after doing that u don't confess to your husband u will die within few weeks or months, den if u as the man u are aware that your wife sleeps outside and u don't confront her, u feign ignorance, u as the man u will die. But if u confront your wife and she accepts and beg for forgiveness there won't be deaths. Now this happens to u no matter ur tribe as long as u are married to an urhobo or isoko be u man or woman and u cheat, u will die.

BoredBerry:


I just sit by my window watching my neighbours...

Or go out to a park nearby and watch the families and friends walk in and out, gist and laugh...

Not that I can't approach them, I'm very social...

I just enjoy looking at humans... Esp when they are comfortable...

pascalbenz:
After sex what do you guys say to each other