₦airaland Forum

Medianna:
Ahhh...
Men are still kneeling down to propose??

I wish una well

She knew he was going to propose. They both dressed for the occasion in matching outfits.

Daniel7543:
Quite unfortunate that many people are battling with brothel addiction. I was once like you op. I never had a girlfriend back then, I was always visiting a brothel.

But since when I met my girlfriend, everything changed. She was like a divine therapist assigned to me by God. It wasn't easy but I fought my way out of my addiction.

Fighting such an addiction is not a day job, you need someone to guide you through. Do you have a girlfriend? If No, then look for a decent girl who truly loves you.

She will do all her best to get you out of the addiction. You can't do it alone, you need someone to guide you.

Please is she Nigerian. Gooodharddick please listen to his answer.

Yes I do. Especially because it reminds I am getting older and yet to achieve certain things I had wanted to achieve by that age.

johnwalkerdee:
An eighteen-year-old girl laughs shyly when she sees me. The only thing I often avoid is being a little girl. I am 32 years old. This has been done to the generation nowadays.

So are you looking for our approval. Smiling sheepishly indeed, Mr wild imagination. Don't be a perv

VictorUSA:
What does this message mean? Pls help!

Goodmorning dear (name), it's been awhile and we have not seen.The walls of my heart are about tearing apart. I do not know the reason behind this joyful obsession.I hope you will understand my message.

I'm confused so I need imput from readers.

It means she misses you.

SilentQueen:
It is now very obvious that most men/ guys here on NL and beyond are fond of insulting, bashing and speaking ills about women!

What did women do to deserve all this hate speech, insults and humiliation?

Some guys even go as far as asking what do women have to offer apart from over used pussy? Can you imagine that!!

I am calling you guys out to state your reasons why you feel women don't deserve respect and love especially GooodhardDick

I don't, I am one of the exception.i say it as it is, respectfully.

I don't like impersonal proposals. You don't need an audience to propose.

Southernigbo:
As a person of genuine religious faith, how do you feel fornicatively sexing ur male clients or ur female customers when you clearly know without doubt that what you are doing is prohibited by ur religion?

I feel excitedbecause we are married. Must keep the sparks alive.

Nedstar:
Hi guys,
So here’s the gist I am not the very social type, as a matter of fact I have zero friends which obviously sucks but that’s no the main issue. Today my girlfriend posted a pic all over her social media pages and account like seriously I’m even tired of getting notification only to see it’s the same pic on different platforms. So the thing got me wondering, as she’s posting the pics showing off her cleavage I was wishing I could counter by just posting pictures of me balling with 4 babes on my side on something like that. So guys please how do I fake it so she can be jealous, because she’s the very jealous type the moment she sees me having fun with other ladies she be all over my dm with sad and crying emoji’s. Me self go like show off small.

That's childish, what type of relationship do you have scheming to hurt eachother, that's toxic.

iamrealdeji:
AntiMen:


What reason will I give my husband for not following him to church.
Christianity itself is really flawed. A woman would even barely know her Imam in Islam unlike in Christianity where men and women would hold hands in the name of praying and the sexual attraction would start even while praying. No matter how small a mosque is,men's entrance would always be different from women entrance and there is always a wall that separates men and women in mosque,only that the wall would have few perforated blocks only for women to see what's going on during prayers,they follow the voice of the imam and pray and they watch the back of other jamat through the perforated blocks to know the progress of the salat(prayer)women are not allowed to speak in mosque raising opinions or sing or raise their voices due to their naturally sexy voice. They are only allowed to speak among themselves. You can never stare at a woman in mosque cos you would find it difficult to even see her at all,also,women are very much encouraged to pray indoors. God is everywhere. Islam is beautiful and that's why Saudi Arabia and other middle eastern countries have the lowest prevalence of HIV with 0.001 percent and Saudi Arabia is the safest place on earth for women according to studies

But they are the biggest perverts. Those Arab billionaires.

Gospel2Day:
If she feels same way for her boss or colleague at her workplace would you advise her to "Leave the job. Look for another job"?
To many people church is like supermarket. You choose whichever one you like.
God plants people in true churches.
And you CAN'T just leave for another BRANCH unless by His authorization or permission.

If leaving would prevent her from sinning then yes.

YourBestWriter:
Like, how do love feel like?

How do two people actually agree that they are in love?

I haven't felt that before. Okay I've seen beautiful people, but it's all the beauty and maybe the sexual attraction but nothing more.

I don't really understand how to love.

Can someone help please. Am approaching my 30 years on planet Earth.

When you see the person as the only person you can be with and you can't imagine being with anyone else

richeeyo:
Iuf you see girl wa dey feed you pussy like oxygen, you go think say you dey in love

That's not love

Met 2007 ,at ekosodin ,idehen street, kapa green hostel. We met on the street and we have been together since then. Dated for 7 years married for 8.

2braithe:
Are you saying he should have stayed in the uncomfortable marriage?

He claimed she is a serial cheat!

Anything that made him stay till she gave birth forming lovey dovey should have made him not pack up and leave her all alone after just giving birth. Now she is coping without him he is talking about not being able to see the kids. I really think he has issues. I have seen men accuse women of being serial cheats. I believe this fight is probably about money.

Altruist1414:
There's this girl my course mate that has been my friend for sometime, recently I told her my feelings for her and asked her out.


Well she told me she liked me too, but we can't date, in her words: " I like you a lot, you are not just a friend, you are more than a friend to me, but we can't date". Which kind zone be this one?


Her reason is that she doesn't feel prepared for any relationship now, there's a lot of things she has to work on herself before getting in a relationship. This is someone that broke up with her boyfriend last year, according to her she just felt so stressed from academic work that she just picked up her phone to tell the boyfriend it's over.

I want to know if I should just move on and forget about her, or I should just continue in the "more than friends" thingy?

Totally take your mind off it. She has brother zoned you. Ig not that you said she broke up with her boyfriend I would have said she was just playing hard to get. If you really like her , wait some time, say 6 months and ask her out again. If she says no, again then you can start making your peace with it and moving on.
Knowing how girls are once you move on she will start finding you irresistible ,then you will be back here asking us what you should do about your new bae and your former crush.

Jenniferchuma10:
Korra Obidi’s estranged husband, Justin Dean has reacted to the many threat messages he received from Nigerians following his divorce.

"Make peace with Korra or collect wotowoto"- Justin Dean reacts to threats from Nigerians following divorce with wife Korra Obidi
In the messages sent via his Instagram channel, the third parties asked him to go and settle with Korra otherwise they will attack him.

“Apparently, with the love for Korra on social media, it is understandable why the threats have ensued,” one of Justin’s followers opined.

"Make peace with Korra or collect wotowoto"- Justin Dean reacts to threats from Nigerians following divorce with wife Korra Obidi
Meanwhile, one of the threat messages demands that he (Justin) reconciles with Kora within 48 hours otherwise his m@nhood will be crippled.

While Another threatened to ‘give him seven days sickness’, Justin wrote that this isn’t the first time he has been threatened with “juju or black magic”.

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https://www.trendinghub.ng/make-peace-with-korra-or-collect-wotowoto-justin-dean-reacts-to-threats-from-nigerians-following-divorce-with-wife-korra-obidi/

Justin is an idiot. He wishes he could take everything back and go back but he can't. Why on earth would you abandon your wife with a two year old and a newborn then come on social media to talk crap, that's just tacky. Then you are now complaining that you are not allowed to see the kids. Immediately he saw that the lady is doing better emotionally and was able to dust her self and move on. For Korra ,she too has her own issues, but she is not as immature.
I still get this feeling that it might all just be a publicity stunt sha.

GeneralKoko:
Good day Nairalanders. We all have that sad or bad lender or incident that made us to stop borrowing people money. Sometimes it's because they refuse to pay or they keep posting you or they try to kill you so as not to pay
Share your experience

I don't borrow people money. I give an amount I know I can give.

SultanOfPuna:
Dear muslim men, now i Understand why you cover your women from head to toe
Cuz those muslim girls are HOES


This muslim bani is hypersexual. She love kpansh but she no dey disturb for more.
I was told that muslim girls get high libido

Now i understand why they cage them and cover dem from head to toe

Because if dem no cage them
Dem go Unleash their Hoeness to Full Level

Mr I am as d.u.m.b as I sound. Having a high libido has nothing to do with religion. Dumb.ass

Mike7302:
As in I am just depressed right now, it's as if I no get brain at all. I am this very reserved guy. I am just always by myself, no friends, babe sef no dey. It's almost as if I am in a different world anytime I am out.

What I want to know especially is how do I get good in these kind of playful talks ( I don't know if u guys get what I mean). It's almost like some people went to the academy. And people always want those people, no one wants boredom na.

When someone wants to engage me in such,I just laugh stupidly or say something stupid and boring. Like my brain cant think of reply fast. I really envy people that are really outspoken.

I have even started considering weed and alcohol. Please I need practical advice... especially from people once in this situation. It's my issue confidence, no sense or what.

PS: I know I am an introvert, but introvert no suppose worse reach this

I believe the greatest problem someone can have is being unable to say ur mind or not even communicating well with people.

You will outgrow it.

siofra:
Actually I was quadruple dating if you look at it well. Two of the relationships were quite serious. The other two were not that serious.

I was almost caught on two occasions and I was caught on one occasion. This was back when I used to be a hot mess and I didn't even know what I wanted from relationships. To me, it was just fun.

The time I was caught was when my side boyfriend1 took me to a gaming center to play one game like that, there, I met my side boyfriend2. I almost died when I saw him
I cunningly introduced them to each other. It was months later when I was breaking up with my side boyfriend2 that he told me he knew. God! I was so embarrassed there I was thinking I was smart.

The second time was when my main boyfriend met me as I was strolling with my side boyfriend1. I told him my side boyfriend1 is just a friend but I think he didn't believe because he questioned me like he was a policeman
He asked me to leave my side boyfriend1 and follow him to somewhere. My side boyfriend1 was confused and the two of them were staring at me expectantly, watching to see who I would follow. In the end someone called me and I pretended it was my aunt calling me to go and meet her. Then my main boyfriend offered to escort me to my aunt's house. Omo see questioning na.


The third time was when I was taking loved up pictures with my side boyfriend3. Then my side boyfriend1 passed by. I was so scared because I thought he had seen me. But thankfully he hadn't.

Anyway lockdown made me come to my senses and helped me reflect on my life and I decided to cut them all off except my main boyfriend.

Quadruple dating is not worth it at all.

But through it all, I remained a virgin

Just know that you are not a main girlfriend to the main boyfriend. He knows you cheat.

LegitGirl:
A friend asked me this question, recently.

A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.

What do you guys think?

In Nigeria it'll be very a annoying. People will be calling you Mrs and attaching your maiden name. I once worked at state owned establishment and a young lady who is married and yet to change her name, went through hell, to get maternity leave, according to them you cant take maternity leave except you are officially a Mrs, bearing your husband's name.

ijustdey:
Nigerian Man Detained By Italian Police For Beating Wife Throws Baby From Storey Building



http://saharareporters.com/2022/04/05/nigerian-man-detained-italian-police-beating-wife-throws-baby-storey-building

I bet it's an Edo man Domestic violence is encouraged in Edo. They love to flex their muscles on their wives. Very arrogant, especially the Bini.

Dominion791:
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months ,since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description. There was a some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.

I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father. For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion. I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion.  I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford  to raise a child right now  and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her  to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone . What do I do now?

Zip up, you people will not hear. You see am ?
You are OYO. Go and borrow money to do DNA

WisdomDannie:
Good day Nairalanders,

It started this way..

There was this girl whom I liked so much 2 to 3 years ago. But she was forming hard to get and basically told me she only wanted a friendship even when I wanted something with her. (I believed she was in a relationship at the said time)

I waited patiently for her to change her mind but when it wasn't happening, I had to drop my feelings for her.

Recently, she started approaching me again but I didn't reciprocate at first because I had lost that affection. Moreover, I have already found a new girl whom I love.

Last week, this my old friend visited me to celebrate my birthday and stayed at my place for three days.

Though we didn't have sex (reasons best known to me) but we cuddled and did some nasty things..

She told me how much she misses me and would like to start a relationship with me.

Honestly, I started developing those old feelings again, especially when I saw the sacrifices she made for me.

But I don't want to hurt this new girl who loves me as well.

I have been thinking about this for days and really need your advice.

I don't want to make the wrong decision


Please!!

We cannot help you. Follow your heart. But if I were in your shoes I will not go for the former girl. She is only coming back because you are now unavailable. Some ladies are only attracted to unavailable people. They love the challenge. If you leave the other girl for her ,she will get tired of you once you are always in her face and move on. Use your head

MedicH:
I go prove to them say I no get sense. The kind package I go run eeh... They go shock.

MedicH:
people think i have sense oo.

i go shock them one day

Shock then how? Will you prove to them you are the opposite

Ilamina:


Or even dieing from it

"Ladies" not lady's.

Good day fam.pls I need an advise on this.
I met this guy a month ago,he asked me if I was in a relationship I told I was not which was true.so he told me about the girl he currently in a relationship with for 5years that the girl cheated on him that they have been on the issue for a long time that he want to break up with her but he don't know how to because he has invested a lot on her. I told him he has the choice to make. Some days after we met he told me that the girl told him she was coming to see him she lives in a different state but I and him live in the same state. She spent four days before going that they didn't even have sex that they where still on the issue. I notice something about him that he is always jealous when he sees me with another guy, before then he told me he don't want us to attach emotion and I should not fall in love with him yet that either me or him will get hurt. I ask him why he said because he don't want to have another heart break. So I told him we can't be having sex and been romantic with eachother to avoid such he was not happy with me saying we will not have sex or doing romantic stuff. So I ask him what did he want from me. He said he likes me that he really likes me. But I said you have not break up with your cheating girlfriend and you are jealous if you see me with another guy I don't understand anymore. And I told him that we need to stop seeing eachother. He then say is was because I want to start considering another guy and which is wrong I am just trying to avoid regret. And if I want to cut off from him he keeps trying for me not to separate with him by trying to make me reason with him. I don't know what is his problem I ask and talk maturely with him what he wants from me. I don't understand him if he can't we can't date or something why don't he want to leave me alone. I have asked him to reconcile with his girlfriend. I don't just know what to do.

Pls no insult mature mind what should I do about this pls I need advice. Should I separate and forget about him or I should just play along? Thanks.

Please run . He is lying. You will soon hear he did introduction or is getting married. He has other girls he is lying to. Please have some self respect and don't be desperate. Run from complicated relationship and entanglement

Stephendeals:
He should stay out of it but the said colleague is already disturbing him with it?

When quarel start they will use him to settle. Don't interfere with Husband and wife matter.i am talking from experience.

Mrkumareze:
it's safer to have such wife Oga, just double your hustle and find means to create other source of happiness .. don't see your wife as the only source of your gist cos u ll end up disappointed

Are you codedlysuggesting a side chic