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PoliticsRe: Adeyeye Hails Osinbajo’s Quiet Exit From Office by bong4(m): 7:18am On Jun 05, 2023
Sunshine34:
The first two ftc guys above me will keep wailing, Derailed and myopic. What does TINUBU have to do with that point you making. Obidient will only labour in vain. SEE, TINUBU 8YEARS IS IN THE BAG. go do your worst.
Tinubu will definitely enjoy 8 years as President. The real deal should be how to make your life also better in the 8 years.
PoliticsRe: Bashir Ahmad Takes A Course At A Chinese University. by bong4(m): 7:20am On May 26, 2023
Naajjii:
Who English help ? You and all those people that speak good English and big big grammar all over Nigeria why is the country still a shit hole ?
You also speak good English and big big grammar all over Nigeria, so you part of the shit hole.
Foreign AffairsRe: Jan. 6 Rioter Who Put His Feet On Desk In Pelosi's Office Sentenced To 4.5 Yrs by bong4(m): 10:16pm On May 25, 2023
ArchiLimited:
The US capitol is the equivalent of Nigeria's national assembly complex, if I'm not mistaken. Ok. Bye.
Yes ooo meanwhile the one that boldly walked into the Senate and took the Mace is freely roaming the street being shielded by his boss.
PoliticsRe: President-Elect Bola Tinubu Officially Handed Baton Of Service (Photo) by bong4(m): 4:34pm On May 25, 2023
Acekidc4:
All hail the Slayer of Headless Obidients.............Una go Cry fire Today.
Grow up my friend. Stop being petty
FamilyRe: Is Flogging A Part Of Good Parenting ? by bong4(m): 8:23am On May 17, 2023
LeyeWrites:
Discipline and learning are two different things.


When I was a child I had asthma. My dad would tell me son don't go and play football, it triggers your condition. I'll go and play football. Then when I come back I got asthma attack. My parents would be unable to sleep throughout the night. The next couple of times I did, my dad start flogging me and it helped.

When I was a student in secondary school, we were flogged for many things. Late coming: that taught me punctuality. Noise making: that taught me I'm partly responsible for the efficiency of any team I'm in. Assignments: that I should meet deadlines on whatever tasks I'm given.


Would you had rather students don't do assignments? And teachers rather talk to them on it? Have you been to northern Nigeria schools?

Look, the benefit of discipline through flogging outweighs whatever medical junks you've been fed by the West.

As far as I'm concerned, I'll discipline my kids the way I was disciplined to make me a better person. You can treat yours the ways you want. But you folks should stop trying to impose your views on a longstanding culture of parenting that have stood the test of times.

Of course, you lots want Nigeria to have young adults like those in West who are now homosexuals and gun shooters.
Well, in my opinion, you would have been corrected in several ways other than being flogged. You were just being punished rather than being disciplined. Flogging only made you fear the person who flogged you and not making you aware or conscious of the actual reason why you should obey, do assignments, be punctual etc.
I hope if the government wakes up tomorrow and says workers who resume late at work will be flogged, we will clap for them, or anyone who throws dirt out of vehicle windows, if caught will be flogged. You can imagine pastors flogging congregation members who are late for church service.

Well, just as you mentioned later, you are entitled to the way you choose to raise your child.
FamilyRe: Is Flogging A Part Of Good Parenting ? by bong4(m): 8:15am On May 17, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.
Your Opening statement, "Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up." sums it all. What justification do adults who break laws flagrantly have to flog others? I see adults drive now way, throw dirts out of their cars, cheat in promotional exams, hide palliative, tell lies etc and yet no one flogs them.

Children are flogged over flimsy reasons. You came late, you got low marks. Is that the only way to correct a wrong doing.
Flogging only dehumanized us. It is still this correction mentality that makes spouses beat one another. Can you imagine you are punching someone you called, "honey", "My dear" sometime ago?
Flogging only instills fear and not respect.
CrimeRe: White House confirms Attack In Anambra: No US Citizens Were Involved Or Hurt by bong4(m): 8:04am On May 17, 2023
LeoDeKing:
Lmao 🤣

There is nothing hate can't cause in this world.

All these just because of Buhari. And Tinubu will soon inherit the hate.

Tinubu should just remain mute on this, because God is already taking care of everything. Even if US citizens are involved, na to just present their leader Peter Obi to US. He lives with them, he also said they are peaceful.
Stop being petty and silly. No insecurity can be sustained this long without the government's complicity
PoliticsRe: Bashir Ahmad Takes A Course At A Chinese University. by bong4(m): 12:15pm On May 16, 2023
Naajjii:
You people with proper English, Who proper English help, So proper English is an achievement? Majority of the Asian people in that photo with him don't speak proper English.
So after learning how to speak and write good English like this, you don't want others to measure up. Why learn it in the first place?
PoliticsRe: Official Pre-Inauguration Portraits Of Tinubu And Shettima Released (Photos) by bong4(m): 1:25am On May 14, 2023
Epistasis:
I hail Jagaban, the slayer of Atikulooters and obidafts all over the world.
May God help and bless the president elect.
If that is all he is to you, then get ready for a cruise.
PoliticsRe: Video Of Governor Ganduje Endorsing Akpabio For Senate Presidency by bong4(m): 4:55pm On May 09, 2023
helinues:
What's there to be sad about in Akpabio becoming Senate President? Please tell us
Nice clap back bro!
PoliticsRe: Governor Adeleke Speaks After Supreme Court Judgement (Video) by bong4(m): 4:53pm On May 09, 2023
papagiddy:
Thank God....The day Pastor Adeboye prayed for him and anointed him, I knew d game was over for oyetola....Despite all the fake prophesy against Adeleke from Pastors and fake prophets.... which will also be d same for Tinubu...Infact congratulations to Apc and Tinubu....Obidient are just wasting their time honestly!!!
If not for your name, i would have said you erred in mixing religion and stupidity
PoliticsRe: Bandits Kidnap 40 Kaduna Worshippers During Church Service, 15 Escape by bong4(m): 3:52am On May 09, 2023
samfrancis1:
And you think the northern elites or politicians that themselves are been controlled are behind it? May be you should know that ex military Generals are the people behind many of this
Why don't they then speak out and exposed these "ex,-military Generals" instead of keeping quiet and end up being accused falsely?
PoliticsRe: Bandits Kidnap 40 Kaduna Worshippers During Church Service, 15 Escape by bong4(m): 3:42am On May 09, 2023
sreamsense:
And what would have your labour party do different? Is Anambra insecurity of Ipob/esn not worse? Is it APC that is ruling Anambra? It is not everything you open mouth to blame government for, many human beings are naturally wicked even if you give them all comfort of life, they will still commit crime. I s gun related killings every week not happening in USA despite all comfort of life available.
Something happened in Kaduna State which is controlled by APC and someone pointed that fact out, instead of countering with facts you immediately brought Labour Party into it and Anambra State as if Labour is in charge of Anambra. Who else should be blamed if not government. You are even mentioning USA. How many of these bandits have the government arrested compared to the number of gun crime perpetrators arrested in the US?
Keep comparing until it gets to your door step.
PoliticsRe: Akpabio’s Senate Presidency Will Spell Doom For The North – ACF by bong4(m): 8:37am On May 08, 2023
Ofunaofu:
https://dailytrust.com/akpabios-senate-presidency-will-spell-doom-for-the-north-acf/
Akpabio is not just bad for the North, he is bad for the whole country but since we have accepted number 1 and 2, having a number 3 in the same league shouldn't be a bad idea
PoliticsRe: Economic Hardship: Nigerians Won’t Die, Will Adjust To Survive – Ngige by bong4(m): 8:34am On May 08, 2023
adenigga:
https://punchng.com/Economic-hardship-Nigerians-wont-die-will-adjust-to-survive-Ngige
What do you expect when he is also a member of, "Go and Die" and " I owe you nothing" party.
PoliticsRe: Video Of Governor Ganduje Endorsing Akpabio For Senate Presidency by bong4(m): 4:09pm On May 05, 2023
helinues:
Racoon, when would you ever celebrate with others?

Why are you against Akpabio as SP?
What is there to celebrate in Akpabio becoming Senate President? Please tell us.
EducationRe: IMSU Suspends Dr Desmond Izunwanne For Slapping Students by bong4(m): 5:36pm On May 03, 2023
PoliticsRe: Government Not Responsible For Creating Jobs – Femi Adesina by bong4(m): 9:55pm On May 02, 2023
PoliticsRe: Buhari & Tinubu: Outgoing President Leading The Way For The Incoming President by bong4(m): 7:41pm On Apr 28, 2023
abc115:
Outgoing President leading the way for the Incoming President
Seeing these two men together really gives a true story of what Nigerians are passing through.
Nigeria really deserves better.
PoliticsRe: 'All Known PDP & APC Members Are Not Welcome In LP” - Billboard by bong4(m): 7:37pm On Apr 28, 2023
Nzogbu2012:
But Una welcome Doyin Okupe ....

Who came to deplete the bank treasury of the Labour Party... Yeye people everywhere
And what happened to him when he was discovered? Were it to be other parties, wouldn't they have hidden the case.
PoliticsRe: 'All Known PDP & APC Members Are Not Welcome In LP” - Billboard by bong4(m): 7:36pm On Apr 28, 2023
Penguin2:
“All known PDP and APC members are not welcome in Labour Party” this billboard reads.

I wonder what state this is?

I would want to guess it’s Abia where power has gone into the hands of Labour Party and career politicians would want to migrate their so they can continue having a bite of the public pie.
Exactly how it should be!!
PoliticsRe: Abike Dabiri Knelt Down To Greet Tinubu & Emir Of Kano-photo by bong4(m): 1:09pm On Apr 28, 2023
sarrki:
Abike dabiri erewa Dg diaspora knelt down to greet Asiwaju bola Ahmed Tinubu and Emir of Kano

I can’t but love yoruba culture
For this to make front page implies she is doing it for the first time in her life and that is definitely "eye service"
PoliticsRe: Court Grants Idara Gold Bail - Pictures by bong4(m): 1:05pm On Apr 28, 2023
Reality3080:
at least she don learn her lesson by fire by thunder now since she wants to clout chase

Before u run your mouth, do same thing she did first so we can see if u ain’t a coward
I am sorry for you. Really, really sorry for you. The rain will soon beat on your roof!
PropertiesRe: ₦500 Million Lagos House Causes A Stir Online by bong4(m): 2:39am On Apr 25, 2023
Skiborobo:
If you're a man and you can't buy this please don't come near me
Eyahhh!!!! No wonder you are "confused and can't buy ordinary Dell battery".
PoliticsRe: Obidients Raise 2 Million Naira in 3 hours To Release Chude by bong4(m): 6:26am On Apr 21, 2023
TakeNigeriaBack:
Chude must learn by FORCE that spreading FAKE news may NOT be tolerated by EVERYBODY. Some people will make you pay for lying against them. Thank You Chief Offor for take on the task of teaching this obi-diot a serious lesson. May he rot in jail for a very long time.
Neither should this nonsense you just posted here be tolerated.
SportsRe: Hiba Abouk: I Need Time To Digest The Shock – Hakimi’s Wife Breaks Silence by bong4(m): 5:10am On Apr 20, 2023
Jennyclay:
The most funny thing about this Hakimi saga is that broke, poor and wretched men that don't even have single property are the ones putting this matter on their head like gele undecidedundecided. #1 they don't have, they can't even send common 5k to their girlfriend/wife to buy common body cream.

Shame!! Shame!! Shame!!!!!!
If body cream were common, every woman would afford it without any male assistance.
EducationRe: LAUTECH Bans Students From Driving Cars On Campus (pics) by bong4(m): 8:42pm On Apr 19, 2023
BeanmanX:
The way these useless students intimidates lectures in the universityby flaunting expensive cars, why won't they ban students from using cars?
Very laughable saying that students intimidate lecturers.
Such lecturers have very low self esteem of themselves.
PoliticsRe: It’s Only Proper To Zone Senate Presidency To South-south — PANDEF by bong4(m): 7:49pm On Apr 19, 2023
affable4:
SE, SS, always fighting for crumbs.
Don't mind them. Useful idiots. If they aren't good for the Presidency, then they shouldn't be good for anything else.

Let Ahmad Lawan continue.
PoliticsRe: Fashola Speaks On Tinubu’s Alleged Dual Citizenship (Video) by bong4(m): 10:31am On Apr 17, 2023
DOptical:
Guinea citizenship that has Nigeria Lagos as the province? Fashola didn't answer the question bcause you've got to provide proven facts first, not trash! He's a legal practitioner who knows this! Not a riffraff.

That's why I said social media needs to be restricted like South Korea and Japanese. Writing trash in the name of Cloutshasing shouldn't be a career. This is for David hundeyin and his likes. In saner clime, such people would find themselves in prison! Same David hundeyin was sent out of Oxford university for libel and fraud! That's a sane clime.

Some worthless talentless people would just come on social media to write trash for clout chasing.. In a sane clime, such people would found their useless ass in prison! Imagine the nonsensical social media craziness these days.

Anyone without a certified journalism degree with registered media house has no business writing trash! Even at that, you have to come correct! Lots of things need to be in place TBH. Even our legislators who don't have law degrees and Bar exam excellence have no business there! Politics shouldn't be a career! Neither is clout chasing!
Where Lagos was mentioned was actually referring to his Place of Birth. It doesn't put Lagos under Guinea. Having dual citizenship shouldn't be a crime or barrier to aspire for leadership position.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 2) On 16th April 2023 by bong4(m): 2:22pm On Apr 16, 2023
Winterhaven:
Arsenal shuld be happy they made top 4. As for winning the epl, that's a pipe dream for them. They are no match for city.
You just sounded like an APC supporter
PoliticsRe: Federal Gov’t Denies Bailing Peter Obi Out Of Detention In UK by bong4(m): 5:47am On Apr 14, 2023
StOla:
Hahahaha!

Obi waka about go find international disgrace and shame.



From a defeated presidential candidate who was a desperate ticket hunter that did not care about the political process, to becoming a detained suspect, to eventual deportation.

DDD = D3

This guy has badluck following him about like his black clothes.
Shouldn't you be ashamed of yourself?

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