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Lollittaa:
I heard dark chocolate is good.

That's the chocolate I meant.

Even just cocoa helps.

DubaiLandLord1:
Is she not suppose to stay away from sweet things like chocolate

I believe most people find chocolate comforting and feel better after the indulgence. I've never heard about sweet things. Does sugar increase period pains?

Lollittaa:
He's the regular pervert. And he doesn't deny it. Period fetish kwa? What is that?

Some of the questions about how many pads you use per day and other details are things that arouse some men. Not even the ones asking, but some reading. Period fetishists.

Lollittaa:
I'm a little bitty bit older than that
Why do you want to know my age?

That's a creep. Maybe has a period fetish .

And please, don't take so many painkillers.

dannex4adx:
Let's talk privately. I have a solution for it.

Say it here so that she can see it.

Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

Sorry about this, dear.

I understand exactly how debilitating it is. You need to see a specialist and get to the root cause of the pain.

Some things that help: eating more veggies, hot water bottle, soak in the bath, ice cream and loads of chocolates.

angelfallz:
Guys I recently purchased mouka foam comfy, not up to 2 months. But already it is soft and causing me waist pains. I was lead to believe that mouka foams are firmer and lasts longer than vitafoam. Did I purchase the wrong brand or mouka comfy is not for me?

Make use of the warantee and return it to them.

StupidDrunkard:
Bros please don’t waste your time replying her, most of her posts are anti-male gender,this is someone that says all males are attracted to kids sexually. Such a person can never see logical reasons with you. She seems to have an emotional problem with men and she’s bringing it to this beautiful and educative thread.
Please ignore her

More diversions.

And from the o.losho beer parlor to boot.

Be so kind and post where I said all males are attracted to kids sexually, and I will repost some of the things the strongest voices that claim women are preferentially treated in tech dropped. Most of the people saying it are anti-female/misogynists going by their posts.

This thread has become a whining pot for men.

Guys are suffering in tech! Boohoo. Why wouldn't they be looking for laptops when the ratio of men in tech is way more than that of women? If you had the same number of women, they would also be looking for laptops. They are, but they are much fewer. Or wait, women get free laptops to get trained on all the time. Some of you have emotional problems with women.

Imagine a boys club in which women hired in tech only know the barest minimum, because it's too hard to believe they could actually know more than that.

Are we talking about the logic that only men are custodians of still? The logic that means only what men say about women in tech is real?

The only problem you have with inclusion is simply that the included people are women. If it were gays you wouldn't mind if they were recruited from Mars in place of you.

But you're right.

Do the ignoring thing. Truth hurts. After all, in your world, women are second class humans. Life is so unfair to men.

Hyerin:
Men are still stuck in the stone age. They've refused to grow and learn and actually adapt to changes that's why they keep on romanticizing and reminiscing about the past because then, misogyny was the state of things. Women suffered in silence and accepted their lot in life while they enjoyed the deification that came with simply possessing a phallus. Now that those days are largely gone and won't ever come back, they've embraced being perpetually stagnated and angry at the world now that their characters and behaviours are questioned thus, highlighting their inadequacies and deficiencies. They can no longer run under the cloak of "protector and provider" for shield since women work now. They can no longer make it a personality; they now have to actually develop one and this has left them shattered and disillusioned.

It honestly beats me how men's thinking sometimes defies logic yet, they're still afforded the grace of being seen as "logical" even by women. Taking care of a child they helped create is seen as a chore and they feel, they're not as equally responsible. It's asinine the way they treat their seed; a part of them. If they don't want to be responsible for caring for their kids then they should simply not reproduce. A child needs loving and nurturing from both parents and when it's deprived from one side, problems set in. Alot of maladjusted people won't be the way they are if they had loving fatherly figures in their lives. Not one who drops school fees money and feels that's the only requirement needed; the height of parenting. Even when they are actively involved, they think it's praiseworthy. The barest of minimums.

How can one like your post 1000 times? You are an automatic rifle.

We know they only want the stone age just to shame women into the old way of things where they aren't questioned and are worshipped. They don't like to bring the steak home, though. Or build the cave. Lest they die first. They want to marry much younger women and still don't want to die first. They want to cheat time, too?

For starters, the topic is a stupid one and highlights how lazy and selfish a lot of men are. Is there some manual that says only women are to deal with sick and stool without feeling the same way men feel about such things? Just 3 months and hear how challenging it is to their masculinity.

I've been saying it for a while on the forum. Without money, what exactly do Nigerian men have that is desirable? Usually nothing. Extract money from them and all you will have is an egotistic misogynist Neanderthal with nothing appealing.

This is why when they are broke their true self is laid bare and the women bolt. Or after spending so much on her, a lady dumps them. They think women are stupid and desperate not to know these things. So much for being the custodians of logic. Instead of acknowledging the truth, they begin their useless red pill manipulations and look for how to remain the same they've been.

The day is coming when men will be scrutinized and treated with the same standards they impose on women.

Ogechi?

Hyerin:
This is actually ideal because marriage is a joint venture. Both the wife and husband hands' need to be on deck in home affairs. The wife is not a slave. There's nothing wrong in washing your OWN baby's clothes as a FATHER. It is your responsibility to care for your OWN child in all areas not just financially. This is why most children grow up and don't give a shit about their fathers because the man never made any attempts to actually care for them physically and emotionally.

Honestly, with the way most men sound like they're doing women (their wives) a ground-shaking favor by taking care of their own children, you'd wonder if we're dealing with people with humanity. Don't be surprised those 3 months are the only 3 months in which he will ever do anything remotely physically caring in the baby's life. Yet he will make such a huge deal of it.

Most of such comments are from little boys.

The machismo reeks of insensibility.

reXurrectionZA:
Good morning yall
I'm rex im an art lover and im also a student I've loved making drawings of my own since i was younger but i was dis Couraged because i was always tearing books and all. But recently ive been trying to improve my drawing skill here ill keep y'all updated on my.progress...

Following. Let's see how you develop.

Your first 3D drawing, how did you get the shading done?

donsolo4u2c:
LALASITCALA IS A WICKED ADMIN!
I QUIT BLOGGING BECAUSE OF LOW TRAFFICK. MY POST ARE BEEN REMOVED FROM FRONT PAGE. IF I BLOG IMPORTANT NEWS IT WILL B E REMOVED AND WHEN PEOPLE COPIED HE WILL APPROVE IT. UR JUST A WICKED SOUL AND I CANT TAKE BECAUSE OF IT AND WISH YOUR BEAUTIFUL KID EVEIL. LET THE SINS OF THE FATHER BE UPON THE FATHER. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY PRECIOUS DAUGHTER

How do you expect him to respond when his name is misspelled? He may not know you posted this.

tosinhtml:
Hiring and interviews are watered down for women in US tech market and some newly Nigerian tech markets, especially women of color, Muslim women or women who are in the marginalized groups like LGBTQ etc. This watered down approach is something i support fully and i believe is for the good of everyone.

If you say it's watered down, then it is. You are right.

Women are unqualified and should not ordinarily be given inclusion in tech, likewise other minorities. Every woman in tech is there just because she's a woman. Standards were thrown in the bin for her sake. Women are employed for supposed emotional benefits, because all women make stuffy men groups more lovely. Otherwise they are incapable of anything in tech.

Says only contributions from one end.

Well, you've tried to look down from the condescending men's podium to at least answer one of the questions. There's less testosterone talking and more sense to it.

Go ahead and tell us how everything in tech is watered down for women. We'd all appreciate that unique recruitment insight.

And if it's inclusion we are still talking about, let it not be called watering down but its true name.

airsaylongcome:
Totally agree with a lot of your points Bratislava. I was talking with someone over the weekend. Nigerian male based in Edinburgh. And short of calling him a dummy, his colleagues see him as just being a beneficiary of pro-black employment. Affirmative action as the Americans call it. This is someone that is supremely good o. He has to everyday "fight" to prove his worth

You seem to understand what I'm saying.

That's what women in men dominated fields face. You can see over 85% of employees in a place are men, and they ask for just one qualified woman and all the men begin to call it preferential treatment and watering down and act like she's there by other means. But is that really what it is? This is like the classroom all over again.

Wish there was more literacy/understanding of inclusion and representation here. All I can see is personal conflict with those 2 concepts—inclusion and representation— that prevents even answering the simplest of questions. Anything contrary to the sentiment is deemed an argument.

I do not believe women are given preferential treatment or that recruiment processes are watered down for them. That is a myth.

I have left the thread for more knowledgeable bias contributors.

plat0:
Do you work in tech or you just want to argue for the fun of it. Females are treated preferentially in tech and I've experienced it twice this year. I'm in a closed tech group, the seniors are always willing to take in females under their tutelage, junior guys are left to find their path. Few weeks ago, a senior DevOps engineer in our network specifically requested for a female for immediate employment, a female acquaintance applied and she got in notwithstanding the fact that she had minimal DevOps experience.

I'm not interested in furthering these comments on the thread.

You all sound like inclusion is preferential treatment. If an inexperienced man were selected, would you think the same way?

If you were qualified and in an organization full of whites, you wouldn't call it preferential treatment if their inclusion policy involves promoting qualified blacks. Guess they would've watered down their standards by employing you in the first place, because you're black and don't fit.

I have a lot of instances to debunk your claims, but evidently this is a men's thread and nothing else goes. The questions are still unanswered.

Certainly women can't know anything and are preferentially treated in tech as a rule of thumb.

And they said chivalry was dead.

Magnoliaa:
Co-asked, my sis.

Kini radarada.

Dem dey tok about person wey dey shame women online, yet his real life is nothing to write home about, huncle turn philosopher and Zen master telling us about the importance of nature yada bla yada.

Even the person for the picture, he look like person wey voluntarily opt of city life make he go dey kill snakes for bush?

Misogyny can make men defend anything and I mean anything! And they'd twist 450°, obtuse and acute style just do it, while hiding under the cover of intelligence.

The internet is the only place they come to find relief and transfer aggression as they are all mosd in real life, on way or the other.

Ladies no really troll that guy well gan to my liking, because a lot of them aren't here anymore or are blind to and unmoved by the slurs already. Dem troll am reach weeks? How many topics were created on his head?? He get luck say nobody get time. Even you sef, Iyae.be and the other ladies that I know who make inflaming comments didn't bother about him.

They are all who/what?

Do you mean that guy killing snakes on the forest floor?

It's obvious disappointment from females in his immediate environment made him that way. Bestiality must be outlawed, though.

pocohantas:
Maybe there is something we don’t know na. Anything the black man touches he destroys. Be it a living or non-living thing.

LMAO

Arsenate:
Lmfao, well said. To add to that, of the 1600 chess grandmasters, only 36 (2.25%) are females. That's chess, a game of the smarts.

Are you among the 1564 grandmasters? Or are you playing housewife somewhere?

pocohantas:
No mind them. Once they hear multiple dating, they start having palpitations and reminding women their toto would suffer. One would wonder if their pricks are cursed or built to inflict pain and ruins.

LMAO! I needed this!

What won't one read on this forum?

WisdomHunter:
I have said this many years ago

White wedding is an European culture, their tradition wedding

But because they brought this Christianity that we carry for head that is putting many confusion in our society and attached their tradition marriage to it, it automatically becomes our a must do.

How is it their tradition? Is Europe one culture/tradition?Or you think each European country doesn't have its own traditional wedding rites? You people just like spreading falsehoods because the idea of a wedding where men have all the rights is appealing to you via the so called traditional wedding. You can do your traditional wedding without trying to discredit what you call the white wedding every single time.

The "white" wedding is simply a unification of several cultures under one banner.

The topic is an overflogged pointless one.

More devil's advocacy and the need to try so hard to be different.

If there were money available, half the people against it would be for it.

Plus, all this is just a desperate bid to give support to polygamy, cheating, and refusal to pay alimony by claiming African traditions. That's why local Nigerian men hate court unions and what they call white weddings. It's nothing about traditions. Just trying to escape responsibility by bringing out the savagery of "I did a traditional wedding so I can..."

You'll wonder if they hate modern education, church, phones, clothes and other things they've copied from white people. Because they're also a waste of time and money.

osuofia2:

many daft Naira landers commenting that what the man did is not a crime, na because many of nna never serve or go jail before. A law is a law. Why the hell will you text married woman babe.
FYI
''INFORMAL
a sexually attractive young woman.
"he's been pumping up his pecs to impress the babes"
2.
INFORMAL
an affectionate form of address, typically for someone with whom one has a sexual or romantic relationship.
"hey babes, I know it is unscrupulous and underhand, but don't blame me!

Surprised that people call people of the opposite sex babe, my wife, when they aren't in a relationship. Typical Nigerian misuse of words.

Lollittaa:
where to? Drop 13500 jor

1,350

Lollittaa:
just kidding about the pant jor. But 13500 for bra. Must be quality sha
I know cooooooks will buy one for his Lolitta.

Lol. I'm glad I'm off the hook.

Childofaking:
Does not identify as male or Female, what is she doing with breast then ?

They also need to address how they should be addressed. He or she or shim ?

The individual was born with the breasts and beards, as you can see, and probably both or one type of genitals. It would be easier to take a pick a gender, but they should be allowed to be neither if that is how they were born and are comfortable with it. I kind of feel sorry for them, living this long with all kinds of bullying. Wonder if they had children or a steady relationship. If they are happy at last.

Hope this won't bring up people who will take advantage of the status, possible "transintersexuals".

Lollittaa:
for ladies with melooonns. I have just apples jor
Iron pant dey too.

Kindly describe the latter. I'm reading things here

Lollittaa:
iron bra

Or one big enough to fit the world? Maybe the extra yards make it seemingly expensive.

genaro2000:
This statement of yours does show that you are not trying to learn like you claim, you are trying to find faults and argue with someone already working in the industry. If you are not satisfied with what he said, you can do your research

If you aren't recruitment, how do you know the criteria used in employing females? It's not an argument, but a search for the truth.

This area is full of too much myth and very much personal sentiment. Someone (factually) mentioned he deals with ATS, and gender is one of the things excluded from the selection process to keep it fair.

So how is it then stated as fact that females are employed through watered down processes, while males have full scrutiny? Is that how recruitment works? Is tech divided into male and female tasks? Or is inclusion the watering down?

If you have answers, feel free to let us know. As I said, this is all about learning.

Lollittaa:
Omo, I saw bra 13,500. I lost focus. Bratislava will buy this one for me

Eh? What kind of bra is that?

You want us to do your assignment for you? At what cost?

For starters, look at your formulas and your knowns. It will give you a clue. Then read the questions carefully. Is it a closed or open system? Isentropic, isobaric, etc?

What kind of lecturer is that? Is he a Dr or Prof, and why is he so broke and vengeful like that?

Get proof of him demanding the bribe from you.