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FORWARDEVERLY:
Red pill is a cult and they are narcs ??


Lol..
FYI feminist and their movement is a cult and all of them are narcissistic and Toxic..

Education on their origins, methods and what they teach will enable you to distinguish what each is. One is a cult, the other an inclusive necessity.

You can guess which one is inclusive, and it's not the narcissist mgtow, redpill, etc, which is a male superiority cult very similar to the KKK.

But it's okay jesha.l/etc. You don't have to accept the truth.

This thread only reminds us of Pocohantas talking about foreign graves.

Lollittaa:
[color=teal]its a pandemic of absurdities! The other one is asking me if I've been 17 before, stvpid questions by sick minds. I'm thoroughly disgusted. [/color]

That is the reality. Many wear human skin yet are everything but within. And they will keep posting to defend indefensible things.

bepositive11:
Please shut the f*ck up!!!!! How the hell can you turn the blame away from the man and to the woman and daughter?? ? If his daughter changes in front of him, can't he open his mouth and tell her to stop?? ? You sound like someone who would do something like what that man did to his daughter!!!

That girl is scared for life!!! She will never have normal relationships ever again. She will have trust issues with men. And so many more

Sexual abuse may last for a few minutes, but the effects last a life time. The fact that he is her father -- the man who is meant to set the standard for how she should expect men to treat her makes it even more psychologically damaging

If he can't be a proper father, he should've never taken on the role

I'm so pissed off with you. Your comment is so ignorant and insensitive. You have no empathy for the girl. F*ck off!!!!!

Something men cannot understand. Some of them who trivialize it could have siblings who are facing or have faced such.

Mindlog:
Your perspective holds no water before sane minds nor before the legal system.

The girl is not GUILTY in any way, she is the one defiled by HER FATHER...she DID NOT RAPE her father.

You are dealing with Nigerian mens minds. On a sex matter.

TruthTella:
@when it comes to sexual matters that is when they lose all form of rational thinking and start reasoning like selfish animals

They have made up all sorts of excuses for the father in this thread. There is no excuse they have not used to justify what he did.

I cant even take males seriously or have any kind of respect for them after witnessing the degeneracy they always operate with in sexual matters.

The problem is that most of them have committed those unlawful sexual acts, so they are trying to keep to the bro code and not out another man who is facing exposure and/or the law for the same sexual misdemeanor. It's professional courtesy.

In any matter that involves a man and woman, you can be sure that the men don't want to hear anything from the woman and will take anything the man says. Just because he's a man and must be right at all times.

A lot of evil passes under the bridge once sex is involved and a man did it unlawfully. You can't take men serious on any such topic. They will do backflips and spin their brains through lathes, anything at all to make sure he isn't held to full accountability.

Lollittaa:
[color=magenta]its an "us vs them" mindset, a compulsive need to defend their gender, even in the most vilest of crimes[/color]

So true.

Most of the comments here are the "what if it was me caught that time I did so and so" types.

That is why rather than giving a true response they come up with sentimental alternatives to the law and justice.

Once men begin to talk like that, just know they've done the same or similar and don't want to judge because they are guilty. And many of them are guilty. Very many.

Parisian:
Lmao....funny how they've already said the bolded.

They are predictable.

And they never change.

One can only pity females who are at their mercy.

Kedoty:
Thank you all for your advice. I sincerely appreciate you all, I will take from some of the advice and act on it as soon as possible.

I just needed to act fast.

Don't let sentiment override justice.

A great evil has taken place. You were called upon to be a light, not to compromise or to fear.

Remember, this is about justice for the girl. Your brothers feelings and claims can never be justified and mean nothing. It is the feelings of the girl that matter.

Legendrysailor:
I have always been against u on this forum for certain reasons, but bro u are on point on dis one. Am sorry for d negative comments I made against u.

Why were you against him?

Parisian:
Okokobioko

We indulge men and their excesses too much in Nigeria.

Imagine if roles were reversed and his wife did this, you O.P would've been the one to help your bro and pack out his wife's property out of your brother's house but since it was a man that did this spirit of confusion has entered you and you've suddenly lost your voice and don't know how to handle the issue.

You have said it all.

These people will try their hardest to diminish the crime and pamper the man.

He must be passing through a lot, you know. He may have some family problems, you know. Maybe the wife didn't give it to him, you know.

Be ready to hear them talking about treading with caution. Men are evil when it comes to sexual matters. They will try to support the man. You will soon hear how it's a family matter.

EbenezerTriumph:
don't let me face you have else you'd regret it.
you're a disgrace and shame to the male gender

It is well.

EbenezerTriumph:
you're such a useless simp.
dumb ass

One of the hate-filled incels.

They get hard when you don't mention them first. Then use that sexual charge to come online and post rubbish for themselves.

Go and print out your WAEC examination results and stop looking for attention.

chatinent:
If I've dated her and known such, we wouldn't have done it.

That's my point; information.

If you hadn't been kissing her publicly, you should know better than to try it suddenly on the wedding day. And to continue repeatedly when it's clear she's embarrassed by such.

PDA isn't a must. You know these things already without having to talk about it. Unless in a relationship you only think of what you want and what you need, not the other person.

chatinent:
What stops her from telling me beforehand so we could skip that part?

You've dated her and you know she doesn't like such, yet you want to force her to in order to impress onlookers. She's not ready to kiss in front of people.

PDA isn't a must.

AmazonTopaz:
You deserve one bottle of Tequila.

Bring two glasses, please. Been long I drank socially.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Which religion?

You think only men exhibit the behaviors in the OP?

Who nurture these men?

You already know which religion(s).

Not only men exhibit them, but it is men who frequently do and hide narcissism under being men and taking the wheel of other people's lives. They call it leadership. When exhibited by women they paint it as tyranny, lack of submissiveness (the horror) and pure, concentrated Jezebelic evil.

Other men nurture them. That is why they refer to non-narcissistic men as "mummy's boys", simps, etc.

Are you done with the questions? Or will the one-sided exchange continue?

chatinent:
If you embarrass me like this, I'll take the mic and call off the wedding.


Go and meet that your ex you are shy of. Nonsense and ingredients.

Not everyone wants PDA.

The way men on this thread act like everyone must want to kiss in public is ridiculous. If she doesn't want to, it means she must be forced into the marriage, or cheating, or angry that it's not her ex.

What if she doesn't mind doing it away from the cameras?

bukatyne:
@bold:

By nature or nurture?

Innately they aren't unless they were always one. Have a look at children.

Until societal expectations confines they created for themselves get the better of them, men would be themselves as they were born, not made to be. Left to nature, we would get the same spectrum of men and women.

Unfortunately, religion causes a form of nurture narcissism in males. Followed by cults like the red pill which advocates making men narcs so that they can subjugate women in order to remain "superior". These nurtured people are irrational about it.

Meanwhile society is always nurturing women to be subservient/submissive, to be the supply for the narcs (men). When they don't fit, we hear things like wicked women, egotistic women, masculine women, etc. There's nothing like that.

Nurture it is.

pansophist:
Yes but a tougher adversary is one with an INFJ personalities. The INFJ are natural psychologist, have an extra sensory perception than the average person, are naturally brilliant to such a degree and highly empathetic. They are emotionally aware, and see the world in a dimension that others can not see. They are super analytical, and can spot danger from afar.

They notice pattern and cruise mentally in a level most people don't even know existed. They are linguistically blessed, a goal getter and hold themselves to such a high degree of accountability. People like (MLK, Mandela, Carl Jung,) are examples of INFJ personalities. See those folks? You don't mess with them. They are naturally kind, like the messiah of the masses because their life journey is mostly tied with the salvation of humanity, but also, they are a force to reckon with if they want to use their natural skills for the force of evil.

Narcs target and love this INFJ kind, because narcs typically are drawn to people they can drain from, but the opposite side of these INFJ folks is their ability to sense things and too smart for a dumb narcs, because narcs are dumb. A well-educated, articulate INFJ person is like a hot pot melting a butter, narcs hate them. Also, it's important to note that INFJ personality types are rare, they make up like two percent of humanity.

People like NMK is an INFJ, I have diagnosed him from afar and he possesse such qualities, he sees things others do not see, and opened Nigerian eyes to the workings of the government, hence he has to be extradited even under extra ordinary rendition. If an INFJ decides to torment you, only a bullet in their head, or your God will save you. Read more about them, you'll be marvelled. So to these folks narcs are amateur, just wasting their time on a perceived victim that is too big to bully.

You really want INFJs to beat up all the narcissists out there. Did you encounter anyone who made you aware of them?

I get your point, though. There are some people who see through bullshit immediately, while the rest can take years to catch up to what they know. Especially the ones who can see through character.

gpercuxionz:
Prophet of Doom

Once they are full of doom, know that they are fake.

Once they are too self-righteous, know that they are committing unforgivable sins.

The worst set of people on this planet are fake pastors.

When will all these false pastors stop threatening people with strange fire, so that they will not be exposed?

When they lie, cheat, sexually molest females under their care and do all manner of evil to other people, they never remember there is anger at the altar.

May that altar punish all of them.

Cousin9999:
People really abuse that term (narcissist). It's enough to call someone toxic. You don't need to attempt to diagnose them. And once you've identified negative behaviors and unwillingness to change, move on.

It's also important to date someone for a while. Unless someone is a sociopath, they can't really hide who they are for very long. It's a compulsion for toxic people. That said, people can change. But they have to want it, and actively work towards it. And it may involve medication.

Also, toxic people may be happy with other toxic people. Some people actually live well like this. They like each other's mild dysfunction. Some toxic people need to admit who they are and what they prefer, and stop trying to build relationships with those who aren't toxic.

It may not be politically correct, but people from certain backgrounds are more likely to be toxic. If you don't want any parts of dysfunction, you may want to be careful about choosing certain partners. Right or wrong, people born into chaos/dysfunction often find it harder to emerge from it as healthy people. Dysfunction can come from poverty, culture, instability, trauma, less education, or other problems. It's not that you can't have a good relationship with these people. It's that your chances are lower.

Isn't that the character of a narc? To think they can change another person to suit themselves?

Most men are narcissists, and they call it being born to lead.

pansophist:
They can, and they make the worse narcisst. Deadlier than any kind of narcisst. And its because INFJ personality types are the god of manipulation, narcissistic people are amateurs and nothing but pencils in their hands.

Think of some of the most renowned folks that deal and wrote extensively about narcs, you'll see that they are INFJ (eg Carl Jung). InFJ are natures balancers to narcissism. If you want a narc to shit on his pants, match with a INFJ that is aware. Narc are only useful to people that don't know them. I deal with them. Well.

I feel any personality can be drawn to narcissism, because it's a mental state.

olu77:
Okay I agree with you and her on whatever valid message she was trying to pass. Those set of Nigerian girls that love to reap where they did not sow should change. Can you agree with me that she went too far with her outburst? I think I might have gone too far to address it too, even though some it was sarcasm. Two wrongs will never make a right anyway

All this talk about reaping where they did not sow, there are so many men commenting who want to be with a woman who will take care of all their needs. It's not a women thing. It's a men and women thing. It's just that Nigerian men have made a habit of pointing fingers at their women, while they conveniently hide their own intentions and massive flaws.

For that reason most of the talk on this thread, and from the man's sister, is pointless.

cococandy:
Nothing to add

But their self hate is so debilitating that they can’t reason

The thread reeks of men without focus.

The first pages were one-sided gloating from hypocrites. It's obvious most of them don't know anything about white women, and make unsubstantiated claims about Nigerian women.

pansophist:
I can relate. It takes me just a week to know that this sweet girl that is in front of me was a narcissist, even worse, she suffers from Princess syndrome join. But I first doubted it, I knew something was off. So I was observing, entering a month, then it becomes clear. My next strategy was to exit, but again, you want to exit in such a way that they can not revenge because they are very vengeful and to hurt them deeply, treat them with indifference.

You only need to experience one narc, to know them. They are perfect chameleons, and always target good guys, but very stupid. Their behaviours can only go far with people that are insecure. If you're self assured, autonomous and not insecure, they will have nothing over you. This emotional vampires can easily be spotted by INFJ personality types.

"INFJ" can't be narcissists themselves?

Raalsalghul:
Honestly, a bad woman is a bad woman regardless of race.

However, she's very correct on the entitlement mentality of Nigerian ladies/girls who will rather find ways to milk you rather than saying "No they're not interested".

You meet a Nigerian lady today and suddenly: her phone is spoilt, data exhausted, hostel rent/school fees due, they ramble on and on at dates about how their partners must take care of them. I could go on and on.

So I don't blame Nigerian men who extol white women because in relationships with them, all that's required is just being on your best behavior: "no urgent 2k or my birthday is approaching and the likes". Meanwhile, as a black you must've attained some level if success before they'll consider you as their partners.

Nonetheless, Nigerian men are still to blame for the entitlement of their women. You need to go to the D.M of these young ladies and see what the men (stupidly rich ones I mean) are offering to spend time with them, they in turn mostly use this standard on any potential partners that comes their way. The fact that only actresses are buying cars and houses should give you a hint on what I'm saying. Also, there's a reason why this complains are coming from the average guys.

Secondly, poverty in the land jare no thanks to bad leadership. It affects both male and female, but our women don't care.

So why did white men invent the red pill?

Did they invent it for Nigerian women?

You people should stop lying to yourselves.

The difference when a black man dates a white woman, is that he puts all his bullshit away so as not to offend her, because she's white. He's ready to become domesticated and lose his toxic male traits in order to gain the white prize and stay in her good books, thus keeping the peace. He's ready to drop his ego and become humble. She's an exotic creature to him. One he must keep at all costs.


Most will stay with a bad white woman because she's white.

And believe it or not, there are white women who do exactly what you think Nigerian women do. That is why some lost white men created the red pill movement—for white women. White women. Not Nigerian ones. The saintly white ones. The ones who can never do wrong by black (Nigerian) men.

RodgersAkpafu:
This your comment just dey make me laugh

Hopefully not the monster D rumor part.

Men wanted women to contribute. Now they are contributing to society the way men always have. Let's see if it is worthy to be swept under the carpet.

MrColdsweat:
Everyday I pray to God to help nigeria so that nigerian men can travel and explore the women of other nations and see that by dating Nigerian women, they've been eating shiit..

If Nigerian men explore women of other nations, Most Nigerian women will die single.

The opposite is more true.

If not for BBC rumors, what white women would want to be with a domineering Nigerian man with all his infamous attributes?

It's just that Nigerian men tend to become dumb and mellow once they see white women. They know that can't please them with the brutish ways they treat Nigerian women. Check any such relationship. The man is usually doing everything he wouldn't for a black woman, in order to keep the white woman. Because white skin is the prize.

Nigerian men would die single if more Nigerian women moved on to white men and men of other nations who would treat them much better.

CHoccolaTE:
Ignore those frustrated animals, poverty and joblessness has twisted their necks and they are now looking for females to transfer agression to.

LMAO. What a comment.