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Dextre:
Actually you were making sense until the whole all black men gotta offer was sex. Cmon mehn, don’t you think u are mixing the gender up(all black women have to offer is sex) there u go, I fixed it. You can continue your protest

All black men have to offer is sex.

They want black women to handle their lives for them.

Go through threads and see the only thing that triggers them: sex. Sex and the fantasy that they are highly desirable.

That is why Africa is undeveloped. White men are setting the trends, black men are talking about sex, having sex, and badmouthing females.

If Jeff bezos were black, he would never have left the Earth's crust. He would've been hating on his ex-wife and anyone female, and thinking of sex only.

Humanoid01:
This isn't a gender thing, must you all make it seem that way? Did the OP restrict the storytelling to just males? What is wrong with you toxic people? Why can't people have a discussion without this gender thing springing up all the time?

This is a sign of bitterness. You think you're quenching the fire by always venting on the matter, but the truth is you're just throwing logs on it. Make una dey calm down abeg. Nor be everything be fight.

It's a gender matter. Go through the first pages and see males giving themselves e-high fives on obvious lies, as they try to put females down.

How is it that it's only girls who they have a lot of stories about, how the girls are always hungry, ugly and broke? Obviously made up to paint females black. Who are all the beautiful females around?

Why is it that females never have time to write about the ugly, broke men who they have given money to out of pity? Or the ones who were so disappointing when they met them in person?

The misogyny stinks.

Explorers:
The CLS vanished within seconds while the Lexus driver loses control and crashed.

See video:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CR7Qdn4J9I3/?utm_medium=copy_link

Lol.

What a misplaced competition.

Lamanii22:
Yeah and the reason I agreed to meet him was because he is living too far from my neighborhood... I was catching feelings but he just wanted to hit and run lol.... But I never gave in.. so he jakpa from me... He is in the US now lol

He's capable of coming online with a story to badmouth you, not what you say happened.

There are loads of empty Nigerian men stationed around the world. Empty, nasty, unattractive creatures. It's easy for them to conceal themselves by constantly castigating females, since they are saints.

Another thread in which boys badmouth girls, as if they are perfect human beings loaded with cash till high heavens and so very handsome.

If you ask the girls they met, the story will be different.

From the way some of these boys have posted their pics in the past and called themselves handsome, you will know they're egotistic and empty. Yet you will never see the females come online with such slow threads. That pettiness is reserved for the usual empty males.

The way boys on the forum and beyond spend ages talking about and judging girls is proof that the black man has nothing to offer his world. Except sex. And judging females endlessly.

Another boring misogynist thread.

jesusjnr2020:
Lol!

That's what happens when people, especially men, look everywhere else to apportion blame for their own sins and mistakes but themselves.

They seemed to have continued from where Adam, who blamed Eve in the beginning for his own sin, stopped.

Even men are now a fetish to other men. They should try and limit it to inanimate objects. If this is how they feel, Western men aren't safe.

I didn't think I would be saying it, but they need Jesus urgently.

jesusjnr2020:
What shall we say to these things?

This is worse than the mannequins!

It appears works of self- righteousness such as praying 5 times a day are worthless in keeping hearts clean. How can people constantly be thinking of just one thing only?

Bedtec:
People dey talk Ashawo they talk too... If to say Nigeria good who be this low class bitch that she can be talking to hard working and struggling Nigerian men like she have anything to offer aside rotten pussy

And who said it's only Nigerian men who are hardworking?

You sound just like her. No wonder Africa is backward.

Where is FutureIsFemale?

Many people men castigate what she writes. You would think all men are saints once they claim she's the one who experienced such. Yet, here we are again. It's clear that men are full of sexual insanity. The usual deflectors will come in to deflect and yet this is always a news headline.

Pray, tell, is it the butterflies responsible for this again, since men claim it's not men behind such sickening acts?

May God save Nigerian females. The news is disgusting.

Interesting15:
God is the loving Creator who created everything well and lovely, and sex is not an exception. But the mischievous devil is the master of perversion. The evil devil is in the business of perverting the pleasant things created by Yahweh. The devil has been doing this to serve his own mischievous purposes - basically to steal, kill and destroy.

Sex is God's pleasant idea, and it's meant to serve honourable purposes. The Will of God is this:
"All sexual pleasure should be shared between a man and his married female wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved."

But the devil usually make people go contrary to God's design, getting them defiled and dirty. He is aware sin lures humans out of God's covering and protection, and he gets the chance to plunder the sinner (and even get him killed and send him to hell if he failed to repent). Hence, sex (sexual immorality) has been a trusted tool the devil has been using since the history of man started, to make humans sin against God, there by gaining access to ruin them.

These sexual acts are perversion:

1. Premarital sex (fornication). Having sex when you are not married. 1 Corinthians 6: 18

2. Extramarital Sex (Adultery). Having sex with someone other than your own spouse. Exodus 20:14; Proverbs 6:32-34

3. Homosexuality: Sexual relations between members of same gender, like lesbianism (which is between females) and gayism (which is between males). Romans 1:26-32

4. Pornography And Masturbation. Deriving sexual pleasure from seeing the unclothedness of others; Playing with your sexual organs for sexual pleasures. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

5. Other Immoral Sexual Acts like smooching someone not your married spouse, sextings and the rest of them. Colossians 3:5

To ensure the devil won't get you ruined, you must live a life of holiness and righteousness, devoid of immorality. But you can't do this on your own weak accord - you need God's help.

You can claim God's help when you receive and embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. If you are yet to do this, simply tell Him, "Lord Jesus, have mercy on me and come into my life".

As He gives you the Holy Spirit, He gives you the strength, wisdom and guidance you need to live a life above sin and iniquity. Just yield to Him. You will have to disconnect yourself from people, things and places that can lure you into immorality.

You can always contact me for further resources.

God bless you in Jesus Name Amen.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/07/sex-trusted-tool-in-hands-of-devil.html?m=1

Please, so people who have sexual urges and are unable to get married in their early twenties should stay virgins until whatever age they get married, even if it's 90? Isn't that wickedness? They should do what with the urges as they get older? You people act as if there's some magical cream cake at the end of 30, 40, 80 years of virginity. There isn't. There's no reward for doing good, either.

Some of you preach from convenience. Like a pastor condemning their members for having children out of wedlock, but they have had theirs ages ago and these people were only desperate to get one.

Or a person abroad warning others that it's hard abroad, yet they are abroad.

NewSoul:
I'm sure you must have heard of sexual transmutation and semen retention. Have you tried it? Yeah some occultic people need to have sex constantly to maintain their position. If a man abstains from fornication, masturbation and pornography. There is this drive inside you that will heighten to chase your goals vigorously

Untrue. All one needs is favor and grace.

Some were born to suffer, and others weren't. Even God doesn't intervene in cases of those who were born to suffer. So whether they become celibate or not, it will be.

Otherwise all non virgins would've been destroyed or useless. And they aren't.

Qudsi:
I have no problem with that but what's the next solution you next offered him aside the blames you have repeatedly heaped on him.

I read up there the OP asked if anyone teaches him a skill that he would use in earning to remedy the mistake he has already made.

Why shouldn't he be blamed? He's a so called pastor wannabe.

He already knows what to do. His real aim is to claim he was seduced, thus he is innocent, and put the blames of what happened on the other party. Then get a soft landing from forum members.

From his write up, he's trying to evade responsibility.

NewSoul:
Don't mind them ma, I'm working very hard to be like you. Celibacy and sexual purity will catapult a man to very great height. You're blessed ma

What great height? Most of the great people you see had/have sex without strings. All you said are just things people say when they suddenly feel they need to be celibate. There are so many wretched celibate people and where's the greatness in that?

lusid:
but why do you ladies like tempting innocent men

What if he was the one who tempted her? Sexual indiscretions aren't caused by women.

The man has the penis. Sex won't happen unless he wants it. So you men need to practice what you preach in scriptures and overcome your lusts.

Qudsi:
We see you awon eyan Satan dwarf. Use the opportunity to peddle your antichurch lies.

Anti fake pastors.

The church can exist for all eternity, but those people called fake pastors must be flushed out. Most especially the ones who are lustful and constantly looking for sexual experiences with women under their care.

If you have a problem with that, maybe you're a fornicator who preaches righteousness and Holiness and grace.

mamaluwe22:
. What if you're not the father of that child? You made a mistake but don't let anyone force you into marrying. Go and complete your skills. Things will fall into place eventually

What if he is?

It's better he takes responsibility for the child, rather than coming up after 20 years to try and claim it. That would be sheer wickedness.

It's such acts that create a lifetime of bad blood.

And that is why people use condoms unless when they want to get pregnant together. He will soon tell us he didn't know those exist.

Romanoff:
He did say he was celibate for a while before he fell. The difference between people who fell and people who overcome temptation is that people who overcome temptation sees the temptation coming from far and don't even wait for it to come close. They Flee.

People that fall always think they are in control and can't fall.

But he didn't flee.

He welcomed it.

The lady is just a guilty as he is. It's a pity her penalty is heavier. Could explain her anger.

Romanoff:
Wahala be like POS business, e dey every junction.

Una dey knack for theology school, una no even fear.

The devil is very smart, he just arrnged temptation keep for you for where your journey start, lack of self control didn't allow you see the Potiphar's wife sent to destroy your life.

Worse is while you have hope of going back to the school, she was expelled and now has a baby on the way.

It couldn't have cost you anything to take one or two of your uncles to go see her parents, explain to them that you don't have a job that you're doing now and can't support but they should provide you with a basic list for traditional rites so you can save towards it.

If they are reasonable parents with a daughter who is pregnant out of wedlock, they'd be lenient with the list.

This isn't going to be easy as a job is hard to come by and learning a skill will cost you and mean you can't even earn to support her or the baby.

For those who will stumble on this, if you know your calling or purpose on this earth, flee from sexual sin. Nothing destroys destiny like it.

How is she Potiphar's wife?

He's a fake theologian full of unbridled lust. His sole interest is sex, like all fake pastors. He's the one with the penis. If he said no and walked out, no sex would've happened. He enjoyed himself to completion with Potiphar's wife—without a condom even. He's suddenly remembered the line that he was seduced, yes, with his eyes wide open and his fly open, too. Our theological minds will flash to Jezebel while the meek little lamb he is was roped into a barn and defiled somehow.

Then he decided to keep radio silence, provoking Potiphar's wife's hand with the police. And now he wants to escape marriage to Potiphar's wife, because she's not yet divorced Potiphar.

AfroBeatDiary:
Go and see them before she put to bed, don't wear your best cloth nor your best shoe, go with a friend who should rather dress better than you are. Apologize for not coming earlier, give excuses for this, apologize for the incident , tell them you don't plan it this way either.

Don't go empty handed, atleast go with fruit.

Let your outlook do the talking that you're not ready for marriage.

He wouldn't only be a fake pastor fornicator, like all of them secretly are, but also an unrepentant liar...if he follows this advice.

He knows how to have illicit sex with a Halo, he should know how to deal with the consequences.

Another fake fleshly pastor on the prowl, looking for illicit sex —as usual. If she didn't get pregnant, he would've continued to pretend everything was fine.

Dirty sexually depraved men hiding under the canopy of being pastors, yet full of ego and fornication. Dirty, lustful "holy" men constantly looking for opportunities to have sexual encounters with women under their care. If she didn't agree to, he might've forced himself on her.

May whatever god they call on strike them. Stupid, crooked, perverse fakes. Hiding behind scriptures to defend their evil acts.

ImaIma1:
A woman that loves her man would try to look for ways to reduces stress and spending for him, and not selfishly wanting her way even if it's inconvenient for him.

Yet men can be incredibly selfish and perfectionist when they want to love.

There's no specific way a man or woman is to act about money. Everyone is greedy and selfish. It's not for women to be frugal or men to be frugal. So there's nothing like she has to help him save money and other such stereotypes. It's not a relationship red flag if he wants to spend or she wants to spend. People come from different money backgrounds. If they understand themselves—fine. Not that women must be money pinchers otherwise they are evil and should be cast off.
A Nigerian stereotype that has no meaning.

livingchrist:
There is nothing like toxic feminism, Feminism is Feminism. I laugh at ignorant folks who dont know what feminism is, Just as saying islam extremist.

Feminism is about pushing and using women to enforce the new world order, same way satan used eve to fulfill his plan. That is what they mean by breaking barriers and changing norms, one of the tools used, is changing narratives, which really means manipulating facts to suit whatever message one is pushing, which is in simple terms lying.

Social justice warriors, social media influencers, artist, educationists, religious leaders and generally the elites are what is used to usher in the new world order.

What satan needs is world unity for a single purpose and that is rebellion against God, His son and his plan. This is why God scattered the builders of the tower of babel

The only out of it is through the gospel of Jesus.

#Hell is real, Jesus is real choose one#

Always preaching against women.

If you don't demonize women your post won't be complete.

Same blame throwing. Same ineffective message.

You can never address toxic male chauvinism or the red pill. Those aren't Satanist family-destroying man-made movements practiced by a lot of men. According to your gospel it is women who are solely responsible for evil in the world. Once it is feminism you are all over the place.

It's as if the devil doesn't push men, and the gates of hell are only opened to women. Yet the devil is clearly male.

Your usual license to heap religious blames on women is Eve. So many men will go to hell talking about Eve. A story that happened since creation, the culprits have moved on to another realm, but over 6,000 years later men are still grasping at the straws. If men don't blame and demonize women, what have they achieved?

Such lopsided preaching will never have an effect on viewers. Rather harden them.

Christ was not a lopsided preacher.

If you want people to believe your religion, preach the truth. Not your truth or doctrine. The Truth.

LutanFyah:
You're already hallucinating and mistaking me for someone else.


Calm down, it's not that deep.

Lols

You're pained, nigguh. Very.

Her punanii is enjoying, causing you heartache and making you wriggle into everyone's mentions.

How many people have you quoted on this thread alone in bold and capitalized letters to lament about a vagina you lost? LMAO.

danilmo:
So if I'm asked abt female repro and I answered, contributed my quota , questionair had objection which I succinctly answered means I'm obsessed with virginity..

Pls stay off my mention with ur low budget accusation. The other lady up their sounded better than u..

K.

Raytheon:
100%

It's appalling. And they have this much 'nerve' because it's a faceless forum. But people like him can and will be fished out.

It's only a matter of time.

jesusjnr2020:
Lol! I even missed the name part.

Thanks for pointing it out.

Have a blessed evening.

Amen.

Wishing you the same.

danilmo:
So in ur own small brain men shouldnt ave anatomical knowledge of a female repro system?? With the research, Education, online, Relationship experience u feel knowing the female system by an opposite gender is a taboo?? Why then do female visit male Gynecologist afterall female should know their system more than male, since ur small brain beret reasoning why won't u spill gibberish.

And sorry to say u sound so limited with knowledge, if all u know is confined then ur education is a waste..

You are too obsessed with virginity. If you put in as much effort as you have into vaginas in other things, you would've built a space station.

danilmo:
U that feels having knowledge abt female repros a taboo, then ok, agreed..

Tell us what and what u know then let's discuss.. let's see who is beret of knowledge here..

With ur limited knowledge as u championed I doubt if u can make any reasonable contribution if taken outside ur horizons... Like I said, u're too limited for my likening

K.

Reverse is the case, though.

Hathor5:
Obsession indeed. This is why nothing useful is ever invented or made by them. They will be discussing and monitoring vaginas like the moral police and be useless at the same time.

Lol.

The way they are in search of vagina mileage is a disservice to Western men who are making the world a better place.

This forum is a hotbed of batterers, rapists, pedophiles and murderers. Most hide under misogyny. Some of the people paraded in front page crime topics must undoubtedly be nairalanders.

NAPTIP, FIDA, NHRC and other government bodies should start their investigations here.

Hathor5:
If he had studied anything else as eagerly as he has been studying vaginas he would be the next Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk.

But be nice, he has given us a new definition of virginity.

A man who has never had sex must NOT be called a virgin. I repeat MUST NOT be called a virgin.

A key reason why African men and Asian (Arab) men are backward is their unnatural obsession with sex and women's bodies.

His virginity definition is astonishing. That someone even reasons like that is something unfathomable.

These men need intense reorientation. This is how they go abroad and end up in jail. And abuse minors. And continue the cycle by indoctrinating teenage boys into their demented ways of reasoning.

Hathor5:
Mr Gynecologist, tell us why sex is painful for a virgin.

You would think he has a vagina.

Nigerian men need a lot of healing and reorientation. Their mindsets are troubling. Comment after comment on what sex is like for virgins, coming from men.

At this rate, no female child is safe, if all grown men want to do is deflower girls then turn around to talk about promiscuity in young girls. As if they aren't non-virgins and the reason female virgins are in scarce supply (according to them).

A lot of pedos and rapists on this forum.