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Romanoff:
Yeah. But this post is about girls. When there's a post about raped boys, we will use the same energy.

You can create a post about raped boys too so we can comment about it.

jesusjnr2020:
Hi Bratislava. I trust you're doing great.

One of the things that has benefited me immensely in my walk with God, is not hinge my relationship with Him on any thing else but on Him and what He does or says.

That's why I'm not moved by what people were doing or saying but God, because allowing men's actions to determine my faith, whether they truly be men of God or not, is like building a house on an unsure foundation which could crash at any moment since men were not infallible.

I feel immense pity for the sheep who have to rely on the kind of leaders we have these days in the church, because they've hardly been exemplary, and these has caused many sheep to go astray.

However I don't think it's always warranted, because why must one allow such ones to determine their standing with God or their obedience of His Word?

I know the leaders ought to be better examples themselves, however i believe it's not the wisest thing to let such ones determine one's spiritual life.

I have tasted and I'm fully convinced that whenever anyone walked in obedience to God's Word, such as being sexually pure, that person would surely not lose his reward for God always remembers and rewards those who keep His Word.

Thanks and God bless.

Daveambition:
Chidinma Ojukwu gang..
Inside life, same person wey invite you cruise fit still stage ambush for you.
Geez make use of ur headpan o.


I presume say that Manchi been don dey off im shoes, as per {nacking mode} before the Olosho Olokpa begin stab-stab'am from behind...
This life, nobody gat ur back o...

bestdudes:
LOL... I DON'T BUY INTO HOUSEWIFE SHIIT...

My kids deserve a mother that can solve their homework too... carry your kettle and go clean your anus outside.

bestdudes:
One guy married such a girl. I wonder how many reason sha.. I can't marry that kind person...

The babe still hasn't stopped. Always uploading videos of her dancing and all that. They are often empty headed, can't engage you in any intellectual discourses.

pocohantas:
Oga getaut. No be so you sef dey beg Nlders to rescue you from the mess your manhood put you into? The topics still dey your profile na. No difference between the two of you when it comes to begging. Maybe na wetin bring una two together sef.

apatheticme:
Dude's just so insufferable!

He's still stuck in the stone age.

Btw, How've you been bro??

apatheticme:
Professor!!!

I'm sure you really had to go do some research before coming up with this retort! But it's all good, at least I'm rattling your feathers and putting your lazy brains to some good work!

As with all Partnerships, especially the kinda partnership that exists in marriage/relationship, someone still takes the lead, we call him leader and not necessarily boss! Since it's a team, the team leader can assign tasks, doesn't make him a dictator! Doesn't imply that he doesn't do his own share of every other role!

I'm sure when you were in school (that's if you ever had the opportunity to go to school) or at work (that's if you have one) you'll have been assigned at one time or the other to teams for assignments/tasks etc. Y'all on the team are mates, but someone still assigns tasks or duties to you and we call him or her a team leader, ain't it??

But then you're too in a hurry to display your ignorance to the world!



Of course it will be inappropriate for you now, since you've always been a jobless male who has never been so engaged, busy with work or other engagements that could warrant you asking your partner to go attend to other tasks that come up simply because you've got one pencil deek that makes you be called a man in society!

It would be inappropriate since y'all Hypocritical lots only love to wail about women being useless and only able to offer pvssy! But on seeing one who is actually useful now, and can offer so many things, you panic and start hyperventilating because this particular case challenges the status quo you're already used to, you simply can't wrap your head around it!

Well, you do not get to define inappropriate in my life/relationship/marriage or whatever the heck I choose to do!

I chose to happily carry out those tasks, I'm not complaining! Deal with it! These are the same Hypocritical you in society who come here to condemn women for not being able to have brains or solve problems except the man is there, but you have headache now upon hearing there's actually a female somewhere who can carry out tasks that actually improve the quality of life of herself and family, without disturbing anybody!

Can you see that you are part of our problem in this part of the world!! A white chick does it, oh cool! A black woman does it, it's inappropriate! You're already so threatened that this kinda woman would make you feel less like a man, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Only God knows how y'all males reason in this part of the world! Oh I forgot, you must be an Alfa mail

Inappropriate kee you there, brainless wimp!



Define men's role, oga professor!

At least, your hypocrisy is glaring for everyone to see here quite apparently!

Since when did it become a man's role for a man to stay on top during sex?? Your sex life must be as boring as hell since y'all only stick to missionary in your relationship (that's if you have one and you're not actually gay or MGTOW).

I know say you don jonze for this your miserable life, since your name sef carry jonzing! Carry your jonzing go front oga, this is Monday morning, I'm already at work!

Keep thinking about me throughout today, since I already live rent free in your head!

Ciao!

Ratuk:
The average Catholic doesn't care whether you're Pentecostal or not. How many times have you seen a Catholic trying to convert you to his/her church from another Christian denomination? Can't even understand why the Pentecostals can't form branches of a single Church, even if it's to remove lawlessness. Pastors hitting old women with crutches in the name of healing and we're here talking about hate for Pentecostals. . . No one hates you o

wirinet:
No one here is saying relationships should be by force or pity. She came looking for advice and people are giving their opinions. 3 years is a enough time to decide if you want to marry your boyfriend or not. You seem to forget that for a lady time is not on her side. If she spends another 3 years trying trying another relationship, when will she be ready for marriage? When will she start having and raising children?


"during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved"
The above quote is an insult to the 1.2billion Catholics of the world. She is telling them that they are not saved. Maybe only her new found sect is saved.



Catholics never claimed to be saints. In fact Catholics acknowledge and confess their sins every week or regularly and beg for forgiveness constantly. It's you Pentecostals ( some will say penterascals) that believes they are holy and every other sect or persons are sinners.

It's you guys that displays anger, hatred and intolerance towards every body else. I drank you guys in the same category as ISIS anx Boko Haram. It's just that you are not violent yet.

wirinet:
She does not want to marry a lukewarm Christian but she has been enjoying the benefits of a lukewarm christian for 3 years including knacking.

No one can dictate whoever she wants to marry for her, but she should not insult Catholics to justify her reasons.

NoToPile:
Look immediately she mentioned catholic and pentecostal, I knew it was going to go like this.

Its even like over 70% of those that commented on this thread equate going to church with being born again.

Finally anyone has to right to use whatever criteria to screen a prospective spouse, same way some people will never marry a deeper life or chosen sister is the same way some are weary of marrying catholics, same way peeps castigate chosen people because of their apron and MFM for their prayers .it is what it is .

cocolacec:
Unfortunately muslims have this kind of problem too.TMC dont allow members to marry non members,if you do the group turns against you.
They can matchmake riff raffs with educated persons.

francdec4:
You have no point my dear. Assuming that he is not a "born again" because he is a Catholic is myopic to say the least. You are obviously supporting her because you share in her believe system too which is very lowly to think Catholics are less of Christian because he is not in her church. For his sanity I really wish he leave that relationship cos this lady will make life difficult for him if he refuses to join her. Let her pastor find a husband for her. I shouldn't be replying you anymore if you have this kind of mentality.

francdec4:
What kind of advise does it look she need. Someone who clearly stated he isn't a born again because he is a Catholic does that person need that kind of advise you are presenting. I know this kind of situation as long as that lady don't get him to join her in her so called "born again" mode that man will always feel unwanted. Let her leave him since according to you she knows what she wanted. Am sure here are many of her kind where she has joined or let the new pastor find one for her and let the man find his own type. it's simple.

Chukwuzobam89:
My sister, if you consider yourself a true Christian and his only crime is not being a fanatic christain, don't make a mistake of losing a soul that you will win for God, not through your belief/words but through your Christlike love and life. Surprisely, that man will be much better than those that are like you. In the long run, your (fiance')husband will be convinced that truly you are a child of God by deed and would like to share in it. Many who claimed born again are judgemental and it breeds hate and discontent with people around whom you feel aren't born again. Go and read your Bible especially the new testament, you will see what God said about marriage between a believer and an unbeliever. Let love rule, stop being judgemental, it will destroy you. God came for sinners, not the righteous. This is your work on Earth, to love and win over souls to God, not pushing them away, especially when his only crime is being a Catholic. I was a Catholic but got married to an Anglican and l don't feel less a Christian. God knows his own no matter the denomination you are in, it's only left for you to seek him with all your heart and live like Christ, who never pushed sinners away, he gathered them in his folds and won them over with his love and deeds. Same goes with Paul who converted sinners, love them and see God working in them through your ministrations.

However, If you feel otherwise, then free him than subjecting that man to constant condemnation from you.

eseh1:
I dunno if you will see this msg...but if you feel you are not comfortable with the decision pls call of d engagement or put it on hold...i wish i did same even wen on d marriage day i felt like...didn't want to disappoint any1.

francdec4:
So for you Catholics are not "saved". I really wish this guy who you claim to love and ticked all the boxes of what you desire in marriage will read this your write-up and withdraw cos it's obvious you are not even serious. If you really want to be so serious and your complaint is that he is not supporting or joining you in that lane inside the same catholic church then that it's different but labelling him not serious with his faith simply because he is Catholic is unacceptable. Join charismatic in the Catholic Church or any other pious societies in Catholic church of your choice and enkindle your faith as you desire but please and please just let him be and let him remain a Catholic as he desire...the land looks greener the other end till you get there and realise what you have lost.

Gmajor:
If these effects are not being reported then how do you know about them?

Righteousness2:
That is Babaric, inhumane and evil!

For me, Never Ever will I take it!
I will rather Lose my Job or my life than have that Jab in me.

Oralissue:
Have beem giving several antibiotics none worked

maiiilooo:
Thanks guys. U know these big men do have a way of behaving sometimes