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They've returned to their usual paid threads.

If it isn't bearing content meant to invite misogyny, then it will not get the coverage the misogynists who wrote the fiction want.

After you've stirred up hate for all women and killed them off or raped them, what will men do next?

The person behind these threads is as ridiculous as the person who pushes it to the front page. Thread from centuries ago.

AmazonTopaz:
Not surprised to see you insult yourself you clown next time don't come under my mention to embarrass yourself

Local men are still pained at this thread?

jesusjnr2020:
Thanks sis.

It's sad that many were either not aware or have chosen to turn a blind eye to the unprecedented damage it's done to the church.

Been quite a while. I trust you're doing great.

Have a Spirit-filled day.

I heard of a married pastor making moves on a woman he was to pray for. And his defense is that God knows he was not intending any harm as he tried to have his way with her. A whole pastor! What will he teach his congregation? How can he be married, reading his Bible and say he didn't intend any harm as he forcefully tried to have knowledge of her? This kind of dangerous man who is so proud to talk like that must be one of those who feel they can sin and God must forgive them. They feel entitled to sin because they feel God knows this or that. It will be the damnation of many self professed Christians.

I'm fine, thank you.

You were not posting for a while, hope you are okay? Wishing you the same.

cybertron88:
Where are the entrepreneur crew? Start ur own business, be ur own boss, quit ur 8-5 job. If u follow this ppl mouth u go enter bush. The lifespan of startup in this country is 2yrs I think it should be less than 9months now as the economy is on a downward spin. Naso I invest heavily to setup a pure water factory after all the feasibility studies and revenue projection. My factory didn't even make it past 6 months. From fraudulent Keke boys and staff to extortion from State revenue collection, landlord come add him own join. If not I still had my 8-5 job I no know wetin I for dey do now.
The best business in this country is one that I can do online from the comfort of ur bedroom. Anyone involving a brick and mortar structure needs God's grace to survive.

In most businesses, the staff are the drain. Fraudulent staff, even without the extortioners, will always run down any business left to them. Greed, they want to get rich quick, and as usual, want to use someone else to get there. Later it will be done to them and they will complain about the economy.

No matter how you factor in profit in your business, unless you're doing it yourself, your staff must cheat you. Some will be honest until they begin to feel you're enjoying too much.

One can understand why Dangote employs Indians.

OKOATA:
You speak this way because you weren't born a girl, if you have a girl child is it not for you as a father to train her in the right way and be a responsible father to her? I don't understand why you people always like to pull the girl child down, cos ur thinking makes it seem all girl child is an olosho. Be responsible to ur child and train her in a Godly way and she won't depart from it.

They believe so because that's the way they treat women. Some men cannot walk or talk to a woman unless it's for sex, so what do you think he will think of every woman, even his in mother? All thieves believe everyone is a thief too.

Very true. You will see a pastor refusing to get rid of a sin and doing it repeatedly, yet claiming he is righteous because there is grace. That gospel has made people proud in sin.

MummyD2020:
Many men believe in just providing for the family. Women try alot. Honestly. Its not only soft words, u need to practically beg and pet them and bend your neck where you are begging them oh.

Not only that, but also prostrate while doing so. And be ready for anything he wants. Most men who demand these things are economically disadvantaged and have nothing to fall back on except their empty pride.

MummyD2020:
I was expecting this. Chai . But the man can watch her work to death yet its nothing. What if she breaks down? Its not as if she ordered him. This is a woman thats trying to make ends meet. Was she balancing and watching tv? Guy be considerate. Since i gave birth, i have not been frequenting my shop but hubby comes back and carries baby so that i can have a break. This is someone that left by 8 in the morning. Haba, is she a slave? She is trying for God's sake. Shes not an octopus na. Its condescending but she was choked up too. Its a matter of understanding oh. If you never marry, you need to calmdown. You go change baby dirty diapers, they will throw up on you. You will watch their poop to know their health status. Its what makes you a man.

You're talking to people who believe the success of marriage lies solely on the head of the wife.

Imagine how they need to be begged or promised something in return before they will do what needs to be done. Must a man be asked to do things around him? Can't he see they need to be done and just do them, rather than sitting like a prideful statue on a pole waiting till the red carpet is rolled out before he can come down from on high to do it.

They need soft words, but expect their women to jump to their rescue without batting an eyelash. Most Nigerian men are the ones who destroy marriage and make it more difficult than it needs to be with their tin god behaviors.

Indispensable85:
It has been blissful my brother. God brought an angel my way at the right time. God is faithful,fair and just in his ways.

God is indeed faithful.

I'm glad to see that yours was not the claim that good people will marry bad people, rather God kept the two of you for each other.

What a time to live in the North.

Many donate sperm but few are fathers

ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

Maybe the OP knows something nobody else knows. Perks.

bepositive11:
Thank you! The first sane comment here. He should have instead told her that she shouldn't talk to him like that. That it's insulting. He needs to learn how to communicate properly.

If this isn't more high fantasy from the stable of fiction writers on an agenda.

Patrotism:
Madam, go after your husband.
Don't break your home because of this little set back.

If your wife slapped you after you told her to do something since she's free to do it, would you go after her in the manner you're implying?

BruncleZuma:
Did you even bother to read Homers Iliad; your basic Hollywood driven knowledge of history is troubling. And the kinds of fatalistic attributes to real men shows me how unlikely you've seen a real man before.

Lol, you are still trying to reason with someone telling you that a man must have pride, not reasoning abilities. Reverse the genders to get any meaningful response.

Men on this forum can justify any kind of abuse to suit their egos. She never hit him first, just spoke to him, but somehow she deserves the physical assault. If they were in America and she called the cops afterwards, they would say nurses have ego issues.

lilvicky68:
You're saying anything not consexual is rape.. if she's in the mood and I'm not and she touched me and I enter mood is rape na according to you because it was not in my mind intentionally.. and also the reverse..

If you didn't want to and you told her you didn't want to, and she pressured you to have sex with her with force or endless demands, forcing herself on you, and put her penis into you when you clearly did not want to and made it known either verbally or by physically refusing to, that's rape.

lilvicky68:
Lol.. you're turning it around..I know you get what I'm saying..

You said they touched you and raped you. I'm trying to establish how it happened.

So with your muscle density, they just rubbed you and you cummed then happily dived into them? Or they rubbed you and then stuck theirs into you? Enlighten us, please.

lilvicky68:
My penis or their penis.im not getting you

You said men should complain of being raped. I'm asking you how it happened, if the women forced them, brought out her penis when he said he didn't want to and still put it inside him until she cummed?

lilvicky68:
Last last all the men dey ejaculate whether by sex or masturbation.. make we no dey decieve ourselves..

But what of the one who neither masturbates nor has had any type of sex?

lilvicky68:
They know that when they start touching us..our penis will become active because it has a mind of its own..but they still do it..

You have more strength than they do.


Okay, so they touch you and force their peenis into you?

lilvicky68:
Don't mind all these people claiming virgins here.. most of them are chronic masturbators..

You believe men can be virgins after all.

Lol, don't speculate. Ask them.

lilvicky68:
That means men should be the one complaining about rape because most times we don't want sex..but ladies make us have sex with them..

How do they make you?

Do they use force to grab you and press you into the bed and stick their peenis in you even when you don't really feel like it?

If you didn't want to and you said no, tell us how they forcefully had their way.

Indispensable85:
I'm married now.

Oh. Nice. Was it worth it? You should be preaching to the young men of today. They're wild with sex and the world around then is falling apart.

biyams:
choice ...a hard one in fact. cos it hasn't been really easy actually but have to stick to it till married

Keep it up. When you get married, let us know if you were able to keep up with it. wonder how it's possible at an older age. And hope you're not a chronic masturbator?(sorry for asking)

edoairways:
Even within this range they still exist. Some persons have dedicated their time to other things.

And never feel like having sex in all that time?

Newstractor:
While chatting with her I asked her to tell me what she doesn't like so I got this reaction from her. Please what does she mean?

She said, "brings me to school", but you tried to remove it for reasons best known to you.

What's your point?

Indispensable85:
It's just Grace

Many can't resist the urge of sex. When you get married, remember to tag this moniker on your wedding thread.

lilvicky68:
Okafor's law do not require force it's a natural phenomenon

Not always. And that is why years later they come out with rape accusations. Just because a person let's you have sex with them, doesn't mean they want it. And that is the crux.

edoairways:
There are many male Virgins in Nigeria in case you aren't aware

One would expect them to be around early twenties. Not thirties. It's a good thing there are deep thinkers with self control still.

CALCULUS16:
There is nothing wrong with u bro, i am ur age mate too and in ur shoe and not that i dont want to have it, but doing it with the wrong person or with a lady who is "animasaun', i knw a lady who is like that and shes ever ready, how would i eat a 'left over'? I dont have issue to talking to a lady, i am just a cerebral person, i think with my brain nt with my heart, i believe this manhood is meant for a person not to be shared with any, until i get married b4 i can do the stuff [its a personal decision] Life is not about sex bro, there are so many issues to focus ur life upon than this, nature does nt give extra sx organs to one who has sx early [unless u r bro komeji] nor give extra orgasm or extra 5min, i believe there is much more 2 sx than we know, since its a path through wish all animals including human being came in2 dis world, who u av such thing with, might av connection with ur soul/spirit, Bro, be proud u keep your pure to this age, we r rare, when u see ur flesh, the boldness u need ll come

This forum is full of truly amazing things. This thread has been surprising.