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BLOODYSPERM:
What generalization?
At 50% divorce rate in gynocentric western Societies, 75% of divorce is initiated by women

Men love idealistically and sacrificially
Women love pragmatically and opportunistically

Hamster claims logic.

immortalcrown:
It is not every offense that money can cover. Odumeje knows that Ada's case has exposed him and harmed his business so much. He tried using one million Naira to cover up the shame. That is why someone that sounded so heartless the way he did to the family will suddenly donate one million Naira to the same family. Let him just forgive her and forget about giving her money, because such money is cursed already. The best thing is for Ada's family to reject the money. Rejecting it is not out of anger. It is to avoid curses. People have already insulted and cursed Odumeje. Accepting the money spiritually means transferring the curses to another person. The best thing for him to do is to forgive her and apologize to the public, if pride will allow him do it. One million Naira cannot cover up the shame. You are not a preacher of love but now, you want to preach love by force. �

But he's said it himself before, that he's not a preacher of love. He said he's the fire, the liquid metal, the war, etc. He didn't come for peace.

Jessepaid:
Emotion is the back door of logic...

why do you think people get mad when they can't convince someone else of their opinion in an argument?

when people can't understand or explain things..


they turn to their emotions...


you can only be fully red pilled with a broad you don't love..

when a man is in love, his guards are dropped and his city gates opened..

sadly women can't seem to understand that this level of vulnerability is to be respected and not to be exploited..

love requires compromise and sacrifice and men are prefect at bringing both to the table.....

women issue is really tiring...

Men aren't saints, too.

They play on the hearts of women who genuinely love them, too.

The sooner we all begin to accept that, the less we will see generalizations and complaints, and school of thought of one gender vs the other.

If women open up on what they pass through from men, you will say that men issues are also tiring.

In all, be with someone with your wavelength. If you want love, you have to love first. If not, it will always fall apart.

jesusjnr2020:
Lol!

No be small caring brother.

He only cares about one thing in this world and it's not me.

BTW, please give me some time to respond to your other comment.

Thanks and God bless.

Sure thing!

I am very much open to learning on that your comment on perfection, because I've had issues with people who refuse perfection and embrace imperfection because they "can't be more holy than God".

BLOODYSPERM:
Hamster rationalizations discrediting the redpill and ad hominem attacks on it's members, no reasonable argument to disprove it's tenets, only emotional outburst

You again?

Red pill men are notoriously weak and verbally abusive with the IQ of a mob.

Yet to see a red pill man with true sense who can communicate effectively. Anyway, it's a mob of knuckle-dragging financially unwell men with gender bias who find acceptance in their flock, hence the anger and insults. It's understandable.

Once they cannot reason, they turn it into "emotional" meanwhile they are the most emotional set of men. Even the OP is sickened.

Klass99:
So, you've noticed too that majority of whining and complaining threads are from men.

I thought I was the only seeing the trend, it is not just threads full of complaints and insults about Nigerian women

There are also threads full of nonsense by men on NL. I even asked on one of such threads - Are you people not swallowing this redpill very well OR the thing dey hook dem for throat and they need more water to swallow it down wella.

It's really exhausting seeing these men threads where men carry on like sissies, it makes me wonder what caliber of men are being churned out these days.

We have whining, talkative and deeply emotional men nowadays. And they say it's being brave and fighting back women.

It's disgusting.

Men are rare nowadays. What we have are zombies who wear men skin to integrate.

The red pill is making them weaker than ever with its mob mentality.

neyohh:
Wrong.

Redpillers see women for what they truly are.

If you have to type long epistles to make a simple point means you don't understand what you are talking about.

In turn feminists see men for what they are.

Why does it anger men so much?

Male response to feminism: red pill hate.

Pathetic that men walk around with the cloud of red pill guiding their thinking. Call it an epistle if you will, it won't change anything. Brainwashed men in the red pill know nothing else but that. Mob mentality.

Red pill= misogyny and controlled mindsets. Brainwashed men.

potent5:
O gah o.

The future is becoming female o.

Crossdressing Nigerian men/gay Nigerian men are everywhere nowadays. What could be causing it?

And they will condemn bobrisky and James Brown when they secretly harbor such desires.

jesusjnr2020:
Meaning?

You're being trolled by a caring brother.

jesusjnr2020:
A Nairaland recently asked via a thread why today's Christians were not able to do greater works as Jesus said believers would do.

My response was that greater works were coming...

The reason I said that was because I was one of those God was going to use to glorify Himself to that extent. And the reason that's going to happen was because i didn't settle for spiritual mediocrity, but i'm proudly a spiritual perfectionist to the core! That is, I desire to be every single thing God deserves for me to be and nothing less because I can't afford to deprive Him of any glory which was due Him.

This has got me seeking more, striving more, desiring more, sacrificing more, etc., than most do these days for the sake of the Kingdom of God, and consequently this has made to me to be given more, which has distinguished me significantly.

When I first came to NL, God used me to convert a well-known NL atheist in the first few months of my being here. And many NL Christians were jealous thinking it was a fluke or just a coincidence, unknown to them, It didn't just fall from the sky, but I had already paid the price and given God everything, even as much as the apostles gave to Him, so it was only inevitable that I would be distinguished from those who haven't given God as much. That's why my life was able to bring God glory to that extent.

That illustrates the extent to which God could be glorified in our lives, when we do not settle for less, but to be all that He desires and deserves for us to be. Because at the time, such a development was unheard of in this forum. Even the NL atheists who were hitherto very confident of themselves, started feeling jittery because it was something they weren't used to.

I had overheard them bragging when it used to be the other way around, about how NL atheists were the ones converting NL Christians, so it seemed their beliefs and confidence had been hit as never before, that they didn't even know how to react. They just couldn't believe their eyes. Some even doubted and debunked it as false and a fabricated conversion, that they out of desperation went in search of the person, and told her that someone else trying to use her moniker to spread lies, until she confirmed it herself, then they knew that this wasn't just make belief but the reality.

The foundation of atheism in Nairaland was seriously rattled at the time, and only God knows how much effect that had here in Truth, and how many atheists and souls were also converted as a result, as the impression God gives me is that much more lives had been impacted positively and blessed by my efforts here in Nairaland than what I was aware of. Yet at the time, my appointed time hadn't even come yet, so that was just a foretaste of things to come when that happened.

Last year, after God told me my time had come, things that proved impossible even then, have now become the norm, as souls were being saved more than it's ever been since I came, demons were being cast out, the oppressed and depressed were being delivered, lives were being transformed, even the faith of true believers were being strengthened, and this is not speaking of somewhere else but right here in NL.

And with God has revealed to me, this was only the beginning, because the extent to which God intends to use me is far above and beyond anything that already happening now.

If this was about me, I wouldn't be sharing this secret but would keep it to myself, but I'm sharing it because it's my greatest desire that God gets the kind of glory He deserves from as many men as possible, not just with me and the other few who've given Him as much.

So if you want to your life to bring God as much glory as my life, or the lives of the apostles, or better still, the life of Master Jesus had done, do not settle for anything less than spiritual perfection, and I assure you that it would only be a matter of time, as you'd eventually be able to achieve likewise.

But if you settle for any less, the Truth is that your life wouldn't be any more different from the lives of most Christians of today, which are not able to bring God much glory as the lives of those of us who do not settle for any less than spiritual perfection.

God bless.

Spiritual perfection. Do you mean sanctification? Are the two the same thing?

BLOODYSPERM:
You know nothing about the redpill and you make speculations and assumptions, I won't reduce myself to argue with an estrogenious beings who is prone to mood swings and histrionic emotions due to their menstrual and ovulating realities, shaming Redpillers means nothing, feeble minded and physically weak women will always reject Biological and evolutionary facts that they are fundamentally different from men due to genetic differences in psychological and physical make up that has nothing to do with Cultural, societal stereotype, and environmental conditioning, see the proof of gender equality paradox in scandanavian societies like Norway, Iceland and Finland who have removed their Patriachal stronghold restricting women, what do we have , widened differences between men and women than in conservative Societies


My wife would submit to my authority as I'm the Patriach and leader of my household and I will be very responsible providing for my family by God's grace

And you even mentioned God? Just seeing that now. Do you know how many men will go to hell on the platter of the red pill? Did God instruct the creation of red pill by a bitter man?

Where in religion was the red pill mentioned?

If you think feminism is sinful, be rest assured your red pill is a sin of equal proportion.

BLOODYSPERM:
You call Redpillers hateful misogynist , because you are too weak to stomach fundamental differences between men and women which are factually correct and proven by scientific evolutionary facts but you rather us believe a Cultural Marxist ideology called Feminism which disguises itself as an Egalitarianistic-Equalism movement seeking humanistic treatment between men and women, but in reality is a female supremacist movement that want to subject men to it's tyrannical leadership and reduce us to inferior beings,


In fact I don't believe in gender neutral roles, I believe in traditional gender roles where males and females know their stereotypical roles in Society,these the best for civilization, but pragmatically speak is just an non-feasible idealism, but what is pragmatic is that men can individually be aware of the truth and be fully aware of reality to navigate it to the best of their ability


Redpill is an hybrid of self development and anti-feminism which makes a man aware of himself and the nature of women so that he can reach his full potential and discover his purpose and himself

Lol. Is this MGNY101?

Isn't it funny that women become feminists without having to listen to what other women tell them to do, unlike red pill men?

From all your red pill posts on nairaland, it's just hate culture and the desire to dominate over females through emotional manipulation, verbal abuse, sexual shaming and dominance, bitterness, subjugation and trying to feel superior by all means. Is that all men think about all day, especially once they see a woman? Yes.

If you doubt it, check your posts and that of your mentor.

What else would make you call someone else "estrogenous beings", or people you haven't met bitc-h or slu-t? Or turn on what someone says, just because it's not from your gender? It means the red pill never had a message, just hate. It's pitiful. Is that the best men can come up with?

It's the perfect cover for all misogynists whether gays, incels, cuckolded or whatever the case may be. And there are no short numbers of such on this forum.

The red pill is a lost cause. And only men who can't think for themselves are part of it.

Anti feminism? Don't you lot say women belong in the kitchen? Or making money for you? Which is it?

When the red pill has a message, women will consider it. For now it's just a weak get back strategy.

Bye Felicia.

BLOODYSPERM:
You know nothing about the redpill and you make speculations and assumptions, I won't reduce myself to argue with an estrogenious beings who is prone to mood swings and histrionic emotions due to their menstrual and ovulating realities, shaming Redpillers means nothing, feeble minded and physically weak women will always reject Biological and evolutionary facts that they are fundamentally different from men due to genetic differences in psychological and physical make up that has nothing to do with Cultural, societal stereotype, and environmental conditioning, see the proof of gender equality paradox in scandanavian societies like Norway, Iceland and Finland who have removed their Patriachal stronghold restricting women, what do we have , widened differences between men and women than in conservative Societies


My wife would submit to my authority as I'm the Patriach and leader of my household and I will be very responsible providing for my family by God's grace

For you to resort to calling members of the same species of different gender all manner of names, you are simply reveling in hate.

I've seen your hate filled red pill manifesto long ago.

I probably knew about it before it became mainstream nairaland thought. Red pill is simply men who hate women and want to dominate them, nothing more nothing less. Misogyny with the veneer of nobility.

What are you fighting for? Were you denied rights to work and to vote? Or all you want is subjugation of women folk?

The literature is from jilted incels, even gays.

There's no ideology. Just hate. And your mentor on this forum is hate filled —for proof of generalizations and hate, check any of his posts. There's no logic, just the united hatred, subjugation, belittlement and scorn for women.

From time to time, one hate filled man will come out and claim to educate you guys on it, and pretend there's another message but deep hate. A veneer you all fall for, except few men who can see through it.

What else does it stand for? The red pill is simply a congregation of men who hate women. Right from the forums it originated from

I ask again, what does it stand for?

Do you know the nature of the person who is teaching you about it here on the forum?

If you want to call me baseless names, based on perceived gender, like your mentor here, you can rest assured I will not reply you.

And if you do, it won't be surprising. Men have only one message, scorn, hate, violence, sexual, emotional and verbal abuse against women — in essence, the red pill.

PreetyAngel4U:
Yeah right.

Raise the kids alone with no mama to give them proper home training, which evidently, you seem to be lacking. Did you grow up with your mom? Were you morally brought up by your parents? Did your father teach you to respect your mom by his behaviour?

Raise the kids alone,
raising emotionally imbalanced kids who cannot function properly in the society. The males end up becoming rapists, womanizers, greedy perverts that don't understand what it means to be loving and sacrificial. Who can teach these to a child? Is it the society or a father with a demented mind?

Then your girls, wow. With low self esteem, sleeping with your friends and that of their brothers for material gain as they were taught by their father, to only use people to get what they want. How you used their mom to get kids then kicked her out. Every1 with entitlement mentality.

I believe 90% of men won't want to pass through the rigours of childbirth with this childlike mentality creeping into the society. Most would remove their womb because the burden is unbearable. Let her just take in, give you children, then leave the fruits of her labour for you? To use them and do what? If the lady is independent type, then i pity you, cause she'll leave with them. If you like go give another woman belle and start afresh.

Then the cycle continues. Creating more demented members of the society.

Weldone sir. What a fantastic idea you've got there.

Just another damaged, poor, hate filled jilted man looking for how to pour his wrath and revenge on women at his powerlessness. What else is their ideology?

What else is new?

Lol, you even know they are demented.

BLOODYSPERM:
I'm not arguing , I'm stating Cultural Facts
One gender sexual mating strategy and agenda must dominate the other gender


You can vividly see men dominate women Culturally in Africa and the Arab world

Only gynocentric western Societies do women dominate men

"Gynocentric"

"Hypergamy" you will type next.

Leave all the wasted messages of the red pill behind. You don't know the nature of the person teaching you those things.

Do you know how the red pill began? How it really, really began?

It's a pity you see everything as dominating. There lies the problem with the red pill. Hate. Deep hate. Nothing else. Not even your bickering nairaland mentor is free from that empty hate.

Heaven will be hard to enter with such hate.

BLOODYSPERM:
One gender must control the dynamic of the other gender to symbolize it's authority over the other gender

In Western Societies that gender is the female gender shaming men as toxic and misogynistic

In Africa Societies it's the male gender shaming women as Hoes

So what is your argument then?

The male gender are frivolous from your above submission.

BLOODYSPERM:
Shaming wise and strong men as gays and jilted men doesn't disprove our Cultural order which shows we have authority over women and their bodies with firm Patriachal traditions that prioritize us over women

Male victimhood. That is the red pill. Exactly what the OP is talking about. Is the new RP word for it shaming?

"strong men" lol

Are you now competing with women? On who is more societally oppressed?

All red pill followers on this forum are jilted incels, cuckolded daily or gay, believe it. Your leader here bickers like a schoolgirl.

Men that talk too much with so much pain, hate and bitterness...

Anyway, get married ASAP so you can test your theories about women and the cultural order.

lilvicky68:
Lol..but relationship is stressful sha

Stressful with the wrong person. Run from emotionally demanding people and people who want to test you. It never ends well

lilvicky68:
Hmmm..women wahala too much for nairaland

The stories are unbelievable. It's looking too much like a smear campaign by gays or jilted men.

Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Because they are fake stories designed to make more men follow the red pill or become misogynists. It created desired effects of frenzy and foolish comments.

It's the work of hateful men on this forum.

They think they're giving women a dose of their medicine, not knowing the idio-tic extremes they have gone to. Imagine when you're online and the men are quoting you back to back like whiny little girls.

On other social media there are terrible stories about men, but they don't make it here. Because here there's a specific
target to ensure that women are abused and cursed, otherwise nothing else moves.

It's not that men are saints, but that they are the ones running this forum for now.

GboyegaD:
Blame the husband. He has the right to protect his family from externalities and whoever tried that with them should be cut off.

Cutting them off is a little extreme.

Besides, this is a Nigerian problem that starts the moment a lady gets to 25. They plague her with "when will you get married", they conclude she's bad that's why it has not happened. There's a lot of pressure.

So if she gets married and can't get pregnant it's even more pressure, because children are the ultimate in the setup. Pressure, pressure, pressure.

I've always wondered how couples who finally have children after 15 or 20 years coped. Must be hell on Earth for them, especially with other people flaunting their children.

If only alternate conception methods were not seen as bad things...

saphiere:
Am I child giver?

You have given the right response.

If what that guy posted is what you really said about your past, it is impressive that you can share it so freely.

Don't mind him mocking you:
he may be responsible for abortions himself or making a woman a mocked person due to single motherhood in Nigeria.

Hopefully other ladies will learn from you.

ebuka10box:
like u got a dime...madam park one side

If you did, why do you have this thread?

And you're insecure, hence the need to stalk someone.

Tell the full truth and shame the devil.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Noooo....never! The Thought of this alone makes me cringe already lol


Happy Sunday!

Lol

Happy Sunday to you!

haddeylium:
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No. They shouldn't. Unless it's a dummy phone with just one number on it —yours.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Those guys want personal whores and the hope they give them is marriage..
I was telling a friend that it's only when a guy is not easy to mash that he will say he's not found a woman to Marry. When a guy is easy to marry, he can find a wife in a day and marry he and fee months time..but when he not ready, maybe lack of finances of steady source of income, he will start giving excuses..
Those people that are hear singing Nigerian girls are useless whores if you check well, either not matured enough to marry, or not financially prepared to.marry.

They obviously don't have money, though they are old. If you check them, poverty has lashed them very well and they cannot recover their emotions. Hence they are bitter.

missimelda01:
Most Nairaland men are petty and childish. They can’t receive what they constantly give out, take them seriously at your own peril. Gone are the days when I get pissed over certain stories I see here, like you said some of them are scripted.

The bolded is always the funniest part of their lies

About 98% of the stories are scripted. You'll even see WhatsApp monologues as proof.

That part is always the most amusing. This one even needs to tell us she's 27 and itching for marriage. If you open his own chats, you will be surprised he's in situations all over. . .

missimelda01:
I personally think that the idea of messaging your partner with a different number to test them is trash! If you’re having doubts, simply communicate.

The number of fake stories and sensational topics designed to bash women is getting boring.

For every thread they post something about women, there are two other posts on social media about men doing worse things. They don't seem to make it to nairaland, though. It won't sell clicks.

Isn't it funny that only men seem to do this? Women don't have time to monitor chats remotely and be looking for who is cheating with who. Seems scripted.

Meanwhile they are still there ones here claiming to be dating 4 women at a time, but nobody is policing them. In fact, they are hailing themselves about it. The usual storyline is that it was someone he "wanted to wife". Even the ones with a crooked pe.nis will say the same thing. Testing loyalty indeed. It seems they got their girls through hook and crook, so they are suspicious and need this "testing".

What exactly is the problem? Everyone is cheating and happy. But a set of people are here to promote misogyny.

TMKsouth:
Bravo! All these dotted parts are my favourites The bolded bits cracked me the hell up!!! First paragraph is the absolute truth, even here in SA.

I got better service elsewhere. Nigerians have really poor corporate service culture. They are so aggressive and have no solutions, like they just sit at you and look at you when you have a complaint. They aren't ready to go an extra step in giving you a solution. Unless you ask to see the manager.

TMKsouth:
Ok I see you not ready to open up. But I'm sure we'll meet again skeem

I'm not being skelm. Honest.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Lol yes we did...keeping malice or fighting anyone isn’t something I’m at peace with, but she didn’t even respond to my request for help lool she hissed instead my bunk mate came to my rescue.

Lol

Serves you right. Hope it didn't walk on you. That's the worst!!!

TMKsouth:
Lol , is jy straight outta Mitchell's Plain of wat? Ek kry coloured vibes.

No, man. I pass easily as one