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DaTruths:
Confirm4real

The chances are that Your Sister must have cheated on him, either before marriage or in marriage, hence his insecurities.

That's why it's good to break up with a girl that cheated, if you know you don't have the emotional and mental wherewithal to let bygones be bygones, else, you will end up living with insecurities.

I don't think a man would be grossly insecure like this if his woman has never cheated or shown any tendency to cheat.

Aside from that, your sister might not find all these things he does as offensive as you finds it.

But my problem is that he shouldn't beat her for any reason, if he beats her again, call human rights on him.

You'd be surprised she didn't.

assholemods:
I hate stories like this! Your sister na mumu abi the man use juju tie am down? Sorry to say na your sister foolish pass, spare me the talk of "love and because of the children" Rubbish!

The sister sounds like a sock puppet, right? I doubt it's even a real human being we're contemplating here. How could she enjoy such a lifestyle for years so that it is the sibling coming here for help? Stockholm syndrome? Juju? She likes it but he's at the brink of killing her and she doesn't want that to happen?

Their family is scared of the man or believe she's now his problem, otherwise they would've rescued her since.

tctrills:
This is your sister's side of the story, let's not judge until we hear from her husband.

One of the most abused lines on this forum.

Is there anything that justifies battering your wife and starving your children, instead of divorcing her and going your own way? Don't judge. Not even when he kills her. Still ask for his side of the story and sympathize with him.

Taylor90:
Is your sister cripple?

Abi she no know the address of her fathers house

Because I don’t understand while she’s still with him if all you said here is true

Anyways I won’t jump into conclusions yet because something must have prompted this man’s insecurities and the reason why your sister doesn’t want to leave justifies it all

Maybe your sister don cheap woto woto in the past

All of you saying the man is rich yen yen yen I disagree with that he might be an average guy

If he was rich he won’t allow his wife be a teacher( obviously nursery or primary school teacher)

He wouldn’t allow his wife run a buka restaurant

He won’t buy Sienna

For once someone knows that the man described cannot be a rich man. He is average or poor.

Why do you think he bought her a car?

Confirm4real:
She has decided to leave the marriage but have reported the case to Human Rights.
Women should be careful in their choice of selection. Most men pretend to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

This kind of man would've had loads of red flags. He was not always nice to her. She just never wanted to acknowledge it when it happened.

Confirm4real:
Someone that the sister personally told my sister that her brother is wicked and doesn't have regards for anyone. A man that is comfortable but always give his mom 5k every month when she was alive. The sister also said his brother normally insult their parents when they were alive.
I wonder what made my sister to ignore those things, maybe she thinks he will change on the long run.

Can you blame them? In Nigerian men's thinking the woman is always the cause of maritial problems. The man is always a saint.

Your brother-in-law is an evil man, but whether it is due to mental illness or the red pill is what she doesn't need to stay to figure out. Why don't you house her if she's willing to leave him?

Jozilinn:
talk to him and see how he worsen matters your sister should just get something doing with all the sienna and ajsh she should have opted for business instead of teaching, this type of men would weaken you and keep pumping sperm just to make you ruined so you won't think of leaving because of children very wicked, please she should leave jhare it's not the end of the world marriage isn't by force before he strangles her one day. Sick modafucker 🤯

LMAO. If she keeps going back for more children, it can't be his fault entirely.

ednut1:
Your sister married a mad man because of money. Sorry for her

Why do you think it's because of money when he clearly doesn't do anything, and she has a job herself? Is it the usual mantra of blame?

Is it only poor marriages that mean sincerity to you?

The man has mental health issues or follows the instructions of people like tate. And there's no difference if he does.

Nigerians are sick/dumb people if these comments reflect on the populace accurately.

Because they aren't smiling it means their marriage will last longer? Because those smiling must be faking it? Same way that a lot of you believe that if you don't spend on a wedding that the marriage will last longer. So having a pathetic-looking wedding means you sincerely want to get married?

A lot of you love suffering and are allergic to anything that looks good. You hate people who look happy getting married. You hate people who have a lot of money. You hate people who are educated. You hate light skinned black people. You hate women who dress up to look hot. You hate men who are effeminate. Is there anything Nigerians don't twist?

What kind of boys run this forum?

Another Niger/Russia thread for the uncircumcized to exchange smegma on.

Nazgul:
This is a good advise, but the problem here is that so many Nigerian girls program themselves to depend on men for literally everything.

You'll be shocked to discover that some 35-40 year old girls still call guys to beg them for irrelevant things like money to eat, money to make hair, assistance in paying rent, assistance in business...etc.

How then do you expect such person to singlehandedly raise a child, pay school fees, buy clothes, drugs when sick, take the child out for weekends...etc?

It's very rare to see a successful single mom in Nigeria who works hard and takes care of her kids without depending on anyone. Many single mothers out there depend on prostitution, others keep a handful of men who would be supporting them from time to time, not knowing that such act would definitely have a negative impact on the child.

So for me, I'll say, if you're a lady between 35-40, unmarried and still depending on male support, avoid bringing any child into this world, cos with this our horrible economy, you obviously cannot rely on begging to train your chid.

How old are you, and why are you so obsessed with everything about women: their vaginas, their productivity, their relationship choices, their eating habits, what they should and shouldn't do, how they should please you? Why are you so "concerned" about women and their lives?

Was expecting to hear this, but it's taken a long time coming. People castigating and mocking the ex-wife were mostly misogynists or too young to have seen through the lies. This current one has not pounded yam for him in months and cuddled on his birthday to show us how horrible the first one was. We've missed their constant updates on how much they love and are perfect for each other.

His wife couldn't be crazy all the time and his silence was all a farce. The silence of men in martial disputes is like the hissing of asps, and when they claim to speak their truth, their voice is that of lies personified.

Expecting to see their comeback to hurt the ex.

cococandy:
Couldn’t have said it better.

And Barbie might be too complicated for them

Lol.

It just might be. I mean, look at the the outrage of Piers Morgan. Really. And he's a senior in such matters.

The usual obsession with women, their bodies, their productivity, their finances, their ages, their choices, just about everything about women. Chapters and chapters about it. Some with terrible punctuation, some with better punctuation, yet an underlying social class is the common denominator behind such posters. All giving advice as concerned men or others are barely concealed "wise" misogynists.

An obsession made by saintly (mostly underage) incel boils.

You would think it changes as they get older. But it doesn't. Not until they get married, realize they aren't any prize, and get some responsibility that makes them less obsessed.

Y'all need to watch Barbie and let the servers go on a break.

Bostin:
Maybe you're meeting me for the first time here to proof you wrong everyone is not what you think . I know who I am even though I got betrayed severally .

If you've healed, it doesn't matter who you are. Go, and love again.

kushe:
So apartheid money gave him his start in life ?
Do you even know the guy's story and was this so called wealth from his father or mother side?
And when exactly did the apartheid money come into play in making him who he is today.
People regurgitate beer parlour gist and beat their chest peddling conspiracies as fact but with a little intelligence ,dull people are easy to fish out with the very words they say or type.

Once you are white you are evil and racist and benefited from the purchase of their ancestors whose own tribesmen sold them off. It's the stuff of saloons.

If his wealth is a product of apartheid as much as the wealth of the Singhs should be, let it be proven .

Nigerian athlete fails doping test.
Translation while licking the bottom of the glass: racist whites want to strip African girl of a gold medal, the bloody racists!

Wodu89:
Twitter is dead. Dorsey should have known better than sell Twitter to this guy. From one terrible decision to the next in a sequence. Smh

Looks more like a template that everyone else will follow. Will he later be revered as a pioneer? Genius? Revolutionizer?

Keep watching and find out.

The number of this man's fans is dropping.

Gone are the days when everyone learning a language wanted to be him (or—more obviously—have his wealth in their pockets). Don't people want to quote him like he's divinity any more. Is he at the right hand side where everything is wrong? Or is he posting too much nowadays and eroding his mystique? Or have his fans grown older and, pray, wiser?

Bostin:
I don't think I sound like one with my write up , anyways I was never a wonanizer . I'm a one man one woman person if I'm with the right person , though I'm not a saint reason I said I'm a work in progress because I know who I want to be .

Your write up sounds a little over the bar we've seen set on the thread

Meaning only two things: ex womanizer or padre. Or both in one.

cococandy:
So he was beating her and chatting up with another girl but acting innocent

Guess he wanted posters to demonize her in order for him to feel justified about whatever it is he's doing to her. Rich and handsome guy like he is, going by translations from his language.

cococandy:
Oh really. Well I only read the original post.

He actually posted it after you did, I think.

He's masked how he used to "touch her small" with his topic and subsequent complaints describing how terrible she is. He's drinking up the sympathy.

airsaylongcome:
Seriously? Someone made a video on how to join threads? The YouTube hustle nobi here

There's always a sucker/born in 1970 and earlier person/family member to click on the like and subscribe icons.

Bostin:
I Love cooking
I have a true conscience
I'm responsible
Home maker
Kind-hearted
Homely
Discipline
funny
Introvert
Have fear of God .

I am also a work in progress as we all learn and grow everyday .

Are you an ex womanizer?

cococandy:
Run

From?

He just admitted to wife battery on this same thread. Something that's being ignored. He conveniently left that part out when he began to tell us about his "bad" wife who he conveniently divorced and had returned back to him, as "bad" as he says she is. Could it be there is more to that claim of divorce, and the reasons for reconcilation? Who knows.

It will always be amusing how he began to tell us how terrible she is, and without preamble. No background. Just everything but calling her out as a devil. As usual, he's a blameless lamb to get slaughter.

One should never believe saintly stories from men on this forum. They aren't designed that way. Their truth is yet another play designed to sway the opinions of readers. Just like strungup79 and that guy whose age changes whenever he wants to tell bloated porkies. When men make such threads, they will always withhold the truth. They know how to make outrageous topics, too.

We need to hear from his wife.

qtguru:
1. I sabi cook
2. I can plan
3. I don't like wahala

This is your titanium bullet?

jesusjnr2020:
That is Christlike.

Quite. And amen.

na2016:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Allow people make thier choices.

To him there's everything wrong with anyone else that isn't him wanting to leave Nigeria or have children. He believes all Nigerians are poor, stupid and ugly people, who should not reproduce, and that he's the chosen one who should do what he's not permitted them to do. As their god.

The more you see his posts, the more you observe he's actually preaching what he will never practice. Maybe when he gets to 30 he will start a different message here. Anything for the trolling disguised as wise pessimism.