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Donjazzy12:
Be quiet! You know it is the truth! Lesbians a very where!

Lolz! Look in the mirror and say to yourself. I'm a serious joker.

Donjazzy12:
My dear don't kill yourself! Now let me shock you. Your supposed innocent girlfriend is a lesbian or should I say a bisexual. Her girlfriend is her lesbian partner and they have been worried how to break this to you. So she sends her to seduce you all in the guise of staying with you to reduce hotel bills!
What to do? Just play along. Pretend like nothing happened. Very soon their intentions will be very clear. She will want you both to have a party eventually.
Now most young girls of nowadays are lesbians but they pretend a lot. They only date guys because of societal pressure. Any day Nigeria legalizes homosexual marriage you will see Genevieve Nnaji, Linda Ikeji, Euchariah Anunobi, etc rush to get marriage certificates for their lesbian partners! For now they hide behind ridiculous excuses!

Yeah, back to you. How did I know this? It happened to my Cousin!

So ur cousin is now the standard for the world. That's some grave accusations against these names you've mentioned. Wetin Obi no go see for wharf! Your opinion is such a ridiculous brain twister.

frozen70g:
Just promise yourself that you won't repeat such a dirty act next time, even although your marriage with her

Once you can do so then you will find peace

Love her more and more and your conscience will mellow down

As for her friend, reduce your communication with her and use your senses, she will accept a Bleep from you even if your wife is in pains in labour room and you are tensed, she no send and not remorse from her so best option is distance before she break your home a d take over

She no send ohhh

Don't tell your wife because you will create a very deep hole like a pot In her heart and women don't forget such

After your marriage just tell her politely that you don't want what will lead you to have problems with her that she should drop all her girl friends and start making friends with responsible married women

and you believe with all your heart, you have said the right thing? Especially those last lines, you'll just tell someone to leave their friends because they married you and they must obey, friends they might have even known before they met you? Why sounding like every thing is predictable. Friend might be plotting something, breaking trust two times by keeping quiet, when it backfires eh!

When a man and a woman stay together alone, especially in a house and they are not blood relations. The devil is their 3rd companion. Alaye, carry your cross o! All those some things are better left unsaid people. That friend is quietly watching, she's going to do something with the info she has, that's if she doesn't come back to tell you she pregnant.

If this woman is as good as u say, better confess asap! Whether you lose her or not, danger is still ahead. You both betrayed her, I'm not here to rub your ego. Her friend ish a worse betrayer, cuz women know what they are doing and can keep sexual urges in check than men.

That's is this story is not super story.

MsGood:
Early this year, I started a business when I couldn't get a job even after my masters degree. I sold two dresses
to a lady in Abuja for 8k on credit instead of 12k out of desperation. To make the matter worse, she didn't pay, left her job and stopped answering my calls. I still feel sad about it cos I put my blood and sweat into making the clothes and also because job search hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be but I know I'll soon look back at this stage of my life and thank God for seeing me through.

put her number and picture on social media, if you can't do it, get someone to do it for you. If someone is behaving like an animal, treat them like one. Among the things I hate is cheating, deliberate one. If u couldn't afford it, return the clothes now. Better don't go down without a fight.

christabell18:
6k...after secondary school,had to keep my self busy with something.the labour was more than the pay.it was a shop where I sell wines and any other drinks,even cway'dispenser'...I'd clean the bottle of wines one by one everyday(more than 100 bottles),bring out 95 packs of can drinks,20packs of soft drinks,10 packs of juice(five alive and so on),six dispensers with water(not empty),mop the floors everyday,clear the gutter every Saturday,and go extra mile to buy food for her rotten children.my dad didn't know this because he'd kill me due to the fact that we're rich (he used to head a ministry at alausa Secretariat and also had headed the Lagos State water coporation),I just didn't wanna be idle.my mum had to agree with me,although she was always complaining that I wouldn't be doing it for long.
I did this for 6months and she just sent me away cos I came late just once.The ingrate didn't remember that I willingly open on Sundays most times for her.well,I felt she just had bad friends who were always envious of her cos I brought her lots of customers to buy in bulk.
But the day she sent me away,holding my 6days pay,I cursed her and glory be to God,the business has undergone liquidation.i feel it serves her right.
Call me the devil,but I don't care.All I know is now I'm happy.

pls if you see the liquid left after the liquidation, mop that too. No mercy to the merciless and no you are not the devil, she's mad! Welldone for ur deligence. Standing ovation for you.

glassy:
thanks bro

Your determination started from when you pursued making a 2:1. You showed even more focus from deciding not to return to a comfort zone after service. i.e your parents home. You have set urself on the right part already. Can you send an inbox message let's chat. Don't worry I'm not a joker or time waster.

So as seen in the picture post attached, I've heard that some communities are demanding politicians first fulfill what they promise and they would get their votes.

Getting around the never ending circle of politicians telling lies, making promises and getting away with doing nothing for their people, is getting out of hand.

So if local communities are learning this trick, is it a smart one? What are the pros and cons of this move? How can it be replicated on the national level.

As they say, fighting a war needs strategy, not always force or battles. Is this a good strategy? It's difficult to take a stand.

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OP me I dnt understand this post o! Sounding all frustrated. That court wedding you've done eh! Hmm, plus she's pregnant. Just run away, dissappear. But be sending money for upkeep, till that wedding day pass. You can't just divorce somebody like that na. While away be talking sense into her head!

Running might be silly, so man up and tell these people to postpone the wedding till u get your affairs right.

24kmagic:
Are we talking about Kogi state girl here or someone whose parents just live in Kogi?

Cos if that girl is from Kogi state, just back off! I'm yet to see one good girl from Kogi state and I've seen many. Only go ahead with this wedding if you're also from Kogi state, if not....

Kogi state? God forbid

lolz! Ayah! Kogi pipo Don suffer, I bet you it's one tribe somewhere spoiling ol of us. Mostly those who grew there, exhibit those behaviors. We Kogi in the diaspora are different. #grins but can't force you to change your notion.

They say stealing is stealing! Fornication is fornication. So if all sins are the same and equal, if someone can sin all their life and repent at the last minute and become the same as someone who lives uprightly, what then is the basis of living an upright life?

If two people steal for two different reasons, is the weight or gravity of the sin, the same?

Take a look at these posts pictures below, analyse and give your perspective.

healthserve:
I know quite a few. The first time I heard it, it happened to my personal hommie who was just earning about 30k. Dude got a lady they both liked themselves pregnant. As I'm speaking to you, one contract came from no where. Bam 3-5million and he grew it. A second followed the same. This doesn't mean diligence and financial appropriatey should be exempted in such unions. There's an oil that magnifies little to become big. Work is crucial as well as planning and action

Got her pregnant, so stars too follow pregnancy outside wedlock. Where did he get the libido to get someone pregnant on 30 k

Lolz! It's in this era where people sleep around anyhow that anyone will still have stars left in their lives. Which mumu stars.

Fail to plan and you have planned to fail. I can't imagine a man in particular, man o, thinking of getting married without a freaking job. Even some ladies dare not do it even when their man is loaded na man go dey reason this kin thing.

Like someone said, marry someone wrong in the wrong situation you'll be emotionally and mentally drained too, not just financially.

Tomorrow, we will come and ask stupid questions like "who do us this thing?" Must entertainment involve stupid things.

What makes people so comfortable to have themselves abused, in the name of acting?

Lazy youths everywhere. If you are looking for civil content, follow The Moral Code on social media and find some good content on www.themoralcodeng.com

Everything doesn't always have to have a sexual theme to make sense.

Born2Breed:
I don't know why people still allow that word "trust" to exist in their life.

Shall we then live trusting no one at all? Would that even be living?

error4040:
this Same old tips again and again with no improvement.

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with a moniker like this, are you sure you should be patronized. Ur name na error. Lolz!

Listen up. Don't sit with that mindset of till you know someone before you get a job. Too much mouths running here. We just don't know the right things to do early considering the Nigerian context.

After school, identify the sector you want to work and go and volunteer or intern in that sector, that's how u gain work experience. Some internships will even pay you.

With job experience ur CV adds weight. While at it you should also learn skills or take online courses in your sector. There are many online free courses, na ur data go suffer. They give you a certificate after these courses, you add that to ur CV.

Everything the OP said is a fact. I am talking from experience and yes I am have gotten good paying jobs without knowing anyone.

What you believe is what will play out in your real life. Most times it's your past that will speak for you. It makes no sense to have been at home for years without work experience. Sacrifice a little now, to gain better later. And while at it, improve everything about you like how you talk, dress, your manners, your English. Everything matters in where you are going or trying to get to.

Nay sayers are still jogging to come and quote me, but job search is efforts. Smart effort.

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Powersurge:
if only you know what some company do. There is one that employees every year in the agro sector. They call it graduate trainee. They will take people to "slave camp" to work for a year.. doing manual labour all in the name of GT. Pay them peanut. Throw them out at the end of the year and employee new set.

some will ensure that at least 30% of your salary is deducted because of boggus rules.


Nigeria labour is hell.

Really sad

Okay let’s just go straight to the point. As a man, what are your moral codes? This is an era where anything goes, an era where finding a well put together man, is like searching for a needle in a haystack. Too many men not raising their standards, and too much of everything focusing so much more on women that I do fear sooner than later, we’ll have a great imbalance in society.

Think about it, from parenting in the homes giving more attention to the girls and the different empowerment programmes for the girl child and for women.

Check these out as a man and find out if they reflect you more or less, and you can tell where you stand. Are you a real gentle man, or just another piece of ***t wasting air and space? Pardon the language.

SILLY SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT.

I can’t do this or that. I never did this or that in my life. If you grew with a wrong set of lessons, adulthood is your life to take a hold of. If you think when you get married, your wife becomes your maid and MUST do the things you want, at all the times you want it. That’s rubbish. If you think that uncle or friend owes you anything, you are a joker. Too many people do not take responsibility for their lives.

APPEARANCE & DRESS CODES.

What a person thinks in their mind is what they show on the outside. How a person dresses, says a lot about them. Do you take care of how you appear? Is it always torn jeans, dirty clothes, sagging trousers, long nails. There are people you will meet in life who will appraise you with just one look through how you appear before them, and that could make them write you off forever, this could be for a potential opportunity. Hairstyles and even how you smell are part of your codes as a man.

VULGARITY

You get to see how many vulgar people are around from the comments made through the internet. If you haven’t cleansed your words as a man, there’s a problem. You are totally comfortable with saying rubbish, with typing rubbish. Take your words to be part of your person and your dressing. I especially pity those quick to call a female a LovePeddler and other nasty terms, because they just have to demean the female sex in that manner. Does this make them feel better about themselves?

SEXUAL LAXITY

A sexually loose lady is called different names, but a sexually loose man is often hailed as a champ. A real gentleman with a moral code understands that’s not the kind of life that brings greatness, fulfillment and blessings. A proudly sexually lax man, is just a public toilet with little respect for his own self or for others.

WRONG COMPANY

What is the nature of the company you surround yourself with as a man? As you grow, except you are not growing, your circle should change, change to become more valuable, more in line with what you want, wrong company has such a strong influence that you do not know when you’ll fall. Sometimes, the best way to save yourself is to stay far away from anything that does not serve you.

PHYSICAL & MENTAL LAZINESS

Lack of mental stimulation and a lack of willingness to move from the spot you are to see the change you want in your life. Instead, you think you will just “blow”, in the end, hope you actually don’t blow yourself into a non-existent blowing. Too many free courses online not to acquire some extra knowledge. Too many modern day skills to earn you a living than just hoping to “blow”

Men should stop forgetting their place as leaders and raise their standards. A man should have some firm sets of values and principles for his present life and his future life. Are you decent, kind, selfless, chivalrous, have a sense of responsibility for yourself and for others under your care, or who look up to you? Are you hardworking, physically and mentally? Ignore the nay Sayers, living well pays off well,it gives you peace and respect and sustained success.

Let these serve as some of your moral codes.

Source - themoralcodeng.com

The right kind of hardwork

It was "just a thing and not enough to call it love" when you mess with people's emotions, you get this, when you also mess with people with the wrong values who run to go sleep with your friends you get this. So sorry eh!

helinues:
Biodun was a game boy when he was in Ilorin , no doubt but all these claims allegations are just embittered ladies that have no real bearings in Life.

But Dakolo behaved like a pvssy sha. And he allowed his wife to disgrace their family just like that..

Comment made by someone who's sister, daughter, friend, wife, niece will never be able to open to about their abuse, or outright rape, because they have fish brain and make comments like this openly.

People make sacrifices for others to be saved, Busola did that! Now to we the right thinking population, there is no shame there. There's strength from the woman and support and courage from a good man, her husband.

Stop shaming the victims, except you are also an abuser. I know what you will have to say next will only try to drag me to your level of reasoning cuz reading this thing you typed already reduced my IQ so did reading other silly comments here.

Wonder what is wrong with us, if we think like this.

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KraticKratus:
See dem.

I wish DNA tests would become compulsory. All you bringing bastards into your husbands' homes will be put to shame.

Shut up abeg! Because you have surrounded urself by useless people, doesn't mean the whole world is useless.

It's not fellow men like you that go doing monkey business with women they know are married. Or maybe your wife did that to you, now you are bitter against the whole world. Sorry o! Mr. DNA.

Now stop talking, because you are derailing the topic anyways.

hustleranthem:
it's registered with a US number so they won't close your account no matter how you use it.

what content was on it before? Audience location and how active is the page

AlphaStyles:
just forget mine was disabled two times and I couldn't get it back

Their customer service is terrible

Non-existent if you ask me.

hustleranthem:
Facebook account for sale @5k

pls give me just one good reason why I should buy it and maybe... Just maybe...

Amuatulu:
"A thousand apologies"

lolz! Can Y'all stop and Mind Your Language! We trying to seriously concentrate on this post. Focus pls. #grin

helinues:
Facebook has been upgrading daily for months now...

Schedule buttons have been moved...

Still with poor displacement of posts to fans.. Less than 13%

That part is quite Tiring

KraticKratus:
Tell us about the dad. The real one.

It's okay to not contribute to a discussion. You can't be this unfortunate in life and still come and show it online. Pity!

akpunda86:
You are very stupid truely.why compare ur kids progress with others .are u far better than your mates.can you be faster than nature.u should be happy that he hums and u here crying.woman pls delete this thread and go look after ur baby for noting wrong WITH him

You do need to look for the screw that got loose from your skull. Me thinks your brain has been pouring out. Do something before it's too late. I mean, someone is concerned about their child and you call them stupid.

alphaNomega:
Delete this post right now!

looolz! This was loud in my head.