Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 10:11pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
AntiChristian: I'm a Nigeria o! I need feminist ladies to woo me for marriage and no dowries! Do you think we can get there anytime soon? I'm sure we would. There's lots of women looking for houseboys even now. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 10:09pm On Jan 03, 2020*. Modified: 1:58pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Khaleell001: Now yiu don't want to kill to prove your worth yet the men you call pigs are the ones keeping you safe day and night and yet you carry those itchy fingers to call what (your father's chromosome XY) made you who you are today pig(s)?
Is this what feminism turn you guys to? No man is keeping me safe! If I can't keep myself safe I wouldn't get a pig, I'd get a dog! |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 7:44pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
AntiChristian: And hopefully ladies will start wooing guys for marriage and dowries being rejected.
In the offices, let them cancel maternity leave as there is usually no equivalent for men!
Let the woman build themselves for tough and tougher jobs. Women are now driving danfo in Lagos. They can help dig borehole, Wells, soakaways, etc.
Everything men does, women should also try to do! Soakaway digging is not for everyone, not all men do it; besides, doctors, lawyers, accountants et al is what we train for and not dirty jobs like that. Men get paternity leave in some countries and both father, child and mother benefit from it as it helps the father bond and enables the mother to rest more since father helps out. We too can aspire. https://www.gov.uk/paternity-pay-leave
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Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 7:20pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
AntiChristian: Wait o all of you blaming the pigs! What about the nanny pig? Shouldn't the nanny pig have instilled the way to treat a lady in her pig(s) ?
cc budaatum The mummy pig, perhaps. but it's hard to blame mothers who buy into the patriarch system they were indoctrinated into. It is precisely that that feminism is against the most and why we fight for the enlightening of mothers that they are worthy human beings so they can educate their children to respect both males and females and treat them equally so their own daughters would be strong women. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 6:13pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Khaleell001: You are seriously confused.
If your so high on women being equal to men why not encourage your sisters or your aunties to join the army arnd Air Force to cofront those boko criminals. Accountants, lawyers, teachers, doctors, all of us bossing men thank you very much. We don't all have to kill people to prove our worth. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Garden Of Eden - A Child's View by budaatum(op): 6:05pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
wickedtuna: lol that you feel that way buda doesnt mean others do, thats the beauty called life. Everyone surely has a different view of it. The choices we make determines how well we live our lives. A man could have lived for 20 years and attain the wisdom a 120year old man still tries so hard to attain. Different experiences buda! Most 120 year olds I've ever heard of have lost all the wisdom they ever had and need help wiping their asses. Please know that it's not a law or belief anyone must have. I only ever speak for no one else but buda. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 4:24pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
demsy21: Don't see muslims as people who just sit around, with no input in nowadays scientific discoveries. I do not "see muslims as people who just sit around, with no input in nowadays scientific discoveries"! Muslims contribute immensely to nowadays scientific and discoveries in all fields. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Garden Of Eden - A Child's View by budaatum(op): 4:18pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
wickedtuna: i had a feeling you would make that exact same statement buda! But even if you buda had the chance to live to 500, i bet you wouldn't drive your car at full speed against a wall because you felt you had lived forever. I think we fail sometimes to get a proper perspective of time. Imagine you were born a hundred years ago. You'd have lived through all the carnage, all the wars, all the change and have perhaps so many descendants you couldn't know all their names and most you used to know would be dead or dying or be too busy to visit you and that's if your body doesn't deteriorate so it's pissing and pooing on you! The rate my body deteriorates, I see me driving my car at full speed against a wall in less than 50 years, though, with more finesse, like, stop eating, or slitting my wrist in a hot bath with couple of bottles of fine whiskey in my belly to dull the pain after putting a letter in the post to the appropriate authorities and saying byebye to everyone. I'm glad I'd be dead naturally by five scores! buda ain't iron, and even that rusts given enough time. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Garden Of Eden - A Child's View by budaatum(op): 4:02pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
MuttleyLaff: Engineering and IT. The former is my first love before finding warm affection with the latter. You studied sciences, mut?? Where? |
Politics › Re: Osun Debt Profile: "I Don't Know, Google It", Says Commissioner For Finance by budaatum: 4:01pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
olril17: another hypocrite...apc zombie.. say it the way it is,it was Aregbe who ruined the state. alatenujee agbalagba If you are not an olodo you would read where I said "CBN deducts servicing for Aregbe's debt". It was he who began paying half salary once every three months while sending bullion van to jaguda - another apc - every month and building empire in Lagos. Aregbe is apc and it is my opinion that he is O'Very Crooked, and unfortunately for me, he is now in my Alimosho Local Government despite my vote against him. Sai bubu! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Promises 'harsh Retaliation' After US Airstrike Kills Iranian Gen(photo) by budaatum: 2:45pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kapeter: when last have you heard of public place bombing in the U.S? I mean usually very populated Public place? Osama opened their eyes already bro. I can even bet my two balls that they have eyes on almost all arabs and/or muslims in their security outfits and others. They've had many enemies for a while now, Taliban, ISIS but none of these two could ever try.
I don't see Iran doing that sh*t man. It will even be easy for them to attack their embassy in Nairobi and Tanzania again than to carry out attack on them on their own soil. Time will tell. |
Politics › Re: Trade Relations: U.S, China To Sign “phase One” Trade Deal January 15 by budaatum: 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Culture › Re: As The Naija Internet Generation Comes Of Age, What Does It Portend For Nigeria? by budaatum: 2:30pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
nlPoster: Naija google generation is not between 0 to 14.
They are mostly quite older than that but younger than 50.
They do not have the maturity associated with processing the amounts of information they obtain. "Following after them", I said. The children of the "younger than 50". |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Promises 'harsh Retaliation' After US Airstrike Kills Iranian Gen(photo) by budaatum: 2:27pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kapeter: gone were those days my g. I doubt they can do sh*t in America soil not to talk of popular place of interest like twin tower. The best they can is coordinating attack on U.S interest in the middle east. Middle East and everywhere else US has interest. But I don't agree "those days are gone". The hunter may have learnt to shoot without missing, but it would be very naive to think the bird has not been practicing to fly without perching, and its damn difficult to protect against terrorism as any who study its history knows. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Promises 'harsh Retaliation' After US Airstrike Kills Iranian Gen(photo) by budaatum: 2:13pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Kapeter: oga Iran cannot do sh*t. It will only give America the upper hand to destabilize the country once and for all.
Neither Russia nor Turkey will do anything, not even China, they will all be on their lane as usual.
What i just don't understand is why the whole world is against Iran, what have they done? Iran can not blow up the 'Twin Towers'? I'd like to believe you, but... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran President Tells Trump - "We Will Revenge Death Of Our Commander, Soleiman" by budaatum: 2:11pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
REDshouse: U must find way to kill trump only..a.and not innocent americans Why would you expect them to do the above? Did they tell you you must dictate what they do? Anyone not expecting 'Twin Towers' is naive! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Democrats Take Control Of Congress by budaatum: 2:08pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 2:04pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
PeacenLove2: We won't get anywhere by name calling. We need everyone on board to achieve progress. I am not "name calling". Just calling pigs what they are. You be the good cop and I'll be a bad one. Some sure need a whipping. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 2:02pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
demsy21: Yes, this truth applies in many contexts and dispositions related to human to human affairs not the Creator. So many things our human brain can't process is best left without questions. If not for the advent of microscope, would you have believed there are creatures you can't see with your naked eyes despite that you're not blind. Not because they are invisible, they are too small for you to see. Likewise, there are some so big but you still can't see them. Ex: planets (stars) in the sky. Some individuals did not agree that there are things the brain cannot process. They refused to leave it alone and created the telescope to enhance their brain. Work harder to see, know, and understand. Laziness must not be an option for those worshipping God, or for anyone, for that matter. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 1:53pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Maghan37: Then if u do not mind answering who protects the men from women who are worst than the � The law does. It protects both genders equally, or at least it should and be made to if it doesn't. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Garden Of Eden - A Child's View by budaatum(op): 1:51pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
MuttleyLaff: The social sciences work placement etcetera enquiries I made with you, had nothing directly to do with MuttleyLaff, it was done on behalf of someone else, who is now half way through their masters programme in it. I never had in my life anything to do with academically studying social sciences subjects for a degree or whatnot. You got the wrong impression as you often and/or usually do. All this said, just to put the record straight. A prophet, lol, is not accepted in his own country! What was/is your area of study? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Did God Want Adam And Eve To Eat The Forbidden Fruit? The Answer Is Yes by budaatum: 1:47pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Culture › Re: As The Naija Internet Generation Comes Of Age, What Does It Portend For Nigeria? by budaatum: 1:40pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
The new generation, you mean. Those who refuse to be lazy but check their facts instead of believing anything they are told, and the 70% or so 0-14 year olds following after them?
The future looks much brighter as we build a people of knowledge and power! |
Family › Re: How Much Is Too Much Effort When Looking For A Husband? by budaatum: 1:35pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Too much effort is when you look so much you find two husbands. Till then, you are doing fine. |
Politics › Re: Court Declares Pension To Ex-governors Null And Void by budaatum: 1:33pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Who say Nigeria no go better?
They can pass pension as much as they like, but when dem comot and we get there we will just say otoge!
And trust me, we are getting there. They cannot live forever! |
Politics › Re: Do You Believe Global Warming And Climate Change Is Real Or Lies? by budaatum: 1:25pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Australia says climate change na lie. Below is a map of the fires currently burning them, and their temperatures are record highs.
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Politics › Re: Osun Debt Profile: "I Don't Know, Google It", Says Commissioner For Finance by budaatum: 1:20pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
jimyjames: Politics is killing this country my brother Our own ignorance is what is killing us. It is we who do the "politics". |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 1:17pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
PeacenLove2: These things are shocking to us now because we didn't live at the time when these laws were very relevant.
It helps to look at the history of a place, people and their culture to help understand the reasons behind certain laws.
At the time, most of these laws were progressive designed to ease the pain of the suffering. But we must also have it at the back of our minds that this was the 600 ADs, interpretations and of course diplomatic tactics when trying to introduce change. I do not belive the prophet intended for anything unjust whether towards women or the poor.
If you take your time to go through exhaustive sources, you will come across different sects of Islam with different interpretations and practices. Some are of the belief that certain regimes during the time of the development of the book hijacked the religion and tailored it to their own interests. Various dynasties but see a lot of people are confusing their ignorance with piety. This is not unqie to the religion of Islam.
I believe the only thing perfect is God and nothing more. And He and His ways are mysterious. We do not and cannot know anything 100%. But we must never stop to seek knowledge using our head and out hearts. Trying to know God better; love, kindness and brotherhood. Anything against these things I believe are against His essence. "These laws" were very progressive at the time indeed. There were times a man could do whatever he wanted to a woman and no one protected her honour except her father and brothers, if she had any, and if they were more powerful than her assualter. By the time of Christ men were still thanking God they had not been created women. Thankfully 2000 or so years went by and we now have laws that teaches most pigs to evolve into decent men. The battle continues. Educate the pigs by educating girls!
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Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 1:08pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
TheSourcerer: Hmm I see , but looking at it from a lay man's perspective isn't that Chrostainity/Islam ? I do read my Bible and my Quran, but they say one must believe instead of gain understanding, so I do not qualify for either, according to some. |
Politics › Re: Osun Debt Profile: "I Don't Know, Google It", Says Commissioner For Finance by budaatum: 1:04pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
jimyjames: Osun state is broke no doubt Yes, my state is broke. Before they pay us allocation, CBN deducts servicing for Aregbe's debt and what we end up with some months is so little that it cannot cover the state house electricity bill, not to talk of wages which have been cut in half for some for years. Na we fault though. We used to have a certain Adebisi Akande as governor. One day he discovered a cow was killed in the state house every day, so he asked them why! "Its only me and my wife na! From now on, buy 10kg meat a day, we cannot chop that finish!" So the people started calling him Baba Kilo, and at the next election they voted him out saying " Eleyi ko jẹ ki a jẹun. Ko ma ko aroro ẹ lọ jọ!" (This one no gree us chop. Make him carry im stinginess comot.) And they voted in those who "gree dem chop", and here we are now, broke, hungry, in debt and chop don finish. |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 12:49pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
TheSourcerer: so you switched of your logical self ? Why ? Zen Buddhism. "Adopt the religion of those around you in order to understand". |
Islam › Re: The Islamic Perspective On Feminism by budaatum: 12:34pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
TheSourcerer: are you Atheist Sir? Atheist theist would be a closer description after one year of being a theist after previously being an atheist from birth. |